Working Wounded: Handling a Bad Work Day

ByABC News
November 28, 2006, 6:06 PM

Nov. 15, 2006 — -- Have you ever had a bad day? A really bad day?

And by bad day, I mean the kind of day where you lose 10 years of data from your hard drive, lose all your identification, cash and credit cards at an airport 3,000 miles from home and your doctor calls you to say that all of the easy to treat things have been ruled out concerning that nausea you've had for the last month, so now you'll need to go in for a CT scan of your lower abdomen. That, my friends, qualifies as a bad day. I can tell you this from experience because it happened to me last week.

Sure, I got a lot of support from my sweetie, the front desk manager at the Marriott and my client. Amidst the mess that had become my life during these hellacious 24 hours, enter Mark Hawken and Derrick Moe. Even though I've never met either Mark or Derrick, both helped to give me hope. And I think their actions will inspire even the most cynical person reading this blog.

First, I got an e-mail from Mark telling me that he found my wallet. He said that he had tried contacting all my credit card companies to get an address so he could reach me. After a bunch of digging, someone finally gave him my email address.

Not content to just locate me, he said in his e-mail that he was FedExing my wallet back to me. In an apologetic tone he said he'd used the $20 in my wallet to pay for the shipping. But it wasn't until I saw that he worked in Jamaica that I realized that the shipping charge would be almost three times the money that was in my wallet. He never asked to be reimbursed for the difference (of course, I reimbursed him for this).

What a guy. Hours of research, and he paid for the majority of the shipping costs. For all the cynical talk of people who only know how to look out for number one, I was reminded that there are good Samaritans there are out there. No make that great Samaritans.

Later, I received an e-mail from Derrick when I finally made it to my hotel room, sans wallet and much of the contents on my hard drive. His e-mail began, "I enjoy your Working Wounded column on ABCnews.com. You and I are of at the opposite ends of the political spectrum, but I still look forward to your column and the topics you address. I am a fan of Don Rumsfeld (I had written a column critical of Rummy) and the terrific job he has done in running two 21st century wars. I think his vision for the Dept. of Defense in this century is ingenious and greatly needed --