As Shawna Bennett and her husband, Joe, shop for their first home, they are constantly weighing neighborhoods, schools and cost.
But now as the nation's mortgage market continues to tighten, the Michigan couple find themselves closely watching the headlines and readjusting their finances to stay in the market.
They have paid off some loans and lowered their expectations about what type of house they can afford.
"We decided to go with a home for much less than we originally wanted," Shawna Bennett said. "We don't want to overextend ourselves."
Buying a home has never been an easy task.
But today as many lenders are tightening standards, many home buyers are finding that they have to jump through more hoops or change their plans.
For the Bennetts, that meant searching for a house in the $115,000 to $120,000 range instead of the $130,000 they planned to spend in November. They have also paid off one loan and have just two more monthly payments left on their car loan.
"We realize that we have to wait longer and it's frustrating for us because we're 28, we're college graduates. We feel like we've done the right thing by going to school and waiting to have our baby and get married," Bennett said. "But we're just not able to have the same kind of start that our parents had."
Across the country, families like the Bennetts are facing increased scrutiny as they look to buy a home.
Just a few months ago, some borrowers could buy a home without making any down payment, said Jay Brinkmann, vice president for research and economics at the Mortgage Bankers Association.
That option is now practically nonexistent, Brinkmann said, with buyers generally required to put down at least 5 percent to get a conforming mortgage, a loan that typically has the most competitive interest rates and competitive qualifying criteria.
Borrowers today must also be able to document their income. In the past, some consultants, contract workers and people who earn commissions were able to get some higher-priced mortgages without fully documenting their income. Now lenders want all that information plus proof of additional savings.
Brinkmann said lenders essentially want to ensure that you haven't "spent every penny you have to get into the house and then can't pay the first month's electric bill."
Today's mortgage problems stem from several years of historically low interest rates and relaxed lending standards. In the last few years, many lenders made loans to people with poor or bad credit — so-called subprime borrowers.
As interest rates climbed, many of these people who borrowed with adjustable rate mortgages failed to keep up on their new, higher payments. Others who got mortgages for more money than they should have borrowed are also struggling to make payments.
The Mortgage Brokers Association said that 4.33 percent of all mortgages in the country were past due in the first three months of this year. That is up from 3.96 percent during the same period last year. That's a 9.3 percent increase.
RealtyTrac, a widely cited marketplace for foreclosure properties, tracks the number of foreclosure filings such as default notices, auction sale notices and bank repossessions. One property can get several of each notice.