Said Cosmo's Beland: "When you think about the career Drew chose, the energy runs really high all the time. There must be euphoria there. Add love to that mix and it's definitely combustible. And I'm sure that high is addictive. So, while men enjoy the thrill of the chase ... these days, women also enjoy the thrill of the chase. So now you have both people in the relationship wanting that high, that excitement. When both people are playing that role, it gets really hard. But Drew and Justin both seem like such nice people. I can't imagine it getting nasty at all. It just wasn't the right fit, in the long run. "
But, Callahan said, "The more you talk about your relationship in public, the more you're going to regret it later. It seems great on the way up but it definitely comes back to bite you on the way back down. And that's not just for celebrities. I don't think there's a whole lot to be gained from airing your dirty laundry. Especially if you plan to stay with the person, because what you say about your relationship definitely colors others views of it. It's like, how many questions does Courteney Cox get about Jennifer Aniston? And then she has to be like, 'Hey Jen, what's going on? People are asking me about this.' It'll be on TV or a blog before she has time to call her best friend."