Reality Bites: She's Just Not That Into You

Said Cosmo's Beland: "When you think about the career Drew chose, the energy runs really high all the time. There must be euphoria there. Add love to that mix and it's definitely combustible. And I'm sure that high is addictive. So, while men enjoy the thrill of the chase ... these days, women also enjoy the thrill of the chase. So now you have both people in the relationship wanting that high, that excitement. When both people are playing that role, it gets really hard. But Drew and Justin both seem like such nice people. I can't imagine it getting nasty at all. It just wasn't the right fit, in the long run. "

But, Callahan said, "The more you talk about your relationship in public, the more you're going to regret it later. It seems great on the way up but it definitely comes back to bite you on the way back down. And that's not just for celebrities. I don't think there's a whole lot to be gained from airing your dirty laundry. Especially if you plan to stay with the person, because what you say about your relationship definitely colors others views of it. It's like, how many questions does Courteney Cox get about Jennifer Aniston? And then she has to be like, 'Hey Jen, what's going on? People are asking me about this.' It'll be on TV or a blog before she has time to call her best friend."

Scarlett Johansson and Ryan Reynolds

"Scarlett has a lot of challenges in that her fantasy persona isn't who she can really be in real life," Titus said. "And that makes her look hypocritical; when she's saying on the one hand that she doesn't think men and women are meant to be monogamous and then, on the other hand, getting engaged. She desires to be monogamous but there are a lot of opportunities out there. And she is drawn to them. That's where she might get into trouble."

Said Beland: "When people have the overwhelming urge to sleep around, they say things like, 'I don't think humans are meant to be monogamous. Everybody cheats. We're not meant to be with one person.' And then the moment they find someone that they truly connect with and feel satisfied with, they change their minds about that. So, I think Scarlett said that in a moment where she was exploring and felt that to be really true, but now she thinks differently. Or, at least, I hope so."

Jennifer Aniston and John Mayer

"Jennifer is pulling a classic girl move; she's playing the chameleon," Titus said. "She's playing detective, trying to discover who he is and what he wants and playing whatever role she must to keep his attention. It's the everyday equivalent of the high-maintenance city girl agreeing to go camping with a guy just to keep him interested. She's trying on all these different personalities in order to give him what he wants, and he really has no idea what he wants. Here's the thing though, guys like a challenge. So you think you're giving him exactly what he wants and when you finally do that, you're punished for it. The bottom line is, they're not right for each other."

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