Studies suggest that your preschooler will learn close to a dozen new words daily. And her expanded vocabulary results in better self-expression and comprehension. Combined with her enhanced imagination, her communication abilities will enable your child and her pals to talk more, make up stories, and tell each other jokes (with punch lines only a 3-year-old could love). And if the joke worked once, expect to hear it again and again. Just as adult relationships are often strengthened by "in" jokes or stories that bring back warm memories, preschoolers' bonds are forged by routines and games that become a predictable part of their time together. Now that they are capable of recalling past events, they will gravitate to activities they enjoyed before, so have familiar toys handy.
Another aspect of your 3-year-old's enhanced social skills is her ability to empathize with others. Unlike a year ago, she clearly perceives that her feelings are separate from those of others and vice versa. You'll be amazed (and proud) the first time you see your child comfort a friend who has fallen or dropped her ice cream cone on the floor. She may pat the friend on the shoulder, offering words of comfort, like "Don't cry" or exciting solutions: "Your mom can buy you another ice cream!"
Friends are also a big deal at this age because it's thrilling for your little one to see that there are people out there who speak her own language—literally. After all, there's nothing better than finding a companion who is your own size, loves dinosaurs and mud puddles, and finds potty talk hilarious.
How to have fun with it
Since sharing may still be a challenge at this age, help sharpen your child's skills by playing basic board and card games that require taking turns and reciprocating. Choose one-of-a-kind items—like a favorite puzzle or the heart-shaped cookie cutter—and have her wait her turn while you use it. A simple game of catch can help boost her ability to delay gratification: Before you toss the ball back, count aloud together, increasing the waiting period just a little bit each time.
Your 3-year-old's advanced motor skills expand the kinds of games she can play with her pals. For example, they can race each other around the backyard, climb the jungle gym together and, later this year, kick a ball around.