Tony Dungy's 'Uncommon' Path to Excellence

"Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones," wrote Phillips Brooks, an American clergyman in the 1800s. Over time, we create ourselves and build our character through the little acts we do. When it comes to character, the game of football can be a real test for our players. During any given season, they will have many moments when their character will be challenged. Will they decide to do the right thing, even when they know doing so will be difficult?

Character can also be revealed at those same crossroads: what are the values that guide the decisions these players make in their day-to-day lives? Training camp reveals them early. A person's reaction to winning, success, fame, recognition, and acceptance reveals character. Would you rather be described as successful and famous or as honest, forgiving, faithful, trustworthy, understanding of others, reasonable, thoughtful, and personally accountable? Character is tested, revealed, and further developed by the decisions we make in the most challenging times. We have to know what is right, and we have to choose to do it. That is how character is developed—by facing those decisions and choosing the right way over and over until it becomes second nature. It's just how you do things.

Outwardly, character reflects an inner life committed to honor and uncompromising integrity. If we haven't allowed our players, subordinates, or children to grow into those values and learn to be accountable for themselves, then we have done them a disservice.

Albert Camus once said, "Integrity has no need of rules." I tend to agree. I don't have very many team rules for our players. They know where I stand on things, and they know that there are consequences for breaking the rules that we do have. I try to apply one set of rules uniformly for our team, while keeping in mind that the players are individuals and come from different life experiences. Really, it's not any different from what I do with my children.

Ultimately, character and its growth don't come from rules but from the small actions of responsibility that occur day after day. That's why I believe it's important to give our players a certain amount of freedom—and the responsibility that goes with it—to allow growth to take place. In the end, character is a blend of inner courage, wisdom, and a sense of duty to yourself, to others, and to something greater than you.

In a common world, becoming an uncommon man begins by cultivating uncommon

'Uncommon' Book Tour Signings

Tuesday, Jan. 27, 2009 (7:00 – 9:00 PM)
BookEnds
232 E. Ridgewood Ave.
Ridgewood, NJ 07450
(201) 445-0726

Wednesday, Jan. 28, 2009 (3:00 – 4:30 PM)
Barnes & Noble Booksellers
97 Warren Street at Greenwich Street (Tribeca)
New York, NY 10007
(212) 587-5389

Wednesday, Jan. 28, 2009 (6:00 – 7:30 PM)
Last Licks
245 East 93rd Street (corner of 93rd and 2nd Ave.)
New York, NY
(646) 596-8566

Saturday, Jan. 31, 2009 (7:00 – 9:00 PM)
Barnes & Noble Booksellers (Carrollwood)
11802 North Dale Mabry Drive
Tampa, FL 33618
(813) 962-6446

Tuesday, February 3, 2009 (3:00 – 5:00 PM)
Borders
8675 River Crossing Blvd
Indianapolis, IN 46240
(317) 574-1775

Tuesday, February 3, 2009 (7:00 -9:00 PM)
Sam's Club 8168
7235 East 96th St.
Indianapolis, IN 46250
(317) 585-9452

Wednesday, February 4, 2009 (3:00 – 5:00 PM)
Family Christian Store 90
Coldwater Crossing Shopping Center
5509 Coldwater Road
Fort Wayne, IN 46825
(260) 484-9027

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