WEEKLY INSPIRATION

What Widows Have to Teach

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November 11, 2009, 5:26 PM

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There are no more vulnerable groups in the Hebrew and Christian Scriptures than widows. Writing in the days before welfare, insurance, or health care reform, the Biblical writers were keenly aware that, left without a man to provide for them, widows had little chance of survival. In a patriarchal society where men ruled and were the bread winners, widows were left to fend for themselves with little to assure that they could actually survive. And for this reason, they seem to be of particular concern for God- a God who is intent on them surviving. Two widow stories from the Scripture illustrate profound Biblical teaching and insight.

In the First Book of Kings (17:10-16) we have the prophet Elijah going to Zarephath. He encounters a widow there and asks her to bring him a small cupful of water and a piece of bread. This is the first oddity. Doesn't he know that the widow is the one in need? That she is the one who has lost everything. She is living with her son in the midst of a famine and has come down to her last meal. She tells Elijah that she has nothing, only a handful of flour left in her jar and a little oil in her jug. She was about to prepare the last meal for her and her son before they die. Men are all the same, she must have thought. But Elijah has a different plan. He tells her not to be afraid and to go and do as he says. And also to make him a little cake and bring it to him! He assures her that God says, "The jar of flour shall not go empty, nor the jug of oil run dry." She leaves and does as Elijah says and indeed what he says comes to pass. The jar of flour did not go empty and the jug of oil did not run dry. And not only does Elijah eat, but she and her son ate fully for another year.

An interesting dynamic is at play here. God comes to the widow through the prophet Elijah at her time of greatest need and vulnerability. She has no choice but to make a way for God, and when she does, God is there in abundance. The great songwriter Leonard Cohen says, "There are cracks in everything. That's how the light gets through." We tend to want to cover up the cracks, pretend they are not there. And yet, they can provide illumination in our darkness. When we are powerful and strong we tend to keep God at bay. When we are weak, we have no choice but to let God in. The paradox at play here is that abundance comes from scarcity. And in the world of spirit, there is no scarcity. When the widow gives what she does not have to give, she has an abundance that feeds her for one year. When you attach yourself to God who is all about self-giving, you, too, can give and never run out. We get more of God by giving God away. We find ourselves by losing ourselves. Faith increases by sharing it. Our being increases in the measure that we give it away. This is the Divine paradox.