Julie Metz didnâ??t find out about her husbandâ??s rampant infidelity until after his death. But rather than run from his betrayal, Metz met it head on by confronting each of the five women with whom he had an affair.
(Courtesy Julie Metz)
As a whole the experience, Metz said the experience helped her move on to a better life with a "different kind of man."
"We have a very family-oriented life," she said.
As far as forgiving her deceased husband, Metz said she believes she has.
"For me, forgiveness is, do you wake up angry or bitter, or can you find compassion?" she said.
Metz did have advice for other wives out there to help them avoid the pain she went through.
"Take note... What you really want is to notice the details of your life and notice them in an everyday way," she said. "If you're really paying attention, you'll start to see when things aren't right."
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