When Dr. Kimberly Parks, a transplant cardiologist at Massachusetts General Hospital, was first introduced to her patient, Marvin Pollet, she felt an instant connection. "He was the kind of person that you immediately liked. He was very polite, very enthusiastic and he was grateful. He was so excited to come here," Parks said.
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In November 2008, Pollet, a 55-year-old private investigator from Louisiana, was diagnosed with amyloidosis, a disorder in which the body produces an excess amount of abnormal proteins that attack multiple vital organs. When amyloidosis involves the heart, it can result in cardiac failure.
"His cardiologist told me they did not expect him to make it through the night," recalled his wife, Jeannette. "He went to work that day, began a new medicine and passed out. His blood pressure plummeted, and his kidneys and liver started shutting down. That was the night of our 25th anniversary."
With his health worsening by the day, Pollet, along with his wife, flew to Boston where he was admitted to Mass General under the care of Parks and a team of specialists. "I didn't want anyone to stamp me with a time and a date saying 'this is as long as you could live,'" Pollet said. "It's almost like a threat to me."
His only real chance at life was a heart transplant. "Marvin came to Mass General looking for hope and we gave him that," Parks said. "Regardless of what the outcome was going to be, he was grateful. He had so much love for his family, he had so much love for life."
Over the next several days, Parks and her colleagues worked tirelessly to get Pollet listed for a heart, and her bond with the Pollet family deepened. "[That is] the art of medicine, the gift of guiding people through the most painful experiences of their life," she said.
"I had a very special connection with Marvin. We had to work very hard very quickly to get him listed for transplant, and everyone made heroic efforts. We all sat each day hoping, waiting, praying," she said.
For many health care providers like Parks, getting attached to patients and their families is often an inevitable but rewarding part of the job. "I think the best doctors do connect on an emotional level with their patients," said Dr. Paula Rauch, a child psychiatrist at Mass General.
"There are limits to what we can fix, but what we can do is be emotionally present. If you know you can't fix everything, and you know you didn't cause it, and what you can do is be present with someone, then that is an incredibly privileged position to be in."
Thanks to Parks' vigorous lobbying, Pollet got the news that he was finally listed for a heart. His fight for survival became a race against the clock, an agonizing wait for a donor to become available in time.
Amyloidosis causes the body to rapidly decompensate, and vital organs such as the liver and kidneys quickly begin to shut down.
Knowing the gravity of Pollet's situation, Parks decided to share a special gift with him. "When there's something very extenuating, then I like to give a symbolic gift," she said. She gave Pollet a heart made of marble.