At a grade-school cafeteria in Queens, New York, recently, a group of well-dressed fourth- and fifth-graders looked focused and calm as they paired up and got ready to show their stuff at a major school event.
One student, Juliette, admitted she had butterflies in her stomach. Another student said, "I just want to do my best today."
In a world of hip-hop and video games, an unlikely pastime has transformed these 10- and 11-year-olds -- old-school ballroom dancing.
Before their first lessons four months ago, Phillip and Juliette from Public School 98, said that dancing together seemed like punishment.
"I just got so afraid of being with a girl," said Phillip, who added that he had never held a girl's hand before.
Phillip and Juliette had never even spoken to each other before dance lessons, so their first steps together took some cajoling from dance teacher Julius Adams.
"They didn't want to go near each other," said Adams.
While the boys were on one side of the room, acting as if -- in Phillip's words -- the girls had "cooties," the girls were on the other side, feeling something else.
"They're saying, 'oooh,' and I'm just sitting there..." Juliette began. Deep inside, she thought, "I want to dance."
In class, the instructors broke down the dance steps in ways that the kids understood. Slowly, they learned the steps and the rhythms. But that was the easy part. Getting girls and boys to connect would be a lot tougher.
Margarita, from Public School 41, said the girls couldn't make eye contact with the boys; eye contact is crucial to making ballroom dancing work.
"Well, most of the girls wouldn't look at them [the boys]. They would just look behind them," she said.
Jake, her partner, said being in charge was the toughest thing.
"Leading the girls, when we dance and trying to make sure they focus and doing the right stuff, because if the boy can't lead, it all goes wrong," Jake said.
All this training culminates in a city-wide dance tournament. To make last year's popular documentary "Mad Hot Ballroom," cameras followed another group of kids -- from first steps to the final competition.
Amy Sewell, a writer and producer of the film, said that the transformation was astounding.
"Suddenly, it clicks," she said. "And they do act like those little ladies and gentlemen that they, it's kind of been you know pounded into their heads to be."
And when that "click" happens -- the kids feel it.
Margarita said the change happened for her when she stopped being afraid of her partner. "I remember ... it's just like a boy, it doesn't really matter. It's not like we need to go on a date or anything," she said.
Introducing ballroom dance to city kids to teach them poise and manners was the brainchild of professional dancer Pierre Dulaine.
Dulaine says he had to beg the first six schools to give it a shot. Twelve years later, 12,000 New York City school kids are in the program.
"If you put a piece of music on and give them a hint of what the character is, they can just take it and develop it from there for themselves," Dulaine said. "Steps are cheap. ... It's the joy that's priceless."