AP Poll: Family Dinner Survives, With Distractions

Pass the gravy — plus the phone and the remote control. It's dinnertime in America.

FILE - IN this April 30, 2008, file photo, Sean, right and Julia O'Connell, rear left, have dinner...

FILE - IN this April 30, 2008, file photo, Sean, right and Julia O'Connell, rear left, have dinner in their Fox Chapel, Pa., home with their children Violet, 3, left, and Emmet. Instead of eating out two to three times a week, the O'Connells limit trips for them and their two children to Friday nights, shaving their monthly restaurant bill from $400 to under $250. (AP Photo/Gene J. Puskar)

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Between the blare of the TV, the ring of the phone and Junior texting his buddies under the table or from the couch, the modern dinner comes with a heaping helping of distracting bells and whistles, an Associated Press-iVillage Food poll found.

Yet the sit-down, home-cooked family meal is an enduring tradition. And not just on Thanksgiving or other special occasions.

Most nights, most families manage to eat together, the survey found.

Democrats and Republicans do. Devout churchgoers and never-goers do. Childless families and those with kids are about equally apt to have a regular family meal. So are families from the suburbs and the country.

Altogether, more than 60 percent of those who live with families said they sat down with family for dinner at least five nights in the past week. Home-cooked meals were the norm, not just takeout and the like.

Hand-me-down recipes determine the menu more than any other source. Although more than half in the poll have cooked something from an online recipe and TV shows, such digital delights lag recipes clipped from newspapers and magazines, and none of that holds a candle to recipes passed on from family elders.

So far so good, painter Norman Rockwell, that celebrant of the idealized old-fashioned life, surely would think.

But family bonding has some competition when people are chowing down.

Television is a constant dinner companion for a quarter of families, the poll suggests. More than half have it turned on more often than rarely.

Half are pestered by phone calls — including, it must be said, from the occasional pollster like the ones who did this survey.

Texting or e-mailing on a cell phone is always going on over dinner for 5 percent of families. It's more than a rare intrusion for 15 percent. Nearly 40 percent have the radio or stereo going, at least occasionally.