By Anna Schecter

Nov 29, 2006 10:54am

11-Year-Old Heroin Addicts: A Shocking Texas Phenomenon

A new wave of 10- to 12-year-olds addicted to heroin is washing up at Dallas drug rehab centers and emergency rooms. The preteens are mixing the powerful opiate with crushed Tylenol PM, a concoction they call "cheese," according to Michelle Hemm, Director of the Dallas Phoenix House drug treatment facility.  As reported in "The Blotter" in May, a few 11-year-olds in Dallas were using "cheese," but now that is a common phenomenon in Dallas schools. THE BLOTTER RECOMMENDS High Schools Saying ‘Cheese,’ But DEA Disagrees Dangerous New Drug Mix Hits Dallas Schools Click Here to Check Out One of the Latest Heroin Seizures by the Drug Enforcement Agency in Our Dossier Section "We’ve seen a huge increase in referrals for ‘cheese,’ and a huge decrease in the age of the kids that are being referred," said Hemm. "We’ve had mostly 11- and 12-year-olds in the last few months." Hemm says she has had to turn away most of the preteen referrals because they are too young.  She is only licensed to treat addicts between 13- and 17-years-old. "The young kids aren’t emotionally ready for our program," said Hemm. An exception was made for one 11-year-old whose mother lied about his age to get him admitted, according to Hemm. "The 11-year-old that we had in here had overdosed several times and had detoxed several times." A 14-year-old who overdosed on heroin was rushed to the Dallas children’s hospital ER last week in critical condition.  The teen had been snorting "cheese," according to Dr. Kurt Kleinschmidt, who was on call when the patient arrived.  "He should have died; it’s amazing he didn’t," said Kleinschmidt. The heroin crosses the Mexican border into Texas, where traffickers sell it to high school and middle school students in Dallas, who mix it up with Tylenol PM into "cheese," according to the Dallas Independent School District Police Department. The elementary school-aged children often get the "cheese" from older siblings at the middle school across the street from the elementary school, Hemm says her patients tell her. DEA officials in Washington say they have not seen the "cheese" phenomenon anywhere outside of Dallas.

User Comments

I am in “shock” these children are still babies, they should more interested in a new toy not a good high!!!!! Where are the parents of these children who are taking this so called “cheese”. They must not be paying enough attention thier kids, to notice a difference in behavor…… A HUGE DIFFERENCE!!!!!!
Charlie Jean

Posted by: Charlie Jean | November 29, 2006, 1:18 pm 1:18 pm

What the hell is going on?

Posted by: darrell | November 29, 2006, 1:23 pm 1:23 pm

Very sad…my generation of 10 and 11 year olds were only drinking beer and smoking weed at that age…maybe the Mexican border fence is a good idea after all…and law enforcement on the US side of the border could shoot to kill heroin smugglers on sight.

Posted by: JT | November 29, 2006, 1:32 pm 1:32 pm

You know when my friends and I were that age, we didn’t even know what drugs were, and some of the words and sexual things that I have heard from children’s mouths, well we didn’t even know those words at that age, let alone knowing what they meant. Just incredible and so very sad.

Posted by: VLW | November 29, 2006, 1:48 pm 1:48 pm

Those on hard drugs become a burden on society for life.
Several things should change. A truly intensive effort to stop all illegal entry into the USA should be made. Any drug runners from Mexico that make it to the USA should be executed on the spot. Parents that can’t parent or afford their kids should be neutered or spayed. Much of this is due to the single women / baby factories who can’t afford kids and have no intention or ability to raise them.

Posted by: anagitator | November 29, 2006, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm

only drinking beer and smoking weed?? That might not be as bad as this “cheese” but its still horrible. My 9 year old sister better not ever turn up drunk or high at some 10 years old. Something is wrong.

Posted by: C. Saunders | November 29, 2006, 1:55 pm 1:55 pm

As an educator, the availability of drugs and alcohol run rampant. I believe parents are to blame, as well as society. Sex, drugs, pimps and “ho’s” are glorified on TV and preteens and teens do not understand the difference between truth and fiction. Societal influence needs to change its morals or our innocent children will be exposed to more and more filth. Let the children be children.

Posted by: Della | November 29, 2006, 2:00 pm 2:00 pm

I beleive that the LORD IS COMING SOON TO THIS EARTH AND SATAN IS USING ALL OF HIS POWER ON THE YOUNG TEENS. WE NEED TO GET BACK TO THE BASICS TRUST IN THE LORD WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART AND NOT LEAN UNTO OUR OWN UNDERSTANDING. PSALMS 3.5 THE PHYSICIANS ARE DETOXING THE TEENS WITH DRUGS THAT IS NOT THE ANSWER. THE ANSWER IS TO GIVE THEM JESUS LOVE AND DICIPLINE. TO MANY TEENS ARE LEFT TO MAKE THEIR OWN DECISION AS A COMMUNITY WE NEED TO BRING BACK THE OLD WAY .IT TAKES A VILLAGE TO RAISE A CHILD. WE ARE TO FIXED ON WHAT MAN SAYS AND NOT GOD. GOD HAS CREATED HUMAN BEINGS AND HE KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR ALL OF US. MAY GOD BLESS EACH AND EVERYONE THAT READS THIS COMMENT. KEEP PRAYING GOD HEARS YOUR PRAYERS AND ANSWERS THEM ACCORDING TO HIS WILL

Posted by: BROWNSUGAR | November 29, 2006, 2:20 pm 2:20 pm

Absolutely disgusting, yet Charlie Jean, I don’t agree with you about bringing it up to be the parents fault. It may be true that if they did something maybe the littlest something different, things would be different, but there’s not much any parent can do to stop their kids from giving in to the pressures of what the “cool” things to do as a kid are now a days.

Posted by: Melissa | November 29, 2006, 2:41 pm 2:41 pm

This is such so ridiculous that 11 and 12 year olds are cmoing up ways of making drugs to get a high, they should be more focused on school and playing outside getting dirty and things most 12 year olds do. WHERE ARE THE PARENTS while these kids are snorting this so called “Cheese”.

Posted by: Shan Reynolds | November 29, 2006, 2:47 pm 2:47 pm

Fifth through Eighth Grade is the worst time to be in public school. I have every intention of homeschooling during those crucial years.

Posted by: Lisa | November 29, 2006, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm

MELISSA HONESTLY THINKS THERE IS NOTHING A PARENT CAN DO TO HELP THEIR CHILDREN? THAT IS WHERE THE PROBLEM COMES FROM–DEFEATIST ATTITUDE. BELIEVE ME, I HAVE A SON AND DAUGHTER IN THEIR EARLY 20′S, LIVE IN A METROPOLITAN AREA AND CAN GUARANTEE YOU–IT CAN BE DONE. PARENTS SHOULD BE PARENTS UNTIL THE CHILD IS GROWN, THEN YOU CAN BE A FRIEND. HOLD AND LOVE THEM–TELL THEM HOW MUCH THEY MEAN TO YOU–THAT YOU WOULD DIE FOR THEM IF YOU HAD TO. BUT ALSO THAT YOU WON’T TAKE ANY BULL FROM THEM, THAT POOR ATTITUDE IS NOT ACCEPTABLE AND “IF MOMMA AIN’T HAPPY…AIN’T NOBODY HAPPY”. BE STRAIGHT WITH THEM. NEVER THREATEN A PUNISHMENT YOU AREN’T WILLING TO CARRY OUT, AND LET THE PUNISHMENT FIT THE CRIME. A SWAT ON THE BUTT WON’T HURT IF USED SPARINGLY, BUT CONSTANT WHIPPINGS WON’T ACCOMPLISH ANYTHING. YELLING WILL GET YOU SHUT OUT FAST…TALK LOW AND SLOW TO GET THEIR ATTENTION. MAKE TIME FOR THEM,LISTEN TO THEM, RESPECT THEM, LOVE THEM. THEY WILL RETURN THE FAVOR IF YOU DO.

Posted by: ELLEN | November 29, 2006, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm

Yes, because Jesus solves all the world’s problems. I can totally see how he saved everyone in the Middle East, and it’s stopping the war right now. Great idea.
I totally agree that the parents need to become more involved in their children’s daily activities. That’s what parenting is all about. Asking questions and being stubborn about where children go and who they are with is the only way to keep these types of things from happening across the nation, and the globe. As for younger children getting it from older siblings, I think families need to start looking out for each other more. My older sister and I bickered when we were younger, but I still know that she would never have let me screw up like these kids are. Teaching children how to love their siblings is a huge problem these days.

Posted by: Melanie | November 29, 2006, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm

When I was a kid in Brooklyn, NY in the 60′s there were 11 and 12 year olds using heroin, only it was taken by needle.

Posted by: Millie | November 29, 2006, 3:17 pm 3:17 pm

The parents are working trying to make ends meet. That my friends is where womens lib has gotten us. Now BOTH mom and dad have to work full time just to eat,heat and maybe afford a few extras. I am talking about college educated adults with “proffesional ” jobs busting butt to make it. Rather than building a fence on the mexican border lets fix the disparity between the rich and the rest of us. As a middle class white person who works full time I can not immagine what it must be like for under educated under paid people to make it. You can not devote time to the kids if you are putting in 40+ hours a week.

Posted by: sally | November 29, 2006, 3:24 pm 3:24 pm

Can anyone tell me what the hell adding Tylenol PM does when mixed to heroin,that’s the weirdest concoction I’ve ever heard of?
What are these kids thinking?
My advice to anyone reading this is to stay away from such addicting drugs,I have 3 torn discs in my back and have to take narcotics for pain,but the side effects are hell,the 2 big ones for me is it kills the appetite and constipation is a killer,I’m damned if I do,and damned if I don’t take my meds.,but if I could get off this stuff I would in a heartbeat. Long term it is terrible to have to live like this.
Kids,Wake the HELL UP! Those first 6-8 times you do these type of drugs,it may feel good,but wait until you’ve gone futher and you need the crap to keep from getting sick,puking,having hot and cold flahes,cramps,shakes and other symptoms. And if you try and cold turkey without supervision you can die from a heart attack………

Posted by: TEBlackmon | November 29, 2006, 3:44 pm 3:44 pm

This and other unbelievable issues are simply signs of the times. Are you paying attention? It will be quite interesting to see all of it come to a head, yet it will be quite sad because so many who think it not to be true will find it to be the extreme opposite. Don’t worry, time will hush all the doubts.

Posted by: JLW | November 29, 2006, 3:45 pm 3:45 pm

yumm . . . cheesy. jk.

Posted by: cheese | November 29, 2006, 3:47 pm 3:47 pm

i think that it is awful that these young kids are doing this. I would not blame everything on the parents though. Kids are pretty smart these days and will find a way to hide what there doing most of the time. Our kids these days are subjected to more pressures than ever before, they are expected to act like grown adults than children, they have to face fears that as children we did not. Each generation it gets harder and harder because It takes Parents to work twice as hard to keep the house and children satisfied. I feel that we as adults have to talk to our children and tell them the truth about life and what drugs can and will do to them. Our kids are not stupid, they are indeed very smart, our society as a whole should help out and show these young children and young teens that there is more to life and to open there eyes to the world around them. I know because I speak from expereience on how life can be hard.

Posted by: amanda | November 29, 2006, 3:47 pm 3:47 pm

I think the parents do have a small part in this but you have to remember the peer pressure there are these days with smaller kids. They think they will be better at everything because these other kids tell them to do this and do that. Everyone has to play a part. Especially the border line from mexico and really everywhere else. There will always be drugs and somehting else bad for our kids, but we have to also parent just as well as they have to look for smugglers. Because if we dont do our job as parents, who will?

Posted by: ALICIA | November 29, 2006, 3:50 pm 3:50 pm

Sorry BROWNSUGAR, I have to disagree. It is the parents fault and they can do something about it. Having one parent at home raising the children is a start. My husband and I have traded off through the years to make sure one of us is the at home parent at all times. If we’re talking about single parents, enlist a support group. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, very good friend to watch the kids when not in school. And you MUST constantly tell them that they CANNOT under any circumstances do drugs or alcohol. Believe me, it does make a difference.

Posted by: ElyShirley | November 29, 2006, 4:08 pm 4:08 pm

Of course it falls back on parents! Parents are the foundation of what values are taught from day one. And parents always have the upper hand. They should monitor where their child is and what they do on the Internet. They have every right to question other parents. They have the ability to take away priviledges when a child misbehaves – no matter the age.

Posted by: tadoka | November 29, 2006, 4:15 pm 4:15 pm

What can I do to help? How do I help? I really want to do something . . . but I dont’ know what to do. I’m only one person, but a change has GOT to start somewhere, with some one. What can I do to help?

Posted by: Dino | November 29, 2006, 4:18 pm 4:18 pm

Maybe we should put the entire family in jail (or rehab). Maybe if “society” started holding parents responsible for the actions of their kids, people would use birth control more often. Then they wouldn’t breed kids that they don’t want to raise. Or better yet, people should have to apply for a “License to Breed.” Think about that for a minute. We require education, training, certification, etc for everything with the exception of “parenting.” We should at least TRY to weed out the non-parent material; has anybody else got a better idea? This is what happens when these dead-beat “parents” assume that the kids will just raise themselves. I’m pretty worried about the future of this country – most of these kids won’t live to see adulthood and the ones who do make it that far will end up like the David Allen Coe song: “I turned 21 in prison doing life without parole . . . . ” If people don’t want to raise kids then they should not breed them, period. Last time I checked, abortion is still legal, and it’s damn sure cheaper than the alternative – breeding kids who are certain to become a burden to the rest of us.

Posted by: Elaine | November 29, 2006, 4:22 pm 4:22 pm

Well… I think if the US age for legal consumption of alcohol were lowered to something more reasonable like 14, then instantly many of these children would have a legal alternative to the illegal drugs. After all, if booze is illegal until you are 21, then why not go buy some weed/ mushrooms/ heroin/ crack? They are illegal too, and with such a large market of under 21 year olds, there are plenty of people trying to sell!
If people are worried about little drunk hooligans.. the answer is that they must drink with their parents (is that a way to make drinking uncool or what!)
After all, if young people can vote at 18, can leave school and join the workforce full time at 16 (in America?) they need a legal way to share time with other adults who can mentor/keep and eye on them afterhours. They cannot drink until they are 21? Why would under 21s hang around over 21s if they cannot participate in social activities with them?

Posted by: Delphin | November 29, 2006, 4:23 pm 4:23 pm

Everyone wants to blame the mother and father. you all should know that this day in age it takes two incomes to make ends meet.You can not watch there every move. All you can do is pray the make the right move.And teachers should beable to also tell the action in the child. It takes everyone to help raise a child now a days. I have a 3, 10, and a 12 year old I teach them right from wrong. we live in a small town. My husben and I both work. The teachers here let us know when or child has made a chance in anything, so we can try to find out what is going on.

Posted by: venus | November 29, 2006, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm

There appear to be many accusations flying about as well as far-out, “quick-fix” approaches to dealing with the issue at hand. I applaud the fact that everybody commenting has the same core opinion- our children should not be exposed to drugs. Alas, there is never one person to blame, nor is there ever one solution. One cannot solely point a finger at parents because what happens while that child is at school is out of the parent’s control. At the same time, one cannot place blame on the educational system for teachers and administrators are overworked and under-budgeted… they do their best to give kids a fighting chance at a good future. I don’t feel that there is a “quick fix” to this problem. I do feel that there should be more communication within communities- teachers and parents, television producers, governments… We need to work together to discover why our children feel this need to take illegal substances; and together work on finding a solution.

Posted by: katy | November 29, 2006, 4:48 pm 4:48 pm

ELLEN, I COULDN’T AGREE WITH YOU MORE ABOUT WHAT YOU HAD TO SAY ABOUT THE WAY TO HANDLE THINGS WITH YOUR CHILDREN, ALL I WAS SIMPLY SAYING WAS THAT THERE’S STILL THAT TEN MINUTE WALK HOME FROM SCHOOL, OR TO THE BUS STOP, THERE’S THOSE TIMES WHEN YOUR ON YOUR WAY HOME FROM WORK, YET YOUR NOT THERE JUST YET, ALL THOSE STUPID LITTLE TIMES WHEN YOUR NOT THERE THAT YOU CANNOT CONTROL WHAT YOUR CHILD DOES, AND SOMETIMES, WHEN THEY ARE YOUNG, LIKE 10 AND 11 ALL THEY WANT TO DO IS BE COOL, BE LIKE THE BIG KIDS AND THOSE TEN MINUTES ARE ALL IT TAKES TO HIT A JOINT, SMOKE A CIGARETTE, OR EVEN TAKE THESE “CHEESE” PILLS…. I THINK FROM READING YOUR PASSAGE YOU SOUND LIKE A GREAT MOTHER AND YOU HAVE BEEN DOING A GREAT JOB, BUT A CHILD WILL BE A CHILD, AND THAT, WE CANNOT HELP….

Posted by: Melissa | November 29, 2006, 5:23 pm 5:23 pm

Thanks Elaine:
I’m so glad someone got it right! It is the only sensible thing I’ve read so far!!

Posted by: Marla | November 29, 2006, 5:35 pm 5:35 pm

Drug use/abuse in the United States (and probably across the world) seems to be out of control. Completely out of control. In the case of 11 and 12 year olds, I have a hard time believing they have much to say in the matter. One of their “buddies” says here eat this, and just like that their hooked. They don’t have any realization the consequences of their actions. The adult population can not turn their backs on drugs any longer. We have to take a stand. “We” have to do something. “We” have to make it hard for dealers to deal. “We” have to take the streets back ! Drugs are everywhere these days. EVERYWHERE ! You shouldn’t be surprised if some of your best friends are using or maybe worse dealing drugs. You want someone to blame…..blame the dealers.

Posted by: Greg | November 29, 2006, 5:36 pm 5:36 pm

Abolish public schools.

Posted by: PrivateSchoolDad | November 29, 2006, 5:38 pm 5:38 pm

Personally anyone who says that it takes a village to raise a child doesn’t have any children, or doesn’t know how to raise them properly. Also I seriously don’t understand how anyone can say they can’t make ends meet by working full time. Myself and my wife have worked full time for the last three years since I left the service, and we have had no problems paying the bills. Yes we have a house payment, yes we have utilities. We even have money left over for savings, retirement and extras such as movies, going out to eat, and misc shopping. People who say they can’t make ends meet on 40 hours a week needs to see a financial advisor to make a budget and learn what you really don’t need.

Posted by: Mathew | November 29, 2006, 5:39 pm 5:39 pm

No one’s asked the question – where are middle school children getting the money necessary to buy drugs (or alcohol or cigarettes)? You can’t be employed until 15 in most states, unless your doing private odd jobs like lawnmowing or babysitting. Parents need to ensure that allowance is going for lunch money!

Posted by: GregDC | November 29, 2006, 5:48 pm 5:48 pm

I am 21 years pld and i am shock to hear that 11-12 years old are doing this.I hope that this hurry up and get fix because i wouldnt want any kids to die from this.Its very sad.

Posted by: ashley | November 29, 2006, 6:34 pm 6:34 pm

Hey, it’s tejas…what do you expect?

Posted by: bob | November 29, 2006, 6:36 pm 6:36 pm

I am from Dallas and this is not as big a deal as you all make it seem. Most kind and teens will try drugs, good parenting or bad. But yes you can help, leard to talk to yous kids on there level, thats what my parents did and i have been clean for over a year now.

Posted by: Ross | November 29, 2006, 6:37 pm 6:37 pm

Several comments strike me as disturbing, 1) that parenting cannot control what takes place when a child is alone and 2) that a household cannot be maintained on a single salary. I strongly disagree on both fronts.
I was raised in a household that commanded respect in addition to consequences for my actions. If a child is not taught right from wrong, how will they ever stand up to a peer? It is a simple element of teaching a child to make up their own mind and become their own person. I always thought about how terribly I would let down my parents if I tried illegal drugs of any kind. And imagine that, I am a well-adjusted 32-year-old adult with a successful career and no “scars” from being taught to respect my parents.
I additionally strongly disagree with the notion that a household can only be maintained on two salaries. My father held two jobs for the sole purpose of allowing my mother to stay home with my sisters and I. To suggest that sacrifices cannot be made for the children is despicable. Does one have to spend $100 on cable monthly? Does a family have to have an expensive or new car or eat fast food? What in the world ever happened to making decisions for the future and not for immediate gratification.

Posted by: Elizabeth | November 29, 2006, 7:26 pm 7:26 pm

I’m a teacher and yes, it all goes back to the parents. I can’t tell you how many parents make excuses for their kids. One child in our class is a real stinker, his parents blame it on low-blood sugar. Ha! He’s a spoiled brat who never hears the word NO! It needs to start early, there must be rules and consequences. Kids need structure and discipline, and I don’t mean physical punishment. Take their darn video games away, teach them about making good choices…My loser neighbors actually had the audacity to say “That’s the school’s job”…no wonder these poor kids are so lost!

Posted by: vicki | November 29, 2006, 8:53 pm 8:53 pm

I totally agree with Elizabeth. And Melissa, you dont have a clue and should not have children. I am 47 now and was raised with 1 younger brother in a family that did not attend church. I was taught the basic morals and we hunted/ fished on our weekends. My father and mother both worked 50-70 hours a week and did so we could live in a middle class neighborhood. Peer pressure be damned, myself and my brother did not use any drugs/alcohol/tobacco. Any “buddy” that tried to have one of us take anything was no longer a “buddy”. Our respect of our parents and the ideals they instilled in us were much more important than anything a peer could offer, and always will be. I am proud to have a 17 year old daughter who was and is being raised the same way. We talk, fish, but do not hunt together since she likes animals not on a plate. Over the course of the last few years, she has stopped all contact with several “friends”, because of thier promiscuity, or ideas about drugs. My wife works, and I average 110+ days away from home a year with my job. When away, I talk to both my wife and daughter every day. Point is folks, if you have a child, there is no excuse not to raise them right..Yes, it is a pain in the posterior sometimes, but when you concieved the child you took on that responsibility for yourself, the child, and society. Let your children know daily that they are the most precious thing in the world to you. Spend time talking with them, assist them with thier studies…….Take them to a movie the day you get back in town after a 3 week trip, even though you are exhausted. The bond you make and have with your children will be much stronger than any peer pressure, and as your child enters the adult world, he/she will be much more adept at dealing with it. Take Care, and be a parent.. Ralph.

Posted by: Ralph | November 29, 2006, 9:11 pm 9:11 pm

It proves that the conservative are right after all. Almost all liberal attitudes have been proven to be detrimental to this country and the children. I wonder what is going to happen in the future in the US.
This kids are going to be our future police, firemen and taxpayers.

Posted by: bd | November 29, 2006, 9:59 pm 9:59 pm

If parents raise their children well, teach them to not expect immediate gratification, and teach them to love and respect others and THEMSELVES,this problem goes away. That’s a FACT. I strongly disagree that BOTH parents have to work. My husband and I only had children when we knew we could handle it, financially, on one salary. How? We don’t buy crap we don’t need! We sacrifice what WE want for the benefit of our children. We teach them from a young age that nothing in life is free and that everyone has to do their part. We teach them to respect others and themselves. We teach them that love & family are more important than STUFF! My children want for NOTHING, yet they’d be the first ones to sacrifice if they knew someone else was in need. Cut the crap, cut the excuses, dump all these diagnoses and medications and GET REAL! The reason why these kids are doing drugs is because they suffer from a lack of discipline, guidance, and self esteem. How are they supposed to find their place in the world if no one shows them the way?

Posted by: Angela | November 29, 2006, 10:03 pm 10:03 pm

I have three teenaged boys. They have all been home-schooled, and my oldest son is a freshman in college this year. I am not saying homeschooling is the right choice for everyone. My husband and I made the choice to raise our children on one salary, and we did make sacrifices. But, I wouldn’t change a thing. Also, I always try to remember that everything I do and say effects my children.
My children are exceptional, and I do believe it is simply because of the time and energy that was invested in their lives.

Posted by: sheila | November 29, 2006, 10:07 pm 10:07 pm

ELEVEN YEAR OLDS? DRUGS? Kids might not only be getting high but their vocabulary is changing, too. Just the other day we went into a bad part of town for dinner and a 5-year-old walking with his mom FLIPPED US OFF! I can’t believe what this has come to. (P.S. I don’t think that cheese stuff would TASTE very good either!)

Posted by: Juicy | November 29, 2006, 11:08 pm 11:08 pm

I have no kids, so I can’t comment here on why. Maybe some on the parents, some on society? Who knows.
I am strongly in agreement with the border fence, not only to keep out drugs, but to screen terrorists, criminals, and whatever other bad elements come in (although I would favor a broad guest-worker program). However, that really isn’t going to keep out the heroin, because it is my understanding that the production of this crap is now shifting to the United States (after being shifted from several other locations), at least on a drugs documentary I saw.
Really all these arguments as to cause and effect have been argued over the decades, so maybe fresh thinking is needed here to resolve this?

Posted by: Mr E | November 29, 2006, 11:15 pm 11:15 pm

Writing in all CAPS makes people not read your crap. Teens will be teens, huh? Come to me and I will fix everything…even the cheese.

Posted by: The Savior | November 30, 2006, 12:12 am 12:12 am

That’s the Texas educational system for you…Are these kids being included in Bush’s No Child Left Behind Act?

Posted by: Nick | November 30, 2006, 12:34 am 12:34 am

The cops better spend their resources doing the sting operations on these kind of things rather than no existing “sting operations” involving non-existing minors

Posted by: george | November 30, 2006, 2:05 am 2:05 am

i agree with everyone this is truley sad…
but i think it really is in the parents..
im fifteen and grew up and still going in a world full of drugs drinking, sex, violence etc.
i have also attended public schools my entire life.
my parents are immigrants from korea and they work 60-75 hours a week.. we talk and see eachother in the morning and at dinner but i have never touched a single bottle of vodka or smoked a single joint in my life.
i spend 90% of the time home alone and i still dont ever do bad things like this
i think it is because my parents and i talk
.. not about serious issues in the world but we talk..
they ask me about my day and i do the same .. i understand they are parents and they understand im a growing teenager..
i think if everyone tried a little harder at atleast meeting half way.. things can work out
if you can forge a bond with your child, if they respect you the same..then i think it keeps them from wanting to dissapoint you..
i know and see how hard my parents work for me everyday
..
i know that they work so hard and sleep so little all for me to grow up and live. Because of this, because i realize it is out of love, and because they are my inspirations and examples, i do all i can in order to make them happy…
i think we just need to see each other eye to eye.. and
i just hope that we can imagine (both the children and the parents) ourselves in the others position..then the drugs and the violence (sex, drinking etc.) will decrease and hopefully one day dissapear.
-michelle-

Posted by: michelle c. | November 30, 2006, 2:22 am 2:22 am

I am saddend by this story, but I realize that this city is not the only one to have these problems.
There are many answers to this problem. People can keep putting blame where ever they choose. The reasons for the problem in children or adults are the same. These people are searching for something. We all do. Working parents or stay at home parents, Parents who care and parents who dont, all have children and spouses and nieghbors who have drug problems. These problems cross all socio-economic lines.
All we can do is start at home, loving our kids and friends and nieghbors and helping where you can. letting those you know , know you love them and they are not alone. Make sure those you love know that they are important. You can change the world, start in your own little corner, one caring act at a time.

Posted by: Tanyawoman | November 30, 2006, 2:29 am 2:29 am

I am sick and tired of the unlearned lessons that were grafically displayed for public education during the failed trial of prohibition. how many lessons and deaths will occur while these substances are illegal and left up to carpetbaggers and criminals? Could you imagine having to still buy your beer in a back alley or speakeasy? This is the dumbest political folly in 80 years. The solution in sticking out so badly but, no one will pick up the cause rationally. duh!

Posted by: steve | November 30, 2006, 2:56 am 2:56 am

Ralph, I’m a Liberal and a Democrat and I am just as concerned as you are. This has nothing to do with political affiliation. I believe that as parents we are their first and best teachers. When they are old enough to understand religious themes and parables about morality they should be introduced to their “curriculum”. Whether home schooled or in public school it’s important as parents to become involved and remain aware of what is being taught and what the latest trends are. Articles like this are invaluable tools. As a community we can become mentors to young parents who are struggling – check with your local social services, churches or volunteer organizations. Working parents have it harder, but you can develop certain practices in order to provide consistent and beneficial family “norms” and always be open to new ideas and constructive criticism. Abortion is not the answer; love and families and thanks be to God for allowing you to have such a precious thing – children.

Posted by: Debbie | November 30, 2006, 6:23 am 6:23 am

The current wave of drug abuse amongst younger children is clear evidence of the meltdown of the traditional nuclear family structure. So many of these children come from single parent homes where adequate adult supervision is negligible. The public schools all too often serve to merely warehouse these children during the school day releasing them onto the streets in early afternoon where they are at the mercy of bad influences. There are no easy solutions to these problems. That is tragic and true and as a result, expect this kind of thing to spread and intensify across our nation.

Posted by: TEG | November 30, 2006, 7:50 am 7:50 am

I think this is crazy. I didnt even know there was drugs when I was 11 and 12 years old. I have a little sister and I really hope she doesnt get involved in drugs when she gets older. I mean think about. Whats the point? You get to be high for what? An hour? Do they not know what the effects are in the long run?

Posted by: katie | November 30, 2006, 8:18 am 8:18 am

So where can I find one of these 11-Year-Old Heroin Addicts?
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Posted by: Cow Dog | November 30, 2006, 8:26 am 8:26 am

I don’t think Ralph was the one that posted about liberals; it was the post below him. Anyway, I agree with Ralph. I did not even believe in peer pressure until I went to college and saw the hold it had on some other people. My parents taught me to think for myself and hold my own opinions. I like to think that I am doing the same thing for my children.
Although we “could” afford it, my children do not have a game system. It seems like a simple thing, but for us it means that they are not “plugged in” all the time. We don’t live in a big city and have 4 acres with woods and creek flowing through. My kids are outside most days. Their childhood is remarkably like my own and I grew up in the ’60′s and ’70′s. That lifestyle still exists in the U.S., if you want it for yourself.
I see the problem as people (adults) not wanting to grow up and be parents to their children. I find more parents to be spoiled than children, but try telling them that. Kids just want to be listened to, heard and know that they matter to their parents. If they don’t get it at home, they will get it somewhere else and that’s really the bottom line.

Posted by: drkellogg | November 30, 2006, 8:28 am 8:28 am

Blame the parents. Blame the school system & teachers. Who is going to step forward and take responsibility? Ultimately, we are all to blame because we each add our part to every aspect of the society of today. The reasons for and causes of the addiction of these young children are no different than the reasons we have so many other societal problems…..murder, child molestation and/or abuse, sexual promiscuity, std’s, suicide, self-mutilation, and the list could go on forever. We ALL play a part in creating the environment that spawns such behaviors and problems and we ALL need to take responsibility and do our part to change the pattern. The road to recovery begins with knowledge, common sense, and “ME”.

Posted by: Hoot | November 30, 2006, 8:33 am 8:33 am

Yeah, abolishing public schools is really the solution “private school dad”. Don’t think your kids aren’t exposed to some of the same things public school kids are. As a product of private school I can guarantee you those things go on but the parents are so sure since their kids are in “private school” that those things don’t happen. Get real.

Posted by: sickofit | November 30, 2006, 8:37 am 8:37 am

Thanks to Angela for the right-on and sensible parenting. I would add that children should be taught according to Proverbs 22:6, which simply states “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.” There is no substitute for a Christian home with Godly parents, regular prayer and Bible study.
Sure, kids rebel. They want to do their own thing and they succumb to peer pressure. I know I did. The fact that I did many of the abhorrent things kids today are doing and that I am still alive and well is a testament to the grace of God and to that alone. I had a loving Christian home and I still did wrong things. However saddened they were by my actions, my folks just reinforced their love for me when I was found out, which served to make me feel so guilty that I never wanted to hurt them again. Love works well. Draw near to God and he will draw near to you. Stay well and be blessed everyone.

Posted by: Donna | November 30, 2006, 10:21 am 10:21 am

I am shocked not only by the “cheese” but by the comments of JT who writes that his/her generation was only drinking beer or smoking pot @ 10 & 11 yrs old…..at 10 yrs old my generation was in bed by 8:00 @ night, in the house before dark and our parents new everything we did. We are the parents today and what are they teaching their kids.

Posted by: Judi C | November 30, 2006, 12:36 pm 12:36 pm

sadly children see things on tv, and hear thier older friends & siblings talk about things and its a classic case of “if they can do it so can i- im just as cool as them!”
this is going to go beyond Dallas, and yes- kids as young as 7 can become addicts. for example- Drew Barrymore was an alcoholic at age 8 durring the filming of E.T. Kids can get wrapped up into things- even if the parents hover over them. sometimes that can make the situation worse… the child will buck athority more and decide they will get high or drunk come hell or high water.

Posted by: Crystal | November 30, 2006, 12:38 pm 12:38 pm

The problem is law enforcement focuses on a small harmless drug (weed) when they should be focusing on the real drugs(crack, heroin, meth). Canada allows a small amount of weed, and focuses on hard drugs; their drug rates are much lower then the us.
Instead of having John Law arrest every to bit marajuana dealer, how about going after the drug king pins.

Posted by: BS | November 30, 2006, 2:57 pm 2:57 pm

Yes, i think that this is one of the most horrible things that i have seen in a long time. But it happens. And when an 11 year old grows up to be 18, he or she has a good chance of being contained by the law. but wait, we just lock them up. we spend so much more time putting these people behind bars than actually helping them. Heroin is a powerful addiction. yes, it is your choice to start taking it, and you make choices while on it. But it drives you, the only way that you can even imagine being alive is on it. I am not an addict, i was raised in a liberal family that only let me have half a glass of champagne on new years.even that my mom protested. but i spent 12 months with cocaine, heroin, and meth addicts. WHen these people turn into adults, they need help. so my suggestion is, stop making people pay 6-8 thousand dollars per month to get help. How can we expect these people to clean up if we never give them the chance?

Posted by: adam | November 30, 2006, 3:00 pm 3:00 pm

I feel that the way you raise a kid is very important in their development, I have a stepdaughter who is 5 years old, When she’s at our house she is very well mannered, rarely gets in trouble, we read every night, she has Ballet a few nights a week, she comes home from school every day with happy faces, now when she goes to her Mothers house where there is a lack of authority, she acts up at school, talks back to adults, just doesn’t listen.
I feel if we as parents instill a sense of respect into our children that they’ll keep that with them the rest of their lives.

Posted by: Chelsea | November 30, 2006, 4:43 pm 4:43 pm

all of u damn liberals are the reason for our childrens problems! if u would allow corpral punishment then people could deal with their own problems, instead of expecting someone else to disipline your children and solve your problems

Posted by: jt | November 30, 2006, 7:48 pm 7:48 pm

Parents can only stop children from doing hurtful things if society lets them. When I was young (though, at one time I never wanted to say that!) mom used to spank us if we got out of line. The schools, and society, were supportive of that. Now, if parents use this form of punishment, they are breaking the law, and kids know that they have virtually no rules if they call the 800-no-more-rules hotline. It’s too easy for kids to get their way, and too hard for parents who try to enforce the rules. Add poverty and/or overworked parents into the mess, and the situation we have now in this country emerges: too many children on the court dockets, simply because no one else can or will say NO to letting them run wild, and stop them when they try.

Posted by: annie | November 30, 2006, 8:43 pm 8:43 pm

I think a very cost-effective solution, although somewhat disturbing, but within reason would be a mandatory showing of “Requiem for a Dream,” and they MUST pay attention. This might sound like a bad idea from the start, but seeing that movie has turned a lot of people away from drug use and narcotic usage.

Posted by: Cmar | November 30, 2006, 9:26 pm 9:26 pm

liberal and conservative have nothing to do with how successful you are at raising your kids. thats a simple answer. almost nothing, especially raising another human being to be an adult, is simple. different children respond differently to different stimuli. different parenting skills can be strengthening or shattering. its all about the individual.

Posted by: kate | November 30, 2006, 10:41 pm 10:41 pm

Hoot…thank goodness, a voice of reason.
I grew into my teens in the late sixty’s and stories of young heroin addicts abounded, albeit, mostly from inner city reports, but nonetheless, it was happening. Sad then, even more sad now with all the information we have concerning drug abuse and how to educate our children.
This is not just a problem of the poor, uneducated,latch-key, single parented, inner city youth. This epidemic of drug abuse/addiction has hit harder in our middle/upper class society than anywhere else. Take a good look around your parks, playgrounds and other youth hangouts and surely, you will see that addiction has no boundries.

Posted by: diane | November 30, 2006, 11:07 pm 11:07 pm

These comments read like people mocking Christians.

Posted by: Tuffy | December 1, 2006, 2:36 am 2:36 am

We need to bring God back into our lives and stop trying to make out casts out of people.
Since Sex Offenders have a registry that is “suppose” to protect the public, why aren’t you screaming for a registry for ANYONE with a criminal record?
Registries do NOT protect anyone, and if the cost of living was not so darn high, maybe one parent could stay home and do their job and take care of their kids.
We keep pushing God/Jesus out of our lives, and then we wonder what is going on!
America needs to wake up.

Posted by: ZMan | December 1, 2006, 8:13 am 8:13 am

WHY IS IT THAT THE PARENTS ARE IMMEDIATELY THE BLAME? I AM THE PARENT OF A RECOVERING ADDICT WHO WATCHED EVERYTHING MY CHILD DID, WHO KNEW EVERY PERSON THAT WAS A FRIEND, AND HE STILL GOT ON DRUGS. QUIT BLAMING THE PARENTS. WE ARE THE ONES WHO HAVE TO PICK UP THE PIECES.

Posted by: KRISTI | December 1, 2006, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm

Please, no more ALL CAPS people…

Posted by: fluffer nutter | December 1, 2006, 5:20 pm 5:20 pm

Where did you all think ALL THAT NICE AFGHANI heroin was going to end up after all?
Thank George & Dick….Your Heroes?

Posted by: shrubtrimmedon21503 | December 1, 2006, 10:13 pm 10:13 pm

I have a serious problem with all these people deciding whose at fault for kids, teens, etc. who become drug addicts. I’m sure the majority of the people making these comments have never had a drug problem or had family members on drugs because if they did they wouldn’t be so quick to assign blame. I’m a recovering heroin addict and my parents NEVER did drugs. My mother constantly kept track of where I was, who I was with, and what we were doing. I went to a private school and yet I still ended up experimenting with drugs. It happened over several years, but eventually I was introduced to heroin. After a couple of years of resistance (and no, these weren’t your average junkie-types I was hanging with- they were kids just like yours…) I finally gave in. I was so sure you only became addicted if you wanted to that I fell into it blindly. I woke up one morning sick as a dog. Everything spiraled out of control from there. Kristi is probably the only person I fully agree with – the parents are the ones who have to pick up the pieces… Thank God I have the family I do. I went into treatment and am currently on Methadone. I am slowly detoxing off of that as well to be totally free of this madness.
I now have a daughter and I have been clean since I got pregnant with her. I know when she is old enough I will sit her down and not only tell her that drugs are bad, but I will be able to tell her why and exactly what happens. For all of you who think God is going to save you and your kids, good luck. I went to a religious private school and they are doing the same stuff as the kids in public schools. Oh, and for those of you who think only trouble makers do drugs, I’ll tell you right now, everyday when I would go to the methadone clinic it wasn’t just junkies and street people as you refer to them as, but doctors, lawyers, CEOs, and the like. They would stand there in line inside in their uniforms and business suits. So stop trying to kid yourself into thinking only bad people end up on drugs… believe me, no one wakes up in the morning and says, “I want to become a drug addict today!” Go see the movie “Basketball Diaries” with Leonardo DiCaprio… that is pretty much how it can be. I’m one of the lucky ones to now have a career and a beautiful daughter after being a user and being homeless and everything else. You may not even have to do anything wrong… if ANY addiction runs in your family such as alcohol, gambling, etc. your child is already predisposed to addiction genetically. Just because someone is an alcoholic doesn’t mean their child will only be predisposed to alcoholism… it could be drugs just as easily. Good luck to all of you parents out there… I definitely won’t lie and say it isn’t harder this day in age because it most definitely is.

Posted by: Stacy | December 2, 2006, 12:06 am 12:06 am

I think you would find an equal distribution of these young addicts with religious and non-religious backgrounds. The Bible can read %100 percent true to you, but if you dont follow it (love your enemy, help the poor, dont be greedy…) what good is it to you? The culture is the problem and no amount of words will change the culture if people do not have a change of heart. Religious people often get blinded to their own sin and ignorance by their own public piety; too many non-religious people get blinded by their own complacency. If this culture is to be fixed it will NOT be by christians claiming this land for jesus and converting/driving off the infidels. It will not be fixed by ignoring the societal ills and covering them up with P.C. doublespeak. Honest hearts willing to change and to sacrifice for our fellow men and women will only be a start. Fot those of you who think ‘not my problem’ you are more to blame than most.

Posted by: nate | December 2, 2006, 3:25 am 3:25 am

Well, this is blowback from Afghanistan. The bumper crops of opium poppies and, as a result, the increase in heroin has to go somewhere, and all of it won’t just go to Europe. Clean up, fix up Afghanistan; give the Afghan farmers a market where they can sell produce and not poppies; defeat the Taliban in Afghanistan and Pakistan as we should have over 4 years ago; and we’ll eliminate this excessive amount of heroin that is in Texas and will soon be elsewhere.

Posted by: Bill | December 2, 2006, 10:46 am 10:46 am

I am fighting mad here for many reasons. The first of which is the fact that these children are gaining access to extremely dangerous drugs. The second is the reference to “single mothers” and “baby factories”. What about the fathers??? Nobody wants to hold the fathers of these single parent children accountable? Children need not only both parents to be involved and accountable but also other adults such as teachers, extended family, friends, etc. There is SO much wrong with this society it literally makes me sick to my stomach. I do think we need to change things but where? How? When you have governors who stop the anti-smoking program (I know he has suggested a new program and I hope it works as well)and legislators, congressmen, etc. propositioning pages and then you DO have two parents working their butts off to make ends meet… the kids, all too often, are left to fend for themselves. I feel like shouting, “Everybody just STOP what you’re doing, take a deep breath, look around… now… let’s start over.” Won’t happen of course but this just bites… big time!

Posted by: Debbie | December 4, 2006, 6:59 pm 6:59 pm

First off this has nothing to do with border control so all you immigration bashers and fence pushers need to realize that even if drugs are available there is something fundementally wrong if your 11 year old WANTS to use them.
Second off, where are the parents? Between school and home there should be very little time where these kids go unsupervised, definatly not enough time to be introduced to heroin, make friends with a dealer, and learn to use it. Furthermore, heroin costs money, your an idiot if you don’t know where your 11 year olds allowance is going…
This is a problem with parenting and teaching your child morals. Don’t blame it on drug dealers, poor boarder control, or the lack of Jesus.

Posted by: D | December 5, 2006, 2:28 am 2:28 am

i grew up in texas during the early 1990s, and there was a huge heroin problem amongst young kids then as well, because dealers used these coy terms to refer to it, and children apparently didn’t know what they were ingesting.
in short, children in texas are stupid.
but i think it is a mistake to view this as indicative of broader social decay. even among children with no access to drugs, there is a common behavior known as ‘sensation seeking.’ kids try to get high before they know what getting high is, because there is a human inclination to do so.

Posted by: A | December 6, 2006, 1:12 am 1:12 am

Only in Texas

Posted by: Matt | December 6, 2006, 10:41 pm 10:41 pm

kids can buy drugs for cheap, dealers know they don’t have much money.
There’s another article on this web site, kids are using Robitussin cough medicine to get high and overdose. Anything can be abused.

Posted by: geena | December 6, 2006, 10:55 pm 10:55 pm

To the person who asked why the children are mixing heroin with Tylenol PM – my guess is they are diluting the affects of the mexican heroin so that they don’t OD.
Just a guess. I went to high school in Texas. I got the finest ecstasy and acid there. I think CA has better meth and pot though.
Also, I don’t do drugs any more and I graduated from a top college and I work in consulting – just because a “child” takes drugs it doesn’t necessarily mean he or she is a lost cause. Better to get folly out of his or her system while under your roof as opposed to out there on the streets.
Furthermore, I don’t think I would have done drugs as a “child” had life in my suburb not been so damned confined, structured and ultimately BORING. I certainly understand why they chose “cheese”. Society needs to think of better more creative alternatives to drugs. Maybe open Playstation3 clinics?

Posted by: Victor | December 7, 2006, 12:59 am 12:59 am

I think this and a lot of other problems can be fixed by preventative actions.
For all the money we spend detecting, policing, treatment, jails, rehab, etc, wouldn’t it be more expedient to spend the money adding more counseling to the school system and tracking our kids through their school career.
In an affluent society, schooling should be our most important job because in 12-16 years these children are set loose in society, some to swim and some to sink.
If we do a good job of educating them and counseling them, maybe the magnitude of the drug and antisocial problem will diminish. Everything that can be done to insure a child’s educational and psychological success should be being done, while a child in that structure environment of school..
In my humble opinion teachers should be held to a higher standard and every classroom should have two teachers. Both should hold at least a minor degree in psychology. A file and guidance plan can then follow that child up the ladder to graduation. When abnormalities are detected, they can be addressed. More money should be channeled to support such a notion.
Sure, traditionally this job has been done by the parents, but as stated so many times, parents cannot or in some cases, do not get enough time with their kids. Many times the kids know how to evade detection and parents are easily fooled because they want to see something that may not be there or is too elusive, to be detected.
I know it smacks of “Brave New World” mentality but maybe that’s what’s needed.
The teachers responsibilities would then be to achieve the highest level of learning while at the same time getting to know the children better. They would be trained to see the identifiable signs of drug abuse or anti social behavior and there could be ways developed to gently make the child aware of dangerous behavior while providing the appropriate steerage around these obstacles and dangerous or unhealthy behaviors.
What I am saying, is too spend our money in a more constructive manner rather than spend it on clean up.

Posted by: PJ | December 7, 2006, 10:27 am 10:27 am

“this is where women’s lib has gotten us?
PUHLEEZE do not tell me that if ‘mommy’ stayed home (and it would have to be mommmy right? even if she was more educated and earned more than daddy?) that these kinds of problems would simply go away. I agree that parents need to pay more attention to what thier kids are doing. It can however, be done, and is frequently done. I guess one of the good things about these stories is that they still shock us, which means these things are still relatively rare. This despite the ‘womens libbers’ who had the audacity to be anything other than cookie bakers… sheesh.

Posted by: Jenny | December 7, 2006, 1:37 pm 1:37 pm

This is why some parents are choosing to homeschool their children. Are we trying to protect our children until they are old and mature enough to make the right choices. Your damn right! No-one wants to see their children destroy themselves before your very eyes. What is wrong with society today where children can acess dangerous drugs.

Posted by: Lisa | December 7, 2006, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm

I don’t think that blaming parents and schools for this is going to work. We as a society have failed this new generation. When I was growing up my neighborhood watched out for us. We have lost that since of a village raising a child in conjuction with the parents and have become more concerned with which star is getting masrried and who they have slept with in the past. We have let TV raise our children and we as adults have not done a good job of parenting. I am a single mother who works a goes to collge and I find the time to spend with my girls and talk to them about society in the most honest way possible. So please explain to me why a couple can’t do the same thing? The that people blame each other instead of realizing that three fingers are pointing back at you, should realize that the world has changd drastically in the last 20 years and we as educators, family members, and citizens of the universe have done a extremely poor job of preparing our children for the future. So lets stop blaming and lets start doing. Forget the war on drugs because it did not and does not work! Lets try something new like intervention. I have children in my neighborhood that I tutor, take out on the weekends because their parents can’t. Every little bit counts.

Posted by: Tupee | December 8, 2006, 11:40 am 11:40 am

Some of you that are putting blame on the parents sound like you have had a lot of choices and opportunities. The majority of us have not been so fortunate to have a parent at home. What if both parents work long hours to put food on the table? What if the parents are sick or have other special needs children? Kids can get into trouble in a short amount of time, even in the 2-3 hour time span after school and before a parent gets home from work. I believe it always helps to walk in another person’s shoes and look at the situation from all angles.

Posted by: Alica | December 8, 2006, 4:20 pm 4:20 pm

I think what is going on is TOTALLY MIND BLOWING! Of course most of this is to blame on parents but yes, it is also true that we can’t keep an eye on our children all the time. I tried pot at 11 years old. If it wasn’t for my mother keeping an eye on me like a hawk (actually KNOWING WHERE I WAS AND WHO I WAS WITH)then who knows what i would be into. Kids are pressured everyday to be cool and in our society today, no one wants to be outcasted because when you are life is HELL! BELIEVE ME! I just turned 21 years old and i know how cruel adolescent life can be. Humanity is so out of control and there are just so many factors as to why kids turn to drugs. No one person will have the right answer or the solution to this epidemic. All you can really do is PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR KIDS AND PRAY. GOD BLESS YOU ALL

Posted by: Krystal | December 13, 2006, 9:56 pm 9:56 pm

This story is so sad. Correct me if I’m wrong but I miserably think we are sending more kids to heroin rehabs than to school. What’s happening now? How can we get this 14 year olds and younger out of their addiction? I read they have been detoxed several times but to no avail. There seems to be another way.
–loraine

Posted by: heroin rehab | March 27, 2007, 4:54 am 4:54 am

IT TAKES MUCH MORE THAN JUST BEING HOME. Parents have to be present. Effective parenting is a huge contributor that makes the difference between children experminting vs full blow addiction. On the outside my family looked normal. Million dollar home, at home Mom, hard working Dad. But really my mother was home but not interested in raising her kids. My father was a work a holic. They had three kids that ran wild. Yes, that was us. We had no supervison, no chores, no rules, no warmth, no love…My mother’s famous last words, “go play” “have a snack” “go watch tv.” She bought us anything we wanted in hopes it would keep us “out of her hair.” Well, i had two older brothers and being a girl they wouldn’t play with me. Living on an estate there were no neighborhood kids. I was very lonely. Dad came home tired and angry from a hard days work only to yell and critize us everynight. He beat us with belts sometimes. i was age five when i was raped by the man next door and nobody even noticed i was upset. I was molested many times between 5 and 11. At 11 i lost my virginity because i was so starved for attention I was over joyed when my brothers friend took a keen intrest in me. My brother turned me on to pot at 11 too. I soon started smoking pot and drinking with some older kids from school. ALL THIS WHILE MY MOTHER WAS HOME! By 15 both parents were having a affairs and it was no wonder i was home alone and now i was pregnent by a boyfriend who beat me. It only goes on to get worse. I got drug treatment at 25. Now i am 40, i have one child and i attend the University. I am close to having my BA with a 3.8 gpa. I take responsiblity for my actions. The fact is however, I had terrible parents who didnt have time or energy to nurture me, educate me, or protect me, EVEN THOUGH MY MOTHER WAS HOME!! By age 11 i RAN to the drugs to escape the pain of my childhood. So like someone else said, “…pay attention to your kids…tell them you love them and would do anything for them, play with them,take out to a movie even after a long day at work, play a board game, go fishing, play ball, do a craft, read a book, talk to them…” Catch them doing good and praise them. Know what they are doing, where they are going. Set limits, watch them test those limits, and make sure you stand strong, limits them feel you care enough to protect them. Teach them about concequesnces to thier behavior. YOU MAY BE HOME BUT ARE YOU PARENTING YOUR CHILDREN? IF YOUR NOT TEACHING YOUR KIDS ABOUT LIFE WHO KNOWS WHO IS.

Posted by: hawaiian snikers | June 7, 2007, 2:32 pm 2:32 pm

THIS “CHEESE” CRAP IS IN SAN DIEGO SCHOOLS NOW!!

Posted by: hawaiian snikers | June 7, 2007, 3:04 pm 3:04 pm

The Government should really do something about the drugs around this nation and other nations. All of this crime and murdering, drugs, and kidnapping needs to have a end to it. What if this stuff keeps growing and babies start getting addicted to stuff like this.

Posted by: Nene Anderson | June 7, 2007, 7:57 pm 7:57 pm

It shocks me that children these days are taking heroin. Clearly it is time for the parents to take some responsibility and shows their children that they don’t need narcotics to have fun. In my day all we needed was a paper bag and some rubber cement.

Posted by: Doug Colman | August 21, 2007, 1:41 pm 1:41 pm

i dont get the big hype, this has been going on for years, why are you all so shocked. your just hearing about it now. so, deal.

Posted by: danielle | October 8, 2007, 5:37 pm 5:37 pm

i really am quite shocked by this-when i was 11 (four years ago) i didn’t know anything about drugs or how to take them and mix them with things.
i don’t think there’s ever an easy answer to this kind of problem, though-i definitely don’t blame the lack of religious morals or single parents. the culture i grew up in is the older sibling of this one and i’d like to think that i had a relatively wholesome upbringing, even if it wasn’t a “conventional” family. i really do think that it’s not that the media is giving these images to children-after all, they’re the very people who report this. it’s your children wanting to expose themselves to the darker side of culture. did you ever put on makeup or try on a parent’s suit when you were a child? this is the adulterated version, if you will.

Posted by: francesca | October 19, 2007, 4:21 pm 4:21 pm

Kids do drugs for many reasons
A) Out of Curiosity because they are kids- they wanna know everything.
B) Society is corrupted and many are influenced by it.
C)Disfunctional parents, marriage, family, violence, poverty…has an negative impact to childrens because they are exposed to such things.
D)God is missing in their life, therefore, people will try or chase all-kind of things to fill their inner-self. Is their innocent search for wholeness. some tur to sex, drugs, gambling,fame, worldy success… to fill that void because they think these things will make them happy.

Posted by: Recovered Heroin Addict | December 9, 2007, 8:25 am 8:25 am

Look at everything that has been written.. what a lot of bull…every single person is to blame for this..how can we not be… we see it happening and we do nothing just go back and hide behind our curtains..just so we are not involved…if it doesnt affect us personally how can we be accountable for this problem…look around people its everywhere if we sit idly by it will continue to happen… but if we all in affect try to change what we can see is wrong…we can ultimately help towards stamping out this problem..it is a long and hard road to travel…dont expect help from the politicians those guys just keep lining their pockets with all of our misfortunes…stand up people against this rising enemy and we can all have a better place and hopefully a drug free world to live in…our kids are our future and if we let this enemy control their fate we will all be doomed….

Posted by: Santa | December 9, 2007, 5:43 pm 5:43 pm

hi my names kane i’ve seen alot of things in my life my parents are great people theyve always been theyre for me they tryed so hard to keep me from drugs but as i’ve read in this page its the pressure that gets you all your mates behind you talking about it and then they get it and before you know it your in it with them IT IS NOT THE PARENTS i repeat IT IS NOT THE PARENTS i am not hooked on heroine neither cocaine neither extacy or any hard drug i smoke weed that’s it i stayed clear of the hard drugs allthough im seeing quite alot of drugs around now and to be honest with you all it’s sad i still think that taking drugs is wrong even cannabis as i’ve read and heard it alters the chemical balance in the brain .. what im trying to say is this needs to stop and fast because otherwise the only thing you adults are going to be seeing when you are old are burnt out cars and people getting shot on your doorstep i don’t exactly know what to say or do about this but i still have the mind to make it stop ! STOP THE HARD DRUGS i feel cannabis is acceptable because as least i know i will never rob an old woman to get my shot or rob a pharmacie for morphine i feel so sad for all you parents that try so hard to protect your children i feel partly responsable even though i dont go no where near the hard stuff .. im still in the young society .. and this is the new world either get used to it .. or DO SOMTHING ABOUT IT .. FOR OUR SAKE !! PLEASE

Posted by: kane | December 18, 2007, 6:43 pm 6:43 pm

After reading all the comments…it is sad most of you have no clue. It is so easy to blame it on the parents but I have been there for my kids. I’m a Christian mother and I brought my kids up in church and they rebeled once they turned 15-18. They are not saved at this time but they know about Jesus. My children tried cheese and have been struggling with this drug addiction for a year now. It is very hard to kick because the withdrawals are very painful. Usually kids get frustrated and go look for a line so they can stop being sick. I love my children very much and will never give up on them. They were introduced to the drug when I moved to a neighborhood where most of the teenagers are using cheese. I didn’t know that my children would end up trying cheese and get hooked. I used to run a women’s rehab center for three years and I’m a survivor from cancer. It has been tough for me and my kids…who would have thought this would happen to my kids. It hurts and breaks my heart but I just keep dealing with them and believing God to deliver them and set them free.I believe it is a tactic from the devil to kill our youth; the next generation. Keep me and my kids in prayer…it’s so easy to judge when you really don’t know how this drug hurts families. Sincerely, Maribel

Posted by: Maribel | January 25, 2008, 3:07 pm 3:07 pm

This is a direct response to Maribels post, but also great insight on the this subject indeed.
Drugs do hurt families, but praying to this God of yours isn’t going to stop their drug addictions. heroin is the real deal, it literally stops the brain from realising a very needed chemical that relieves pain and without it, causes it.
Heroin takes the place of this chemical and when the person doesn’t have it, it hurts them, no God is going to prevent this. Praying for your children is no way to raise them, or solve their problems, what you SHOULD do is move to a remote location and homeschool them/rehab them, that way you know they can’t go get this drug, and they probably won’t leave your sight.
That goes for all of you parents who think letting go of the responsibilities of being a parent and letting your God control them is going to fix the problems, you’re dead wrong. This isn’t a post against religion, it’s information about how ineffective it is in solving your childs Heroin addiction(probably the most addictive drug in the world.).

Posted by: Michael P. | March 25, 2008, 10:39 pm 10:39 pm

Well, i do believe that parents should have some responsibilty for this… but not all of it. While your children are at school, you expect that the adminstartion is protecting them.If most of these children, because thats what they are, are getting the drugs from school. Tylenol PMS are common in most households at least in mine so to but the blame all on the parents is absurd. Secondly, it being God’s will is a bunch of bull in all honesty, why would God start with young children to began the end of the world, maybe your God, but not mine.

Posted by: Shamika W. | September 9, 2008, 7:03 pm 7:03 pm

I am so in shock, reading some of the replies on this site. Raising a child is the responsibility of the community. Parents must stop making excuses. I am a military mom, so my hours are very long. I spend 3 hours a day with my children during the week between making and eating dinner and showers we really get about 45 minutes a day to talk. However you must also utilize the weekends. Once you become a parent your “life” should STOP. The lack of family togetherness is tearing this country apart. The majority of parents don’t even know what to give their children for a birthday present, much less what kind of activities are taking place on the playground or in school. Drugs are like a virus, they will find your child at some point in life. Teachers, develope your roll in the class room. Your job is to educate, this is understood, but you are also a role model and have the potential to be a confidant. Do not simply dismiss our children because counseling is not in your job description. The law enforcement in many areas truly are doing all they can. More and more, people are refusing to go into LE due to the attitude that they cannot make a difference. So the force is undermanned. Community watch, parents and after school programs will help to deter the issues the youth are facing today. God does have a plan, and whatever that plan may be will come to pass at it’s given time. Pray for the future and protect the present. All adults must know that it is our responsibility to shape the future. Many activists for a greener Earth, we must also act on a healthier young generation.

Posted by: Malina V | October 9, 2008, 9:43 am 9:43 am

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