Stereotypes
Great article in New York Mag about the two female stereotypes we managed to perpetuate on the campaign trail this year. "The bitch, and the ditz." (I hope I’m allowed to write that on an ABC website!) Anyhow–it is absolutely true that the public, the media–everyone–still seems to feel the need to put women in a box–to categorize them. Unfortunately, there are far too few categories. Those two about sum it up. Hillary obviously played the first–having been advised early on she’d better be tough–it seemed the best move. Only after New Hampshire did we see a warmer side. But by then it was just too late–or maybe it was simply too many dimensions for the public to cope with. Sarah Palin for a few days seemed ready to shatter the two box rule–she was the gal who has it all. A tough-talking brainy babe with 5 cheerful cherubs at her side, and a cute husband to boot! There was only one place to go. Down. And she fell fast into that other category–aided–it must be said–by her own performance.
Still–am I the only woman who may be bothered about many of her answers, or lack of them, but who could care less about the designer clothes kerfuffle, and who thinks it a bit unseemly for the very McCain handlers who built her up to now rip her down publicly?
The public and media have been eager to put Michelle Obama into box number one–all that no-nonsense talk–heavens–who does she think she is?
But she may yet defy the stereotypes if she really manages to become a Princeton and Harvard educated Mom-in-Chief, who puts a spotlight on the issues so many women are struggling with–trying to balance work and family, and hoard a little sanity for ourselves at the same time.

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We’ve all been “labeled” this way. You know very well that Hillary and Sarah are not what they were stereotyped to be but participated in the “witch-hunt”. We allow this to happen when we disagree with a person’s political view. . .shame on us. You see this vindictive rhetoric still from people who have no personal knowledge of these individuals. Its encouraged by the press and the internet. This 55% minority. . .the female gender is still a minority when it comes to politics and respect from both the press and the public.
Posted by: margaret | November 19, 2008, 3:03 pm 3:03 pm
Seems to me that women are usually women’s worst enemies. It was women that first labeled Hillary a bitch and it was women who first questioned Palin intelligence.
I’ve noticed that women seem much harder on others of their own sex than they are of men.
Posted by: JR | November 19, 2008, 3:20 pm 3:20 pm
At it again ladies…perpetrating these offenses against women with your petty writings.
Posted by: samhiguchi | November 19, 2008, 3:36 pm 3:36 pm
The treatment of these two exceptional (albiet very different) women still bothers me a lot. The sexism on display daily by the media makees my head spin. The only thing that bothers me more, is the lack of support they received from other women! We should be ashamed. How can we expect equal treatment by men, when we don’t exhibit it ourselves!
Posted by: Beth | November 19, 2008, 3:46 pm 3:46 pm
Okay, Claire and Katty, Hillary, for one, lost because of her huge gaffe during the primaries on the illegal aliens having driver licenses. She and Elliot Spitzer’s concurrance on this just put the first nail in the coffin. Next, she has TOO much water under the bridge (Whitewater,travelgate/Rose law firm lost files/Chinagate/Monicagate) and too many skeletons in her closet, in fact, she needs more than one. Third, bless his little cheater’s heart, no one can shut up Bill Clinton. He knew a con man when he saw one. He just can’t keep himself out of the spotlight. Then came the Sniper fire in Bosnia comment. OUCH! That one hurt. Everyone knew she lies, but it just stood out like a sore thumb! The SC primary (race statement) was another nail. Fourth, they managed money wrong believing that once Super Tuesday came, she would have it. OOPS! So, if one can’t manage a campaign and we know people were not paid, think of how she would run the country. She was toast. Fifth, and probably the most important, the media fell in love with Obama. And we all know, once you fall hard, it’s hard to see realty. Now, Sarah Palin. First, she was NOT on the short list….by the media. The MSM doesn’t like surprises. Second, she was vetted, unlike Obama, she had governed a town and a state. So, in essence, she made Obama look bad. She had gone against her own party, unlike Obama who hadn’t. Second, she made a great speech at the convention and overshadowed the “annointed one” which ticked off many journalists. Third, Sarah should have been Sarah, not what the McCain camp wanted her to be. Fourth, we KNOW Palin reads, just not what the Media wants her to read. And WHY is it anyone’s business? She DOES have a job you know and IS quite busy. Fifth, the MSM wanted her downfall like wolves seeing meat. Sixth, Sarah Palin didn’t go to an Ivy league school like the snotty leftists did, so she wasn’t a part of the “in” crowd. And last, she was a pro-life christian woman executive who could use a gun! GASP! oh, the horror! Multiple sins viewed by the left. Oh, I almost forgot…she wore a skirt. The ANSWER: Jealousy….an attractive woman with 5 kids, a christian, pro-life, gun owning, small business owner, mayor, gas and oil commissioner and governor of a state. She was one of us. The left HAD to bring her down. She was a threat to them. Period.
Posted by: justrighttoo | November 19, 2008, 3:54 pm 3:54 pm
You wrote Palin was “A tough-talking brainy babe”. Well, not exactly. I rescpectfully submit she did come off as a ditz. Just like Dan Quayle.
Let’s not tag every criticism of a woman as “stereotyping”. For Palin, as you stated in your writing, it was earned.
Posted by: James | November 19, 2008, 4:03 pm 4:03 pm
I think you are making this worse than it is. Everyone running for president/vp is under the magnifying glass. The slightest behavior different from normal is caricaturized.
Hillary’s national stereotype of “bitch” was created by the republicans during Bill’s time as president. She will never shake it. Bill was a “waffler”, “slick Willie”, etc.
Sarah… well I’m sorry but if the shoe fits… Most of us didn’t know Sarah but got a strong positive impression from her convention speech. But once she started talking in interviews, many of us felt almost betrayed. We found out the real, unscripted person was very different than what we first thought. “Ditz” is the best stereotype to fit her behavior and the nicer, kinder of the ones I have heard.
Obama is the “smooth talker” inferring that’s all there is to him. Of course there were racial and muslim stereotypes that I’m not going to repeat. I think those are much worse than negative female stereotypes.
McCain is the “old man”, “war hero”, “maverick”, “McSame”, etc. He oddly has many good ones and many bad ones but none that are too negative that I know about.
Biden… the “gaffer”.
I guess my point is – the stereotypes could have been worse and it happens to all candidates. Would you be happier if one woman was the “frumpy dresser” and the other was “intellectually deficient”?
Posted by: kbib | November 19, 2008, 4:24 pm 4:24 pm
justrighttoo, you sound bitter… like someone still stinging from the election results. You, no doubt, have been as happy as a pig with lipstick in mud(stereotype, sorry) over the past 8 years and have anxiety about the bath you are about to get. Take a deep breath and relax. It won’t be as bad as you think, no matter how much you want it to be bad.
Glad you wrote. I enjoy reading the “angry conservative” (stereotype again, sorry) viewpoint now and then.
Posted by: kbib | November 19, 2008, 4:42 pm 4:42 pm
Clinton has her arrogant side. That is not a trait exclusively tied to women by any means. In the republican primaries, one of their candidates stood out very strongly in this regard, Romney. He almost makes Clinton look humble. When men exhibit arrogance, they are referred to as a-holes, a much less complementary term than bitch.
Palin applied the dictionary meaning of the term to herself with her pitbull comment.
Palin comes off as willfully ignorant (a lot like Bush). That is nothing like the “ditz” stereotype.
Posted by: TimZ | November 20, 2008, 8:17 pm 8:17 pm
Stereotypes are often based on truths. Besides, some candidates force them on themselves. Take Palin, for example:
http://www.entertonement.com/clips/19876/Sarah-Palin/Politics/John-McCain%27s-Running-Mate/Very-funny
Posted by: Coot | December 6, 2008, 10:12 pm 10:12 pm