Not All Kids Are Heartless Punks
ABC’s Stu Schutzman from New York:
"Not All Kids Are Heartless Punks" said one headline. "Out Of Tragedy, Sportsmanship Has A Shining Moment" said another. Think about some of the sports headlines in just the last few weeks; mega-millionaire baseball star cheats; girls basketball team rubs opponents face in 100-0 thrashing and consider what happened recently at a Mid Western High School basketball game — Milwaukee Madison vs DeKalb of Illinois.
Madison senior Johntell Franklin wasn’t at the game. Instead, he was at the hospital spending the last few moments with his mother as she died of cancer. His coach had offered to forfeit the game, Franklin said no, go ahead and play. And then early in the 2nd quarter, to a chorus of cheers and tears, Johntell Franklin showed up. Even the other team cheered. "I wanted to go and support my team," he told the Milwaukee Journal Sentinel. "I’m a captain. I set an example." In fact, everyone involved in this game "set an example."
Franklin was extremely moved by the reception: "…on a hard day, that’s a nice feeling to have." But, the 6 foot 2 forward told the Journal he came to play, maybe to win one for his mom. "I’m a competitor. I can’t just sit there and watch."
And play he did, but here’s the rub. His coach never listed him on the active roster that night; never expected him to be there. That’s a violation of the rules and an automatic technical foul. Amazingly, it was the opposing coach who protested the penalty. "We argued," said Dekalb coach Dave Rohlman, "but the referees said those were the rules, even if there were extenuating circumstances."
What happened next stunned everyone in the gym. Dekalb junior guard Darius McNeal volunteered to take the 2 penalty free throws. He stepped to the foul line and proceeded to roll the ball twice on the floor purposely missing both shots. The crowd erupted in a standing ovation. "I did it for the guy who lost his mom," he told the Journal."It was the right thing to do."
Madison ultimately won the game, but Madison coach Aaron Womack was so moved by the gesture he sent a letter to the local DeKalb county paper:
"As a principal, school, school staff and community," he wrote. "You should all feel immense pride for the remarkable job that the coaching staff is doing in not only coaching these young men, but teaching them how to be leaders."
The losing coach says it was a lesson in sportsmanship his kids won’t forget anytime soon. Unfortunately that’s a lesson that too many athletes never learn.

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This story is too sweet for words.
Posted by: AnnasNammy | February 18, 2009, 12:37 pm 12:37 pm
This is what life is about. Supporting each other. A basketball win in life is a great feeling, but what these kids did, and their coach, is a lesson for all of us! It is only a game.
Not to toot my childrens schools own horn, but our varisty basketball coach spoke these words last week before a game;”What a crowd, our own fans are outnumbered by you, the visiting team.” And then he said, “Let’s all remember it is only a basketball game. We are not solving world hunger.”
How true his words were!
Congratulations to the winning & the LOSING team. The love and support you showed will stay with these young men LONGER THAN A WIN at a basketball game.
Kudos to all of you!
Posted by: Mary Beth | February 18, 2009, 1:43 pm 1:43 pm
It restores faith in the world today, to see that our young people are still able to show compassion to one another.
Posted by: LB Lawhon | February 18, 2009, 1:47 pm 1:47 pm
It restores faith in the world today, to see that our young people are still able to show compassion to one another.
Posted by: LB Lawhon | February 18, 2009, 1:47 pm 1:47 pm
This story gave me goosebumps. What high caliber young people these two schools are privileged to have.
Posted by: Lisa | February 18, 2009, 5:12 pm 5:12 pm
As a active volunteer in our small midwestern community, I see a lot of parents dismally FAILING in caring for their children, much less teaching empathy and caring. It is extremely frustrating to have to rely on the school system to provide lessons such as this, but at this point, they are our only hope to show these neglected kids what they can become. I will send this article to some of the teachers and coaches and hope that they can instill this same kindness to the people in our community.
Posted by: JoyG | February 18, 2009, 5:47 pm 5:47 pm
I just watched about this on TV. That is why I love this network, good stories that give us all hope in this crazy world we live in. I just wept, this touched me so much. For this young man who loved his mother so much, and his team wanting to play. Wow…and then the DeKalb coach teaching the players a lesson they will never forget. That how you play the game is the most important, not the winning! I really applaud everyone involved with this, the schools, the coaches, the players. These schools sports teams are being taught the right thing. God Bless them always!
Posted by: Ellen | February 20, 2009, 7:20 pm 7:20 pm
This is just another reason I am proud to be from DeKalb. Between this and the way the community rallied together a year ago after the shooting at NIU, it is a wonderful place to call home. Way to go, to both teams involved in this game!
Posted by: Laura | February 20, 2009, 8:38 pm 8:38 pm
I am touched by this wonderful story! What an inspiration to us all! When all is said and done, we’re really ALL on the same team!!! Thank you to DeKalb and Madison for the reminder.
Posted by: Sue | February 21, 2009, 11:33 am 11:33 am
Both DeKalb and Madison of Milwaukee are to be credited. Clearly these players and coaches have their priorities right. Families first, sportsmanship second, and fairness to all.
Fantastic story that warms one’s heart.
Posted by: PJ | February 21, 2009, 9:35 pm 9:35 pm
Yes, this is a good sportsmanship story, but I think that any coach with a brain would have done the same thing. Now maybe my beliefs are because I’m from Sycamore (Dekalbs biggest rival) or maybe because I am correct.
Posted by: Puzzled | February 22, 2009, 10:49 am 10:49 am
One of the best stories I have heard in a long time coming from the media. How encouraging to know that there are leaders challening our young people to do what is right not just what is easy to do.
Posted by: Bill McGinnis | February 22, 2009, 10:00 pm 10:00 pm
The head coach of DeKalb is my brother and I am so proud of him and his team. Sadly to say, not many coaches these days would do the same thing. Just goes to show what a class act DeKalb High School is.
Posted by: Amy | February 23, 2009, 1:54 pm 1:54 pm