In my future career and business I will help to enable possible victims to take the power into their own hands. Because that is what it takes.
We live in times where divorces and other family matters can quickly turn deadly.

I myself have learned that lesson a while ago and have long suspected my ex husband of sharing vital information with several criminals that have attempted to make me disappear as well.
My divorcing that bastard apparently caused him to also join sides with additional criminals. Long suspected, so I moved into a phase that every victim needs to move into: 1. collect as much info as you can. 2. Prepare a report in which you collect all information, as well as suspected people that have joined forces to hurt you. 3. Create a huge paper trail, meaning you have to write on your computer, post on Internet sources, open your own website if possible, send text messages and name the suspected criminals. Information can be read off your computer. Text messages are also a vital form of evidence. Even if the recipient were to delete a text message, this message will still show on your phone = evidence. This is something no criminal can escape: the more paper trails you create the better you will be off. And you will know that the guilty ones will be caught.

It will be a pleasure to empower victims because with my background and education I will help victims, future and present to see the light and help themselves. It will be a tough job, but a very rewarding job. I am looking forward to help other people who have met such criminals and it will be a very serious goal of mine to enable victims to fight criminals with weapons other than guns. Those weapons can be much more effective.

A long time ago when I created a paper trail against other criminals I was successful in getting rid of the offenders and this is a lesson that I will enjoy teaching other victims as well.

Victims are not powerless, they just need to learn the right techniques.

With naming several criminals that have attempted to invade my life I have also added my ex on this list. Remember, if you are a victim all the names that you can manage to collect will be studied by police and every name that those people come across, coworkers, family friends, family members, everyone that these people will know will come into connection with a crime.

Like I said, it will be sooooo much fun to show victims how record collecting has to work in order to bring criminals behind bars.

I have also learned the many lessons of impostors that claim that criminal acts have happened to them in a desperate attempt to get attention.

A long time ago I talked to a female stalker. Only at that time I did not know she was a stalker. She claimed that another employee had stalked her and that he had to be scheduled different times to work because of that. Lesson: a stalker will invent the very same stories than the victim will. This female stalker went around with a smile on her face and claimed that that male “asked questions about her”. That same stalker hired her own mother as a contributor, when in fact I figured out that all that happened was pretty much a phase in which the proclaimed stalker was in fact a regular person.

I had another female that also claimed to be the victim of a stalker, with a smile claiming that someone sent her text messages that they were to harm her. Again, an impostor, anyone can send text messages and desperate people will attempt to gain attention with such lame tactics.

I have learned the differences between desperate females who can never find ground to stand on and as a last desperate measure try to fake such crimes against them and real victims that are usually to afraid to share such details until they meet a person that can really help them.

Lessons: people that walk around all day, present themselves and tell everyone who is interested in them and who is stalking them, and who wants to get close are the fake victims.

Real victims are in shock, they will protest but usually do not know who to share such information with. Real victims never parade around with a phone in their hands and showing text messages from proclaimed criminals.

Yep, sure have learned a lot of lessons. I have also seen criminals in court houses who whipped up some tears real quick to get their way with judges, lawyers, and other criminal justice professionals. And sometimes that even works. Have witnessed a dumb broad who began crying when a female jail bird presented some made up story about her victimization. (She had just gotten an out from jail that very same day and tried to save face) I have witnessed also criminals who were whipped into shape very quickly by professional attorneys who know exactly how to set a criminal like that in their place.

When you are a criminal justice professional you need to be able to tell the sheep from the wolves. I am continuing to learn about all of these and all of this knowledge will benefit the ones that really need that kind of help.

Thank God they put them in jail a little bit late is not?