By Pam Robinson

Nov 18, 2008 8:52am

Gay Killing Shocks Police Chief

ABC News On Campus reporter Jason Tarr blogs:

“There was no previous argument between these individuals, there was no previous fight, there was no bad blood.  Our suspect took a rifle and shot and killed this person, also wounding his brother, for the sole reason he didn’t care for the sexual preference of our victim. Isn’t that sad? Isn’t that a sad situation that that’s the sole reason why?”

Police Chief Gary Miguel was just as shocked as many people in the city of Syracuse.  Miguel spoke with reporters from the Syracuse Post-Standard on Sunday.  Less than 24 hours after a same-sex marriage rally in Syracuse on Saturday, the city saw a possible hate crime against a gay man.

Police say that 20-year-old Dwight DeLee shot and killed Moses “Teish” Cannon with a .22-cal. rifle because he didn’t like that Cannon was openly gay.  Cannon and his brother were sitting in a parked car outside of a party they had been invited to when DeLee fired the shots.

You can find video and a timeline of events on the WSYR9 website.

Cannon’s family was adamant that the murder should be treated as a hate crime but Miguel told the Syracuse Post-Standard that that decision is up to the district attorney’s office.    

Police say they arrested DeLee at his home in Liverpool, N.Y., early Sunday morning.

Reaction on the Post-Standard’s website ranged from solemn messages of condolences to angry demands for justice.

A user with the name “teachforsun” sparked a particularly in-depth discussion on the message board with this comment:

“I’m so sorry for this truly horrific tragedy! My heart and soul goes out to the family. Every teacher should change their lesson plans for tomorrow. For that matter every parent should be having a discussion with their children! Wake up America!”

User Comments

One wonders how many Mormons and African Americans will be howling for this to be treated as a hate crime? My guess-none. Having mutually conspired to deprive our fellow gay americans of their right to marry, many of them will say to themselves (and alone amongst each other) “That what happens when you choose to live that lifestyle”
Now I ask you to ask yourselves-who would choose to live a life that contains so much risk and supposed divine condemnation. Doesn’t that sound as silly as the old justification “Slavery is ordained by God-it’s in the Bible” By the way, it is in the Bible!!! But that doesn’t make it right…oh my goodness,that must mean the Bible is wrong…oops!

Posted by: Michael ONeal | November 18, 2008, 9:29 am 9:29 am

You see things the way you want to see them, not the way they really are.

Posted by: someone who is lds | November 18, 2008, 9:43 am 9:43 am

This goes beyond ‘sad’, don’t you think? I think it’s horrific. When people feel free to kill others because they don’t like them…. (or their lifestyle or their haircuts, or their religion, or their skin color…) our society takes a hit as a whole. Yes, it IS a hate crime – and the District Attorney better see it as one.

Posted by: paintpaintpaint | November 18, 2008, 9:44 am 9:44 am

Crimes like this are encouraged when hate laws like Prop 8 are passed. What do you expect when you institutional hate through legislation?

Posted by: dem in chicago | November 18, 2008, 9:49 am 9:49 am

I had an African American colleague tell me the other day that “gays got what they deserved” in the Prop. 8 battle because “they ran a poor campaign and didn’t reach out to the black community.” She went on to say that blacks don’t care one way or the other about gay marriage and they simply went with the side that reached out to them…the Yes on 8 people. I sat there in shock as I listened to this, too dumbfounded to say much of anything other than “no one DESERVES to have their rights taken away.” I have seen much homophobia from the black community and I hope it is something Obama will speak to. It is really ugly, especially from a group that has received so much political support from the gay community.

Posted by: cathy | November 18, 2008, 9:49 am 9:49 am

Can a whole movement be blamed on two groups of people? What about the Jews, Hispanics, Asians and Muslims, Catholics, Protestants who voted to ban same sex marriage? Last time I was in California, it was made up of more then Mormons and African Americans. The question is; does the institution of marriage require laws to govern that institution? If the answer is YES, then one must define EXACTLY what a marriage is. A marriage has always been between one man and one woman. And in California, majority of the people agree.
How can you make something equal that is inherently unequal? Last time I checked An Apple and a Banana don’t equal two bananas. Nor do two apples equal an Apple and a banana. Get over yourselves you lost. If you want to marry someone get married like everyone else does. Marry one person of the opposite sex. If you don’t want to do that, fine don’t get married. But when you make that choice, don’t try to shove down America’s throat that your “relationship” is a marriage.
With that said I do not what to see anyone die for their beliefs and I do believe this is a hate crime and should be treated by the DA as such. The death penalty should be on the table for this poor excuse of a human being.

Posted by: Carolynn Rust | November 18, 2008, 10:34 am 10:34 am

I still have not found in the constitution where gay marrage is a right. For hundreds of years marrage has been between a man and a woman. Why should we change that for a very small percent of the US. Marrage is a way for them to justify what they know is wrong.

Posted by: dsimms | November 18, 2008, 10:41 am 10:41 am

What a putrid story. This is shameful. Shameful.

Posted by: Kevin | November 18, 2008, 10:47 am 10:47 am

For many years, marriage between people of different races was not legal. Now, that concept seems barabaric and hateful. Just because something has been done a particular way for a long time doesn’t make it right. Marriage is a civil institution that provides crucial legal protections for partners and families. Gay people work, pay taxes, participate in the economy and deserve the same legal protections as heterosexuals. I have yet to hear a heterosexual make a sound argument as to how gay marriage would negatively affect them or their lives?

Posted by: carl | November 18, 2008, 10:54 am 10:54 am

Obama’s campaign against gays seems to working
(for those who don’t know,,, obama toured the south with minister who claim he was once gay, but then was cured)

Posted by: Macholti | November 18, 2008, 10:55 am 10:55 am

Marriage is historically between a man and a woman. It is not democratic for the gay minority to impose its views on everyone else. The people of California have spoken at the ballot. Deal with it.
Hate Crimes are a fiction also. The killer here should be prosecuted of course. But calling something a “hate” crime simply gives undue extra rights to a minority. Every crime should have equal consequences for all people.

Posted by: Jay | November 18, 2008, 10:57 am 10:57 am

Carolynn Rust….Well said. I totally agree with you.
Cathy…the black community is more accepting and tolerant of gays than you think. Black communities tolerate far more than these self righteous white communities who are quick to throw the Bible at someone who does not believe what they believe. And Yes, it is a hate crime! I truly feel that marriage is and should be between a man and a woman…that is my right to feel that way. But what someone else chooses to do with their lives is none of my business. I have not heaven or hell to put them in. On the day of judgement I will be in line just like they will be and it is not my call but God. I don’t have to accept what they do, but I can tolerate what they do. They are still human, they still have feeling, they still hurt.

Posted by: Bobbi | November 18, 2008, 11:01 am 11:01 am

dsimms;
Nowhere in the constitution is the Heterosexual right to marry either. Why change the way things have always been? Well lets see now:
Kings had absolute control over peoples lives with no concept of ind. rights or the ability to vote for leaders-but it was wrong so we changed that.
Slavery was common throughout the world-but it was wrong so we changed that.
People used to be bled when they were sick-but it was wrong so we changed that.
Get it?

Posted by: Michael ONeal | November 18, 2008, 11:01 am 11:01 am

Murder is a the worse crime, It always should be treated as such. only self defense should be given deals when it comes to murder.
A person commiting Murder is a hate crime against the human race. No excuses change that.
A group or gang committing murder Should be the most server hate crime on the human race.

Posted by: seah | November 18, 2008, 11:02 am 11:02 am

no i donot agree with you that this should be taught in school or anywhere else. I feel for the victim and for his family after all a human life was taken. But his lifestyle is not acceptable to all people. It is against the laws of God. It is a sickness that is invading the land and people had better wake up. This sick puppy that claims he is a man and he had a baby. He still had his female organs that is why he got pregnant. God did not make any mistakes he made us male and female and all of this is just a sick mind and a diviate mind.

Posted by: maddie | November 18, 2008, 11:07 am 11:07 am

“I still have not found in the constitution where gay marrage is a right. For hundreds of years marrage has been between a man and a woman. Why should we change that for a very small percent of the US. Marrage is a way for them to justify what they know is wrong.”
I still haven’t found the part in the constitution where straight marriage is a right. Some things are spelled out elsewehere in the constitution. They didn’t spell everything out for every simpleton that lives. Besides, I really doubt you have ever even looked at a copy of the constitution!! Just keep repeating what you hear others say, right or wrong!!

Posted by: Tom | November 18, 2008, 11:07 am 11:07 am

I am mormon and I think that this is awful Michael O’Neal. If things happened the way that the story said (and they probably did) than this is definitely a hate crime and should be treated as such. No one should be punished for their beliefs. The reason that Latter Day Saints (Mormons) are against allowing gay marriage is because it takes away our right to believe that marriage is union between man and wife. When you change the definition, all of a sudden what we believe is wrong as far as the government is concerned. Our church doesn’t want to be forced to marry same sex couples. I know you believe that they won’t, but it has already happened in Sweeden where same sex marriages are legal. We have rights too, and we don’t want to lose them. I am not against Domestic Partnerships or Civil Unions. I believe that same sex couples deserve everything that heterosexual couples have like tax breaks, hospital visitation rights, ect. No one should be persecuted for their beliefs. But we should still be allowed to believe even if it is different from others. I still view civil unions just as legit as a marriage. People should be happy and if that means with someone of the same sex, who am I to condemn them. I just don’t want to lose my rights in believing that marriage is between a man and a woman and I don’t want my church to be forced to perform gay and lesbian marriages.

Posted by: Erin | November 18, 2008, 11:18 am 11:18 am

Gosh these hate crimes are so despicable, and the full weight of the law must be applied. I think too that by targeting ethnic groups based on how they voted is wrong. Its a right that is given in the constitution, instead of demonizing groups just keep putting forward a postive case about why the issue of gay marriage is important to society.

Posted by: Donna | November 18, 2008, 11:27 am 11:27 am

Michael ONeal-All that you said are true but what do they have to do with trying to change something that is lagetimate and has been so since Adam and Eve. Nowhere in the animal kingdom do animals of the same sex live togther forever except man. Sex is not on earth for the sole pleasue of man. It is here so the population of earth would grow. How can people of the same sex make that happen, thye can’t without the help of the opposite sex.
Gays want to call it marrage to legitimize their beliefs. A civil union serves the same purpose as marrage. When same sex couples can have babies with the help of the other sex then I will support same sex marrage.

Posted by: dsimms | November 18, 2008, 11:40 am 11:40 am

Lets see: slavery used to be legal, banning interracial marriage used to be legal, a wife being a husband’s “property” used to be legal….that’s the way it always was so why change it? What an idiotic argument. If society never changed and evolved we’d still be living with these things and worse. And I think the reason so many gays are outraged that 75% of black voters in CA went against Prop. 8 is because this is a group who should understand the need for civil rights as much as anyone and also a group that has always had a political friend in the gay community. Mormons also have their own complicated history with marriage. Ironic that these two groups were among the ones who voted most strongly to ban gay marriage.

Posted by: sean | November 18, 2008, 11:46 am 11:46 am

I think person who shot the gay is wrong, I also think people bashing mormons should stop. I don’t believe the killer was mormon either. I think the ‘law writers’ need to go back to the books and re-write civil laws are revelant to help everyone – the reason gays are even trying to re-define marriage in the first place. Sort of like abortion. Today world has ways to help women who get pregnant and find suitable parents for the child too if mother is teenager. Abortion came from an era where a lot was wrong with way society managed, punished, what have you. This is 2008, no women is going to jail if she gets pregnant, etc. ….

Posted by: some who is lds | November 18, 2008, 12:08 pm 12:08 pm

Gay marriage has nothing to do with civil rights. Equal treatment of a same sex partner as a married spouse is civil rights.
Government is legitimized by the rule of law. Just because homosexuals yell loudly does not make their cause a reason to legislate laws which demean the natural order.

Posted by: Jay | November 18, 2008, 12:11 pm 12:11 pm

What does the above comment even mean, Jay? It makes no sense.

Posted by: carl | November 18, 2008, 1:05 pm 1:05 pm

The tradition of marriage in European cultures as a formal union recognized by the church (and by extension, the state) dates back only two to three hundred years. Before that time, only unions between nobles were recongnized by the church. Commoners could marry simply by declaring that they were married (such “common law”marriages are still legally recognized).
The Roman Empire had a form of marriage, and this was available for same-sex couples. Although same-sex marriages were rare, they were common enough for the Church, when it came to power, to force an Imperial ban on the practice.
So the “traditional” definition of marriage is exclusively a religious tradition, as defined by one particular religion. It is not an unalterable law of nature, but it very clearly IS a violation of the separation of church and state.
This is peripheral to the point at hand, which is that it is repugnant to murder a person on the basis of orientation. But I get terribly weary of people with no grasp of history trying to cite it to justify their own phobias.
In no U.S. state where same-sex marriage has been legalized is there any requirement or serious effort to force churches whose beliefs preclude such unions to perform them, any more than there has been any effort to integrate white-supremicist churches. There are plenty of churches and faiths who are more than happy to perform same-sex unions.

Posted by: Yukon Sam | November 18, 2008, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm

My comment has two parts. The first is that civil rights is about equal treatment for “rights”. There is no inherent right in two people of the same sex to be married. If a same sex couple wants to commeorate their relationship in a civil union, that is fine but it not marriage. If they enjoy the same protections and benefits this way, I am for it.
Loud mouth protestors do not make law in this country. The majority of people in California have voted to prohibit gay marriage. That’s the end of it. The judiciary has no authority ot overturn the will of the majority of California voters on a referendum like this.
Gay marriage is against the natural order of things in that marriage is between two members of the opposite sexes only. Two sexes having sexual relations is necessary for maintaining the human race. If two people do it differently, that is their perogative, but society does not have to incorporate a celebration of this lifestyle into its laws.

Posted by: Jay | November 18, 2008, 4:01 pm 4:01 pm

The judiciary has every right to overturn a discriminatory law. It is one of the most important functions of the judicial branch to check the excesses of the legislative (or in this case, the referendum process acting in lieu of the legislature).
The most important function of the state (in some views its ONLY legitimate function) is to protect the rights of the individual — quite especially when the individual is in the minority.
And as for the natural order, not every member of a species has to breed in order for the species to continue. In a social species in particular, kinship selection gives a competitive advantage to social groups that include members who contribute to the common pool of resources, but who do not have offspring to consume those resources. That may be one reason why homosexual behavior (and even pair bonding) is documented in such a surprisingly wide array of species.

Posted by: Yukon Sam | November 18, 2008, 5:27 pm 5:27 pm

Marriage is a word with a definition, a union between a man and a woman. Period, that is it. If same sex couples want to celebrate their love in the same way as heterosexual couples than do it under the name civil unions. Why is that a problem as long as they have all of the same rights. Churches won’t be forced today or tomorrow to perform same sex marriages but in ten years I guarantee they will be. People are always pushing an agenda. It has happened in Sweeden so don’t say it won’t eventually happen here. I personally don’t understand why calling a same sex union marriage is so important to same sex couples. I am open to finding out though, so why doesn’t someone explain it, what is wrong with calling it a civil union?

Posted by: Erin | November 18, 2008, 5:43 pm 5:43 pm

this happened because of everybody shoving the gay agenda down everyones throat…….. some people think that being gay is unnatural behavior and you can’t change that. More than 70% of americans think being gay is immoral…. oh and by the way I’m a bi-se@#ul so you can’t say I have homophobia

Posted by: Bill | November 18, 2008, 7:08 pm 7:08 pm

For all those who post about the value of Civil Unions…go get one. It won’t be recognized for dozens of things married couples get. Just like apartheid and “seperate but equal” it is a system designed to give less… period. I keeping reading about gays ‘shoving their lifestyle’ down the throats of people (homphobia can be very internalized by bi and even gays). I have a good memory, I clearly remember this arguement about mixed race couples too, showing ‘disgusting’ affection in public. It was the early 70′s when I was a mere child. The more things change…the more bigots stay the same!
Ps. Betcha your church wouldn’t dare deny access to a mixed race couple marrying today, where in the old days ‘a good old lynchin’waited any black man who even looked at a white woman!

Posted by: Michael ONeal | November 18, 2008, 9:23 pm 9:23 pm

Syracuse Police Chief Gary W. Miguel is a child abuser and gay-basher and beats kids over the head until they are soaked in blood and not breathing. I know because he did it to me back in the 70s. I am not a liar, Gary is. He continues to harass my friends and I am very worried about my family. Gary is very brutal, violent and evil.
Please pray for me.

Posted by: Adrian Salsgiver | November 18, 2008, 10:20 pm 10:20 pm

I can’t speak to the “gay agenda”. I have a personal agenda, and it’s rather straightforward; to seek equal treatment for all people, even people different than myself.
Different groups define marriage in different ways. That’s fine. If your denomination doesn’t believe a same-sex marriage is a “real” marriage, then the church can choose to enforce that restriction on its members and the members can choose whether to remain with the church or leave.
But no group has the right to say, “Our definition is the only correct definition for everybody. Period”. There are churches and states that will happily marry same-sex couples. How you choose to define them is up to you, but they are married in the eyes of the law and of their faith.
Nothing about gay marriage is the slightest threat to straight marriage. The only threat is to the power of one segment of society to enforce their religious beliefs upon those who don’t share their particular interpretation of those beliefs.
By the way, the Swedish law in question has a specific exemption that permits individual clergy and churches to refuse to perform same-sex ceremonies. The rumor that the law forces churches to perform such ceremonies appears to have originated with far-right American websites.

Posted by: Yukon Sam | November 19, 2008, 9:31 am 9:31 am

The Swedish law has already been tested though, the clergy man in reference was put in prison and letter release. This is people with an agenda trying to force there beliefs on religion. You are right, there are religions that will marry same sex couples, but my point is how long will it last before churches are forced to follow the states definition. If Civil Unions offer less than marriages than lets fix that rather than changing the definition of a word that has existed years. One group doesn’t have the right to say that their definition is the only correct one, but one group also doesn’t have the right to change that definition, especially when it does affect the lives of so many. People also forget what this does to parents rights. When a parent teaches their child what they believe, marriage is between a man and woman, then the child goes to school and the teacher says “no that’s wrong it is between any two consenting adults” that undermines the parents and confuses the child. It should stay the way it is, and more should be done to make sure that Civil Unions offer exactly what marriages offer.

Posted by: Erin | November 19, 2008, 10:54 am 10:54 am

Erin, help me out. I poked around a bit about the Swedish priest being arrested, and I found the allegation repeated by Hasselbeck on The View, but I am unable to find the name of the man who was arrested, a date of arrest, the charge on which he was arrested, or any mention of this in the Swedish or international press. If you could provide some more specific information on this incident, it would help validate the claim.
I don’t want to dismiss or belittle the idea of parental rights. You have the right to teach your beliefs to your children. But you can’t insulate them from competing ideas. You can, for example, teach them that alcohol and tobacco are a defilement of the temple of the body… but they will see people smoking and drinking and the law will tell them that these activities are permissible. You can teach them that sex is a sacred gift to people within the bounds of holy matrimony, but they will eventually learn that people can and do legally engage in sex outside those bounds.
The best any parent can do is to give their child the tools to make sound moral and ethical decisions, regardless of the religious framework in which you operate. The state cannot enforce one particular religious viewpoint without compromising the very values that make us a free nation.
It’s not that activists are trying to change the definition of marriage. It’s that the definition has been changing and evolving for hundreds of years and across hundreds of different cultures.
And none of them has a copyright on the word.

Posted by: Yukon Sam | November 19, 2008, 11:57 am 11:57 am

Poor Michael, I bet you dont even asscoiate with anyone black or mormon. You like most white gays,probably look down at black people in general.Which is the reason why you’re community didnt do a better job expressing you’re case to black voters.
You just assumed that we would fall in line, because in you’re eyes not being allowed to marry is the same as not being allowed to vote,or being forced into slavery, or being hung from a tree because you spoke to a white woman, or made eye to eye contact with a white man. In your’e eyes its the same as not being allowed to walk thru the front door of a hotel or restaurant, or not being allowed to have a seat at the front of the bus.
Guess what sugar it’s not.Instead of saying we must due a better job in reaching out to our non-supporters. You find it okay to just blame blacks or mormoms for the ban passing. Now while I appreciate the new found importance many see in the black vote. We cant take all the credit. The people of californa spoke,which means its back to the drawing board for the gay community. I’m sure one day you’ll get everything you want. But like blacks in this country, be willing to spill blood, and bust you tails fighting for it.
Look at the bright side. At least while protesting. You dont have police dogs attacking you and you’re children and you’re not being sprayed with fire hoses. See the horror’s my people went thru in this country paved the way for you’re battle.
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Personally I dont care if you marry or not. Marriage is seen as this so called sacred bond, yet we have shows like the Bachelor on TV. So it’s not as sacred as it once was. I also dont think you will ever get the majority of this countries citizens to accept gay marriage.
I really believe it would be much easier to just work on fixing what’s wrong with civil unions.

Posted by: My Grandfather Bled for his Rights. | November 19, 2008, 1:00 pm 1:00 pm

To know the bitter taste of oppression, and then to deny aid to those still laboring under it, is a profound act of moral cowardice.

Posted by: Yukon Sam | November 19, 2008, 1:31 pm 1:31 pm

Erin….In no way would legalizing same-sex marriage force the Mormon church, or any church for that matter, to marry same-sex couples. Churches would still have the right to refuse to perform any marriage they didn’t feel went along with their religious beliefs or the rules for their individual church/synagogue/temple/mosque/house of worship. It amazes me that the Mormon Church can even stand and make any argument about marriage when you look at their history of polygamy (which I do realize is now forbidden but the history is still there) and the fact that you have to be a member of the Mormon Church just to even *attend* a Mormon wedding. It’s inconceivable to me that a parent or a family member of a bride or groom isn’t allowed to see their loved one get married if they aren’t LDS, but I digress. Churches already can refuse to marry couples if they aren’t members of that individual church or one half of the couple is of a different faith or even if the couple refuses to attend pre-marital counseling. No one who is a supporter of same-sex marriages is out to take away a church’s right to allow or deny a marriage within that church. The whole fight for same-sex marriage is to grant to gay and lesbian couples the same CIVIL rights that are granted to heterosexual couples as soon as they are declared man and wife. It has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to do with religion and it’s not right for any church to try and deny civil rights to any group.
As for all of those people who say they don’t mind “civil unions” or “domestic partnerships” it’s just the idea of calling it a “marriage” they have an issue with, I have news or you. Every same-sex couple I have ever known who has had a commitment ceremony or entered into an official civil union/domestic partnership refers to that union/partnership as a “marriage” and their partner as their “spouse.” Disagreeing with the definition of “marriage” is not and will not stop same-sex couples from considering their relationship to be a marriage. Legalizing same-sex marriage does not take away your right to believe that it’s wrong or goes against your religion, you totally still and always will have that right. But same-sex couples should also have the right to have their committed, monogamous relationships recognized on a civil level.

Posted by: kate | November 19, 2008, 3:43 pm 3:43 pm

I still have heard no answer as to why the word marriage is so important to same sex couples. I know that people don’t think churches will be forced to perform same sex marriages but it will happen within a few decades. Like it has been pointed out people keep trying to change things. Kate, you are right I do have an issue with calling it marriage, I don’t deny that. I don’t care what the couples themselves call it, I care about what the government calls it.

Posted by: Erin | November 19, 2008, 3:54 pm 3:54 pm

Yukon Sam, you are right there isn’t anything to back that up other than what Hasselback said. However the left party in Sweden does want to force pastors to marry same sex couples, saying that it is discrimination not to. How long will it take,after legalizing marriage in the US, for this kind of argument to come up. Don’t tell me it won’t. Would you support that kind of a law and take away someone’s religious freedoms to believe what they want?

Posted by: Erin | November 19, 2008, 4:15 pm 4:15 pm

Oh, here is the website where that issue is discussed. http://www.thelocal.se/15612/20081111/

Posted by: Erin | November 19, 2008, 4:15 pm 4:15 pm

To “My Grandfather Bled For His Rights”…
Since you seem to think all white gays and lesbians look down on anyone black, I’d like to point something out to you. I have seen many more inter-racial couples (one member black, one member white) in the gay community than I ever have in the straight community. It seems to me that a person’s value based on their race means so much more to the straights than the gays. The gays and lesbians I know could care less whether or not someone is black, white, brown or green with orange polka dots. They see the person, not the color.
It’s ironic to me that you seem to think that gays just thought the black voters would “fall in line” and support same sex marriage when in the Presidential election, 61% of Obama supporters were white (I can’t find an exact percentage of number of gays voting for him, but I’m willing to go out on a limb and say it’s a pretty high percentage). If we in the white community hadn’t looked past the color of his skin (and I’m very glad we’ve finally reached the day when that has happened), we’d be reading newstories about the appointments to President-Elect McCain’s administration. If Obama had lost the election, can you honestly say that there wouldn’t be a significant portion of the black community blaming whites for not voting for him? How is it possible that one community who has fought so long and so hard for equal and civil rights can sit by and watch another community continue to be treated like second class citizens?
As for your statement, “You dont have police dogs attacking you and you’re {sic} children and you’re not being sprayed with fire hoses,” can I just direct your attention to the raids of the Stonewall Inn in June of 1969, not to mention the countless raids of gay bars across the nation for years prior to that? Why were these places raided? Simply because the patrons were gay. Sure, other reasons were given (i.e. noise violations, alcohol violations, etc) but that was simply a smokescreen. To insinuate that gays and lesbians haven’t had to fight for acceptance and rights is not only ignorant but flat out wrong.

Posted by: kate | November 19, 2008, 4:18 pm 4:18 pm

Same Sex couples deserve to have the same rights as heterosexual couples, PERIOD. However my question is, why can’t that be achieved through fixing the status of Civil Unions?

Posted by: Erin | November 19, 2008, 5:04 pm 5:04 pm

“Would you support that kind of a law and take away someone’s religious freedoms to believe what they want?”
I would no more support a law forcing a church or religion to perform same-sex marriages than I would support a law prohibiting them from doing so. The separation of church and state goes both ways; the state shouldn’t tell the church how to run its affairs (save in the most basic matters of health and welfare) any more than the church should control the state.
Note that Sweden, until very recently, did not have separation of church and state, and the former state religion remains dominant. That’s a fundamentally different environment than exists in America, and the nature of the debate there will be vastly different as a consequence.
Somebody asked why the word is so important to same-sex couples. I would speculate that it’s for the same reasons that it matters to heterosexual couples. “Marriage” connotes a long-term, committed, loving relationship in a way that “civil union” or “domestic partnership” doesn’t. Marriage is the union of two people, from “me and you” to “us”. It is as much a spiritual state as it is a legal one.
But from a strictly pragmatic standpoint, amending and repairing 50 differing definitions of “civil union” (including states where such is outright banned) is a vastly more complex undertaking than having one national standard for marriage that provides equal treatment for all married couples, regardless of gender or orientation.
There is room for people of good will to disagree on this issue, and I apologize if my rhetoric gets a little too impassioned. I have had good friends in my life whose destinies are deeply affected by this question.

Posted by: Yukon Sam | November 20, 2008, 10:00 am 10:00 am

If you think that what is happening in Sweeden won’t happen here, look around you, it already is. EHarmony already has had a lawsuit because they didn’t provide a gay man with the same services. It was deemed discrimination, when it was simply a service that wasn’t provided. The church isn’t governing the state because its members or attendees cast their votes. So what if something is complex to change, if it is worth the change than it should be made. The government and an individual group don’t have the right to change the definition of a word to fit their wants and desires when it affects a great many more people. I believe that if we fixed the definition of Civil Unions under the law that those entering them would be more respected than they would if they force gay marriage into law. I also believe that in time it will be just as acceptable and just as highly valued. It is going to take time, that’s for sure, changing the definition of marriage is only going to spark more hate from radicals and cause a lot of resentment that will probably a long time from what history shows.

Posted by: Erin | November 20, 2008, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

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