Comments on: Seven Signs Your Spouse Is Cheating on You http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/ The latest Lifestyle news and blog posts from ABC News contributors and bloggers. Fri, 18 Apr 2014 18:56:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: jennifer http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1564747 jennifer Sat, 06 Oct 2012 11:28:19 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1564747 My husband did number 1. That is how I found out about his infidelity. Always took the phone with him everywhere he went. To the bathroom even. He wouldn't put it down, not even for a second. My husband did number 1. That is how I found out about his infidelity. Always took the phone with him everywhere he went. To the bathroom even. He wouldn’t put it down, not even for a second.

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By: Mike S http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1533421 Mike S Sun, 22 Jul 2012 18:58:59 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1533421 Wow, with the number of women cheating these days you'd think the article wouldn't have been written by a man-hater. So much for mainstream media. Wow, with the number of women cheating these days you’d think the article wouldn’t have been written by a man-hater. So much for mainstream media.

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By: David Diamond http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1525041 David Diamond Sat, 14 Jul 2012 09:47:18 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1525041 Sorry, but I am guilty of numbers 1-4. BUT I don't cheat! My wife is highly suspicious of everything and I DO get calls from females which are work-related and verifiable, but you could never persuade my wife of that. Yes, I delete some messages. Mostly very off color jokes from friends which my wife wouldn't appreciate and also, because my very young daughter uses my phone to play games. Yes, I go to the gym six days a week. I am 54 years old with an 8-year old daughter. If I want to live long enough to see her get married, I'd better get into shape. Yes, I DO work long hours. it's part of the job and I need to save as much as I can for my daughter's education. Spend more money? Perhaps. Things cost more today than 10 years ago. My point ladies, is not every guy cheats and it's articles like this that only make you think we do. Judge each man on his own merits. Sorry, but I am guilty of numbers 1-4.
BUT I don’t cheat!

My wife is highly suspicious of everything and I DO get calls from females which are work-related and verifiable, but you could never persuade my wife of that.

Yes, I delete some messages. Mostly very off color jokes from friends which my wife wouldn’t appreciate and also, because my very young daughter uses my phone to play games.

Yes, I go to the gym six days a week. I am 54 years old with an 8-year old daughter. If I want to live long enough to see her get married, I’d better get into shape.

Yes, I DO work long hours. it’s part of the job and I need to save as much as I can for my daughter’s education.

Spend more money? Perhaps. Things cost more today than 10 years ago.

My point ladies, is not every guy cheats and it’s articles like this that only make you think we do. Judge each man on his own merits.

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By: Nina http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1524281 Nina Fri, 13 Jul 2012 16:00:20 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1524281 Unfortunately, I was blind to all the signs. Only once his affair was confirmed, those signs clicked in place and everything made sense. His mistake was using Skype from work, while home computer was on. They were typing to each other from work, while i was having morning coffee and reading everything what was going on.... Unfortunately, I was blind to all the signs. Only once his affair was confirmed, those signs clicked in place and everything made sense. His mistake was using Skype from work, while home computer was on. They were typing to each other from work, while i was having morning coffee and reading everything what was going on….

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By: karen http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1522111 karen Tue, 10 Jul 2012 14:25:00 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1522111 Im in a relationship with someone and he always walking and carrying around that damn cell phone......it's ridicolous even take it in the bathroom with him.......smdh....Im not stressing it though cause Im not insecure or have low self-esteem.....I can get any man I want........... Im in a relationship with someone and he always walking and carrying around that damn cell phone……it’s ridicolous even take it in the bathroom with him…….smdh….Im not stressing it though cause Im not insecure or have low self-esteem…..I can get any man I want………..

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By: survivor http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1520291 survivor Sat, 07 Jul 2012 16:02:41 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1520291 How about they say they need space to deal with stuff in their heads, its not you... there is nobody else... but they never come home for days at a time. Angry constantly with you over everything. Start telling you how much they hate you. Nothing they do is making sense. Running up credit cards, charging to a hotel...? The hotel was the final straw. Didn't want to believe it before that. How about they say they need space to deal with stuff in their heads, its not you… there is nobody else… but they never come home for days at a time. Angry constantly with you over everything. Start telling you how much they hate you. Nothing they do is making sense. Running up credit cards, charging to a hotel…? The hotel was the final straw. Didn’t want to believe it before that.

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By: Curtis http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1519511 Curtis Fri, 06 Jul 2012 10:49:41 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1519511 Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. Why people would tether themselves legally to someone else when you know there's a 50% chance that it's going to fail is beyond me. That's like going to a car dealership, driving a car off the lot that you know up front has a 50% chance of failing and if it fails having to give up half your bank account. I think relationships should be like leases. Sign a 5 year lease, if you like driving the car you're in now then you can sign another lease. If not....trade it in. Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. Why people would tether themselves legally to someone else when you know there’s a 50% chance that it’s going to fail is beyond me. That’s like going to a car dealership, driving a car off the lot that you know up front has a 50% chance of failing and if it fails having to give up half your bank account.

I think relationships should be like leases. Sign a 5 year lease, if you like driving the car you’re in now then you can sign another lease. If not….trade it in.

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By: Maison http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1517141 Maison Wed, 04 Jul 2012 17:30:58 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1517141 1,2.4 & 5 are my ex's classics I can only say that since he married his last fling, he's reaping the benefits as befits the choice. He's ill, miserable and cannot afford to leave her. He was and is a Psychological abuser of the highest level. I am still single and enjoying my life able to go to church, go to dinner and travel with friends and not having to bend to the whims of a juvenile, who has never grown up and thinks women are there to serve him. 1,2.4 & 5 are my ex’s classics I can only say that since he married his last fling, he’s reaping the benefits as befits the choice. He’s ill, miserable and cannot afford to leave her. He was and is a Psychological abuser of the highest level.
I am still single and enjoying my life able to go to church, go to dinner and travel with friends and not having to bend to the whims of a juvenile, who has never grown up and thinks women are there to serve him.

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By: yola http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1512881 yola Mon, 02 Jul 2012 08:14:26 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1512881 so gleen i am guessing you got caught so gleen i am guessing you got caught

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By: Gina B http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/seven-signs-your-spouse-is-cheating-on-you/#comment-1511981 Gina B Sun, 01 Jul 2012 06:08:45 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=88051#comment-1511981 I agree with everyone noticing the questions assume cheaters are all male. Straight down the middle, let's fix these 7 signs: 1. Your spouse changes cell phone accounts or even has a second cell phone claiming her or his employer requires one for work. 2. goes with one 3. ... exercising more and in general grooming her or himself more than usual to look better 4. .. claims to be working until 2 in the morning 5. running up credit card bills or has a new one which you might find out about or you never will 6. smells of cologne or perfume (depending) 7. IF they have sex with YOU, notice how they make love to someone else (this would be following your gut) I agree with everyone noticing the questions assume cheaters are all male. Straight down the middle, let’s fix these 7 signs:

1. Your spouse changes cell phone accounts or even has a second cell phone claiming her or his employer requires one for work.

2. goes with one

3. … exercising more and in general grooming her or himself more than usual to look better

4. .. claims to be working until 2 in the morning

5. running up credit card bills or has a new one which you might find out about or you never will

6. smells of cologne or perfume (depending)

7. IF they have sex with YOU, notice how they make love to someone else (this would be following your gut)

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