Comments on: Giuliana Rancic Puts ‘Marriage First, Child Second’ http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/ The latest Lifestyle news and blog posts from ABC News contributors and bloggers. Wed, 26 Nov 2014 22:34:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Dorothy http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1794033 Dorothy Wed, 20 Mar 2013 05:44:03 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1794033 I think Giuliana is very selfish and self centered. I also believe that she really could have cared less about having a baby. Bill on the other hand, seems thrilled to be a father. Not sure if Giuliana has an ounce of motherly instinct in her whatsoever. She is allowed to express her feelings and opinions to the media, however, she should not expect that everyone would agree with her. Poor Duke. Thank god for baby nurses & other hired help. I think Giuliana is very selfish and self centered. I also believe that she really could have cared less about having a baby. Bill on the other hand, seems thrilled to be a father. Not sure if Giuliana has an ounce of motherly instinct in her whatsoever. She is allowed to express her feelings and opinions to the media, however, she should not expect that everyone would agree with her. Poor Duke. Thank god for baby nurses & other hired help.

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By: Helen http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1785680 Helen Fri, 15 Mar 2013 02:11:39 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1785680 How can you possibly compare the needs of a spouse with the needs of a child? By saying your relationship comes before your children, are you pitting your spouse against your children? Unfortunately, that's what it sounds like regardless of what she meant. To say your husband comes before your kids is as strange as saying your kids come before your husband. It's all about prioritising those needs, as opposed to deciding who is the most important person on your life. They are all important. It seems most people here have missed that point. How can you possibly compare the needs of a spouse with the needs of a child? By saying your relationship comes before your children, are you pitting your spouse against your children? Unfortunately, that’s what it sounds like regardless of what she meant. To say your husband comes before your kids is as strange as saying your kids come before your husband. It’s all about prioritising those needs, as opposed to deciding who is the most important person on your life. They are all important. It seems most people here have missed that point.

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By: Saquonna http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1783147 Saquonna Wed, 13 Mar 2013 13:30:58 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1783147 I completely agree with Guiliana. The husband comes before the kids and you have to make sure you have a strong marriage for your children. She's not saying that she neglects her child, doesn't love him as much as any mother, she just has her priorities straight. In my eyes, it's God, my husband, my children, then me. No one is neglected, but everyone knows their place and I am no less motherly than any other mother. I completely agree with Guiliana. The husband comes before the kids and you have to make sure you have a strong marriage for your children. She’s not saying that she neglects her child, doesn’t love him as much as any mother, she just has her priorities straight. In my eyes, it’s God, my husband, my children, then me. No one is neglected, but everyone knows their place and I am no less motherly than any other mother.

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By: DSki http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1782226 DSki Wed, 13 Mar 2013 00:28:41 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1782226 All that crying and sobbing she did when producing this baby and now the child takes a back seat to the husband. One day she will be second in her child's life and I hope her husband sticks around for a long time for her sake. . Way to go Giuliana!!!! All that crying and sobbing she did when producing this baby and now the child takes a back seat to the husband. One day she will be second in her child’s life and I hope her husband sticks around for a long time for her sake. . Way to go Giuliana!!!!

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By: REALITYCHIC http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1777751 REALITYCHIC Sun, 10 Mar 2013 18:15:37 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1777751 A HAPPY HEALTHY MARRIAGE WHERE MOM AND DAD LOVE EACH OTHER.....and OF COURSE LOVE THEIR CHILDREN......GIVES A CHILD SELF ESTEEM BECAUSE HE/SHE IS IN A VERY STABLE ENVIRONMENT! Two of my best friends have 3 beautiful children....and a happy healthy, sexy marriage. No, their marriage is not perfect...neither are their kids....WHO IS PERFECT? A HAPPY HEALTHY MARRIAGE WHERE MOM AND DAD LOVE EACH OTHER…..and OF COURSE LOVE THEIR CHILDREN……GIVES A CHILD SELF ESTEEM BECAUSE HE/SHE IS IN A VERY STABLE ENVIRONMENT! Two of my best friends have 3 beautiful children….and a happy healthy, sexy marriage. No, their marriage is not perfect…neither are their kids….WHO IS PERFECT?

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By: steve http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1772714 steve Thu, 07 Mar 2013 15:05:53 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1772714 How she can judge waht other people wear is beyond me. Look at her. How she can judge waht other people wear is beyond me. Look at her.

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By: Marie http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1771600 Marie Wed, 06 Mar 2013 23:49:27 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1771600 Bonnie and Kathy hit the nail right on the head. This is why she had to go to such an extreme to have a child. God was giving her the opportunity to build that true motherly instinct that she definitely doesn't have. Maybe if she carried and pushed her own child out she would understand. A child is priority and both parents should feel this way from the beginning because the parents decided to bring them into the world. They are helpless and what's the point of having children if your husband comes before them. Husband and wife come together to support the child together. I have been married 10 years with two children and my husband and I put our children first with everything and we have a happy solid relationship. Her marriage must be weak or she is insecure if Bill has to be priority over their new child. Her attitude displays why she wasn't blessed enough to carry, bond, and deliver her own child. Bonnie and Kathy hit the nail right on the head. This is why she had to go to such an extreme to have a child. God was giving her the opportunity to build that true motherly instinct that she definitely doesn’t have. Maybe if she carried and pushed her own child out she would understand. A child is priority and both parents should feel this way from the beginning because the parents decided to bring them into the world. They are helpless and what’s the point of having children if your husband comes before them. Husband and wife come together to support the child together. I have been married 10 years with two children and my husband and I put our children first with everything and we have a happy solid relationship. Her marriage must be weak or she is insecure if Bill has to be priority over their new child. Her attitude displays why she wasn’t blessed enough to carry, bond, and deliver her own child.

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By: Msakelly http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1766707 Msakelly Mon, 04 Mar 2013 16:41:40 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1766707 She has an army of nannies, personal assistants, and housekeepers, and I'm sure all of us could put much more into our relationships if we had that kind of support! She has an army of nannies, personal assistants, and housekeepers, and I’m sure all of us could put much more into our relationships if we had that kind of support!

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By: BONNIE http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1765047 BONNIE Sun, 03 Mar 2013 21:50:20 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1765047 GOD KNEW BEST WHEN HE DID NOT ALLOW HER TO BEAR CHILDREN. HOW DO YOU COMPARE CHILDREN"s AND HUSBAND"S NEEDS?. CHILDREN ARE OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CARE FOR AS WELL AS OUR SPOSES, BUT WHO EVER HAS THE NEED FOR CARE AT THE TIME SHOULD BE THE FIRST IN LINE. HUSBANDS ARE ADULTS AND ABLE TO CARE FOR THEIR SELVES, BUT CHILDREN ARE DEPEENDANT AND NEED OUR CARE. THERE IS NO FIRST OR LAST TO BE DECIDED. GOD KNEW BEST WHEN HE DID NOT ALLOW HER TO BEAR CHILDREN. HOW DO YOU COMPARE CHILDREN”s AND HUSBAND”S NEEDS?. CHILDREN ARE OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO CARE FOR AS WELL AS OUR SPOSES, BUT WHO EVER HAS THE NEED FOR CARE AT THE TIME SHOULD BE THE FIRST IN LINE. HUSBANDS ARE ADULTS AND ABLE TO CARE FOR THEIR SELVES, BUT CHILDREN ARE DEPEENDANT AND NEED OUR CARE. THERE IS NO FIRST OR LAST TO BE DECIDED.

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By: Tracigee http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2013/03/giuliana-rancic-puts-marriage-first-child-second/#comment-1765007 Tracigee Sun, 03 Mar 2013 21:18:54 +0000 http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/?p=99754#comment-1765007 Spot on, Ellie - "A healthy marriage is the BEST gift you will ever give your children." Spot on, Ellie – “A healthy marriage is the BEST gift you will ever give your children.”

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