Boxing Condi
At yesterday’s Senate Foreign Relations Committee hearing, Sen. Barbara Boxer, D-CA, said the following to Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice:
"Now, the issue is who pays the price. Who pays the price? I’m not going to pay a personal price. My kids are too old and my grandchild is too young. You’re not going to pay a particular price, as I understand it, with an immediate family. So who pays the price? The American military and their families."
Some say Boxer was trying to draw attention to the fact that Rice is single and does not have any children. Boxer’s office insists that’s reading too much into it, that Boxer was merely trying to draw attention to the fact that few policymakers are affected by the Iraq war in human terms.
Says a female friend: "Whether or not it hurt Rice really isn’t the question — it’s whether it was hurled with the intent to harm or embarass. We’ll never know what was in Sen. Boxer’s heart when she said it..or whether there was that intent. But it’s a standard female psychological tactic that many of us recognize.
"And you need to understand female psychological warfare. The most effective bullet is the one that sails in looking like a butterly– the ‘innocent’ remark. There’s no defense against it. To defend against it is to validate it as an attack, and allow it to hit. Had Rice publicly taken offense at Boxer’s statement, it would have sent the whole thing nuclear."
What do you think?
– jt
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Boxer knew what she was doing when she made the remark. She is mean and nasty. Unfortunately we’ll have to put up with here for a couple years; perhaps more.
Posted by: David Ladouceur | January 12, 2007, 10:32 am 10:32 am
Great question; deserves an answer from all of our representatives – especially from the president!
Posted by: TY | January 12, 2007, 10:35 am 10:35 am
I think that it was intended soley to demonstrate that she doesn’t have any child at risk, as do all the military families, it’s just pure and simple. It would be the media putting the ~female spin~ on the whole thing.
Posted by: Catherine | January 12, 2007, 10:36 am 10:36 am
Great question; deserves an answer from all of our representatives – especially from the president!
Posted by: TY | January 12, 2007, 10:37 am 10:37 am
Condi is not married nor has she ever been, therfore, she shouldn’t have children. For Boxer to attack her singleness is a low blow. Sounds like a “mean girl” response.
Posted by: Paula G. | January 12, 2007, 10:38 am 10:38 am
If Rice took offense at the Senators question then Rice needs to get anew job! Barbara Boxer is right it isn’t members of Congress or the Administration that is affected personally by the war in Iraq. How effective would a Secretary of State be if a question upset them?
Posted by: Larry | January 12, 2007, 10:38 am 10:38 am
Why do people resent the truth all of a sudden since Bush’s administration took over? Ms. Boxer was correct in saying Rice had no personal price to pay. Mother’s are paying the ultimate price when they lose a son or daughter – they lose their hearts. All Rice and Bush have to lose are “faces” that are not looking good now anyway. Let the truth be heard! More of this administration needs blasted with the truth. What’s the matter, can’t they handle the truth?
Ron
Posted by: Ron | January 12, 2007, 10:40 am 10:40 am
Military parents need to remember that their son or daughter is now a SOLDIER! Please leave the sentiment behind. Becoming a soldier means accepting risk. If they come home in a body bag, know it was not in vain.
Posted by: Gerald | January 12, 2007, 10:42 am 10:42 am
I think her comments were extrememly valid. None of the politicians that are so gung-ho about sending in more military masses have anything to lose. It IS the American Military and their families. I don’t believe what she said had anything to do with Ms. Rice being single or having no children. It was simply a true statement. Don’t blow this thing out of proportion ala Donald Trump and Rosie O’Donnell.
Posted by: Tammy Knight | January 12, 2007, 10:42 am 10:42 am
If the military community (servicepeople and their families) is the community that is most affected by this war, and they carry the brunt of the war’s effects on the nation, and that particular community supports it’s own efforts, believes that the fight must be fought and won, then what point does Senator Boxer have, really?
Ask most of the people in the military, and they’ll tell it like it is…”Let’s fight the fight, win the fight, accomplish the objective, and come home! To win, perhaps we need the troop force that we should have had from the 2003 invasion. Let’s get the team together and beat the sh*t out of the insurgents! No further discussion needed!” (simplified, of course)
I think most of the people who are “worried” about the troops and their families, such as the California senator, do not share the same views on this issue as the very troops they claim to be concerned about.
In the end, it seems that this story is about two females being females.
Posted by: Jazz | January 12, 2007, 10:42 am 10:42 am
I don’t see the comment as pointing out Ms. Rice’s single status. However, Boxer brings up an excellent point. EXACTLY HOW MANY MEMBERS OF CONGRESS? I can’t stand politicians (Republicans or Democrats). They all make me sick. Most of them do not care about these 21 year old boys getting killed. A few of Bush’s friends are getting richer from the war. Total & utter disgrace. Pure B.S.
Posted by: julie march | January 12, 2007, 10:44 am 10:44 am
I agree with Boxer. I think it is a question that we as people ask the gov. ourselves. I don’t think she was being malicious or personal at all.
Posted by: M_Z | January 12, 2007, 10:47 am 10:47 am
I think it’s a valid point. You can’t keep sending people to a war that nobody supports and then support sending more troops in harm way if you don’t know the effect it has on families. When joining the military you take that risk of being sent to war however it doesn’t mean being sent to police a country under false pretenses, and then having to die for it. I would like to see the number of kids born to politicians that are currently serving on the front line in Iraq at this current time.
Posted by: Rudy | January 12, 2007, 10:47 am 10:47 am
The senator is right. Who pays the price? Who pays for their mistakes? We need to do some thing about their mistake.
Posted by: Danny | January 12, 2007, 10:47 am 10:47 am
I agree with Boxer’s premise. If these politicians had 17 year old boys, they would probably think twice before starting a war with a country THAT DID NOT ATTACK US! Remember countrymen, the Republicans made up all the faux intelligence. VOTE DEMOCRAT NEXT TIME AS YOU DID THE LAST ELECTION. We’ll show them our diapproval by taking the White House too. They need to pay for their mistakes.
Posted by: Stevan | January 12, 2007, 10:48 am 10:48 am
People tend to read into or take the spoken word far too seriously. A person should be judged on his or her actions, not words. Words can be important but actions much, much more so. The chances of being wrong judging or interpiting the spoken word are very high. Actions can be judged much more accuratly. So, take it easy, let those words just roll off, observe the actions of a person. It could have a lasting effect on your life.
Posted by: Tony | January 12, 2007, 10:48 am 10:48 am
Personally I think Boxer made a very personal attack and I am glad she is not my senator.
Posted by: gina cihak | January 12, 2007, 10:51 am 10:51 am
I think it was meant to embrass Secretary of State Rice and it’s another dirty politics. You guys need to grow up. You wonder what’s wrong with our youth, look in the mirror. They learn from you guys. Sham on you!!
Posted by: mg oneal | January 12, 2007, 10:51 am 10:51 am
Was anything Ms. Boxer said untrue and when has being single and not having children anything to be ashamed of? The way I see it, Ms. Rice either chose to excell through hard work knowing that not having a huband and children would be the sacrafice or she just hasn’t met Mr. Right.
Posted by: Ann | January 12, 2007, 10:53 am 10:53 am
No, she wasn’t intentionally taking a stab at her. She was stating the obvious in that Ms. Rice does not have children. I don’t have children and people have made that comment to me. It’s a fact, not a swipe. This war is a waste of live, both American and Iraqi …
Posted by: Cheri | January 12, 2007, 10:54 am 10:54 am
I think you’re making too much of it. Women are more likely to see things in terms of personal relationships and how events will impact a family, and that’s not a bad thing. After all, these are people with families that Bush is sending into harm’s way. And that seems to be even more true in Middle Eastern cultures; family matters. The writer Marya Mannes said, “Women are repeatedly accused of taking things personally. I cannot see any other honest way of taking them.”
War happens to people and their families.
Posted by: Patricia | January 12, 2007, 10:54 am 10:54 am
I DON’T THINK THAT MS. BOXER WAS SPEAKING OF MS. RICE PERSOANLLY, BUT TO EVERYONE WHO IS SUGGESTING THAT WE SEND MORE OF OUR YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN OVER THERE TO DIE. IT IS TIME TO STOP. IF THE IRAQIS DOWN WANT TO STEP UP TO THE PLATE AND DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE, THEY DESEVRE WHATEVER HAPPENS. I DON’T KNOW ABOUT ANYONE ELSE, BUT I AM TIRED OF HEARING ABOUT OUR INLISTED MEN AND WOMEN BEING BLOWN UP OR SHOT TO DEATH. SEND THEM HOME…..
Posted by: WANDA | January 12, 2007, 10:56 am 10:56 am
Someone worries about poor Condi Rice after all the blantant lies she has told we the people. You have GOT to be kidding!!!!
Posted by: Ala Claxton | January 12, 2007, 10:56 am 10:56 am
What is more sensitive? Not having a child or losing or the one you have? Sometimes you can’t always be politically correct when speaking the truth. We having the luxury of running around complaining that our feelings are hurt because we are not in Baghdad being shotat everyday. Wake up and smell the coffee! Those young men and women are not smelling the coffee they are smelling gun powder and sometimes their friends flesh burning if not theirs. Take a vitamin and hope it gets the fog out of your head. May be!
Posted by: Healthnut | January 12, 2007, 11:01 am 11:01 am
In fact, when Boxer began to speak I was very much aware at how quiet/calm and low key her comments were as opposed to the males that had also spoken. In no way was the comment to Rice intended to embarrass or harm. People are looking for points to take out of context.
Posted by: cathy | January 12, 2007, 11:02 am 11:02 am
I spent 16 years living and working in Washington, DC. I came to quickly realize that Senator Boxer is out of her league in the United States Senate. She was, and remains, however, a perfect fit for the U.S. House where that line of questioning passes off as high-browed debate.
Posted by: dan | January 12, 2007, 11:03 am 11:03 am
you don’t have to be a fan of this war to think this question from Boxer crossed the line. Last I checked it was an all-volunteer military who knows what the risks when they enlist. Whether or not a soldier believes in a particular war or even if their family doesn’t is a mute point. This line of questioning would never have happened in past wars – leave the politics out of wars, please! The time for that is before and/or after. A pity our soldiers have to listen to this debate when they are putting their lives on the line.
Posted by: Jay | January 12, 2007, 11:04 am 11:04 am
you don’t have to be a fan of this war to think this question from Boxer crossed the line. Last I checked it was an all-volunteer military who knows what the risks when they enlist. Whether or not a soldier believes in a particular war or even if their family doesn’t is a mute point. This line of questioning would never have happened in past wars – leave the politics out of wars, please! The time for that is before and/or after. A pity our soldiers have to listen to this debate when they are putting their lives on the line.
Posted by: Jay | January 12, 2007, 11:04 am 11:04 am
I often meet with the same kind of “attacks” from people, including family members. Yes, I am single. Yes, I do not have children. However, in my experience, the people who throw those kinds of barbs are the one who are unhappy in their current situation with a spouse or significant other. It appears that Senator Boxer’s situation is different in that she is not intelligent enough to provide valid positions against the war in Iraq.
Posted by: Georgina Gonzalez | January 12, 2007, 11:04 am 11:04 am
I think had this been a Republican saying this to a Democrat, the story would be the biggest thing in the news for weeks. We would hear talk of cruelty and insensitivity, and the Republican would be villified.
Posted by: Rita | January 12, 2007, 11:05 am 11:05 am
I agree with the Senator. I don’t think she was trying to hurt Condi with her words..but she was merely stating the truth.
Posted by: Veta | January 12, 2007, 11:05 am 11:05 am
Rice has class. Boxer needs to conduct her self like a lady. It would have been differnt had Rice said that to Boxer.
Women would be marching in the streets!
Posted by: mary wilder | January 12, 2007, 11:06 am 11:06 am
Everyone is reading into it way to much!
Posted by: sam | January 12, 2007, 11:06 am 11:06 am
All politicians stink. The reality is, that very few elected officials in Washington are there to represent us. They are there for their parties, special interest , or themselves.
Our founding fathers never intended for our Government to end up as twisted as it is.
We need to fire them all at the polls, and start over from scratch. We need to elect honest, decent citizens that are willing to spend up to 6 years in Washington serving their fellow citizens.
Teachers, farmers, ranchers, construction workers, doctors, mechanics, business people, pastors, truck drivers, accountants, house wifes,
etc.etc etc.
We need to elect the people that are the people. The clowns we have in Washington now, are not out of the U.S. people pool, they are for the most part professional politicians, and every one of them has a primary agenda that does not include the “people”.
Most of them are not the kind of people you would want of your children to bring home to meet the parents.
The people of America need to wake up !
Don Scott
Posted by: Don | January 12, 2007, 11:08 am 11:08 am
I agree with Sen. Boxer’s comments. Still, it isn’t particularly relevant as to whether Rice had kids or family of military age. With her political clout, she would most certainly ensure that they would–like our President–never, ever see anything close to live combat. I would submit that it is likely Sen. Boxer would do the same if she had family in that age group as well.
Nevertheless, the criticism is LONG overdue. Bush, Rice, Cheney and all of them should be forced to endure themselves the human sacrifices they impose on others.
Posted by: Michael | January 12, 2007, 11:09 am 11:09 am
There is nothing wrong in Boxer’s feelings. Because US is fighting a war which will never see a light. Why should an Americal soldier die between the clashes Sunnis and Shiites? Now US role in Iraq is limited to containing sectarian clashes. Us citizens and soldiers are paying price for Iraq’s internal problems. How much development could have been achieved in America with billion dollars spent on Iraq? Sending additional 20,000 troops is not enough to get a hold Iraq’s situation.
Posted by: Suresh | January 12, 2007, 11:09 am 11:09 am
Condi is an Amreican Hero, Boxer is an idiot. What plan do the Dems have to deal with Iraq anyway, oh yea- the white flag.
Posted by: Scott Labonte | January 12, 2007, 11:09 am 11:09 am
I don’t think she was intentionally being nasty. She was just asking a question and stating a fact. When a person doesn’t have an immediate family member or a loved one serving in the US Military with the risk of dying in Iraq, they aren’t as affected by the decision to send more troops. I totally disagree with her being mean & nasty.
Posted by: Nikki | January 12, 2007, 11:14 am 11:14 am
Can you just image if that was said to Madeline Albright??? All hell would have come down on the poor soul. MAJOR double standard here don’t ya think???
Posted by: rich larsen | January 12, 2007, 11:16 am 11:16 am
I think Sen. Barbara Boxer was pointing out the fact that the real people affected was not Condi or Bush or herself or anyone in Washington which is true. If Bush’s daughters were to be sent among those 21000 troops I am sure he will think twice about it. But since its not his kids he can careless about it. All the president has to do is either give citizenship after the guys dies or give the medal of honor when he/she gets kill and pretend to care.
thank you.
Posted by: ceci | January 12, 2007, 11:16 am 11:16 am
We are at war. This is of little concern to our troops and our enemy. She should not take it personally.
Posted by: Timmy T | January 12, 2007, 11:19 am 11:19 am
I don’t much care for Boxer, but I despise Rice and her enabling of Bush’s insane policies. Boxer’s point was right on target. Rice has nothing and no one to lose to Bush’s private war. May she and the rest of the so called neocons rot in hell.
Posted by: OldSoldier | January 12, 2007, 11:19 am 11:19 am
The point was that W and Condi are in the power seat. They are sending our family members to Iraq and yet they don’t have brothers, sisters, children, nephews/neices etc that have to deal with the consequences of their decision. (And its very likely if they DID have family in the military, those folks wouldn’t be put in harms way the way others are.)
Posted by: PG | January 12, 2007, 11:19 am 11:19 am
Apparently Sen. Boxer is of the opinion that single people should not be involved in making policy decisions affecting married people. Fine. I don’t think that Californians should be involved in making policy decisions for South Carolinians. So Sen. Boxer, when can I expect to see your resignation?
Posted by: John P Baker | January 12, 2007, 11:20 am 11:20 am
Her point – how many members of the U.S. Senate & Congress have family members serving in Irag? I would like to know.
Posted by: Pete | January 12, 2007, 11:20 am 11:20 am
Senator Boxer was stating the obvious. The people in power are not risking their own family members, merely sending others to die for a barrel of oil. The American people need to rise up and demand that our troops come home now.
Posted by: Cheyne Cumming | January 12, 2007, 11:22 am 11:22 am
This comment had nothing to do with the fact that Rice is unmarried and has no children. It was a stab at the Administration and all the other supposed “leaders” who want to stay the course no matter the cost or casualties, as long as no one close to them is in dangers way.
Posted by: RW | January 12, 2007, 11:25 am 11:25 am
So is Boxer saying that in order for someone in the administration or congress to make a decision they have to be personally affected by it? Sure would make it difficult to get anyting done.
Posted by: Rwraith | January 12, 2007, 11:25 am 11:25 am
Barbara Boxer has a heart?
Posted by: Steve | January 12, 2007, 11:26 am 11:26 am
In reference to comments above regarding the children and relatives of members of congress. I seem to recall reading that there were several members of congress and the senate with children or relatives in Iraq. Could someone provide some more precise information?
Thank you.
Posted by: PWB | January 12, 2007, 11:28 am 11:28 am
I agree. Most government officials making these decisions don’t have the worry of losing an immediate family member. To send 20,000 more troops is simply a number to them to fulfill their agenda. Not having the worry of a family member possibly losing their life makes it easier for our officials to send more troops. How many government officials have children serving in the military?
Posted by: Autumn | January 12, 2007, 11:31 am 11:31 am
I would like to know the question to Boxer’s
question, posed to all the policy makers that
have been behind the Iraqi war from the very
beginning: What price do they pay? How many
of their family are/have been in the war? What have
they sacraficed or gained from this war?
Posted by: John Young | January 12, 2007, 11:32 am 11:32 am
Boxer is 100% right. Many of the lawmakers do not have a personal price to pay from the decisions that they make. It’s our fathers, brothers, husbands, sisters & wives who put their lives on the line every day according to the decisions that this Government has made for them. Too many of our own have died already. What will we gain by sending more of them to die.
Posted by: Yalina | January 12, 2007, 11:34 am 11:34 am
The democrats are very nasty group of, have should I put it “people”.
Posted by: p j | January 12, 2007, 11:36 am 11:36 am
If Bush had two sons instead of two daughters, his views would be completely different.
Posted by: Laura | January 12, 2007, 11:39 am 11:39 am
Yes it was intended to hurt poor Miss Rice. We true patriots who love America know all too well the evil liberals are capable of. She chose not to marry and have children and devote her life to serving the republican agenda which she should be applauded for.
Posted by: faith_in_w | January 12, 2007, 11:39 am 11:39 am
First of all, I did not want our troops there. But generally speaking based on Barbara Boxer’s comment, we should not have sent troops to Europe and Asia during WW II as well. Had that happened, where do you think the world would be now?
Posted by: Tony | January 12, 2007, 11:40 am 11:40 am
‘Tis a shame that an elected official has too stoop so low as to personally attack Ms. Rice OR anyone else! I never here anyone commenting on the fact that our brave troops enlisted and trained to protect our country in the event of a war. It is there bravery and honor that keeps America safe and for Ms. Boxer or anyone to belittle that fact is extremely dishonorable. She has the guts to verbally attack, but bet she would be the last in line to sign up and defend.
Posted by: RUTH | January 12, 2007, 11:43 am 11:43 am
I haven’t spoke to anyone that has returned from IRAQ that believes we can do anything else. Bottom line if the 3 factions of Muslims want to kill each other ther is nothing we can do. Only they can learn to get along. Sending 21,500 more targets for them will not solve anything.
My son has been there twice already and has nothing good to say. Maybe if the Bush girls and Channey’s daughter were leading the effort the troops would have more respect for this Administration’s decisions.
Posted by: D. Zitsch | January 12, 2007, 11:43 am 11:43 am
I agree with Mrs. Boxer completely . I’m not concerned about Rice . She’s a grown woman and can defend herself . My concern is to the soilders that are in harms ways for no good reason.
Posted by: Centa Walker | January 12, 2007, 11:45 am 11:45 am
boxer need to tell us why coming into the Senate she only had 20,000+, but now she files 2.3 million can we get a seate hearing on that…
Posted by: james | January 12, 2007, 11:46 am 11:46 am
Boxer should have known her comment would be interpreted as a slight to people without a spouse or children. As a feminist she shouldn’t have made such a comment. There is no draft and those in the military know they may have to serve in that capacity. I have had every generation from my grandfathers, father, husband, son and brothers, serve in the U.S. armed forces. We all enjoy freedom because of their sacrifice.
Posted by: Barbara | January 12, 2007, 11:46 am 11:46 am
To presume that you have to lose a member of your family to feel the pain of their sacrifice is extremely insensitive of Boxer and the other posters on this site who supported her line of questioning. I don’t have any sons or daughters in the military either, but I grieve and have even shed some tears when I am alone for them. Don’t presume to know what others feel. Condescending, as usual.
Posted by: Jay | January 12, 2007, 11:46 am 11:46 am
Sen Webb, a Democrat, has a son in Iraq. No Republican (or any other Dem) has any immediate family in Iraq. Neither Bush nor any of his cronies ever served in the military. (Bush’s awol stint in the TANG doesn’t count.) Condi has lied so often, I consider her name to be CondiLIEza. Condi said this yesterday: “It’s bad policy to speculate on what you’ll do if a plan fails when you’re trying to make a plan work.” Considering none of her plans have ever succeeded, this shocks me in more ways than one.
Posted by: daffy | January 12, 2007, 11:48 am 11:48 am
Jake, your question is one of those which tells much more about the person who answers it than it does about any of the people involved in that impassioned Senate exchange. It’s certainly possible that Sen. Boxer could have asked such a question with underlying malicious intent against Sec. Rice, but, unless Sen. Boxer had some reason to do so (like maybe a history of stormy relations with Sec. Rice), why not give her the benefit of the doubt and assume no malicious intent? I’m sure that your female friend is correct about the innocent, innocuous remark in psychological warfare that can be taken insultingly, but, again, I think that there would have to be some degree of intent that the remark was “aimed” that way. After I read about the exchange to which you refer, I thought it was just Sen. Boxer’s attempt to show that the people who were making decisions about the war had no relatives fighting in it–like the old saw of old men sending young men off to fight in war.
Posted by: chuck | January 12, 2007, 11:53 am 11:53 am
Get real people. Barbara Boxer is dead on with her questioning. How can it be a personal dig at Condi when Boxer refers to herself as having no personal stake in the matter either. The people in charge can put others in harm’s way at little or no consequence to themselves. That’s the point Sen. Boxer was trying to make… a very valid point at that.
Posted by: Jeff | January 12, 2007, 11:53 am 11:53 am
Yes, I suppose when it is your OWN son or daughter being sent into harms ways, you might question sending people off like pawns on a chessboard. How many congressman/senators have their children in IRAQ? And what of the 200,000 Iraq people maimed or injured in this war. Who speaks for them…Haliburton? Northrup? Rockwell?
Posted by: Ervin Raab | January 12, 2007, 11:54 am 11:54 am
You have got to be kidding. I am no fan of Boxer, and worked for Republicans in Congress. This is not a “female” Sen. Biden has been making this same point for years. When he has stated this, no one questions whether he is using a “female” psychological warfare tactic. I believe that this is a flimsy and transparent way to avoid the real issue, and discredit both women.
Posted by: ann | January 12, 2007, 11:55 am 11:55 am
Senator Boxer’s comment is right on point. I am a vietnam era vet who volunteered to serve. I have a son who is draft age; if conscription ever is reactivated. It really does make a difference in your decision making when you have something as precious as you child to lose. What person, clothed in their right mind, wouldn’t acknowledge that we can save hundreds or thousands of American lives by bringing our troops home now and getting them out of what amounts to a civil religious war in Iraq. If they reactivate the draft, and attempt to draft my son, I’ll go in his place. But I won’t let Bush or Rice play international monoploy with my son’s life.
Posted by: Greg | January 12, 2007, 12:00 pm 12:00 pm
If Condi isn’t up to answering hard questions, she shouldn’t have taken the job. We all know the nastiness that perculates through Washington right now. And to respond about double-standards, how hypocritical Republican-wonks are. Where were you screaming ‘un-fair treatment’ during the 90′s? What goes around comes around. Is it fair? NOPE! Is it right? NOPE! But don’t pout for Condi; she is one of the most brilliant politicians we have, and no partisan should think otherwise. The hard question should be; if she is having such a hard time articulating her answer, then maybe her position is not sound. Look back ten years at the questioning people like Rep. DeLay asked, through willing media-types, of Pres. Clinton over Somalia and Bosnia. Personal attacks are never appropriate, but the GOP has no legs to stand on this argument.
Posted by: Robert | January 12, 2007, 12:02 pm 12:02 pm
It was a valid question and anyone that took offense at it, is an idiot and needs to smarten up! There are soliders dying over there and many that do come back are missing limbs or suffering from horrible burns and other wounds. Condi’s feeling don’t mean squat compared to that and anyone that says otherwise is a fool!
Posted by: Chris | January 12, 2007, 12:03 pm 12:03 pm
What is the price? We ALL need to consider it. As a child of the Vietnamn “conflict” I know very clearly the toll of the loss of war. My father died while my mother was pregnant with me. What did we gain? We are still debating it all.
Having experienced the Gulf War first hand as the wife of an active duty deployed soldier who was the first to cross the border into the supposed war zone I again have first hand knowledge. Making it all look so “easy” was the manta of the 90′s.
In today’s conflict every soldier is a number in the media and in the government. Put a face with the name. Visit the families. SHOW the funerals and the caskets coming home. Does no one remember that the current administration will not allow the photographs of the soldiers coming home to be shown in the media? There is a toll… whether it is for oil or ego we still need to understand that a number has many faces and names attached to it. And broken families and generations will be following the numbers. Is it a price for freedom? Is it the right reason?
Barbara Boxer is asking a valid question, making a valid statement. Above board or with undertones, the subject is valid and needs to be addressed.
Posted by: Mary | January 12, 2007, 12:05 pm 12:05 pm
All of you who are suggesting that this was a “personal attack” on Ms. Rices’ singledom are also suggesting that being single and not having children is a huge disgraceful flaw. Get over yourselves, Ms. Rice is very accomplished, if she wanted to achieve something so simple as getting married and being a mother she would have been able to accomplish that too.
Posted by: st | January 12, 2007, 12:06 pm 12:06 pm
Well, the issue isn’t really what Ms. Boxwer said to Ms Rice. The issue is the fact that the US has now positioned itself to be stuck in a long range police mission.
President Bush has now set a ‘plan’ in motion to create nine sub-sections to the areas, and increase the number of small stations within neighborhoods in order to quell violence.
That sounds an awful lot like Police Stations here in the US. In the US that is a civil authority’s job. Not a Federal one. Yet, here we are sending federal troops (our military) to be another countries police force.
That is a recipe for disaster and definitely a way to increase the number of our brave young men and women fighting over there to be sent home in body bags fighting for people who seem to be less and less inclined to want us there.
Just my two cents worth.
Posted by: Chris | January 12, 2007, 12:08 pm 12:08 pm
It is a very sadd time in the history of this country. We are not coming together as one, and we are not standing up against the true evils of the world. We are hurting ourselves and our country is deteriorating. We have involved ourselves in a war for the good ol’ buck. Poor kids are dying and for the most part the lower class is suffering as they always do. Our world is dying, the environment cannot keep sustaining our destructive ways. Genocide runs rampid across africa, where children are being mutilated and families are being wiped out. We are not concentrating on helping the people that need it the most. Our environment feeds us, gives us oxygen and is the only thing that will keep us alive and our future generations alive. If we ignore our current situation, allow evil men to rule and destroy our country that so many of us are “proud” of..what will we have left?. A war torn world. For at this point in history peace can prevail. It takes great men with courage to walk into the lions den and declare peace. We have the ability and resources to help the ones that truly need it, to start an environmental revolution and to spread peace across the lands. Deep down every leader want peace for their people. Some cannot be helped and in time the world will influence them to believe in peace and to practice it. Our forefathers are turning over in their graves right now. This is not the country that they built. This can be a great country again but we have allowed a rogue government to destroy everything that so many men have worked for and sacrificed for. It is our responsibility to make sure our level headed democrats who will make this country great again are not underminded by the worst administration this country has ever seen. Because they have taken away our rights, turned the world on us. and destroyed the hopes and dreams of 3000 of our nations finest. It is not about hurting someones feelings or how miss rice interprets boxers comments, but miss boxer believes it would be harder for miss rice to carry out a plan that would put her children in harms way if she had her own. Democrats are not “evil”, that is the statement of a dillusional ignorant mind who does not see the big picture. Wars are not going to save us anymore, it is peace and the hand of love that we need to use as a weapon against oppression and poverty.
Posted by: greg | January 12, 2007, 12:10 pm 12:10 pm
I don’t believe Boxer was trying to throw a jab at Condi. So what that Condi doesn’t have kids. The point was about personal stakes in Iraq. I have a son but have no personal stakes in Iraq because he is too young to serve. I have a friend with no children but has personal stakes in Iraq because her brother is there.
Posted by: Elizabeth | January 12, 2007, 12:12 pm 12:12 pm
The point is that we are ALL AT RISK of paying of paying the price. If the air-headed pacifists succeed in stopping the war, we are all at risk of dying from another 9/11 attack launched from Iraq.
Posted by: Wu Wei | January 12, 2007, 12:15 pm 12:15 pm
And so it begins…
For God’s sake is this really “headline news?” Is every comment, every gesture, every nuance made by Democrats going to be analyzed ad-nauseum by the right? Did Senator Boxer say anything inaccurate? Did she not point out that her personal stake in this conflict was minimal, as well?
Quit wasting our time. There are serious problems to be addressed in this country. Whether or not Condi Rice’s feelings are hurt does not even rise to the level of a minor inconvenience.
Would we even be discussing this if the comments had been made by two men? This focus minimizes the powerful roles of both these women–surely they have shown they can function despite “hurt feelings.” It is offensive that because of their gender this is being portrayed as a girl fight and Condi’s “anonymous friend” should be ashamed of herself for playing the gender card.
Posted by: Michele Manion | January 12, 2007, 12:16 pm 12:16 pm
Boxer is so stupid. No Politician should be making decisions for the nation based on impact to their families. They should be objective and do what is best for the nation and not someone’s family or special interest. Boxer is one of the reasons why congress repeatedly has very low approval ratings. Presidents go up and down in the polls, but congress has always been low. They are a buncha lowlife fools that deserve NO RESPECT from the American People. Period.
Posted by: Ronald Regan | January 12, 2007, 12:17 pm 12:17 pm
Bush takes care of the rich, especially the super rich, and their children. He’s asking the poor guys in the military to sacrifice, but not increasing their pay. During Bush’s presidential campaign, his people circulated claims that one Bush daughter planned to teach poor children in DC, and the other planned to do work in Africa. Not surprising, I haven’t heard a word about ANY public service actually done by those two. I think they should join the army and go to Iraq.
Posted by: mari | January 12, 2007, 12:18 pm 12:18 pm
Boxer should have known her comment would be interpreted as a slight to people without a spouse or children. As a feminist she shouldn’t have made such a comment. There is no draft and those in the military know they may have to serve in that capacity. I have had every generation from my grandfathers, father, husband, son and brothers, serve in the U.S. armed forces. We all enjoy freedom because of their sacrifice.
Posted by: Barbara | January 12, 2007, 12:20 pm 12:20 pm
I think that it is beyond wrong that a United States Senator would launch an attack on a government official exposing that an official’s policy will not have an adverse effect on that official. I can say with confidence that a professional policy maker’s policies usually do not affect themselves. I am sure many of Senator Boxer’s controversial policies that she voted for did not affect her but had an adverse effect on various citizens. Also, to suggest that a human being and Secretary of State would be tossing around troops, other human beings, without any moral compass is truly inhumane. I am sure the safety of the troops weighs very heavily on the minds of all Americans, especially the ones charged with that safety. Finally, the ability to lead is one that sometimes comes with the understanding that you must do what you think is right regardless of the opposition. I believe in this to an extent but look at the reaction of the troops to more troops, not the Honorable Senator from California. Elder Bush had about 500,000 troops when he went into Iraq. Today we have around 150,000. This is not “the greatest military blunder since Vietnam.” P.S. Whoever said that really does not need to discuss military history again.
Posted by: Gabe | January 12, 2007, 12:20 pm 12:20 pm
Absolute rubbish. I’m not feeling this. Granted, I enjoy a bounty of stimuli and opportunities in a large, liberal metropolis. But I hope it’s only a small segment of the female populace that still finds their identity threatened by the absence of issue. I for one always had a regrettably diminished view of my much beloved mother because it seemed she based the entirety of her personhood on her children, instead of perfecting her own individuality. Possessed of great spirit and a very high IQ, but constrained to that relegated place in society, as was, and apparently still is, the lamentable condition of women for far too long. In this unnatural setting, even the most capable, dedicated mother finds herself lacking in some of the crucial skills necessary to care for her children. And worse, such constantly frustrated people can’t possibly maintain themselves in such a hostile environment for long. They come apart at the seams like tattered queens. I think it’s tragic and sinful. That’s why I live where and how I live.
I always thought a lot of career women who were also great mothers (and not much of career women who dissed their kids), but not less of career women who were childless. You never know – a childless person may have wanted to be a mother, but couldn’t or didn’t for any number of good reasons – that wouldn’t nullify their empathy or innate desire to care for others. In addition, I believe the better parent delays or even forgoes conception altogether if she knows she can’t adequately provide, be it emotionally, financially, etc. She has to be able to keep herself positive, healthy and moving forward, lest she be ill disposed to launch her children well. Such unfortunate children don’t always make the best contributions to society. In fact, they often make a lot of dirty work for the rest.
I opted out of motherhood quite consciously, but I gave substantial help (cheerfully!) in rearing my single-parent sister’s children, who acknowledge me as a co-parent. I never gave birth but am very nurturing, even maternal in my own way (aren’t we all, male or female, to some extent, if we’re normal?). I’m a fantastic homemaker. I’m wonderful with animals, grow my own veggies and bake my own pies. I take care of a lot of people. I constantly cultivate the feminine principles. But I didn’t reproduce, and probably couldn’t do all I do now if I had. Simultaneously, I am appalled at the deplorable lack of parenting skills that has become the norm today – I mean utterly appalled, and fearful for the future of the human race and the planet because of it.
But back to the argument… To take it to the logical extreme, no ill-mannered slut is more of a woman than I am simply because she allowed the byproduct of her debaucherous life style to go full term. The act of breeding alone is not sacred. But proper parenting and good child-rearing, in my opinion, are. There are many nuances in societal human interaction. It really does take a village to raise a child. Thus, only a deficient intellect would reduce these complexities to the simplistic kind of interpretation proposed here.
I’m no big fan of Condi – I distrusted her Chevron background the day she came to work for George Bush, and I disliked her from the time she was spotted here in New York shoe shopping while New Orleans drowned. But, I do not for a moment discount her accomplishments – she is clearly brilliant, savvy, powerful; virtually peerless in many esteemed respects. I have an admiration for her, just as I admire Barbara Boxer for her grace and grit. I generally find myself allied with Sen. Boxer, but in my mind, Sec. Rice is to be congratulated for her navigation around the need to breed in order to bring herself to such a level of achievement. I don’t think she’d be the least bit threatened (indeed, she should be amused) by the insinuation, even if genuine, that she lacked womanhood simply because she lacked motherhood. And I would prefer to think more of Sen. Boxer than to believe she levied such a comment with this type of low-brow malice.
Posted by: Andrea C. | January 12, 2007, 12:22 pm 12:22 pm
ABC News Asks
No. Just rude….
Posted by: The Coalition of the Swilling | January 12, 2007, 12:22 pm 12:22 pm
Typical Democrats…..just what we should ecpect from them. Only 1 years and 11 1/2 months left.
Posted by: Mike | January 12, 2007, 12:24 pm 12:24 pm
This article is missing the point. Why is the US even still involved in this “War”. Where is the hunt for Bin Laden? USA supported Saddam Hussein with money and weapons and then we do a flip flop because Bush cannot hunt down Bin Laden.
My vote is with the previous poster, let us make a rule that every President who “declares war” or “war on terror” must send their children and grandchildren to the front lines.
Gone are the time of WWII when our soldiers were really fighting for the freedom of the US.
Today our soldiers are fighting for the greed of money and domination for the oil companies that are greasing the palms of this president REGIME.
Posted by: Lara | January 12, 2007, 12:24 pm 12:24 pm
To David L. – Have you been reading or watching the news lately? You really need to wake up. If you have been following Senator Boxer’s career as I have, I being a Californian, you would know that Senator Boxer’s comments were not an attack on Ms. Rice at all. She was mearly commenting on the fact that most of those who are making decisions about this war are not directly affected by it. The scary thing is that the media seems to be making this a “female” thing. I bet if it were MR. Rice, Senator Boxer would have made the same exact statement. Would it have been a “female” tactic then?
Posted by: Angela | January 12, 2007, 12:26 pm 12:26 pm
As a single, never been married, no children Military vets female. I take offense to the senator comments. I don’t have kids but have 3 sibiling who have been in the military. I have countless newphews and many friends who are still in the military. I have consider even going back to the reserve to serve my county again. I think of the freedom for all mankind and how great it would be for Iraq to share in that freedom. Even if it cost me my life.
Posted by: Callene | January 12, 2007, 12:30 pm 12:30 pm
I highly respect anyone who must, on a daily basis, think beyond “themselves” and what “their” personal cost is, and try to make decisions that actually affect an entire world. There are few women that belong in politics and postions where they have such global impact and influence. Thank God there is a woman capable of the type of work, and decision making Condoleza Rice does and is willing to do. For a woman to make such decisions and do the type of work Condoleza does responsibly, she cannot think with the type of emotions Boxer has inferred that she should.
Posted by: Laurie | January 12, 2007, 12:35 pm 12:35 pm
Wish I would have understood the below 30+ years ago when I got married. Is there a book on this stuff?
“And you need to understand female psychological warfare. The most effective bullet is the one that sails in looking like a butterly– the ‘innocent’ remark. There’s no defense against it. To defend against it is to validate it as an attack, and allow it to hit.
I think Condi should have stood up, walked out and called Boxer the ass that she is. An apology is in order from the low class Senator, but then she would have to admit that it was an evil attack. Perhaps she has the same joke writer as Senator Kerry.
Posted by: flyover | January 12, 2007, 12:39 pm 12:39 pm
As the leader of our country, President Bush has looked into the face of more mothers, fathers, husbands, wives, children, and fellow soldiers of killed and wounded heroes of this war personally than anyone on the face of this earth. To say that he or Condi would do different with a child in harms way is crazy. As his daughters being children of the President of the United States of America, they live in dangerous harms way everyday of their life long before any soldier set foot on Iraqs soil. Necessity has alway demanded, in war time, that our President make crucial decisions that affect countless lives and we should be proud that we have a strong leader who makes decisions with our countries future in mind. We are all weary of this war but as wise people learn from their personal struggles and battles in life, the cost of compromise or quitting is many, many times more costly than the resolve to win.
Posted by: Alan Barclay | January 12, 2007, 12:39 pm 12:39 pm
Yawn. Next I expect you’ll be talking about which woman dresses more feminine, and who bakes better chocolate chip cookies.
This isn’t news analysis. It’s a pathetically bad attempt by the old school media to compete with the blogs on news commentary. The problem is the old school media is constantly dumbing down everything.
Posted by: Renee | January 12, 2007, 12:47 pm 12:47 pm
Boxer’s comments were fine; she was only driving home the point that war is hell on the solders and their families, not on the politicians and/or their staff’s families.
Reading anything else into Boxer’s comments is looking for something to fight about.
I am 42 and don’t have kids; personally, I’m glad I don’t have any war babies this administration can appropriate to wage war.
Posted by: julie | January 12, 2007, 12:48 pm 12:48 pm
To: Andrea C.
You stated that whoever said “the greatest military blunder since Vietnam.” really does not need to discuss military history again. Madam, that person would be Senator Chuck Hagel, Republican from Nebraska. For you to suggest that Sen. Hagel shouldnt discuss military history because he doesnt understand the reality of what is currently going on is ABSOLUTELY ABSURD and your ignorance is appalling. Sen. Hagel was a ground troop who served during the Vietnam War’s fiercest fighting, and fought across the Cambodian border when the U.S. gov’t lied to the public and stated that wasn’t the case. To suggest the Sen. Hagel doesnt understand military history and strategy is an enormous flaw and reflection of your ignorance of the situation in Iraq.
Posted by: Bob | January 12, 2007, 12:51 pm 12:51 pm
It’s a sad day in America when stating a simple fact is bashed by the media as an “attack.”
Truth is dead. Now if only the mainstream media would finish dying off with it.
Posted by: cat | January 12, 2007, 12:52 pm 12:52 pm
WHO PAYS THE PRICE? Those who sign on to serve and defend the constitution. We have an all-volunteer army.
I’m really tired of all the mothers that are whining. No mother wants to lose her son, but her son is a man and he made the honorable and laudable decision to serve his country. Where would we be today if no one ever stood up to defend our country? I am the son of a 30-year Army veteran of 3 wars; my ancestors fought in every U.S. war since we had a country. My grandfather was known to cry only once in his life – when he signed the papers to allow his only child, his 17 year old son, to go off to fight in WW2. No doubt it was by far the hardest thing he ever did – but there was a job that had to be done.
Has anyone ever heard the phrase “Freedom is not free?”
Posted by: Millie Dogue | January 12, 2007, 12:53 pm 12:53 pm
We have so many problems in our own country that to be involved in Iraq is insane. We have American citizens who go hungry everyday.. we have American citizens in the south who were affected by hurricane Katrina who still have no jobs and no housing.. we have American citizens who have to make a choice everyday between food & heat or between heat & medication or between food & medication.. we should be ashamed! Why can’t we take of our own? Why are we spending billions of dollars there and not here? When are we going to have a government run by the people and for the people? I mean our own people.
Posted by: jackie | January 12, 2007, 12:55 pm 12:55 pm
FAHRENHEIT 9/11: “Out of the 535 members of Congress, only one had an enlisted son in Iraq.”
“Only four of the 535 members of Congress have children in the military; only one, Sen. Tim Johnson, D-S.D., has a child who fought in Iraq.” Kevin Horrigan, “Hired Guns,” St. Louis Post-Dispatch, May 11, 2003.
Posted by: truth | January 12, 2007, 12:56 pm 12:56 pm
There’s nothing in the constitution (or logic or common sense) that makes the opinion or authority of a single person, without children, any less valid than that of someone else.
Boxer simply illustrates the false compassion of the democrats which enslaves us all.
Posted by: Brian | January 12, 2007, 12:57 pm 12:57 pm
This had nothing to do w/Rice being single and childless…If I had been Sen. Boxer, I would have added, “President Bush’s daughters are not serving in the military (which actually make me feel safer, but I digress)…VP Cheney’s children are not serving in the military (although one has an excuse, but that’s another issue)…where are Rummy’s and Wolfie’s kids?
Posted by: phillygirl64 | January 12, 2007, 12:58 pm 12:58 pm
This is an issue? NPR attempted to turned Chuck Hagel’s impassioned questioning of Rice into a rude chastisement. Rice shares responsibility in the architecture and execution of a brutal and illegal war in which our soldiers and Iraqi civilians are being killed for the glory pursued by her boss. If they hold her feet to the fire in aggressive ways, she deserves that and worse treatment.
Posted by: Phil Barnes | January 12, 2007, 12:59 pm 12:59 pm
Will two powerful women ever be able to have a disagreement without some middle-aged media man calling it a cat fight? So they exchanged “harsh” words, so what? Plenty of men rant at each other like this and no one cares. And the bullet/butterfly comment sounds like it came out of the 1800s…
Lil’ Tapper did start quite a flame war and he got dinosaur ABC some attention with this article; hence I suppose he’d consider this piece of rubbish to be a success.
Posted by: Erica | January 12, 2007, 1:00 pm 1:00 pm
To Andrea C. Shame on you for speaking of your mother in that manner. She revolved her life around her children as millions of people do.
I can only hope your are the happy, successfull, wonderful person you state yourself to be.
As for the Rice vs. Boxer argument, it is clearly a Republican/Democrat thing.
Posted by: Brenda | January 12, 2007, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm
Boxer has a VERY valid point. Why isn’t president Bush’s daughters at war like alot of americans are. This decision has very little affect on the politicians at all because it is not their family. This War is over controlling Oil PERIOD. I have had many of family members over there already and they will ALL tell you the same thing!!!
Posted by: Michelle | January 12, 2007, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm
No statement Boxer made is false.
Truth, unfamiliar territory to this administration, is the cause of Rice’s consternation.
Posted by: Ross | January 12, 2007, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm
There are no innocent comments in D.C. – every word is carefully considered; not only for content, but also impact. There is no strenght in a personal attack; unfortunately that is the only thing coming out of Washington these days. Also keep in mind we are heading into the next election cycle with everyone on both sides of the fence trying to straddle the issues. We witnessed this yesterday after the Presidents speech. Everyone of the Representatives, and Senators who commented really don’t care about the issues their main concern is maintaining their power base, and unfortunately we are going to see much more of this infighting than we are real solutions to the mess we are in. At this point we have to support or troops ABOVE ALL the hell with politics. Fund them adequately to do their jobs – when I hear Members of the House and the Senate indicate they want to pull the plug on funding I feel this is a disgrace. Yes, disagree with the situation, try to change policy, in a constructive way, but to put any of our Armed Forces at any additional risk for the sake of a “sound bite” that you can use for your re-election – really. Our choice to be in Iraq is done; we now have to find a way to leave, but with some sort of stability in place when we do leave. What we loose sight of the fact we are faced with an enemy that does’nt follow the normal rules of conflict, and will strike where ever they want if they get the chance. To those in policy positions; they don’t risk as much as the rest of us common citizens, but we have elected them, and as a democracy; which those who choose to hate us will never understand; we can and must hold them accountable. What the American public should do is make our voices heard – contact your Representatives – Senators let them know that they need to do their jobs, and quit attacking each other and focus on what is really important.
Posted by: Gene | January 12, 2007, 1:05 pm 1:05 pm
It seems all evil people are single and childless these days! No love in their hearts for anyone but themselves!!
Posted by: erick morton | January 12, 2007, 1:05 pm 1:05 pm
This is news? This is the debate you want the American public to have? It would seem that you have missed the entire point of the hearing. Maybe you should be reporting for Teen People or Hollywood Extra instead of ABC News.
Posted by: Rebecca | January 12, 2007, 1:09 pm 1:09 pm
Another catty remark by one of all the fabulous dames in the Congress who simply can’t stand the fact that they are not the most powerful woman in this country. Sorry Pelosi, but run a poor second. Hillary, I can’t hear you.
Posted by: Rosalie | January 12, 2007, 1:09 pm 1:09 pm
Who Cares? Those two can take care of themselves. How about bringing all of our children home……biological or not………they are ours. We’ve all lost too much already and it looks as though if King George gets his way we will lose thousands more.
Barb
Posted by: Barb | January 12, 2007, 1:10 pm 1:10 pm
Way to go Senator Boxer………..finally someone has the (guts) to stand up to “Condi” cute little name for a war freak just like Bush.
Posted by: Camille | January 12, 2007, 1:10 pm 1:10 pm
When Michael Moore made the same point, he wasn’t accused of using “Female Psycholical Warfare”. I noticed that the columnist uses a quote from a woman to make his “cat fight” point.
Posted by: Lurcher | January 12, 2007, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm
This is another overblown issue just like the Kerry “Botched” joke.
The simple fact is our fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters are stuck over there with NO EXIT STRATEGY.
The 3000 plus dead American soldiers resulting from POOR PLANNING and INADEQUATE EQUIPMENT don’t get us in an uproar.
Yet we get offended or enraged over TONE and WORDS between to bickering political parties.
What a Joke!
We can’t leave because we can’t CUT & RUN, we need to have the resolve to win. Somebody please tell me what that actually means…since this administration won’t tell me what it is? Do we want the Shia’s or Sunni’s in power? Cause that is the choice, there is no third option. There is NOT GOING TO BE A UTOPIAN Iraq with all 3 sides playing nice, so what is the point of staying. Pride, sorry, I’d rather have my kid home with a battered ego.
Posted by: ss | January 12, 2007, 1:16 pm 1:16 pm
“So who pays the price? The American military and their families.”
How is this controversial? People who fear be reminded that blogging, and speaking, and shouting down others, in favor of the war is all very fine, but like to forget that there are few paying a high price for a policy many (used to) favor. If you take offense at this, you need to a good long look at yourself.
Posted by: JT | January 12, 2007, 1:16 pm 1:16 pm
Boxer is a freak..just like every other politician from California, especially Pelosi.
Posted by: TB | January 12, 2007, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm
Everyone needs to stop whining about who’s kids are serving in the military. This is an all volunteer military and our young men and women who elected to serve proudly need our help to support them. Because of them, we Americans have a choice to serve or not. When the draft is re-established then you bean counters can bitch about which kids are serving and which are not. Until then, stop whining and support our military!!!
Posted by: Gulf Vet | January 12, 2007, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm
To Bob:
You’re reading the posts wrong. In this format, the poster’s name FOLLOWS the post – it’s confusing b/c of the way the site sets up the broken lines between posts. I think you’re responding to Gabe. My rant was about womanhood not being contingent upon motherhood. Peace.
Posted by: Andrea C. | January 12, 2007, 1:18 pm 1:18 pm
Ha-ha. You go Senator Boxer. It obviously has nothing to do with Rice being single. This is something many talk about everyday. They have nothing to lose in this war that is based on deceiving the American people and using the American military to invade a nation without just cause. We have enough problems in America with race relations, poor healthcare, homelessness, etc., etc. Yet we are in someone else’s screwed up country trying to “help” them. Right. I guess they need one last shot at that oil.
Men and women are dying before they have a chance to live and they don’t care because their kids and loved ones are not the ones fighting blindly for their causes. It should be an honor to serve and defend ones country but their is no honor in the military’s leader right now and thus no honor in their lives being lost. Someone should tell the truth and shame those devils.
Posted by: Angel | January 12, 2007, 1:19 pm 1:19 pm
Conservatives: Please, please be quiet about this. Haven’t you heard the adage, “When your opponent is self destructing, it’s best to get out of the way”. Liberals: Please, please continue to support this form of debate. We are interested in how you really feel, and these types of exchanges are where you can really get off your chests your inner feelings so all Americans can see what is in your heart. Senator Boxer: thank you thank you! And please don’t stop and don’t let the media tell you what you can and can’t say. Who are they to tell you, the mighty senator anyhow? They are jerks! You just keep on letting us know how you view the world. You may now continue the rants.
Posted by: Neil | January 12, 2007, 1:20 pm 1:20 pm
Since when was “female” psychological warfare any different than “male” psychological warfare. It’s ALL psychological warfare which is the way humans communicate sometimes. The real problem is that we as a nation at war need to fully support the effort and do everything that is neccessary to win it.
Posted by: Tim H. | January 12, 2007, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm
I think that it is beyond wrong that a United States Senator would launch an attack on a government official exposing that an official’s policy will not have an adverse effect on that official. I can say with confidence that a professional policy maker’s policies usually do not affect themselves. I am sure many of Senator Boxer’s controversial policies that she voted for did not affect her but had an adverse effect on various citizens. Also, to suggest that a human being and Secretary of State would be tossing around troops, other human beings, without any moral compass is truly inhumane. I am sure the safety of the troops weighs very heavily on the minds of all Americans, especially the ones charged with that safety. Finally, the ability to lead is one that sometimes comes with the understanding that you must do what you think is right regardless of the opposition. I believe in this to an extent but look at the reaction of the troops to more troops, not the Honorable Senator from California. Elder Bush had about 500,000 troops when he went into Iraq. Today we have around 150,000. This is not “the greatest military blunder since Vietnam.” P.S. Whoever said that really does not need to discuss military history again.
Posted by: Gabe | January 12, 2007, 1:26 pm 1:26 pm
Red Herring. It’s a voluntary military. There is no arm-twisting involved, and you seldom hear troop complaining…as well they could be do to repeated deployments.
Politicians who complain, see poll numbers and take the easy out of attacking the President, who in contrast can take the correct path (albeit also easy)since he will never run for reelection.
The correct path acknowledges that should we leave or cut-back too soon, it risks $100 oil barrels, Turkish attacks into Kurdish territories, Iranian attempted takeovers of Shiite territories, Saudi military backing of Sunnis and their equal oil rights, Iranian acceleration of plutonium enrichment, and the resulting nuclear arms race of other Arab nations, prompting preemptive nuclear action by Israel against those most likely to use such weapons against them.
The downside to doing the right thing: slightly increased casualties in what has been and will continue to be a low-casualty war for the US in contrast to Viet Nam and Korea, let alone the World Wars, or our own Civil War.
Our politicians cannot cite relatively low casualty figures and get reelected. They also cannot point to fighting for low oil prices and corresponding uninterrupted supplies. They cannot get Americans to figure out the consequences of a nuclear Iran. So politicians do what politicians do and shoot the messenger with poll backing.
Condi should have said something about baking cookies versus saving the world, but someone else already tried that rather unsuccessfully…and her child never fought anywhere either.
Posted by: Cole | January 12, 2007, 1:28 pm 1:28 pm
Boy I have heard this before! I am a pediatrician who turns out to be single and without children. Does the above mean that I care less or lack the adequate emotional involvement regarding the medical outcome of the sick infants that I treat, as opposed to my married with children’s colleagues? Ms. Boxer’s comments to Ms. Rice are ridiculous. She should be ashamed of herself. She doesn’t need cheap, low blows to debate the issue. I doubt she would have used the same argument if she was addressing Colin Powell.
Posted by: IG MD | January 12, 2007, 1:29 pm 1:29 pm
Of course Ms. Boxer meant this as an “attack”. She simply hedged her language like most talking heads. This is why the majority of Amercans approve of the Donald – we don’t have to wonder what he was saying.
Posted by: Hunter | January 12, 2007, 1:32 pm 1:32 pm
We shouldn’t focus on two female politicians but what is really at stake. The lives of several soldiers that are fighting a war that is increasingly becoming unwinnable. We should not forget that when signing up to defend this country there are risks. Unfortunately it is not just an opportunity to see the world and get paid to go to college. When you sign up for serving your country the risk is there that you will be called up to duty in the event of war and that you may lose your life while doing it. I for one am very greatful for the American soldiers on foreign as well as domestic soil serving this country so that we sustain what we as Americans stand for. Let us not take shots at one another but focus our attentions on the real threat of the fact that there are people who are sleepless finding ways to kill us and destroy our way of living and it was not because we chose to go to war with Iraq. The threat has always been there. Let those 3000 soldiers lives be remembered with dignity of serving this country and not in vain as some of these politicians and politician want to be’s, would like it to be remembered. Let’s put our heads together and get this job done.
Posted by: Page | January 12, 2007, 1:34 pm 1:34 pm
It wasn’t a choice of cut & run or stand and fight. It wasn’t a choice of eliminate Iraq or lose the United States. In fact it was never a choice… to begin with.
Bush Hawks & company needed a cause for the administration given them by the Supremes. They ware already planning the Iraq war before 9/11 and those incidents gave them justification for their plans. Each cause of the invasion and war has been shown to be wrong. Intelligence officials told the admin. it was wrong. Plain and simple Bush needed and wanted a war.
Now, a volunteer army is shipped like cattle to a slaughter, and for what? We destroyed any infrastructure Iraq may have had left after the war by the means we used to govern and supervise it. We provided the means, if not the methods, of opening the door to Iran, and now complain because Iraq, limited, cannot close it.
In medieval times, the kings led their armys to war. This was expected. Perhaps it is time to return to those practices. Want to make war? Get in front of your army and lead, not safely at the back pushing my countrymen to their death.
Two closing thoughts of others, paraphrased:
1. War cannot determine who is right, only who is left.
2. War is the last refuge of the incompetent politician.
Posted by: kbutler | January 12, 2007, 1:35 pm 1:35 pm
I don’t believe that the senator intended to attack the secretary on a personal basis. But, what the senator failed to understand is what is more important, country or family, to anybody, be it a public official or an ordinary citizen. In my opinion, country is more important than family. The question is whether or not the war was a necessary war in the first place. I am not sure if she voted for the war in 2003. If she did, she does have the moral ground to disapprove the new strategy now.
As far as one believes that the war is a necessary war to defend the country, he or she has to die for it. I don’t think that the Bush administration has made the decision to go to war because members of his administration don’t have family members in the army. I don’t think that his administration is less concerned and less thoughtful than the senator for the loss of life. The bottom line is instead of attacking each other for political or other reasons, it is better to stand together and get rid of the problem for once and all. Not doing everything possible to come out victorious in this war will be a tragic mistake of the 21st century.
Posted by: Sebebu | January 12, 2007, 1:39 pm 1:39 pm
President Bush has the SOUL responsibility to protect our country and citizens. He is standing alone right now in the face of considerable oposition and standing up for the courage of his convictions. He told us after 9/11 that he would do everything in his power to prevent another attack on the United States. He has done so. His strategy for Baghdag is very logical and on a smaller scale already worked in NYC (with 2500 murders annually). Mayor Guiliani segregated the worst neighborhoods, took them over, the criminals left and the NYC police stayed and didn’t let them come back. Once Baghdag feels safe they can become the democracy they deserve. I believe that if the U.S. military left Iraq now; the entire world would become even more unsafe. Leaving will imbolden the terrorists and they would declare victory! Why can’t anyone offer up a solution for victory? Maybe because it’s easier to criticize then to decide on what’s in our country’s best interest. Well, Dems, “what would you do if you were in charge”. Ms. Rice is well equipped to take care of herself; I’m sure she simply considered the source of the comment and immediately dismissed it. Afterall, doesn’t Boxer know we have an all volunteer Military.
Posted by: Barbara | January 12, 2007, 1:45 pm 1:45 pm
I think it’s ridiculous to have a “female friend” commenting on this matter. And your female friend seems to have a view of female behavior right out of the dark ages. Or the Republican Party.
Posted by: DKNY | January 12, 2007, 1:46 pm 1:46 pm
Someone worries about poor Condi Rice after all the blantant lies she has told we the people. You have GOT to be kidding!!!!
Posted by: Ala Claxton | January 12, 2007, 2:14 pm 2:14 pm
Your female friend needs to take a Midol. Boxer’s remark was: (a) empirically true, and (b) not about Condi. If Condi or your female friend or anyone else takes offense at Boxer’s remark, that person is internalizing it and that person has a problem, not Boxer.
I consider myself a feminist, and I take exception to the idea that women are obligated to dance around empirical facts so as to not upset each other.
Posted by: cordelia525 | January 12, 2007, 2:15 pm 2:15 pm
Okay everyone. My dad enlisted in the Navy in 1938. On December 7, 1941, he was on the battleship USS Maryland in the middle of Pearl Harbor when Japan attacked. After the Pearl attack, he was involved in all of the major South Pacific battles at Tarawa, Saipan, Leyte Gulf, just to name a few. Did he enjoy war, hell no, but he reinlisted after his first tour of duty was over. My dad realized that something bigger than himself was at stake.
On September 11, 2001, hyjacking terrorists took over US commercial planes and using the planes as bombs, flew them into the World Trade Center.
The attack on Pearl Harbor and the attack on the World Trade Center are called “acts of war.”
Whenever a United States’ Embassy is attacked, it’s an “act of war.”
Since 9/11, our government has successfully stopped many attempts by terrorists inside the United States.
Right around the corner from my home there was a Pakistani family. One morning in June, 2004, while taking my daughter to school, out of nowhere appeared four helicopters, FBI and CIA agents in flak jackets, the ATF, and local police, all with exposed rifles, guns, etc. This family had ties to terrorists. This, my dear people, was a little too close for comfort for me.
So, go ahead and bash the President and whomever else in the government. But just the fact that we, as US citizens, can freely go on the internet, sleep peacefully at night, go to the movies, shop whenever we like, without the fear of wondering where or when bombs would strike in the United States (maybe our neighbor’s house, or maybe our very own home) is enough for me to support President Bush and our military.
Please don’t continue the Democrat against Republican thing anymore. We are all US citizens and we are damned lucky!
Believe me, I cry every time I see a wounded or dead US or ally soldier. But I give them my utmost respect for taking on a job that most of us will not or cannot do.
I truly believe it is in the best interest of our nation to stand firmly behind President Bush and our troops. They truly realize what is going on and are serving us unselfishly.
We cannot leave Iraq until we have given them the opportunity to get on their feet. If we leave now, we risk not only our own security, we risk global security. The terrorists are embedded as it is now all over the world, even in our own country. Now is not the time to retreat.
As the saying goes; “When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”
The Pearl Harbor Survivors Association motto is:
“Remember Pearl Harbor – Keep America Alert.”
The men and women enlisted in our armed forces are very special people. I thank God everyday for them.
God Bless America!
Posted by: emg | January 12, 2007, 3:07 pm 3:07 pm
This is definitely an overblown issue. Rice does not have children fighting in this war. I am sure that only a small handful of elected officials and high up policy makers even know someone in the military. Boxer was making an excellent point that this government is quick to send average Joe Americans to fight this blood for oil war while they go off in their SUV’s and have steak dinners with their jerk friends.
Posted by: Vanessa | January 12, 2007, 3:14 pm 3:14 pm
Cordelia: As always, you’ve said it better than I did.
Posted by: DKNY | January 12, 2007, 3:40 pm 3:40 pm
Someone needs to answer those important questions.
I was a Bush Supporter, but now I find myself wondering if he has any connection with realty.
My Daughter (26 years old) just attended the funeral of her best friend’s husband who died when a bomb when off under his vehicle in Iraq.
My other daughter (23) has a good friend that was a Marine. He made it thru 2 tours of duty in Iraq. To us that is a miracle! My oppinion now is to get these people out of there NOW. It doesn’t, matter what we do there, they will just fight each other as soon as we leave. History, Yugoslavia. As soon as the dictator was gone, (after 50 years) they started fighting each other again.
Posted by: K E Stachura | January 12, 2007, 3:43 pm 3:43 pm
Unbelievable – we still have people confusing 9/11 with Iraq. Still unable to recognize how Bush’s Iraq war has dangerously weakened our nation, in military and international standing. That not only has he stoked the fever of our enemies this way, but that the price tag for this war has impinged our ability to protect ourselves. That he has snubbed the recommendations of the 9/11 Commission while actually increasing the threats to our security.
Unbelievable that there are those who still think that supporting the troops means marching them into mayhem, a civil war, without a clear battle plan or an exit strategy. Update for those in the dark: The troops themselves are the targets of the insurgency, that’s what Murtha was flipping out about a YEAR ago. The situation has only worsened. You want to support your troops? Get them the hell outta there. You wanna support Iraq, which is the least we can do now that we’ve turned them all on their heads? Me too, but their new government needs to step up to the freakin plate and show some interest in their new democracy, instead of funding their tribal friends and using American soldiers as pounds of flesh for barter. Support Dubya, the illegitimate faux president? Ha!
Sure, God bless America, as long as she’s doing the right thing – and everyone else in the world, too.
Posted by: Mary | January 12, 2007, 3:45 pm 3:45 pm
Sen. Boxer lodged a personal attack on Dr. Rice during her nomination hearing. So it isn’t much of a stretch to believe this was a continuation of her animosity towards Dr. Rice. Had a Republican made the same comment to an official within a Democratic administration the Democrats would be demanding an apology. But I, personally, believe too much is being made of the comment. Dr. Rice showed much grace and dignity in not responding to the comment.
Posted by: James Danley | January 12, 2007, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm
I was a Bush Supporter, “but now I am not!!”
Why does that sound familiar?
First I was for it and now I am against it.
You people crack me up!
A little late now don’t ya think!
Senator Boxer did the right thing….period!
“President Bush has the SOUL responsibility to protect our country and citizens. He is standing alone right now in the face of considerable oposition and standing up for the courage of his convictions. He told us after 9/11 that he would do everything in his power to prevent another attack on the United States. He has done so. ”
Yeah! well I have some sad news for you Iraq had nothing to do with 9/11!
Thats why there was an attack on the US Embassy in Athens this morning.
He said he would get Bin Ladin.
Well there is no hide or hair of him is there.
Condie Rices excuse for him not listening to the memos in 2001 before 9/11.
He was tired of swatting flie! I like to know what flies he was swatting, unless of course that was her way of saying there was going to a lot of horse……. coming out of the whitehouse!
Posted by: Theresa | January 12, 2007, 5:12 pm 5:12 pm
I thank God every day for the courage that President Bush has demonstrated throughout his presidency. Unlike his predecessors, who were only interested in keeping the status quo in the Middle East — in spite of the building powder keg and frequent suicide bombings — President Bush has a vision of a free and democratic Middle East. But this is a lengthy, expensive and very painful process.
This is analogous to a cancer patient. One can just maintain the status quo and treat the pain with painkillers, but the cancer still eats away the tissue and eventually the life is lost. Or one can attempt to eradicate the cancer with chemotherapy, radiation therapy, biological therapy, surgery or a combination of some or all of these treatments. But each of these treatments may have extremely serious side effects, which in and of themselves, can be unbearable. And the patient may frequently express doubt as to whether it is worth all the pain. But if successful, the patient can live a normal life for years. And, undoubtedly, the patient is forever thankful for having gone through the process.
Posted by: James Danley | January 12, 2007, 5:45 pm 5:45 pm
Senator Boxer, although fundamentally valid in her pointed frustration, was more of a grand stander, in her address to Secretary Rice. Who pays the price; was her banter, but what exactly was her point? Why was she acting like she was engaged in caring for the concerns of our countries patriots. Where was Senator Boxer when terrorism was known throughout the Clinton years? This is not a simple matter of winning freedom for Iraq. If we can not launch operations from a friendly ally in the Middle East we are going to be in deep trouble when Iran and Syria escalate the threat; and ‘yes’ they will escalate the threat. We need an ally in that geographical location or we are going to be continually threatened by extremist.
My heart breaks for my comrades in arms and their children and loved ones who suffer with them; however, we do not honor or help them by tearing our country a part in political debate. If Boxer really wanted to help she would find a way to unite this country in a campaign that spurs this nation towards a collective stand; one that supports the necessary sacrifice to defeat this threat. Terrorism is not going to go away… even the President stated, during the early days of 911, that this fight will be ours, our children’s, and our children’s children, to fight. Wake up! ‘Career politicians;’ who ‘this American’ feels is the real problem.
It is time for senators and congressmen to quite running for office, using the Presidency as a scapegoat, and start doing their job to support their country. We are at war and politicians need to also be soldiers in combat; servants that do not have the option of saying ‘no’ to their commander and chief’s call to duty. Our governing officials should be helping the enlistment efforts; after all, they are a paid servants just like those in boots. They need to get off their aristocratic pedestals and start earning that fat pay check, benefit package, and ‘pork feed’ job security.
Why do we keep pointing out the fact that other nations are holding back their support? When has any nation given more towards the pursuit of world freedom than the American people? Wake up! It is time to quit filling the media with pessimistic commentaries that only weaken our countries posture; if the world has no respect for us, the congress, senate, and every condescending American is responsible.
It is my prayer that a shift of spirit and resolve will sweep upon this great nation so that every American will realize the need to get involved and support our efforts towards global stabilization. If there were a past mistake worthy of mentioning it would have to be the moment, after 911, when the country was told to go about their business as usual. In stead, Americans should have been instructed in ways to become involved; much like the efforts to conserve resources during the Second World War. We needed a readiness plan. Failing to involve every American was the biggest mistake; and one that the enemy does not hesitate to employ in their media exploits.
Do not waste our time, Senator Boxer, with your unprofessional outbursts, aimed at the heart strings of Americans. These are the times when the tough need to get tougher and we need to get behind the efforts to stop the insane ‘world’ violence that will, if not dealt with, bring this great nation to its knees. Make no mistake, all you on the hilltops of society, it is not the warriors, or their families, that do a disservice to this nation; instead, as Senator Boxer alluded, it is those that do not have any vested interest or are not choosing to “Pay the Price.” In the Second World War the home front united and paid the sacrifice to win the battle; where is that commitment now?
God Bless America
Robert R. White
Former Gunnery Sergeant
United States Marine Corps
Portland, Oregon
Posted by: Robert R. White | January 12, 2007, 10:09 pm 10:09 pm
So with 3019 US troops dead from combat in Iraq, perhaps 600,000 Iraqi civilian deaths (at least 30,000 admitted by US and Iraqi officials), an Iraqi standard of living destroyed economically, socially in terms of human rights for females and non-Muslims, and in terms of security – all for a war of choice so that Bush could satisfy an Oedipal need to show up his daddy, and so Rice could please her – as she said – “husband” (meaning Bush) – all this and the thing ABC wants to discuss if whether or not Boxer was being mean in noting that Rice had no one that had been, was, or would be at risk from the Bush/Rice decisions to invade a country that did not threaten us, under the cover of a lie that the country did threaten us.
The media (including ABC) was never been other than a cheerleader for the Bush/Rumsfeld/Cheney/Rice war to get votes, and now the media wants us to ponder if Boxer was mean. Pathetic. But such is to be expected of a media not controlled by the right wing GOP Rich and Corporate – they just act that way.
Loved the way you folks never do a flip-flop count on Bush and the GOP like you did on Kerry, or a Brown suit means less of a man story on a GOP political fiqure, like you did on Gore. But ABC Political Boss Mark Halperin does not see a bias – so I guess there must not be one.
Picking up Murdoch’s NY Post and Fox News Smears is just reporting what other responsible media outlets are reporting – eh?
Posted by: papau | January 12, 2007, 11:52 pm 11:52 pm
Politicians who have a heart that says ‘when you hurt, I hurt. Your loss is mine as much as it is your’ are fast becoming an ‘endangered species’. I don’t think the Senator’s remark to Dr. Rice was as much a snide at the well accomplished Secretary as it is an unwitting admission of her own shameful selfishness. Of course, her children are either too old or too young so she has nothing to lose personally. Well, this is about America and not about the Boxer clan. Now, we know whether or not the Senator is for “God and Country” or for “me and my own”. Go Boxer, you have nothing to lose, not even your reputation because it is already in the mud!
Posted by: Zizi Yosheved | January 13, 2007, 1:46 pm 1:46 pm
While I have very little respect for Secretary Rice’s policies, I can not overlook the snide remarks from Senator Boxer.
As a reasonably successful (divorced)African American female, with no children, I understand the difficulties associated with finding an appropriate partner. Successful African American males are few and far between when compared to the number of available successful African American females. Rather than kick Dr. Rice to the curb because she has no children, I would tell Senator Boxer that it is to Dr. Rice’s credit that at least she has not crossed the color line in matrimony as she has done in her public policy work.
There are many single African American women similarly situated i.e. Oprah Winfrey, that theoretically could have any man their money could buy. Yet, they remained mindful of the fact that race matters in the USA.
Posted by: Sandra Lang | January 15, 2007, 3:21 pm 3:21 pm
Good Lord, what a joke! If any woman in Condi’s position is offended by this, then she doesn’t have the preverbal “balls” to be in the job. I read the transcript and this is so over blown it’s ridiculous. All she meant was the neither had no family members that were being affected. Which is a fact.
Talk about spin…. To use this as a springboard for any discussion is a joke.
Female psychological warfare??? I think I must be reading a comic book here.
What do you label it as when men speak frankly?
Posted by: NBM | January 16, 2007, 10:04 am 10:04 am
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A Nov. 15 2007 AP story indicates Chevron was fined $30M by the SEC for bribing Saddams’s thugs in the “oil for food” deal and that Chevron may face tax evasion charges later. The bribes were in the millions so someone pretty high up at Chevron had to sign off on the payments. Unfortunately the AP story did not mention Dr. Condoleezza Rice the Chevron board member and the chairman of the “Public Policy Committee” which is responsible for making sure this kind of activity does not happen.
The Chevron website says the committee’s purposes include “identifying, evaluating and monitoring social, political and environmental trends, issues and concerns”, “analyzing how public policy trends could impact business activities and performance”. Dr. Rice never discussed the Iraqi bribes on the record (not in the minutes) at company meetings. That should not surprise anyone who is familiar with her lack of response to 911 warnings.
President Clinton put sanctions on Iraq. Actions by Chevron and Rice clearly violated those sanctions and amount to treason. I urge our new Attorney General Michael Mukasey and California Attorney General Jerry Brown determine who at Chevron authorized the millions in bribes.
Ellis
Posted by: ELLIS GOLDBERG | November 16, 2007, 3:50 am 3:50 am