By Jennifer Parker

Feb 27, 2008 8:55am

‘Sometimes You Eat the B’ar and Sometimes the B’ar, Wal, He Eats You’ (Or: A Contemplation of Senator Clinton’s Humanity)

Clinton-detractors/haters/critics be forewarned, I intend to contemplate her as a human being in this blog post.

Just something buzzing through my head for discussion purposes.

Sen. Hillary Clinton, D-NY, entered this presidential race with the media thinking she’s too calculated, too cold, too contrived.

In the last few days/weeks, we’ve seen a different side of her. (Or sides.)

Whatever you think of her, she has in some ways "let it all hang out," as her generation used to say. Showing affection one day, anger the next, sarcasm another, stoicism the next, frustration last night.

Maybe that’s not on message, or even presidential, but it is human.

They say that a gaffe is when a politician accidentally tells the truth. We’ve seen in the last couple debates Sen. Clinton let her guard down and show how she’s really feeling.  Whether it was her valedictory mood in the Texas debate or her annoyance with the media last night.

Now, here’s the thing. When you’re down and out, self-pity is a natural impulse. We’ve all been there. And the self-pity can weigh you down even more, making an ascent even tougher.

You know what that feels like. I know what it feels like.

Luckily for us, we don’t have to go through that with 300 million people watching.

When the history of Clinton’s presidential campaign is written — and who knows, it could be written after her two terms as president of the U.S. — pundits will contemplate the Obama phenomenon, the role of the media, and her campaign’s myriad missteps.

Her campaign has not risen to the level of what she offers as a candidate, and how she’s come across as a candidate does not equal who she seems to be in real life. For someone whose claim to the presidency is her preparedness, Clinton has not shown the kind of agility in this campaign that her supporters might have hoped for.

And as the candidate, she is ultimately responsible for all of it. You think Romney thought the prejudice against (and media fascination with) his religion was fair? You think John McCain thinks last week’s New York Times story about him was fair? You think Rudy Giuliani thinks the media treatment of him was particularly kind? Is John Edwards of the belief that the media paid sufficient attention to his ideas and proposals? Chris Dodd? Joe Biden?

Them’s the breaks, no one ever said any of this was fair. Certainly George H.W. Bush didn’t think the media coverage was fair when he ran against Bill Clinton in 1992, and he had a point, too. (As The Stranger put it in The Big Lebowski: "Wal, a wiser fella than m’self once said, sometimes you eat the b’ar and sometimes the b’ar, wal, he eats you.")

But Clinton’s reaction to it all has all been, at the very least, very human. Unfortunately for her, humanity often means fallibility. Maybe you think it seems desperate, or whiny.

But it does seem human. You gotta give her that.

Or don’t you? What do you think?

- jpt

User Comments

I agree with most of your assessment. I think it’s interesting that a week or so ago it was sexist for Obama to say she was “feeling down” or else people assumed he meant down in the polls. Now it seems to be a universally accepted premise that she and her campaign are in fact, feeling down.
Aside from feeling down, her big emotional displays from the past few days, sarcasm, outrage, graciousness all seemed on-message for what she was trying to do at the time. The campaign has just been trying multiple different strategies in rapid succession.

Posted by: taricha | February 27, 2008, 9:27 am 9:27 am

I think you haven’t done your job because every other candidate has had his or her weaknesses examined in the pres and vetted but you wont go near Obama’s with a ten foot poll. Black power church, cocaine use, not convening the committee that deals with Afghanistan in the senate while campaigning that it should have been the US primority and that would have been good judgement, no experience, sying he’s invade Pakistan bringing that nation to the brink of marchal law, saying Hillary just drank tea with world leaders, (sexist comments are aok in this campaign), Calls Clinton the senator from the Punjab (Racism ok too as long as its directed at south Asisans) Axelrod blaming her for Bhuto’s death, that’s ok too.
The press hasn’t done it’s job with Obama. As you have pointed out it has done its job with every other candidate.
You know Obama talks about havnig good judgement. Well I know an awful lot of people who haven’t done cocaine. Lots of people who have as well, and I question the judgement of all of them. The man was raised white, priviledged, has two Muslim fathers, like it or not, three parents with PHD’s, hardly a difficult upbringing, went to exclusive private schools and chose to do cocaine. He equaltes himself with MLK, JFK, Linclon, Mandela and even on occassion Moses. But he has done nothing and talks about nothing.
I’m sorry change what???? He has no burning human rights agenda that any of these men did. He hasn’t worked across the isle in the senate like HIllary has. He is the most Liberal senator and has NO history of getting republicans to accept left of the left of the left legislation. He doesn’t even show up most of the time.
If Obama was white he would have been laughed at. If Obama was a woman he would have been scorned. The press HAS NOT DONE ITS JOB. But the Republican Party will. Then this empty suit full of himself and hot air will lose the white house again.
Well done MSM. WEll done.
And no it isn’t fair that you explored every other candidates weaknesses but Obama’s.

Posted by: s.b. | February 27, 2008, 9:34 am 9:34 am

Well Said S.B!!!

Posted by: paris | February 27, 2008, 9:38 am 9:38 am

Jake,
Maybe it is a new type of Presidential, someone who uses both sides of the brain. We’ve had 44 left-brainers in a row, so the concept of Presidential may be slightly skewed that direction. Forgot on message. She’s fighting a media heck-bent on destroying her, so all bets are off. You want to be able to pin her down. She’s choosing to stay unpinned. Obama, on the other hand, is easy.

Posted by: WestCoastMessenger | February 27, 2008, 9:41 am 9:41 am

I like Sensitive Hill and Sarcastic Hill and Fightin Hill all better than Programmed Hill.
I guess one problem is that she’s been presenting herself to the Public as Programmed Hill for some 35 years. You can’t just re-image yourself overnight. The people have no idea about who you actually are or what you actually stand for. Example: see Mitt Romney.
Another problem is that she had to work for the nomination against someone who seems more competent. She was not just annointed the Party’s successor to the throne the way the Republican Party annoited GWB. You think Lamar Alexander and McCain thought that was fair in 2000?
The final chapter of this election has yet to be written. HRC still has a lot of say on how that chapter reads.

Posted by: The Commander Guy | February 27, 2008, 9:46 am 9:46 am

I think her bahaviour the last month has shown that from an emotional standpoint she is all over the boar and as far as her antics over the week end….only Joan Collins, does Alexis Colby better.
From her tears, which would NOT bode well for us in tight spots that she would have likely had to deal with if she did happen to win just cannot be allowed. I mean come on Jack. Picture her in tears during a camp David meeting with Heads of State if something did not go her way or someone said something that hurt her. She claims to have been vetted and shown she can take it yet she hasn’t been vetted…where are her tax returns? If your going to claim to let it all hang out, where are the tax returns…oh that’s right it’s going to take some time to pick them up and hand them over..kinda like her personal papers from her 8 years as first lady…she will get to those soon…well good luck with getting those! Like the spouse of an abuser, which she is, we ( the American public) wake up each day wondering who she is going to be today.
d.

Posted by: Sam | February 27, 2008, 9:54 am 9:54 am

Hillary is all calculated, she is all programmed, feeling that she is born to lead on DAY ONE, full of arrogance, all is about self. The bad management of her compaign is a clear demonstration of her lack of skills to run the US. Her vote for the war in irak and to condemn the Iranian cost guards as a terrorist group in support of Bush-Cheney are a demonstration of her lack of judgement in international affairs, she cannot be Commander in Chief. Media is to blame for everything, no media has been fair to all and pointed out weaknesses of each candididate on both sides. Let us not blame media for anything because Bill and Hill are the authors of this situations

Posted by: BKMC | February 27, 2008, 10:03 am 10:03 am

Finally, Obama was put on the spot about the Farrankhan endorsement and his church’s likewise endorsement of Farrankhan. Obama wiggled the best he could to get out of the Clinton attack and had no choice but to reject Farrankhan’s endorsement publicly. I tell you this guy is dangerous!!

Posted by: Pee Vee, Long Island | February 27, 2008, 10:17 am 10:17 am

I agree with you. Usually, people don’t let on how they really feel because it’s not politically correct, but these days sometimes you are a bona fide hypocrite if you stick to being politically correct all the time. Hillary Clinton has been playing hardball all along. A lot of her detractors are people who probably wouldn’t be able to stand living through one day of a campaign. Even though I disagree with a few of her platforms, I think she did a great job. A woman’s strength and power lies in the expression of her feelings, but unfortunately politics and the corporate world don’t want to allow room for this. It’s the old boys’ game again.

Posted by: jnnttlc | February 27, 2008, 10:25 am 10:25 am

What is that, some sort of an eastern thing?

Posted by: The Dude | February 27, 2008, 10:31 am 10:31 am

all you Hilary distractors, beware Obama is more calculating and crooked then she could dream of!
Just look at his body language in debates!!

Posted by: spock | February 27, 2008, 10:32 am 10:32 am

Hillary you are as good as you think you are.
Hillary is a remarkable woman, but she has not proved to be a remarkable politician.
Hilary does not know how lose. She wants to take the Party down with her.
Hillary the harder she works, the worse she does!

Posted by: Peace | February 27, 2008, 10:33 am 10:33 am

I agree completely with you, Jake. I have no doubts whatsoever that Sen. Clinton is a competent, capable, hard-hitting senator, and she even has a great sense of humor! I could imagine no better person to have on your side in a fight. But I think she certainly deserves better than this campaign has been giving her.
Unfortunately, she’s claimed that she’s an experienced leader with the knowledge and the skills to “lead from Day One,” yet her campaign has been riddled with complacency, ineptness, and ignorance, undermining all of those claims. Case in point: last week, you wrote that her staff was only recently trying to understand the Texas way of apportioning delegates, something that they should have nailed down long ago. Another instance: there have been far too many states in which Sen. Obama’s staff have established many more local campaign offices than Sen. Clinton’s staff. What’s the problem there?
To me, that essential disconnect seems to be fatal to her campaign when she’s trying to convince everyone how well she can tackle problems.

Posted by: chuck | February 27, 2008, 10:40 am 10:40 am

All I can say is this, if you want to be the leader of the greatest nation on earth, you have to control your emotions. We can’t afford another emotional President after the incumbent one leaves office. George Bush’s emotions and greed over took his sense of judgment and landed us in Iraq. The end result is an economy in shambles, the injury and death of patriotic Americans. I guess a lot of Americans don’t know that Bush was contemplating another war, he wanted to fight Iran and Sen. Hillary Clinton voted in support his crazy idea. One would think her mistake in Iraq was enough.

Posted by: Chan | February 27, 2008, 10:45 am 10:45 am

Guys,
If you get a chance watch Frank Luntz’s focus group of undecided voters who watched the debate last. It is a stark revelation on what is actually the truth to voters in Ohio. They gave the mandate to Hillary overwhelmingly. People are realising the value of Hillary’s experience, stance on healthcare, zeal to promote human rights, create jobs and a strong foreign policy. All in all everyone knows that she is a FIGHTER for the American People.
Matt

Posted by: MattOhio | February 27, 2008, 10:46 am 10:46 am

With apologies to Molly Ivins, “When she tells you who she is, believe it.”
Hillary has said she’s a COO. Why doesn’t anyone believe her? She’s now demonstrated what happens to a campaign (and feel free to extrapolate to company, government, or anything else) with a COO but no CEO in sight.
As she’s said before, even in college she was certain she didn’t want to be a politician in an elected office – but Bill told her she’d be really good and kept encouraging her. I have no doubt that’s what Bill still believes, but I also have no doubt Hillary should have listened to her inner voice instead. Being a Senator seems to have worked out okay, but it’s not really running things, is it?
Hillary can still do many terrific things, but being President really isn’t how she should best spend her time. It’s like watching a natural violinist insist on only playing the piano. They’re both fine isntruments, and one can make beautiful music on either, so why not go with one’s natural talents?

Posted by: Tom J | February 27, 2008, 10:52 am 10:52 am

What I think, Jake, is the human Hillary doesn’t get it.
That Hillary paints herself as a fighter and behaves as a fighter is exactly how she draws more sharp treatment from the media. It’s again that quintessential Clinton thorn about she tries to manipulate to have it both ways.
Obama took the radical risk of portraying himself as different, as capable of being a fighter but with a more complex skillset. It includes a kind of diplomacy that is backed up by active listening that just makes mincemeat out of talking points and the intelligence to have a process that is sometimes daringly inclusive.
Americans of all kinds have responded, echoing how the world will respond too.
I think Hillary’s baffled disappointment in that outcome skews her ability to objectively assess all kinds of things… including the media’s treatment of her.
She blames someone or something else when she fails. Sadly, the truth is a big chunk of it is her and many of us who are taking responsibility for ourselves and teaching our kids and grandkids to do likewise are tired of those who do not. End of story.

Posted by: SE Croft | February 27, 2008, 11:04 am 11:04 am

Hillary is to good for this country. Why? Because she CARES,.

Posted by: jacjmack | February 27, 2008, 11:04 am 11:04 am

No problem with your argumnt, BUT you come out UNBALANCED or BIASED.
To prove people like us wrong why don’t you do these:
1. Write similarly about Obama, for example what would have happened if Obama showed such mood siwings, temper, scolding attitude. How would that fit into his candidacy.
2. Write what what would media say if Obama lost 10 in row. Woule media give him as much chance to continue.
3. How would you react if Hillary’s middle name was Laden and her picture with a head-scarf was released.
Until you do these you really come out alomsot like a part of Clinton campaign.

Posted by: meen | February 27, 2008, 11:16 am 11:16 am

I have never doubted Senator Clinton’s humanity. What I have doubted was her ability to lead this nation as President of the United States.
To put it simply, here penchant to blame others for her own failings is not one of the hallmarks of a strong leader. Much of the negativity about her in the press is there because there is much negative to say . . . whose fault is that?

Posted by: Nobodys fool | February 27, 2008, 11:20 am 11:20 am

s.b. said it all.
The media has been shameful. I plan to vote Republican in a presidential race for the first time in my 46 years.

Posted by: Biggdawg | February 27, 2008, 11:25 am 11:25 am

For God’s sake, now we can’t even say Obama’s middle name?!?!
YOU OBVIOUSLY DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE WORD CONTEXT MEANS

Posted by: chris | February 27, 2008, 11:36 am 11:36 am

What do we really know about Obama?
At least we know where Clinton and McCain have been and will probably go.
I am scared of Obama, not because he is
probably Muslim but because he is so
secretive and calm. Is he just waiting
to be President to come out of the
closet as a roaring lion.

Posted by: Brenda Blaho | February 27, 2008, 11:41 am 11:41 am

I actually think Hillary would be fun to have a beer with. It’s just listening to her speeches, debates, etc. that is not fun. I’ll miss her if/when she loses to Obama, and I do think the press has been harder on her than him, but I still believe Obama’s the right candidate.

Posted by: John | February 27, 2008, 11:42 am 11:42 am

Good Article. I think that out of all the candidates Hillary Clinton is the most qualified and most prepared to be the President of The United States. The problem is due to the disastrous Bush Administration people want change and they really do not care what kind of change it is, as long as it is not the Status Quo. The problem is that there are several capable and experience candidates that are falling short due to this sentiment.
That is where I feel we are wrong. If I marry a good Christain girl from a good family, and she turns out to be the opposite of what I thought she would be and she cheats on me. It does not meen that I will go to a strip club to look for my next wife just because she would be the most different from my previous wife. This is where we are wrong.

Posted by: Gabriel | February 27, 2008, 11:43 am 11:43 am

Fair or not I read someones comments last night particularily interesting. “What if they were both fairly good looking white men, all other things the same, who would you vote for?” I have a hard time with that as an Obama supporter. I think Hillary would have brezzed through a long time ago. I have a hard time with that.

Posted by: GM | February 27, 2008, 11:51 am 11:51 am

The best part about this whole story is the title, great Big Lebowski reference.
The stranger, in fact, is saying “bar”, and I think this was purposely done by the writers.
The original saying is this.
“Sometimes you eat the BEAR, and sometimes the BEAR eats you”.
This means, basically, sometimes you win and sometimes you lose.

Posted by: STFU Donnie | February 27, 2008, 11:56 am 11:56 am

I think this was a nice eulogy, but it might be premature.

Posted by: flyover | February 27, 2008, 11:59 am 11:59 am

When a reporter has to remind himself that a candidate is a human being, it is an indication of just how ridiculously biased the media has been. No candidate has faced the kind of misogynist coverage that Clinton has, precisely because no other candidate is a woman. To compare Hillary Clinton’s treatment to that of the other candidates is laughable on its face. Obsessions about the cackle, the pants suits, the cleavage, the moments of emotion, the stridency etc have no parallels in the treatment of the other candidates.

Posted by: Dan S | February 27, 2008, 12:06 pm 12:06 pm

I admire Hillary Clinton, the human being, the mother, the wife, the first lady, the senator. Win or lose, she will always be important to me. I know nothing of this Obama except as a TV face, too smooth, to believe. Actually I like all of Hil’s swings, at least we know she’s got them. With Obama, I’m not sure what he’s got except good marketing and he’s a man. If the presidency were Madison Avenue I’d vote for Obama, but it’s 1600 Pennsylvania AVenue and there you must be able to say Mass A Chu Setts, I think an Ivy League lawyer should be pronouncing it right, unless he wants comparisons to George Bush who can’t say NU CLEE AR.
Funny isn’t, To me Obama is another GWB in chocolate skin. He’s scary man, the face and body language hide whatever human is under there. To stay on point, I will say at least I know Hillary IS Human, Barak I’m not so sure, after all the Obamasites believe he ascended from the Heavens.

Posted by: JJ | February 27, 2008, 12:20 pm 12:20 pm

If Sen. Clinton gets into White House, it will be business as usual. She accepts more money from special intrest than just about any politisian out there. They really love her, and for good reason. It has been revealed by congressional records that in 2007 she inserted more ear marks into bills than just about any other politisian out there. If she can become this corrupt in just one term as Senitor, imagine what another term will do to her.

Posted by: Brian | February 27, 2008, 12:24 pm 12:24 pm

“But it does seem human. You gotta give her that. Or don’t you?”
Being human is kind of a minimal qualification for the presidency of the United States. If that’s what her campaign is reduced to, it’s owed a big refund from Mark Penn.

Posted by: phillygirl | February 27, 2008, 12:28 pm 12:28 pm

Right on the money Dan S. The media bias that the media dont see is awful. God help us if Oblahma is the president.

Posted by: toby | February 27, 2008, 12:35 pm 12:35 pm

‘On day one’ Hillary showed up for the campaign – with Bill. No respect for a woman who thinks she needs a man – to compete for a job. The two-fer – is lame. If our first woman president can’t show up to campaign without her husband – we’re in trouble, and so is she. She should have stood firmly on her own two feet during the campaign – and shown that she could make it on her own – without Bill.
If someone shows ‘emotion’ – extremes of emotion – only when they are losing – I’d be really suspicious of where those ‘emotions’ came from.
Thanks, Mrs. Clinton, for proving the naysayers that like to stereotype women – right. Nice one day, angry, sarcastic, and mean the next? No. We don’t need an insecure, ‘can’t admit my Iraq vote was wrong until the 20th debate’ female president – as a role model for young women – or men.
Hillary can pull out all the last-minute tricks she wants to win – but her performance has been disappointing ‘from day one’ – for the truly grown-up gals – that is, for secure, ‘don’t need a man to breathe or win a job’ – women.
The media has been and still is ‘anti-Obama,’ probably because if Mr. Obama wins, the media will have to change its status-quo, too. ‘Fair’ reporting hasn’t been part of this campaign – and it is a shameful reflection of the state of the American MSM. Keith Olberman appears to have come the closest to meeting the consistently ‘fair’ grade in commentary and reporting. The MSM – can – and should – do better than this.

Posted by: redcat | February 27, 2008, 12:42 pm 12:42 pm

First – thank you for this article!
The responsibility rests with each of us to lay aside any preconceived notions that we might have, and bias that we might try to discount we have and do all we can to vote for that person we feel most qualified to lead our country.
Stating the obvious, most of us don’t know either of these candidates in a personal way. We are then left to base our decision on what we hear from pundits and those who both either support them or don’t support them on the tv , radio and in print; what we hear each of them say to the press themselves and what we hear each of them say in the debates.
Many have suggested to get to know Obama better we should read his books he wrote. I think also to get to know Hillary better it would be worthwhile to read a bestselling biography, written by one of the two reporters who shared a Pulitzer Prize for their coverage of Watergate.
Hillary, unlike Obama who was raised as he has said by his mother and grandmother, was raised by both her mother and father. But before we conclude this is such an advantage, understand this, her father was very demanding. And my interpretation of what I read is that Hillary and her brothers worked hard to please him, but found this was very difficult. The brothers described the father as “critical”, “pretty tough”, but also “kindhearted”. Hillary has been quoted as saying, “even when he was angry, I never doubted he loved me”. ( If you recall, recently Hillary was interviewed about how she managed to get through the Lewinsky episode – in talking about this I recall she said through it all she never doubted Bill’s love for her.) I remember reading posts after this where people slammed her for saying that. Many have said the only reason she stuck with Bill was for her great ambition to be president. I would like to propose that all of us are affected by our environments and our parents as we are learning to be adults. It seems likely to me, she truly loved her father and also loves her husband, even with both of their shortcomings.
On page 32 of the book – “If there is a single defining thread of Hillary’s political, religious, and social development, it is her belief and determination, from her teenage years onward, that the tragedy of race in America must be made right….And even more than her husband, Hillary formed many of her closest friendships with blacks; her mentor as a professional was a black woman, Marian Wright Edleman, founder of the Children’s Defense Fund, for whom she went to work as a legal advocate for neglected and impoverished children.
As many are aware she has taken heat also for the time she retained her maiden name – but she stated, “her name was her identity, and would ensure she remained “a person in my own right” and “not a sacrificial political wife”.
Bet you didn’t know this either, Hillary on a date in the 10th grade was asked by the boy had she ever ridden a skateboard, she hadn’t, but didn’t want to say no. So she got on the board and rode it without wiping out to the bottom of the hill.
You go grrrl!

Posted by: american2 | February 27, 2008, 1:03 pm 1:03 pm

JPT – Not much to say now that it is the last seconds in the 4th quarter.. Sorry bud..HILLARY & HUMAN.. good try…HILLARY & POLITICAL ROBOT more like it..
OBAMA / CLINTON 2008 …moving on to the Big Daddy MCCAIN

Posted by: Lawrence | February 27, 2008, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm

Jake, you make a good point. I don’t think the media covered Richardson well at all. Nor did it cover Edwards as much as it covered Obama and Clinton.
The difference is: while Richardson mentioned it once, he let it go. Edwards mentioned it a few times, and then let it go. “Aren’t there three people in this debate?” seems so prescient now.
And, surprisingly, Brian Williams on SNL played like the media had already chosen Hillary Clinton as the nominee, so it’s odd that SNL and Hillary would take the opposite stance now.
Is it the natural process of whittling down the nominees–that we can’t back every horse–or is it that the candidates love the camera when they have it, but let it go when THEY lose it, not when the media chooses not to be with them?
As we know, the media only needs a viable interest, and an interesting variable to keep track of a candidate.
So, if Hillary can go from Media-Chosen to Media-Frozen in a year, is that the media’s fault or her own?

Posted by: Jerome | February 27, 2008, 1:08 pm 1:08 pm

But then you are dismissing what we, the public noticed….It was during and after Iowa that CNN and MSNBC were on full force attack against Hillary. They spoke of BO from the beginning as though he was an inspiration. Yes, they spoke a little about qualifications, but the media has always titled her devisive. They also loved to remind the public of Bill’s indiscretions. Hillary knows now that WE out here are sick of the bias, and she, feeling the support, is finally defending herself against having to campaign against the media. One only needs to consider the fact that most of CNN’s and MSNBC’S pundits are Republican, you know THEY were never speaking highly of her…..there was a turn for the worst when they systematically were tearing her down and building him up. That’s what angered women in the second state to vote; New Hampshire.

Posted by: irma | February 27, 2008, 2:31 pm 2:31 pm

I know REDCAT. Hillary having Bill with her is almost as bad as McCain having Cindy next to him everywhere. Oh wait, that does happen. Okay wait, then it’s as if Obama got some big superstar to run a couple of rallies and dedicate t.v. shows to him. Oh wait, Oprah huh? Never mind REDCAT….you’re sooooooooWRONG!

Posted by: irma | February 27, 2008, 2:34 pm 2:34 pm

“I would like to propose that all of us are affected by our environments and our parents as we are learning to be adults. It seems likely to me, she truly loved her father and also loves her husband, even with both of their shortcomings.”
I propose that as adults – we grow up, recognize that our parent’s may indeed have been angry or demanding individuals – and then move forward to decide just how much we want their parenting styles to determine who we will become – as adults. Many children love angry parents – and many wives love husbands- that disrespect them. Doesn’t mean that either choice is easy – or good for us. There are healthy relationships and unhealthy relationships. We get to choose.
“On page 32 of the book – “If there is a single defining thread of Hillary’s political, religious, and social development, it is her belief and determination, from her teenage years onward, that the tragedy of race in America must be made right…”
It would be helpful is someone could post a listing of programs/efforts by Hillary that were/are – directly targeted toward only African-American children and adults, versus whites.
“And even more than her husband, Hillary formed many of her closest friendships with blacks;,”
Is someone actually keeping count of the number of African-American friends that Hillary and Bill have – as individuals? And if so, why? Silly.
“As many are aware she has taken heat also for the time she retained her maiden name – but she stated, “her name was her identity, and would ensure she remained “a person in my own right” and “not a sacrificial political wife”.”
She certainly should have felt free to retain her maiden name. The ‘sacrificial political wife’ statement is too sad to comment on because Bill hit her with his game (followed by the Republicans) – while she was First Lady. However, note that she didn’t hesitate to mention that incident at the end of one of her debates to try to use it to her – political advantage.
“Bet you didn’t know this either, Hillary on a date in the 10th grade was asked by the boy had she ever ridden a skateboard, she hadn’t, but didn’t want to say no. So she got on the board and rode it without wiping out to the bottom of the hill.”
Challenges aren’t Hillary’s problem. Knowing that she can face them – without needing Bill – is.

Posted by: redcat | February 27, 2008, 2:53 pm 2:53 pm

Irma,
Bill is an ex-president of the United States. Oprah, Mrs. McCain, etc., are not. An ex-president’s spouse has never run before and so this race is very different. But, I maintain that Hillary should not need Bill – to represent her, speak for her, or to hold office. IMO, she should have done it – on her own.

Posted by: redcat | February 27, 2008, 3:03 pm 3:03 pm

If Obama can have OPRAH speak for him, then a statesman such as Bill Clinton is a definite acceptable sponsor of Hillary. At least he is able to answer questions about Hillary. Whereas Oprah is only able to build Obama up based on her “perception”. Now we all know that Cindy serves McCain because she is beautiful. She makes people wonder how John accomplished that courting deal. I am sorry, but just because Bill knows more, doesn’t disqualify his legitimacy as a supporter and speaker. It’s a plus, just as Oprah’s media power is a plus for BO.

Posted by: irma | February 27, 2008, 3:19 pm 3:19 pm

Yes, Hillary is a human being. Everybody who has run for President is a human being, each with their own demons and insecurities. The question we have to ask ourselves is which candidate has been able to best overcome their internal struggles so that they have clearest insight into the state of our country and the best way to fix it. Hillary clearly has shown there are still too many internal struggles within herself to be able to fully invest in fixing our country. Much of her energy is still used to diffuse her own internal struggles. She’s human with human emotions, but there’s a reason why not every human is fit to be President.

Posted by: Ben | February 27, 2008, 3:32 pm 3:32 pm

Hillary Clinton came into last night’s debate with so much pressure and incredibly higher expectations than one person could deliver. If the truth were told, many of us – and politicians too – would just want to pull the covers over our heads and wish the last few weeks away.
What we saw last evening was what separates her from so many – that fighting spirit and commitment to getting her message out. She has run on her substantive record. In her private moments she has to wonder – How has this guy who’s come out of nowhere get so far. Because she’s brilliant, she realizes that the media has given him a free pass (scrutiny will come later because what they build up, the media also likes to tear down.)He has also run an amazing campaign from a technological standpoint – who would have thought that text messaging would move beyond our middle schools and high schools? In the end though, he’s a “created” candidate. One fashioned from the vision and dreams of his svengali – David Axelrod.
There wasn’t a shred of self pity in last night’s debate. She keeps on promoting her policies (many of whom he appropriated) and she is definitely a fighter.
Go Hillary. Our challenges are too important to put them in the hands of someone untested.
P.S. Did everyone see when he threw up his hands and turned to the (male) moderators as if to say “do you believe this woman” – I’d like to see a commercial made out of it. But then the network would suppress it the way they did the SNL Tina Fey skit.

Posted by: twinmom48 | February 27, 2008, 6:28 pm 6:28 pm

We could all feel sorry for Sen. Clinton, just as we could have felt sorry for Mitt Romney, John Edwards, Bill Richardson, etc. We didn’t pity them. They ran their campaigns and they lost. Tough noogies. Why on Earth should we feel any sorrier for Hillary Clinton? She has been at center stage of the national spotlight for months, which practically ensures her a prominent role in the Democratic party for life. And when she concedes, she’ll go back to being… a U.S. Senator! Wow, what a sob story. Perhaps I’m just too young (29) to understand it, but the pity that this person seems to receive does not jive with her circumstances at all. She’s had a pretty darn blessed life and career, all things considered.

Posted by: Steve Collins | February 27, 2008, 7:00 pm 7:00 pm

I have to say, I still don’t buy the argument that Hillary has a lot more experience and is more “tested” than Obama. You know, Hillary would have us believe that she is some wise old veteran of the political world, but she’s actually a junior senator. She’s got, what? maybe 4 years more than Obama in the US senate. And this is her first political gig. Obama, on the other hand, served 7 years in the state senate prior to coming to Washington. He has spent more years in elected office than Hillary has, yet somehow Hillary is painted as the wise old veteran. I don’t get it.

Posted by: Tony | February 27, 2008, 9:27 pm 9:27 pm

s.b. – right on! (now my age is showing.) but i do have to give obama credit for one thing – he changed this dem who would rather eat a live cockroach than vote republican into a dem who will definitely vote republican this year. guess he really is the change candidate.

Posted by: so saddened | February 28, 2008, 12:17 am 12:17 am

So Saddened:
I’ve only voted for Democrats since I voted for Jimmy Carter in 1972. Don’t think I can vote for a Republican but I do think I’ll sit this one out (can’t believe I’m saying that) if Obama gets the nomination. I wonder if Obama has any idea how his campaign, his supporters, the mainstream press and the liberal press have alientated Clinton’s core voters. Do you think he believes that we’ll line up behind him? Guess he’s in for a surprise.

Posted by: Same As It Ever Was | February 28, 2008, 12:26 am 12:26 am

same as it ever was, you are so right about the alienation. what i find amazing is the incredible arrogance of his statement that he isn’t sure his supporters would vote for hillary but he’s sure hillary’s supporters would vote for him. cocky doesn’t even begin to describe it. but one thing that does describe is WRONG!!!
re sitting it out, i understand completely. but i decided keeping obama out of the white house is so important that a repub vote is a must – not only must obama lose votes, but mccain must get more than obama does! so i’m voting repub.

Posted by: so saddened | February 28, 2008, 12:33 am 12:33 am

It’s the labels people put on the candidates that are disgusting, and it seems that Hillary has had many heaped upon her, especially by the media. You are correct in pointing out the problems many candidates have had over the years, but in this election, many of the major networks have gone over the top. Do you call that traditional journalism? We are in a mess. Hillary not only faces the usual political jabs, but much of what she has been called is sexist. If she complains about a valid debating point or a falsehood, is that whiny? I do not believe the male candidates have been called such. Romney’s religion or anybody’s religion is out of bounds, as well as candidates marital relationships. Much of the perverse and unfair negativity and lack of equal coverage lies at the feet of some pf the major networks. I am on the Internet now reading an ABC news site because I am fed up with CNN, MSNBC, and FOX. No it is not fair. Some of the negativity in a political campaign is expected, but this has gotten way out of the realm of credible journalism. They call it journalism, but 99 percent of it is spin, spin, spin! Even worse, it is tabloid fodder.

Posted by: georgia | February 28, 2008, 1:15 am 1:15 am

Chuck: Do you think there might be some diffence in running the Presidential office compared to trying to reach all the states back and forth everyday on limited funds during a campaign? Obama has had considerable help with Kennedy and Kerry machines and contacts. The youth group for him has exploded. The cost of advertising is almost insurmountable. There are legitimate differences. Are you comparing apples to oranges?
Hillary is tough, and she is still standing. She may not have the black vote, she has had unexpected hurdles facing the race card played by Obama’s camp, and the star-struck youth vote who never voted before is entranced with the word “change”, even though they do not know what the word really means.
Topping all of that and dealing with it every day is the negative press by CNN, MSNBC, and FOX. They have degraded her at every turn, while they promoted Obama without any scrutiny. That sounds like a lot of free advertising to me—for Obama.
Don’t count her out. The primaries are not completed, she is still standing, and she is tough!

Posted by: georgia | February 28, 2008, 1:47 am 1:47 am

Redcat said “‘On day one’ Hillary showed up for the campaign – with Bill. No respect for a woman who thinks she needs a man – to compete for a job. The two-fer – is lame”
Redcat this is the most sexist and stupidest comment I have ever seen. If Obama shows up with Michelle and she campaigns for him that is okay but if Hillary shows up with her husband that is a cardinal sin and shold be immediately disqualified for the job she is trying.

Posted by: satish | February 28, 2008, 3:51 am 3:51 am

Why just tepidly denounce the anti-semitic remarks? Why not the racist and gay bashing stances? This was a time to truly show leadership in race relations and he FAILED. He should have been adament that I don’t approve of any of Farrakan’s positions. Farrakan is the equivalent of the Grand Dragon of the KKK. Would Obama not staunchly oppose the Grand Dragon’s endorsement?

Posted by: dc | February 28, 2008, 9:43 am 9:43 am

Satish,
Hillary is promoting sexist, stereotypical behavior by showing that she is dependent on Bill to win the nomination. I am saying that she does not need him and should be break free from the sexist stereotype of dependency – especially in a presidential campaign – using an ex-president of the United States. ‘We’ (Bill and Hillary) has no place in a discussion about Hillary’s ability to serve as president.
There is a big difference between asking a celebrity or spouse to appear for/with a candidate and asking an ex-president of the United States to consistently speak for a candidate on the campaign trail.
Mr. Obama has been very gracious in his response to the ‘two-fer’ approach from the Clintons. Mr. Obama has said that BILL Clinton was successful in many ways during his term as president and has only asked Hillary to address both the good and bad aspects of BILL’s administration when she talks about – Bill’s administration.
In all honesty, I don’t even agree with Mr. Obama’s response on the ‘two-fer.’ I recognize and appreciate Hillary’s efforts as First Lady – but I don’t credit her with anything that Bill did as president because – she isn’t Bill. She shouldn’t need to reference Bill’s accomplishments in her campaign. When she does, she just plays on the ‘we’ theme in that she is trying to score points with the public using – Bill’s accomplishments – but yet she wants to be viewed as being separate from Bill – at the same time. She can’t have it both ways.
Mr. Obama stated at the beginning of the campaign that he felt as if he was running against two candidates – and he is. I said unfair then and I still believe it is unfair. The Clintons are all about taking advantage – but some of us aren’t that stupid. One Mr. Obama is one Mr. Obama and two Clintons equal one Mrs. Clinton plus one ex-president of the United States. It’s a shame that Mr. Obama doesn’t have an ex-president willing to stomp fulltime for him but then again, he’d probably decline the assistance and move forward to compete and win – as an independent, competent, married to a non-ex-president – adult.
As a woman, I believe that Hillary should have run and ‘interviewed’ for the job – without Bill. I’d like to see a woman in the White House someday soon but the candidate will need to stand on her own two feet, not reference her husband’s record/accomplishments when he was president, and not be dependent on the good old boy/gal Democratic party elite members for ‘supervotes’ if she can’t gain the support of the majority of Democratic voters.
Change in DC means ‘new’ and there is nothing new about Bill and Hillary Clinton – or the way that they operate.
I’m looking for the candidate that is best for what my country needs today. I am sorry to say that Hillary Clinton (or should I say Bill and Hillary) aren’t the people that I want to see in the White House – again.

Posted by: redcat | February 28, 2008, 10:05 am 10:05 am

Her 35 years experience? 2008-35=1973?
Someone above said he knew NOTHING about Barack Obama. Apparently the rest of the Clinton Supporters know NOTHING at all about Miss Hillary.
Clinton’s first personal stint of employment was with the pretigious, notorious, Rose Law Firm.
Barack Obama turned down offers of very high paying jobs to work with the poor of Chicago as a community Organizer.
As First Lady, Clinton herself was involved in scandal after scandal. She blamed the Insurance companies for the failure of her Health Plan, but the reason it failed was because she demanded absolute Secrecy.
This habit continued with refusal to turn over documents, time after time after time, right up to the present Tax Records.
She and her hubby, STOLE White House Furniture and Paintings valued at well over ONE Hundred Thousand Dollars. A first for any Presidency.
Vincent Foster, supposedly committed suicide. Funny thing was, his records, incriminating to the Clinton’s, disappeard??? Months later they were found, …. in Hillary’s Office.
The list goes on and on and on.
Most of Hillary’s personally sponsered Bills while in the Senate have been to recognize this or that public figure.
Do a search on each candidate.
Barack Obama’s best one in my estimation, was the Bill he sponsered to stop making Injured Veterans pay for their meals, etc. at Walter Reed Hospital.
I guess I can see why Obama appeals to the more educated voters. They have either been paying attention or they have checked the records of each.
Making a decision based on no knowledge at all of the qualifications or history of one or both Candidates isn’t too smart.
Could be very dangerous. There were more Military actions during the Clinton Co-Presidency than during the terms of any other American President. Each was applauded at the time by Hillary Clinton.

Posted by: Rebecka | February 28, 2008, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm

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