By Lindsey Ellerson

Sep 18, 2008 12:05pm

Elizabeth Edwards Breaks Silence About Husband’s Affair

ABC News’ Raelyn Johnson reports: Elizabeth Edwards is breaking her silence about her husband, former Sen. John Edwards’ affair. In an interview published today in the Detroit Free Press, Edwards says she’s going through an ongoing process of finding her feet again.

"There’s a lot of adjustments to make," said Edwards according to the paper. “When you mention trust, that’s probably the most difficult hurdle.”

Last month, the former presidential candidate admitted exclusively to ABC News that he had an extramarital affair with novice filmmaker, Rielle Hunter. Hunter was hired to make videos for the pre-launch phase of Edwards’ 2008 presidential run.

When asked if she forgave her husband for her actions, Elizabeth responded, “I don’t want to feed the monster, if you don’t mind.”

Since the admission, both Elizabeth and John Edwards have canceled previously scheduled public events, hoping to quiet the storm over what they intended to be only a private family matter.

This week, however, marks Elizabeth’s first foray back into the public spotlight, and the first time she has spoken about the affair.

She told the paper that, had her leg been amputated, instead of a child dying or her husband having an affair, people would not ask, “Are you over that leg thing yet.”

In a move seen as standing by her husband, Elizabeth published a statement hours after Sen. Edwards first spoke about the affair to ABC News, saying, “Although John believes he should stand alone and take the consequences of his action now, when the door closes behind him, he has a family waiting for him.”

Though criticized for her statement and for admittedly keeping the affair quiet while her husband ran for the government’s highest office, Elizabeth Edwards remains fiercely loyal to her family, and the advocacy of health care.

The mother of Cate, 26, Emma Claire, 10, and Jack, 8, she says her desire is for her children to uphold the image of their father as “an  advocate for poverty, not for this current picture of him to be the only one they carry with them, as young people and as adults,” according to the Detroit Free Press.

In an audio excerpt not published in the paper, Elizabeth further revealed, “The decisions I make are based entirely on what is the best thing for my children. And so, the best thing for my children has been to lay low and hope that sort of the public interest in this becomes less so, that it doesn’t become a badge that they have to wear.”

Edwards appeared Thursday morning on Capitol Hill, where she discussed the need for heath care reform in front of the Committee on Energy and Commerce’s subcommittee on health.  Edwards veered from her prepared remarks to attack Republican presidential nominee Sen. John McCain on his health care policy.

"Neither one of us would be insured under his health care plan," she told the committee, an attack she has used frequently against the Arizona senator, who was diagnosed with lymphoma in 2000.

"I do think that Sen. McCain’s policy does focus excessively on providing a lower cost policy without, at the same time, guaranteeing a basic level of coverage in that policy or addressing the scope of inclusion for all Americans," Edwards elaborated.

In battling incurable cancer, she has made fighting for universal health care one of her top priorities.  Edwards also participated in a health care forum on Tuesday in Philadelphia, Pa.

User Comments

Poor women. She should get together with John McCain’s ex-wife. Maybe she could help her through this difficult time.

Posted by: Alice | September 18, 2008, 12:26 pm 12:26 pm

So sad that no one has posted any comments. I feel very sorry for Mrs. Edwards and hope her cancer is in remission, but she is wrong on her choice for President. COUNTRY FIRST, McCAIN/PALIN…….no “me-first” Obama ever!

Posted by: Emma | September 18, 2008, 12:27 pm 12:27 pm

There is nothing “poor” about Elizabeth Edwards. She embodies the true spirit of a strong Southern woman. Her life won’t be defined by what has happened to her, but rather how she gets beyond it to what is really meaningful. I believe she told us: her children and changing health care for America.

Posted by: Tess | September 18, 2008, 12:35 pm 12:35 pm

McCain/ Palin is the ultimate “me first” ticket. Palin is ignorant enough to admit she didn’t even blink when offered the chance to run. Knowing she is not qualified to be VP or President, or Governor for that matter. But Alaska being 48th in high school graduation rates, that doesn’t surprise me. Only in America are smart people derided for being smart. Why should we vote for another dumb President? Look what the last eight years got us. I have no sympathy for Elizabeth Edwards regarding her marital situation because if John Edwards had been the nominee and this had come out, it wouldn’t be 49%/49% like it is now. This country would be in real trouble, and may still be if stupid voters have their way. If you make less than 250k annually and vote Republican, that includes YOU. Gay marriage and abortions should not be your primary issue (unless you are gay or plan to have an abortion). I’m sure you do have to fill yourm gas tank weekly though.

Posted by: Clt | September 18, 2008, 12:35 pm 12:35 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is a total class act. I have always admired her for her efforts on heath care and other issues. To me she is someone who stands for “strong values.” Not some of the pretenders out there.

Posted by: DMR | September 18, 2008, 12:37 pm 12:37 pm

I feel sorry for her. But I feel more sorry for the country. If Edwards had stepped out of the race when the story first broke, we would have Hillary as the nominee and Universal Health Care on the table. Now we have absolutely NO chance of health care, since O’s plan has zero chance of passing and M’s plan will be making companies insure but be allowed to rate you out of the ballpark.
Sorry Elizabeth that you were betrayed by your husband but why did you then turn around and betray the rest of the country and claim to be in favor of health insurance?

Posted by: Deborah from Oklahoma | September 18, 2008, 12:37 pm 12:37 pm

For John, it probably wasn’t his first affair, nor will it be his last. However, it was the one he was “caught” in. Mrs. Edwards will be an “enabler” if she turns a blind eye. Bill Clinton is cut from the same mold. Sleazy, creeps. No integrity.

Posted by: islemom | September 18, 2008, 12:37 pm 12:37 pm

For John, it probably wasn’t his first affair, nor will it be his last. However, it was the one he was “caught” in. Mrs. Edwards will be an “enabler” if she turns a blind eye. Bill Clinton is cut from the same mold. Sleazy creeps. No integrity.

Posted by: islemom | September 18, 2008, 12:38 pm 12:38 pm

Stop harassing Elizabeth Edwards, for allegedly *standing by her man*
UNTIL you’ve walked in her shoes, no one can say what she is doing is wrong.
Yes he cheated, yes it was especially hurtful and terrible under the circumstances, but, do WE decide how she should deal with it?
It is a personal family matter, that needs to be put to rest. Sadly her children will or have already dealth with it and the aftermath.
She is doing what she believes in her heart is right for all involved.
You can’t just throw away being married to someone for 30 years, who is the father of your children.
Not know how long she has left, do you spend that time hating your spouse? Asking your children to pay the price?
She’s doing what SHE needs to do, so everyone just BUTT OUT. Let her live her life her way, having cancer can give you perspective that the general population cannot possibly understand.
She has clarity of what’s most important in her life, we need to RESPECT that!

Posted by: Catherine | September 18, 2008, 12:40 pm 12:40 pm

Clt…Gov. Palin was vetted for four months and had plenty of time to contemplate this with her husband. Don’t be stupid that she gave it 2 minutes consideration.

Posted by: Emma | September 18, 2008, 12:40 pm 12:40 pm

Sorry Emma should have been Rob Paul and whom ever these 2 haven’t a clue and don’t even agree on any of the main issues listen to them he says one thing and she says just the opposite. As For the Edwards since I am not without sin I will not cast the first stone and neither should anybody else. This is all between the 2 of them not the whole damm country.

Posted by: Rose Szymanski | September 18, 2008, 12:40 pm 12:40 pm

I have always admired Elizabeth Edwards. Her strength and grace in the face of such difficult circumstances only make me admire her more. You’re in our prayers Elizabeth!

Posted by: Independent08 | September 18, 2008, 12:41 pm 12:41 pm

Pack his bags. Set him out. The children have two people to look upon as role models. Step up to the plate and put him out. Tell the children frankly and honestly. I loved your dad, I love you more than life, but I will not have him around as we build a life of integrity and love – your dad hasn’t found that yet. Never put yourself in the position of having a child ask you years from now – why in the name of heaven did just roll over, shrug your shoulders and say it was for us kids? Come on Mom, no one takes self-pride and esteem from my Mom, no one including my father who made the mistake.

Posted by: OnTheGloryRoad | September 18, 2008, 12:43 pm 12:43 pm

I hope she continues to fight her battle. She made the commmet about “If this had been a leg they amputated, they would have said how is that leg thing doing” What she is not saying is that is totally different then getting your heart ripped out of you!!!! This woman is hurting , you know she is, so anyone that is actaully bringing up other politicians or their wives are complete idiots!!!!!!

Posted by: sissy | September 18, 2008, 12:45 pm 12:45 pm

The reason I’m angry at John Edwards is because he hurt her. This has NOTHING to do with us. He betrayed his wife. McCain’s affair certainly isn’t hurting him in the polls. This is a private family matter.

Posted by: Independent08 | September 18, 2008, 12:45 pm 12:45 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is a strong woman to have gone through so much and then have to deal with all of this on top of everything. I respect her decision because after all it is her decision and she is the only one who has to live with the choice she’s made. If she feels that she’s doing what is right for her family and it’s a choice that she can live with, then I say more power to her.

Posted by: Barb | September 18, 2008, 12:45 pm 12:45 pm

Sorry for what’s she’s going through and hope she can survive. However, I’m disgusted by the fact that she knew he wasn’t who she said he was and yet she “kept quiet”, allowing thousands of good folks to have faith in her husband. This was deceitful and a very dishonorable thing to do. I therefor I have a real hard time believing anything she says or supporting anything she does. Whether it’s the economy or family or friends-confidence is everything and I have no confidence in her.

Posted by: Bill Robberson | September 18, 2008, 12:46 pm 12:46 pm

I feel sorry for this lady, her husband is abouty as pitiful a human being as there ever was.

Posted by: david | September 18, 2008, 12:46 pm 12:46 pm

While I have absolutely nothing good to say about John Edwards, I have nothing but admiration for Elizabeth Edwards. She certainly deserves better than she has with John.

Posted by: Sasi1 | September 18, 2008, 12:47 pm 12:47 pm

Elizabeth Edwards has it so together on health care reform! It is incredible, incredible that she has the fortitude to continue to advocate for others on the health care issue while dealing with her own severe health issue.
Where do we get women like this??

Posted by: marena Groll | September 18, 2008, 12:47 pm 12:47 pm

Mrs. Edwards, I am not in your shoes, none of is are. Do what you need to do for you and stay strong.
In reality, being that Sen. Edwards is no longer in the running for president, it’s none of our business how you choose to live your life. We do not know everything that goes on behind closed doors.
Stay strong..first and foremost..for you. That strength will then trickle down to your children.
Blessings of healing.

Posted by: Ala | September 18, 2008, 12:50 pm 12:50 pm

It’s none of my business.

Posted by: Kitty | September 18, 2008, 12:50 pm 12:50 pm

Emma, she’s the one who said she didn’t blink before agreeing. And if you believe they vetted her for 4 months just because Mccain now says so, I’m not the only one who is stupid.

Posted by: Clt | September 18, 2008, 12:55 pm 12:55 pm

Men who have extra-marital affairs should be BANNED from Politics… I mean… I they can’t be faithful to their families, how can they be faithful to the country.
psssst. mccain

Posted by: Omentum | September 18, 2008, 12:55 pm 12:55 pm

Congratulations to Mrs. Edwards for weathering this storm and continuing to care for the people of the United States. Healthcare for ALL Americans is a very important issue — much more important than bailing out the various financial institutions.

Posted by: Kitty Wilberforce | September 18, 2008, 12:55 pm 12:55 pm

What goes around comes around Ms Hunter. What in the world makes you think you have a chance at becoming Mrs Edwards? Your just as stupid as you can be. Get a job and stop allowing others to pay your way. What you are doing is nothing new, it’s the oldest profession known.

Posted by: sue | September 18, 2008, 12:56 pm 12:56 pm

Fortunately, Elizabeth Edwards has not been subjected to Obama’s campaign tactics–like this:
Behold the anti-free speech tactics of the “Obama Action Wires” talking points that left wing activists are using to try to intimidate opponents and overwhelm radio station phone systems.
It’s the same oppressive mindset that is behind other intimidation tactics, such as the release and abuse of the Palin family’s phone number, the hacking of Sarah Palin’s email account, and the unrelenting “opposition research.” They now go far beyond debating the qualifications and judgment of candidates, and now have adopted tactics meant to bully, slander, smear and humiliate the candidates, their spouses, and even minor children of candidates.
Today’s progressive radicals still have the mindset of Bill Ayers, they’ve merely found new tactics to employ.
Bristol Palin is being harassed by a petty celebrity trying to goad her into having an abortion. Others, having discovered family telephone numbers, have left obscene messages demanding nude photos.
How long until unhinged “progressive” activists target Willow Palin, a 14 year-old girl, with unfounded rumors designed to sully her reputation? (Answer: They already have).
How about elementary school-aged Piper? When are they going to insist she’s being molested, or is deviant in some way?
How about baby Trig? Many pro-abortionists are already irate the Down’s Syndrome child was allowed to live.
What is next, Obamaphiles? I shudder at the thought.
Update: The bullying tactics of the official Obama campaign revealed:
A message goes out over Barack Obama’s Web site with the names, phone numbers and e-mails of editors and producers foolish enough to host Obama critics. With Mr. Obama’s extensive digital following, and his extensive fund-raising and contact lists, shutting up the Democratic nominee’s critics with a fraction of Mr. Obama’s millions of supporters is relatively simple. The digital legions plug phone lines, crash servers and intimidate the advertisers of these media outlets. This must be another instance of the “new” politics that Mr. Obama frequently talks about.

Posted by: We are the Thugs We've Been Waiting For | September 18, 2008, 12:56 pm 12:56 pm

You know I think Elizabeth is a strong women. Life is not always what we want it to beb but some how we get through, I’m qute sure a ot of women out there can relate. It not worth dweeling over move on.

Posted by: Diane | September 18, 2008, 12:58 pm 12:58 pm

alice…Nasty statement..guess there is always one who will take advantage of someones pain and suffering and turn it into a political dig…Are you sure you are a alice or al…

Posted by: checks and balances | September 18, 2008, 12:59 pm 12:59 pm

Excuse me Thug
You are a sick person – just in case you didn’t know

Posted by: Omentum | September 18, 2008, 1:00 pm 1:00 pm

If exposing Obama’s hypocrisy and Mayor Daley-style political thuggery is sick–I don’t want to be well.

Posted by: We are the Thugs We've Been Waiting For | September 18, 2008, 1:02 pm 1:02 pm

she is a great woman and has lived an honorable life. he has not and he must always live with that.

Posted by: emma | September 18, 2008, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm

So this is news?

Posted by: Lee | September 18, 2008, 1:05 pm 1:05 pm

Boo hoo. I used to have respect for this lady but she and her hypocritical husband are partly to blame for Hillary not having the nomination.

Posted by: Cardsgal | September 18, 2008, 1:06 pm 1:06 pm

islemom: You are referring to JOHN MCCAIN, right? Because he has had many affairs – the marriage to Cindy was the culmination of one of them. So…. McCain?

Posted by: Sevres Blue | September 18, 2008, 1:08 pm 1:08 pm

Concerned about her children is she ?? This would be a golden opportunity for her to teach them to never stand passively by and let another human being disrespect you and assault your very being like John Edwards has done.
Teach them “forgiveness” – not on your life. Standing by her man is only going to teach them how to be doormats. This was not John Edwards first affair, his only affair and it certainly won’t be his last.
Call it like it is – she is just another political wife who likes the lifestyle and won’t give it up no matter what he has done or will do. Unfortunately, she has cancer and going to work and earning her own way might be a difficult task right now but certainly no more difficult than swallowing this load of hooey.

Posted by: Jill Mitchell | September 18, 2008, 1:09 pm 1:09 pm

I know of a lot of people that died froma a broken faith. Mrs. Edwards, you need to stay strong so you can be with us in the coming year.

Posted by: suzy | September 18, 2008, 1:09 pm 1:09 pm

Elizabeth is doing what is best for her young children (10 & 8 years old). At this time she does not have the luxury of leaving John Edwards, because her time is limited. She wants to give her children an ‘intact’ family. Hopefully her ‘husband’ will be with her during her last days. She’s being very strong and self-less. Is she a co-dependent? No, she is just being practical.

Posted by: Moxichick | September 18, 2008, 1:11 pm 1:11 pm

No respect for a woman that allows and supports her husband to run for President of our country when she knew about this affair. They played a dangerous game and took a huge risk. They were just lucky it didn’t come out while he was campaigning.

Posted by: Mary | September 18, 2008, 1:13 pm 1:13 pm

Better for kids to COME from a broken home than to LIVE in one.
What are these kids learning from all of this ??

Posted by: Bill Elliott | September 18, 2008, 1:14 pm 1:14 pm

Better for kids to COME from a broken home than to LIVE in one.
What are these kids learning from all of this ??

Posted by: Bill Elliott | September 18, 2008, 1:14 pm 1:14 pm

Your children are lucky to have a mother like you Elizabeth. Wishing you the very best.

Posted by: True North 8 | September 18, 2008, 1:15 pm 1:15 pm

I admire Elizabeth Edwards. Frankly, it’s her life & her choice to stay with her husband. She’s terminally ill and has to think about her children. She’s dedicating the rest of her life to healthcare reform. An issue we will all deal with at one point in our lives. I admire her for directing her fight to the right issue. Otherwise, I would agree with OnTheGloryRoad to set an example for her children and pack HIS bags. John Edwards will have to live with the dirty deeds he’s done to his wife and children. If he had a conscience he wouldn’t have done this to his wife in the first place. Especially a woman battling cancer. PIG

Posted by: Cheri | September 18, 2008, 1:16 pm 1:16 pm

Bill Elliott:
Maybe you don’t know that Mrs. Edward’s cancer is incurable.

Posted by: True North 8 | September 18, 2008, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm

I sympathize with the additional pain this affair has caused Mrs. Edwards. I blamed her for laying to us about John Edwards being such a good man (and women’s advocate) even after she knew it wasn’t true and had found out about the affair. But I now think she must have been in shock and was just continuing mindlessly to do and say what she had been saying before.

Posted by: MC | September 18, 2008, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm

Having both parents together isn’t always the answer. Now their role model is a cheating father?

Posted by: sandra | September 18, 2008, 1:24 pm 1:24 pm

Look Mrs. Edwards, everyone sympathizes with your emotional and physical pain, but please don’t pull a Hillary. Dump the liar who has rubbed your face in it like Bill did Hillary. Money and Power are not worth selling your soul for as Hillary did!

Posted by: rockychance | September 18, 2008, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm

If having cancer imparts sainthood, then I’m a saint. I know first-hand that cancer doesn’t afford you a “free pass”. Quite the opposite, you have limited time to make things right.
True North 8 – chew on this one for a while.

Posted by: Bill Elliott | September 18, 2008, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm

If having cancer imparts sainthood, then I’m a saint. I know first-hand that cancer doesn’t afford you a “free pass”. Quite the opposite, you have limited time to make things right.
True North 8 – chew on this one for a while.

Posted by: Bill Elliott | September 18, 2008, 1:26 pm 1:26 pm

Is this really news and should we care what she has to say? I wish she would have told the truth about health care. That one BIG reason for the high cost is scumbags like her husband who sued insurance companies, doctors and anyone else her could get in the court based on a lies he made up. His “science” about several mulimillion dollar verdics about brain injury at birth has been proven false. He made it up and reaped millions of dollars. People like him are the cause. She would never leave that much money behind no matter what he did.

Posted by: nookly23 | September 18, 2008, 1:26 pm 1:26 pm

The Edwards family needs to not let John’s mistake ruin their whole lives. This is one mistake. It is a big mistake, but you can’t define a person by one mistake or sin.
Who would like their whole life to be defined by a stupid decision and action?

Posted by: Benjamin | September 18, 2008, 1:27 pm 1:27 pm

The loony-left liberal media hid the facts about the scandalous affair of edwards for many, many months (while his wife has been dying of cancer!). They found it better just to concentrate on their ALL-HUSSEIN, ALL-THE-TIME propaganda.
But the truth about slimebags has a way of getting out, and now that edwards has been exposed the voters are finally beginning to smell the stench from the outrageous behavior of the liberal media in its distortions, lies and cover-ups. They are also beginning to understand that the liberal media has fully and completely abandoned all journalistic ethics and will do anything to ensure victory for their favorite left-wing candidates.
In November the voters will, hopefully, reflect their disgust and outrage over how they have been treated by the liberal media by voting appropriately.

Posted by: ALEX H. | September 18, 2008, 1:31 pm 1:31 pm

These people who judge must surely have darker demons in their closets.

Posted by: Tara | September 18, 2008, 1:37 pm 1:37 pm

Mrs Edwards has my best wishes for her health. However what is she teaching her children about integrity by supporting Edwards in the primaries knowing about this bomb? Seems more ego directed to me. As far as healthcare, her husband and his lawsuits, that made them millionaires, has made healthcare cost skyrocket. Why should American taxpayers pay for her husband to have more people to sue? She could give to charities to help those in need!

Posted by: Von123 | September 18, 2008, 1:40 pm 1:40 pm

ABC patting themselves on the back for some alleged “exclusive” confession by Edwards. Who did the leg work on that story?
When you go into the voting booth who can you TRUST?
McCain-Palin 2008.

Posted by: geevill | September 18, 2008, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm

To We are The Thugs We’ve been Waiting For:
You are one paranoid sick puppy. How have you survived the Bush years and the Patriot Act? Ooops, guess that’s what’s made you so paranoid. Sorry for you.

Posted by: margo | September 18, 2008, 1:48 pm 1:48 pm

She should divorce the SOB and take him for everything he has. He doesn’t deserve her.

Posted by: Kathy | September 18, 2008, 1:50 pm 1:50 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is very courageous woman to battle cancer and infidelity by her husband.
I admire her strength as well as her determination to try to salvage her marriage… especially in the media spotlight.
God Bless Elizabeth and her family in these traumatic times…

Posted by: SF | September 18, 2008, 1:50 pm 1:50 pm

John’s admission to this affair was something we the public needed to know, it speaks of his core vales which all voters should know.
Elizabeth’s reaction and personal resolve to this issue is not our business and we all should let her be. It is now a family manner, of no importance to anyone but the family and we should keep our noses out of their business.

Posted by: Frank R | September 18, 2008, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm

Facts are not always pretty or what we might wish they were. But the fact is about half of all marriages must deal with one spouse or the other getting involved with someone else. Men are more likely to stray but a significan percentage of women will too. Another unpleasant but well-known fact is that the tragedy of terminal illness entering into the equation actually increases rather than decreases the chances of infidelity for a number of psychological reasons. We all take the chance of feeling abandoned when promises of monogamy are not kept and we probably ought to give that even-chance eventuality more thought when we “hook up.” When the spurned lover of the French writer George Sand complained bitterly that Sand had promised to love him always, she replied, “But I didn’t promise to succeed.”

Posted by: Mike R. | September 18, 2008, 1:53 pm 1:53 pm

These people who judge must surely have darker demons in their closets.
Posted by: Tara | Sep 18, 2008 1:37:45 PM
they always do…unhappy with there own lives, they look for the mistakes in others, to er is to be human, there is no one sin greater then the other..

Posted by: Cicly | September 18, 2008, 1:55 pm 1:55 pm

There’s nothing but pain that comes from adultery. I advise nobody to do it. People always find out (when you fool yourself into thinking that they won’t)and then the coarse of life changes irrevocabily for the parties involved and their families. Everyone suffers. It’s not worth a few minutes of pleasure, when the stakes are so high..risks of disease(s) and pregnancy, along with the potential loss of family and self-esteem. God made it a sin for a reason, because he knew that it would hurt us.

Posted by: Danny | September 18, 2008, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm

I agree, ABC Bias. It is dangerous when such a one-sided bias exists. You are accurate too in your assessment of the reporting done by most of the media outlets regarding Edwards’ affair when he was running in the Primary. We might as well be living in China and listening to the “State run” media… we don’t receive honest coverage.

Posted by: JuliaG | September 18, 2008, 1:58 pm 1:58 pm

i agree…this is none of our business.
and the hypocrisy is riding high in the republican ticket…
you got mccaint tellin us that the economy is strong while his wife stands alongside of him in her 280,000. earrings nodding yes…
say what you will but for those of us who read and do the research, the media isn’t our source of information like the rest of you.
OBAMA/BIDEN ’08

Posted by: hemnebob | September 18, 2008, 2:01 pm 2:01 pm

There’s nothing but pain that comes from adultery. I advise nobody to do it. People always find out (when you fool yourself into thinking that they won’t)and then the course of life changes irrevocably for the parties involved and their families. Everyone suffers. It’s not worth a few minutes of pleasure, when the stakes are so high..risks of disease(s) and pregnancy, along with the potential loss of family and self-esteem. God made it a sin for a reason, because he knew that it would hurt us.

Posted by: Danny | September 18, 2008, 2:01 pm 2:01 pm

Don’t forget… it wasn’t just one mistake. There is a very good chance that his mistress’ child is his child. Why else would he have campaign staffers put her up for so long, in expensive homes. Wonder where that money came from? You can bet ABC won’t be looking in to that one like they did Palin’s tanning habits!

Posted by: BBJ | September 18, 2008, 2:02 pm 2:02 pm

This would be a private family matter. If, they weren’t in the public eye.

Posted by: DanaK | September 18, 2008, 2:06 pm 2:06 pm

While I truly feel for this woman who’s been through more tragedy than anyone should, I can give no credence to her political opinions. She did, afterall, stand on the same pulpit with her husband portraying the picture of perfection when clearly that was not the case. She is right about one thing…trust is the biggest hurdle. Neither she, her husband or her candidate of choice have mine.

Posted by: julesuc | September 18, 2008, 2:13 pm 2:13 pm

I agree about it not being strickly a “family matter” – he was running in the Primaries for president!! The Dems applaud every bit of dirty info that can be obtained on Palin from tanning beds to what color underwear she is wearing… but not in this case. Which way do you want it?

Posted by: AAC | September 18, 2008, 2:13 pm 2:13 pm

Potential misuse of campaign funds, but ABC and the MSM is nowhere to be found.

Posted by: geevill | September 18, 2008, 2:13 pm 2:13 pm

I would hope to never be confronted with the burdens and challenges she has had to face; however, if so, I would hope to carry them with the same grace and courage she is doing. The true NC style.

Posted by: scott jeffries | September 18, 2008, 2:14 pm 2:14 pm

“Let he without sin cast the first stone.”

Posted by: god | September 18, 2008, 2:22 pm 2:22 pm

For those who feel that you shouldn’t vote for Democrats because Edwards had an affair, McCain had a five year affair with Cindy before he dumped the wife who stood by him during his POW years. (She’d also been in a terrible accident so he’s an especially “great” guy.) So, you’re going to vote FOR a “scumbag” because Edwards is a scumbag?!

Posted by: Independent08 | September 18, 2008, 2:24 pm 2:24 pm

BBJ – you are so right about the liberal MSM bias. Why haven’t we heard any follow-up on a paternity test?? Oh, I forgot, because Edwards paid his mistress hush money so that she would refuse to have the test. Also, how about a follow-up on Edwards lies about the hush money that was funneled through his campaign manager? How many houses did he buy?? Were campaign funds used in this cover-up?? If the child is not his, why was he huddled in the Bevery Hilton Hotel lobby bathroom at 2:00am. LIBERAL MSM WON’T DO THE FOLLOW-UP – HOW ABOUT YOU NAT’L ENQUIRER??? The MSM is such a joke at this point. Noone that has any sense will ever take them serious again.

Posted by: fairelection2008 | September 18, 2008, 2:25 pm 2:25 pm

would hope to never be confronted with the burdens and challenges she has had to face; however, if so, I would hope to carry them with the same grace and courage she is doing. The true NC style.
Posted by: scott jeffries | Sep 18, 2008 2:14:07 PM
How true, The courage, The Strength, the Grace and the Dignity this women carries in the midst of great struggles and tragedies in her life, she still manages to have Respect and Honor for herself and her family. I pray for continued strength, I pray for peace of mind, and peace that surpasses all understanding in this time of struggle, I pray for quiet, I pray for joy.
I pray that people let them have this private time to handle this situation in the way that THEY see fit.

Posted by: Cicly | September 18, 2008, 2:29 pm 2:29 pm

Someone should have told John Edwards to step down long before he did. Narcissism isn’t a strong enough word for what took place as it potentially could have ruined the chances of getting this country back on the right track. No doubt personally painful for Elizabeth Edwards, it could have been devastating for the country if the Republicans are able to continue to run the United States into the ground.

Posted by: tourist | September 18, 2008, 2:31 pm 2:31 pm

I don’t know what Elizabeth Edwards is thinking of, calling a news conference about the affair six weeks before the election. It’s irresponsible.

Posted by: nazcalito | September 18, 2008, 2:42 pm 2:42 pm

Look up the definitions of “strength” & “class” in the dictionary. Elizabeth Edwards picture would be on both pages.

Posted by: PhillyPaul | September 18, 2008, 2:45 pm 2:45 pm

Ms. Edwards is the epitome of grace and class. I do not feel “sorry” for her. I admire and respect her. Do I empathize with her? Certainly. Yet, private matters, even of public figures, should remain private and those of us who say otherwise should publicly clean out our own closets before passing judgment. My sister died of breast cancer. My sister-in-law is dying of incurable breast cancer. Her insurance “ran out.” She is having to fight the system for her treatments. I am a single mother, with a graduate degree, and I also have a disabled child. I do not know how I am going to repay my student loans. My job prospects become slimmer each day because I must work my hours around the needs of my child. That’s what mothers do (Ms. Palin). I have not had health insurance in more than three years and cannot afford private insurance. I have seriously considered moving my child and myself to another country that does have universal health care. Yet, I love my country, but my options, along with millions of others are few and far between. Listen to Ms. Edwards. Listen to Senator Clinton. Let’s please get some health care on the platform before we lose more of our most valuable resources…our people.

Posted by: republican-no-more | September 18, 2008, 2:48 pm 2:48 pm

DeborahfromOK: You make me want to cry. How can you not see it? If you candidacy depends on your opponent’s infidelity, then you have already lost. To cling to the thought that HRC would have won the Dem. nomination if Edwards had admitted to his affair is to be truly fanatical and perhaps brainwashed. Then to accuse Mrs. Edwards of betrayal of “the rest of us”? Speak for yourself! Don’t you think it is time for a glaring reality check on your part?

Posted by: Lisa Again | September 18, 2008, 2:52 pm 2:52 pm

I salute Mrs. Edwards for spending this time on health care for everyone, when she could be sitting back, using her own health care insurance. but realizing that there are millions of people out there without that advantage, she chooses to try to help others. We need a fix, and we need it now.

Posted by: Willow | September 18, 2008, 2:56 pm 2:56 pm

I don’t think it should be poor Mrs. Edwards,her silence gave Obama the Nomination.

Posted by: roncraw | September 18, 2008, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm

I absolutely love this women. She is class incarnate. Kuddos Elizabeth. We love you!

Posted by: jess | September 18, 2008, 3:01 pm 3:01 pm

Why can’t you wives get over it and let us wander now and again. For Pete’s sake its not like we don’t come home.

Posted by: BillyBob | September 18, 2008, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm

“She should divorce the SOB and take him for everything he has. He doesn’t deserve her.”….yeah, that’s a great way for your kids to remember their last days with you, in complete pain conflict and turmoil. Every day Elizabeth has is a blessing and that is how she is living her life. She is a strong women. SHe probably wants to strangle him but when she’s gone, he is all they have and it is always good for kids to close to their parents. She’s not going to do anything to make them angry at him for their own good. What a women!

Posted by: jess | September 18, 2008, 3:04 pm 3:04 pm

“Why can’t you wives get over it and let us wander now and again. For Pete’s sake its not like we don’t come home.”…..besides the whole bringing home a disease thing, I’m just wondering how you would feel about your wife having someone else do her and she do him every once and a while. ya know, EVERYONE has a wandering eye and mind. EVERYONE, INCLUDING YOUR WIFE! I PROMISE YOU that!! Would that bother you?

Posted by: jess | September 18, 2008, 3:05 pm 3:05 pm

This woman is a class act. The media is just trying to discredit her. She doesn’t want her personal life put out there so some people can pass judgement. How many of the media writing the foul stories have had affairs or have had their spouses have an affair. Her children shouldn’t need to be punished by the media with the stories about their father or how the media “thinks” their mother ought to handle their prsonal affairs. Leave them alone. Clean your own house before you go throwing stones. Yeah, he made a mistake…he sinned, but guess what folks, it’s all the same, so let he who is without sin cast the first stone!

Posted by: Susan | September 18, 2008, 3:07 pm 3:07 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is as much a deflector and a liar as her husband. She KNEW of her husband’s recent infidelity and LIED to the American people, leading them to vote for her husband and knowing that if that information got out (and it DID!) after he was chosen as the Democratic candidate, the entire democratic party would have lost the election. She stood behind him when he lied to all the American people. Shame on her.
I feel zero sympathy for her. May he cheat on her until her last breath!

Posted by: Jane | September 18, 2008, 3:19 pm 3:19 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is as much a deflector and a liar as her husband. She KNEW of her husband’s recent infidelity and LIED to the American people, leading them to vote for her husband and knowing that if that information got out (and it DID!) after he was chosen as the Democratic candidate, the entire democratic party would have lost the election. She stood behind him when he lied to all the American people. Shame on her.
I feel zero sympathy for her. May he cheat on her until her last breath!

Posted by: Jane | September 18, 2008, 3:19 pm 3:19 pm

Re: Media bias in the US is out of control — true, but the media is just private corporations. They have no obligation not to be biased.

Posted by: Kristin | September 18, 2008, 3:21 pm 3:21 pm

Although I am sorry that Mrs Edwards is sick with incurable cancer she is a typical politican…..she believed that it was ok for her and her husband husband to lie to the American people so that they could further their political ambitions….just like Hillary Clinton and Bill Clinton did for so many years….talk about self absorbed!

Posted by: john | September 18, 2008, 3:23 pm 3:23 pm

OK, so “men will be men”- – - not in my house! If you want something more than me- – - go and get it, but don’t even think about coming back!!!

Posted by: Chrissy | September 18, 2008, 3:23 pm 3:23 pm

She’s a lawyer/politician’s wife, she knew he messed around..get over it!

Posted by: YeahRight | September 18, 2008, 3:23 pm 3:23 pm

How can you possibly refer to the Edwards as having an “intact family”? Their father is an adulterer who is still lying about the paternity of his love-child (and how about that child’s right to a father, eh?); his paramour is refusing to take a paternity test, lest the blackmail funds quit flowing — the kids know all this, including that their father is being blackmailed by his mistress; how is this a good thing for these girls? Is it proper to teach your daughters that when your husband has a mistress and lies to the whole world about it, and pays blackmail to boot, that you just pretend everything in the garden is lovely? Isn’t this what “no-fault divorce” was all about, so that women would NOT have to simply swallow hard and try to hold their heads up while men treated them like third rate citizens?
For the sake of the children, my Aunt Fannie’s Corset Cover. This is for the sake of a lifestyle she does not wish to give up. And is a terrible thing for her kids to live through as they watch their mother slowly fade away.

Posted by: Appleby | September 18, 2008, 3:24 pm 3:24 pm

None of this is anyone’s business. Your talk of sin and stones; democrat and republican hypocrisy mixed with the trailer-trash talk of divorce and the cleaners prove but one thing. None of you have meaningful lives and even less meaningful opinions.

Posted by: J | September 18, 2008, 3:26 pm 3:26 pm

Dear Jane,
I hope you have several guardian angels…that is, if they don’t defect after your comment. Do you allow your personal life to enter into your professional life? I hope not. Is it our right to know everything about everyone we elect? Have our Presidents in the past been less of a leader because of infidelities…and these can be traced back to George Washington…the people just didn’t know it because there was not so much publicity…and they probably were much less judgmental and a lot more concerned with building a country…not a marriage. We should be more concerned with rebuilding our country and less concerned with what goes on in the personal lives of ANYONE.

Posted by: Hope | September 18, 2008, 3:28 pm 3:28 pm

Did anyone watch the video! It’s amazing, this woman is an expert on healthcare and health insurance because she is married to an adulterous senator and she was cancer? Give me a break! This is another example of one of those “catch 22” situations the conservatives find themselves in when a liberal like Mrs. Edwards speaks out and it is covered by the main stream media (which it always is). The catch? Mrs. Edwards is portrayed as strong and noble when she uses her illness in a political battle (i.e. she has cancer so she is “fighting for universal healthcare”) and gets a puff piece on ABC that mixes an Edwards’ “private matter” with politics; her appearance before a congressional committee where she gets to bash John McCain. If conservatives respond to a quote to Mrs. Edwards’ telling the committee “Neither one of us would be insured under his [McCain] healthcare plan,” that they do not believe taxpayers should foot the healthcare bill for someone worth over 100 million dollars the dems are sure to shriek “Oh those mean, nasty conservatives want everyone with cancer to die” or “want to deny healthcare to the poor!” or “leave this poor woman alone she has cancer!” or “that’s a private family matter!” then the media repeat their manta ad nauseam.

Posted by: dbruce | September 18, 2008, 3:28 pm 3:28 pm

This whole situation breaks my heart. My best to the family in this time of healing. The one thing that bothers me most (and I am certainly NOT criticizing her for this) is the picture she is presenting for her children (daughters in mind)..while I understand her position I cannot help but feel that she is showing her daughters that it is ok for their husbands to cheat and that rather than “do” anything about it, they should roll over, take it, accept it, and look at moving forward with him. Again, in no way criticizing (as there are soooo many factors in to play here), it’s just all so sad. :(

Posted by: SoSad.. | September 18, 2008, 3:29 pm 3:29 pm

I admire Elizabeth for thinking of her family and short time left first; however, as an adult woman who’s father had an affair and then married the woman 6 weeks after he divorced my mother, I say kick the bum out. My relationship with my father is completely different now. I give him the basic respect a father should get, but none of the warmth and love. He’s actually getting back now, what he’s given to his children all his life — the cold shoulder. He was always more interested in the “glory” of being the good guy for other people rather than his wife and kids. Elizabeth may not be doing her kids any favors by keeping the “myth” of their good-guy dad alive.

Posted by: leeann | September 18, 2008, 3:30 pm 3:30 pm

And who business is this?

Posted by: Mrs. Vee | September 18, 2008, 3:30 pm 3:30 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is as much a deflector and a liar as her husband. She KNEW of her husband’s recent infidelity and LIED to the American people, leading them to vote for her husband and knowing that if that information got out (and it DID!) after he was chosen as the Democratic candidate, the entire democratic party would have lost the election. She stood behind him when he lied to all the American people. Shame on her.
I feel zero sympathy for her. May he cheat on her until her last breath!
Posted by: Jane | Sep 18, 2008 3:19:50 PM
I think the word is Empathetic, I dont think any REAL women would want to know or deal with the fact that throughout all they we have been through my husband, who I took vows with, for better or for worse in sickness and in health would step out of our marriage and bring another person in, I empathize with her, that person could be me, It makes me greatful that I have not had to deal with that, Marriage is hard enough.
SO what if or when she knew about it, she did what anyone women would do in their marriage and stand by her man..
a HELP MATE for her husband, She didnt lie SHE just didnt tell you HER personal business.

Posted by: Cicly | September 18, 2008, 3:31 pm 3:31 pm

“Why can’t you wives get over it and let us wander now and again. For Pete’s sake its not like we don’t come home.”…..besides the whole bringing home a disease thing, I’m just wondering how you would feel about your wife having someone else do her and she do him every once and a while. ya know, EVERYONE has a wandering eye and mind. EVERYONE, INCLUDING YOUR WIFE! I PROMISE YOU that!! Would that bother you? Posted by: jess
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Well, Jess, it seems Edwards had a little more than just a “wandering eye”.
An affair is certainly not something you just “stumble” into. It requires a LOF planning. Edwards had to plan the time and place to make sure that not only could he keep the secret from his wife but from the public as well.
I’d also like to know just what is your polling apparatus? How do you know EVERYBODY has a wandering eye and goes out of his way to have an affair?
Usually people justify their OWN behavior by saying everybody’s doing it. Perhaps you are the one with the “wandering eye”.

Posted by: marco 123 | September 18, 2008, 3:31 pm 3:31 pm

I applaud the courage of Mrs.Edwards. She and her family are a private family and should not be hit on unless invited in. They will get through it without the prying eyes of the media or peeping toms.

Posted by: Len | September 18, 2008, 3:32 pm 3:32 pm

Elizabeth, kick his lying cheating a$$ to the curb. Once a cheater, always a cheater. How will you ever trust him again, especially knowing you are sick and as sad as it is, sick women are physically unattractive to men like him. I hope his balls dry up and fall off. He does not deserve your love or support.

Posted by: Itchy | September 18, 2008, 3:32 pm 3:32 pm

Anyone else notice that she wasn’t wearing a wedding ring? I read a comment yesterday on another site and sure enough the video above also show a lack of a ring. Maybe she has finally seen the light and her own comments does not specify if she’s still with him, she just said she wants to create a better image for her children. Nothing about them still together. I also read that her husband has been hiding in a different house. If I was Elizabeth, I would make sure to secure her children’s financial stability for the future and take John Edwards for every penny so that mistress can forget her “dream”.

Posted by: Lee | September 18, 2008, 3:33 pm 3:33 pm

For all you that are knocking Elizabeth Edwards for teaching her children to roll over when confronted with the fact that her husband had an affair…
And then, for those of you that also said if not for Edwards, Hillary would have the nomination…
Has is struck you yet that Hillary is no different than Elizabeth Edwards in this instance?
What did her husband do?
Who is she still married to?
Enough said.

Posted by: Hypocrisy Much? | September 18, 2008, 3:36 pm 3:36 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is fighting for her life and kicking the SOB out of the house is not the best thing for her kids or her recovery at this time. She is taking the high road and putting her energy on her own recovery and ask any child who has gone through ugly (and not so public) divorce which they would choose. It would seen children, regardless of their parents faults, want no one else but Mommy and Daddy to raise them and keep their home secure as possible. A divorce would be very disruptive and hard to understand at the age of the Edward’s children and I think she is putting her children first. As she described having her feet under her I know that it feels when your whole world has crumbled and you have had your feet knocked out from under you. I hated the other woman and realized that was wasted energy and forgiveness is a personal choice that I have been unable to make; however, 20 years later my son and daughter have thanked me for staying and allowing them to have their father while I hid my feelings of ill will toward their father and they understand now how hard and what a sacrifice it was on my part and I have their love and respect which is worth more than ever getting “even” and kicking their father out. I rose up and awarded myself the self respect I deserved and confidence to go on the best I could under the circumstances and my children were better children for the home I kept in tact just for them while they had close relationship with both parents through their young and teen years. This is the most painful thing Elizabeth Edwards or any woman can go through but she is a person of great character and strength and will win this battle. If John Edwards has any character or humanity, he will beat himself up forever for this inexcusable behavior. She must focus on all the positive within and let him hate himself.

Posted by: Janie | September 18, 2008, 3:36 pm 3:36 pm

Hi Lee,
No, I didn’t notice the absence of her wedding ring or any other accessories. I do know that when my sister became very ill her rings no longer fit and she did not wear them. Sometimes she wore her wedding ring on a necklace. My sister-in-law is in so much pain right now that she can barely tolerate clothing, much less jewelry.

Posted by: republican-no-more | September 18, 2008, 3:38 pm 3:38 pm

The one thing that bothers me most (and I am certainly NOT criticizing her for this) is the picture she is presenting for her children (daughters in mind)..
Sosad…
SoSad, I would have to somewhat disagree with you, who knows what is going on at home, behind close doors, away from the media, you cannot say personally that you know what is going on… My grandparents were married for about 60+ years until my grandfathers death, there is no telling what went on in their marriage, the different hardships they had to deal with, the different things my grandmother had to deal with, but she believed in her marriage, Divorce was not an option. I think that is honorable when you can teach your child that the vows that I took I meant them, that means for better or for worse, if you teach your children this contract this marriage, it is not an option… Not I dont want it anymore so i want a divorce and then move on to the next.That is the problem with todays society, this Instant Happiness society, the moment things get hot, we want a magic pill or something to take it way.
My Hat goes off to her, for being courages enough to deal with THE REAL WORLD.

Posted by: Cicly | September 18, 2008, 3:40 pm 3:40 pm

in responses to:
Pack his bags. Set him out. The children have two people to look upon as role models. Step up to the plate and put him out. Tell the children frankly and honestly. I loved your dad, I love you more than life, but I will not have him around as we build a life of integrity and love – your dad hasn’t found that yet. Never put yourself in the position of having a child ask you years from now – why in the name of heaven did just roll over, shrug your shoulders and say it was for us kids? Come on Mom, no one takes self-pride and esteem from my Mom, no one including my father who made the mistake.
OMG … this woman who will be dead in several months and she knows it. She can send him packing, and force a wedge between her children and their father for long after she is gone, or she can ensure that regardless of his mistakes (related to her relationship with him) that there is a family unit prepared to move forward without her.
She would be more selfish than he, for her to do anything less for her children.

Posted by: Hobbes | September 18, 2008, 3:42 pm 3:42 pm

I don’t care what she has to say!!! She let that little twerp of a husband run for President when she knew the facts! She wasn’t looking out for her family then. These arrogant, egotistical & myopic idiots like Edwards & Obama who run for POTUS are only thinking of themselves!!! They don’t give a d*** about the People!! King Edwards King Obama!!!

Posted by: lovingpolitics | September 18, 2008, 3:48 pm 3:48 pm

Everyone just stay out of her business and let her heal. Also as for Palin, I sure would not want her with no experience running our country!!!

Posted by: hope | September 18, 2008, 3:49 pm 3:49 pm

Dear lovingpolitics,
…and your point is??? She “let” him run for President? “Self” and “People” are not synonymous.

Posted by: republican-no-more | September 18, 2008, 3:51 pm 3:51 pm

NObama only talks good game on gender pay equity, Seattle Post-Intelligencer
“Obama’s commitment to federally mandated pay equity stretches from the Rockies to Wall Street and beyond. And yet it seems to have eluded his Senate office. Compensation figures for his legislative staff reveal that Obama pays women just 83 cents for every dollar his menOn average, according to these data, women in John McCain’s office make $1.04 for every dollar a man makes. In fact, all other things being equal, a typical female staffer could earn 21 cents more per dollar paid to her male counterpart — while adding $10,726 to her annual income — by leaving Barack Obama’s office and going to work for John McCain.”

Posted by: mom trying to raise citizens | September 18, 2008, 3:52 pm 3:52 pm

I understand why Elizabeth Edwards made her decision. As a divorced cancer survivor, my children will have no one else but their father when I die. Mrs. Edwards recognizes that when she is gone, her children will need their father and will do everything in her power to not make this family relationship divisive. She is thinking of her children and not herself and her own wounds. Yes, he is a jerk; yes, he is not trustworthy, and 99% of wives would have divorced him. She is doing what is best for her children. God, what strength this woman has. I admire her. We should all admire this decision. It is what a mother would do; it is not what just a wife would do.

Posted by: M2 | September 18, 2008, 3:53 pm 3:53 pm

I went no further than the headlines. This woman is off the radar. Moving on.

Posted by: KansasGirl | September 18, 2008, 4:08 pm 4:08 pm

I admire Elizabeth for her strength, character, and intelligence. I’m so glad she is using her experience with cancer to help fight for those of us who can’t afford to get sick in this country. Go Elizabeth!!

Posted by: Colleen | September 18, 2008, 4:16 pm 4:16 pm

ABC leave the woman alone. Let her deal with her life and get out of her business.
Why don’t you…ABC focus on Obama. You need it get the truth about this guy. How about asking him how he got so rich off from Fannie Mae & Freddie Mac? Now the tax payer is going to pay. How about Obama paying back what he does not deserve? Come on ABC do you job and ask the tough questions. Lets be fair…you seem to ask Sarah the tough questions. I guess we know that you don’t care about giving people the facts and chose to pick Obama. Well the American people are very smart and Obama will never win this one.

Posted by: B | September 18, 2008, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm

No one knows what goes on in the Edwards house. Elizabeth is preparing her children to survive with their dad after she passes on. Hopefully, God will grant her many more years to see the younger two through the teenage years especially if John is seriously thinking about being together with Rielle Hunter after Elizabeth gone(as the National Enquirer reported in there 8/25/08 issue).

Posted by: Marilyn | September 18, 2008, 4:28 pm 4:28 pm

How is Obama a “me-first”. He and his wife both turned down lucrative positions when they graduated from Harvard to instead work low paying jobs helping their communities. McCain puts himself first – leaving Cindy at home to raise his kids and driving her into a pill addiction – and he still didn’t go home to take care of her – he wanted the nomiation too badly. And Sarah Palin – she’s evil personified. Says she’s all religious, but does everything she can to destroy the earth and her creatures – for the sake of oil and hunting and money.

Posted by: bren | September 18, 2008, 4:28 pm 4:28 pm

Who cares. They did a dumb thing to continue with the primaries with their secret affair information to the side and her illness. They both smell funny. John and Elizabeth gambled with our future for what? At least he is staying out of the spotlight. It wasn’t so much the act of the affair as the lying about it that floors me. Is she talking with the children in tow like John and his campaign? Are we suppose to forget and forgive that they almost ruined our democracy? Is John back to chasing ambulances?

Posted by: Dave R | September 18, 2008, 4:37 pm 4:37 pm

talk about a woman with such grace and dignity. If I had an ounce of her character, I would be pretty blessed!

Posted by: Sophia | September 18, 2008, 4:40 pm 4:40 pm

It has become very obvious that our media is very bias in its reporting of our daily life events. We are no longer allowed to think for ourselves. Things that we believe and hold dear to our heart are ridiculed and demined. We, the citizens of the United States of America are slowly being destroyed by the media. They keep us so caught up in fighting our little battles amongst ourselves that we ignore that we are losing the war (A house divided will fail). Shame on us all for allowing the media to deliberately manipulate our thinking just because we happen to agreement with their current option or bias. What about tomorrow when they decide to manipulate our thinking in a way that we disagree with? Every citizen of this county has an obligation to keep the media non-bias and balanced and should refuse to accept it even if they are in agreement. It is a two-edged sword that cuts both ways, it’s just a matter of time. Do you want your grandchildren to believe what they believe based on what the executive of the media giants want them to believe? Do you want to pick a president based on the biases of the media? We laugh at all the jokes about the different candidates running for office. The joke on us, the media thinks us fools and if we don’t take a stand for what is right then fools we are.

Posted by: Foolnomore | September 18, 2008, 4:43 pm 4:43 pm

She is a beautiful woman and she is dying. He will be left to raise their children. I can understand her not going through a divorce knowing that her children are going to go through a death. She is a class act. God bless her and as far as John Edwards, well his day will come.

Posted by: LBW | September 18, 2008, 4:43 pm 4:43 pm

As a victim of infidelity I can say that being cheated on is one of the hardest things in the world to deal with, but it is even harder to find the strength to not simply run away from the relationship and actually give both yourself and the relationship time to decide if leaving or staying is in your best interest. This experience tells me that Elizabeth Edwards is a very, very strong person. These are the kind of family values we should be praising, the strength to stay together and to heal even against the inevitable tragedies of life. I hope that Elizabeth Edwards is getting all the support from her family and doctors that she needs and I hope that John Edwards is doing everything he can to make it right.
Remember, apologizing is saying:
I’m sorry.
This is my fault.
What can I do to make it right.
No ifs, ands or buts.

Posted by: Paul | September 18, 2008, 5:35 pm 5:35 pm

Kay – Stay with him if you must, but do keep both eyes on him at all times?? – Why would she want to waste energy checking up on him? The National Enquirer probably is still dogging him to see if he visiting Rielle & child.

Posted by: Marilyn | September 18, 2008, 5:48 pm 5:48 pm

Hope, you COMPLETELY MISSED the point. My point has ZERO to do with Edwards’ affair. It has to do with his wife promoting him to the country as the best man for the democratic ticket. Had he actually gotten the nomination and the affair come out PRIOR to the election, it would have CRUSHED the democratic’s chance to have their party in the White House and Elizabeth Edwards KNOWS THAT. Yet she stood at the podium and took that risk FOR EVERY SINGLE AMERICAN. SHE HAD NO RIGHT TO DO THAT!
Think you can comprehend the issue this time?!

Posted by: Jane | September 18, 2008, 6:26 pm 6:26 pm

“SO what if or when she knew about it, she did what anyone women would do in their marriage and stand by her man..
a HELP MATE for her husband, She didnt lie SHE just didnt tell you HER personal business.”
I don’t care if she stood by her man and remained silent about the affair. I only care that she pounded the pulpit over what a wonderful leader her husband would be KNOWING FULL WELL that if he were selected as the democratic candidate and this fiasco surfaced before the election, the republicans would be GUARANTEED to win. It takes a helluva lot of hubris to believe you have the right to risk so much for half of this country.
She is slime.

Posted by: Jane | September 18, 2008, 6:30 pm 6:30 pm

Elizabeth Edwards is a hero.

Posted by: Jackie | September 18, 2008, 8:10 pm 8:10 pm

Elizabeth’s standing by her man is not the issue. That’s personal.
Its going public assuring the nation that her man was a moral icon and be sure and vote for him AFTER she knew he had been dipping his wick.
Elizabeth Edwards is trashier than John’s lover. At least she kept her mouth shut.

Posted by: Kate | September 18, 2008, 8:21 pm 8:21 pm

Sarah Palin inspires me….
TO VOTE FOR OBAMA.
Patriotism knows no political party. I am glad that Elizabeth is still fighting for healthcare access.

Posted by: FromMyView | September 18, 2008, 9:06 pm 9:06 pm

Sarah Palin inspires me….
TO VOTE FOR OBAMA.
Patriotism knows no political party. I am glad that Elizabeth is still fighting for healthcare access.

Posted by: FromMyView | September 18, 2008, 9:06 pm 9:06 pm

If Mrs. Edwards says that he cares about poor people, then I’m sure he does. It’s conceivable that for some people, it would have been preferable to issue an apology without room for follow up questions so that the matter would have been permanantly out of the media by Sept. 1, 2008. It’s my perception that Senator Edwards was pretty forgiving of me even when I didn’t handle myself as well as I should have on his blog, so I’ll show him the same courtesy. President Clinton said that those who ask for forgiveness ought to be willing to give it. That makes sense to me. The five ultimate entries take precedence. I have seen many families go through this type of thing without it being so public. That aspect of it is very unfair. I wish for healing and peace for all those concerned.

Posted by: actualcompassion | September 18, 2008, 9:39 pm 9:39 pm

He who is with out sin…,cast the first stone…
Enough of this ridicule concerning a ,”personal matter between Edwards and his wife”.
I for one,choose not to judge anyone regarding their sexual mishaps in life.
Edwards is a good man and dedicated politician for the people.So what if he strayed? I hope Elizabeth and him can get past this and maintain the love that has bonded them as a couple dealing with life’s indifference’s when it comes to serious problems…,health, family situations and the world outside of their home.
Can anyone recall how many powerful politicians and presidents have strayed? And how many consequences;
We the American people endured as a direct effect from the affairs,with one exception…Clinton’s indiscretion cost us the White house and this Bush administrative nightmare , we cannot wake up from.
Before you pass judgment,take a moment to think about your own indiscretions in life.(The ones you refuse to ever acknowledge)
America is obsessed with sex, as long as it remains in the dark,with the shades drawn and the lights out!
In closing,I’m quoting an ex-wife of a devout minister…”It’s not what you do that matters …,as long as you don’t get caught.”

Posted by: Willie ...Rio rancho, Nm. | September 18, 2008, 9:46 pm 9:46 pm

I admire Elizabeth Edwards, she’s incredible from many standpoints. She
is obviously very strong.

Posted by: ohiopolitico | September 18, 2008, 11:15 pm 11:15 pm

My heart goes out to the whole family. I am currently in a similar situation and can relate. I gave my husband “a second chance”, well so much for that. Turns out he’s your common human male. We are currently divorcing after 25 years of trying to make it in a very competitive and all too often unjust world. I commend her for protecting her family and being a forgiving soul. Definition for Elizabeth: Dedicated.

Posted by: i b 1 2 tlk | September 18, 2008, 11:34 pm 11:34 pm

I admire the strength of Elizabeth Edwards. She is fighting the battle of her life (cancer) and handling one of the most difficult situations any woman can be put in – infidelity of a spouse and all in the public eye. Give the woman a break – the decisions she makes now are for the future of her children not her own satisfaction. She has to be guarded in her use of words but I’m sure behind closed doors she is the typical woman – very hurt, feels so humilated, feels so betrayed by the man who was supposed to love her unconditionally! I’m sure she is angry and does speak her mind to John. I wish for her – length of days, much happiness and fulfillment by her children because she cannot trust or depend on the man who was supposed to be there in sickness or health. A man who will cheat on his wife when she is going through cancer and treatments cannot be trusted!

Posted by: Sherry | September 19, 2008, 8:22 am 8:22 am

Healthcare in the US wouldn’t be in such a sad state if John Edwards had not made his outrageous fortune suing doctors…when a mistake is made, the victim should be compensated, but Edwards made millions suing drs out of practice. The NC town where I live just lost its only neurologist because he can’t pay malpractrice…Thanks John, enjoy the 29,000 square mansion!

Posted by: Meg Morgan | September 19, 2008, 9:29 am 9:29 am

I really was disappointed in John Edwards when this story broke. The only thing that I find troubling as far as the presidential run is concerned is the fact that he ran and Elizabeth encouraged him to run AFTER his family knew about the affair. Did they really think that it wouldn’t come out at some point? How embarrassing could it have been had he been in the White House? I supported John Edwards over Obama, but I’m glad he didn’t get the nomination now. He’ll have to live with this the rest of his life. He screwed up all because he couldn’t keep his pants on. To think that the other woman would not eventually talk is being very naive.

Posted by: Mitsy | September 19, 2008, 9:48 am 9:48 am

does anyone know the title or singer of the song she was quoting from…”ring the bells that can still ring”…”thats how the light gets in” I found the poem it came from, just a 5 liner, but no title. and in the interview they said it was a song, but I couldn’t understand who they said sang it. thanks!

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Posted by: Virginia Harris | September 19, 2008, 10:06 am 10:06 am

Enough of this soap opera! Divorce the bum and get on with your life.

Posted by: Sigmond | September 19, 2008, 10:35 am 10:35 am

To Debra from Oklahoma,
You can’t honestly believe that a vote for Hillary would have equalled a vote for universal health care? She was pummelled by Republicans when she tried to take on the healthcare industry in her husband’s first term, as a senator she has accepted hundreds of thousands from insurance companies (you can obtain this info from the US Congress website) to vote favoribly to healthcare bills, and you really think she will really put herself out there again? The woman is smart, not stupid. She realizes now more than ever, she needs a positive image if she will ever get to president. She cannot do that without the giants. I am confident she will run again, but I doubt she will take on healthcare. Sorry to burst your bubble!

Posted by: Isabel | September 19, 2008, 1:13 pm 1:13 pm

I had the honor of assisting Elizabeth Edwards at one of her book signings in 2006. I stood by her side for over 4 hours while she greeted people and patiently signed however many copies of “Saving Graces” they set before her. One, two or ten, she didn’t mind!
I remember asking her, at one point, how she could possibly sign so many books witn no break and not have her hands bother her. She replied that her arms had no feeling from the elbows down since her cancer treatment (the first go-round). It was obvious she enjoyed every, single minute of her booksigning.
I watched her comfort people as they cried while telling her about children they had lost. I watched one young woman in a really bad wig talk to her about the breast cancer she was battling. Her body had clearly been ravaged by the disease and she was still undergoing treatment. I hate to say this, but I highly doubt she is still with us today. I do hope I’m wrong.
Elizabeth spent a great deal of time with all of the people at her booksigning. People from all walks of life. Men. Women. Children. Young people. Old people. Those who were obviously wealthy. Those who were clearly not so wealthy. She listened. She comforted them. She encouraged them. She consoled them.
I will cherish the memory of that afternoon with her for the rest of my life. I learned so much just by watching her. I love her.
Elizabeth Edwards is a thoughtful, intelligent, caring, BEAUTIFUL human being and John Edwards is not worthy of her.
I hope she lives to be 100!

Posted by: Mickie | September 19, 2008, 1:18 pm 1:18 pm

When I began a job in 2000 for an Illinois Local Governmental Agency, health insurance was available to me. After Obama and his Democratic friends in Springfield, Illinois, took millions of dollars from the insurance reserve and gutted the program, I, who have cancer, no longer have access to health insurance through my Illinois local government employer. The Illinois legislators raised the participation requirement to 85%. The industry norm is 50% participation. So don’t be looking to Obama to help with any health insurance reform.

Posted by: From Illinois | September 19, 2008, 1:24 pm 1:24 pm

To Mickie – Thank you for sharing your experience with Elizabeth. I too hope she lives to be 100 as her children surely deserve their mother’s love and guidance through out their lives.
I agree John does not deserve her.

Posted by: Marilyn | September 19, 2008, 2:01 pm 2:01 pm

Elizabeth went thru extensive medical procedures to become pregnant with her younger children following the death of a son. No doubt the procedure included heavy doses of estrogen…and the resultant cancer. John’s decision to have a baby with a girl he met in a NY bar is a resounding slap in the face. Now he lies about the fatherhood of the baby girl…using a friend/political crony take that fall and another pal to funnel money. What? An effort to spare his political career? Dismal.

Posted by: leevee | September 19, 2008, 4:13 pm 4:13 pm

I, too, feel badly for Elizabeth and her children. Betrayal and embarassment are very painful to deal with….especially in the public eye.
What I don’t understand is why John McCain is brought into the situation. Yes, he cheated on his wife…..almost 30 years ago. He has PUBLICLY admitted the breakup of his first marriage is his greatest moral failing. He and Cindy have been married for 28 years. It appears that he has remained faitihful to her. There has never been evidence to the contrary. This is an ongoing problem with John Edwards. How do the two compare? Is it just that liberal dems have to bring John McCain into the equation to downplay Edwards abominable behavior??? Silly.

Posted by: kathy | September 20, 2008, 7:01 pm 7:01 pm

After reading all your hateful comments, my greatest sympathy goes out to Senator John Edwards, because he is only human.

Posted by: Cherubim | September 21, 2008, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

“To err is human; to forgive is devine.”
–Alexander Pope

Posted by: Cherubim | September 21, 2008, 1:31 pm 1:31 pm

“To err is human; to forgive is divine.”
–Alexander Pope

Posted by: Cherubim | September 21, 2008, 1:36 pm 1:36 pm

Sorry Elizabeth, psychiatrists have done many studies show that it’s better for kids to grow up with parents in a happy marriage than an unhappy one. Kids who grow up with bad role models of a marriage will repeat the mistake. Many say that kids are better off when the unhappily married parents divorce.

Posted by: Alison McHenry | September 23, 2008, 5:34 pm 5:34 pm

HOW COULD ELIZABETH NOT KNOW HE WAS A FRAUD AND CHEAT, IT JUST SHOWED SO CLEARLY IN HIS FACE. IT WAS SO DISGUSTING TO WATCH HIM AS HE PUT ON HIS ARTIFICIAL FACE EVERY TIME HE WAS IN FRONT OF CAMERAS. I COULD HARDLY STAND TO WATCH HIM AND LISTEN TO HIS ARTIFICIAL UTTERANCES. GOOD RIDDANCE MS. REILLE CAN HAVE HIM AND LEAVE THIS COUNTRY WITH HIM AS FAR AS I CARE. WOULD ELIZABETH TAKE ON HUSSEIN OBAMA’S EXPLANATIONS OF HOW HE DIDN’T KNOW MR WRIGHT WAS LIKE THAT AFTER BEING HIS CHURCH 20 YEARS – HOW LONG WAS ELIZABETH WITH JOHN?

Posted by: OPAL | October 10, 2008, 12:22 pm 12:22 pm

Stay strong and keep your head up, Elizabeth. You epitomize grace under pressure.
Ring the bells that still can ring – Leonard Cohen speaks the truth.
You are a treasure and I’m sending beautiful blessings and much love to you, Elizabeth. You are my hero.
Your friend.
Julie in Atlanta

Posted by: julie in atlanta | October 12, 2008, 9:02 pm 9:02 pm

The ONLY Victim here is the child that Mr. and Mrs. Edwards refuse to accept. Why does Mrs. Edwards think it is o.k. to denounce a child? Oh Yah! Pro-choice. Funny how that works.

Posted by: jacke | November 10, 2008, 5:00 pm 5:00 pm

Her husband’s a loser, her kids have to know most of the story and I’m sure they aren’t happy with Dad.
Who cares? He’ll never get elected again so why is her interview news?
It’s too bad she’s sick but if she goes out in a public forum and makes political hay, she deserves to get the straw thrown right back at her whether she’s sick or not.

Posted by: Bill M | November 12, 2008, 3:32 pm 3:32 pm

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