By Jennifer Parker

Feb 24, 2009 3:33pm

Roses and Thorns

We learned at the White House lunch today that the Obama’s have a family tradition that I want to adopt at our house.

At dinner, they play a game called "Roses and Thorns." Everyone takes a turn describing a good thing that happened that day (rose) and a low moment or tough problem they had to deal with (thorn).

When the President finished his turn after a particularly challenging day at the White House (we didn’t learn which one), Malia told her Dad: "You have a really thorny job."

Smart girl!

–George Stephanopoulos

User Comments

Good for the Obamas!
I must say, I like this idea too.
I ask each day what the kids learned in school that day (and “Nothing” is not an option). Not only do I find out if they have a good understanding of their lessons, but I get some good “kid-insight” type answers too.

Posted by: Jan | February 24, 2009, 4:05 pm 4:05 pm

What a great American family!! Keep working hard President Obama. The American People have got your back.We are praying incessantly that God protects you and your family and gives you the wisdom to guide the country through these difficult times.

Posted by: Alison | February 24, 2009, 4:07 pm 4:07 pm

George S.
After the underhanded way that you and Charlie Gibson tried to make a fool of Barack Obama during the debate with Hilary Clinton you should be ashamed to mention his name.
I will never again watch your Sunday morning show which had been a staple in my home. You and Charlie really showed your true colors. You just bet on the wrong horse!

Posted by: sylvia | February 24, 2009, 4:08 pm 4:08 pm

I heard they also play “JUMP OFF THE BRIDGE” how about little Georgie and Charlie play that

Posted by: DOH-bama Cabinet of Corruption | February 24, 2009, 4:20 pm 4:20 pm

Very cute. :)

Posted by: kaolin fire | February 24, 2009, 4:23 pm 4:23 pm

Ease up people. There are a lot of important things to think about without slamming everyone that leans a little bit one way or the the other.

Posted by: Bob | February 24, 2009, 4:26 pm 4:26 pm

Allow me to start a contest on here. Fill in the blank: During the Bush years, the Bush family had a similar tradition. They ____________________.

Posted by: bobby williston | February 24, 2009, 4:30 pm 4:30 pm

That tactic has been done at summer camps since I can remember. Now that the first family is doing it, it’s worth recognition?! Come on!

Posted by: Donna | February 24, 2009, 4:34 pm 4:34 pm

George is deeply in love with Obama.
BTW who is that woman sat with them?It’s not Michelle, right?
A nanny?
I thought the grandma is taking care of the kids.

Posted by: cilla | February 24, 2009, 4:35 pm 4:35 pm

Children take a while to unwind after school.Usually it will be around dinner when they will tell you if something is bothering them. We made a practice of finding something to be grateful for each night as we said bedtime prayers.Even if the day had gone badly we could think of something to say “Thank You” for.

Posted by: mhm | February 24, 2009, 4:40 pm 4:40 pm

Now we can expect to have posted on this website what kind of toilet paper the First Family uses. Sickening.

Posted by: Lisa Again | February 24, 2009, 4:41 pm 4:41 pm

The President’s sister was the woman with long dark hair that sat with his daughters at the inauguration.

Posted by: mhm | February 24, 2009, 4:42 pm 4:42 pm

Now we can expect to have posted on this website what kind of toilet paper the First Family uses. .
Posted by: Lisa Again |
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We didn’t know you had that type of fetish,
I wouldn’t spread it out publicly so fast.

Posted by: spacerook1 | February 24, 2009, 4:50 pm 4:50 pm

Too bad he can’t do that in his JOB…say something nice then something negative.
A management class that I had said the sandwich method was the best: Say something positive about the problem, something bad, then somethign positive. Sandwiching the negative between positive give you a better change to have things more positive….

Posted by: Sue | February 24, 2009, 4:53 pm 4:53 pm

If stock market is a measure of his performance on the economy, our Greatest Smartest Clueless Leader has almost all thorny days.
Unfortunately, it’s thornier for the american people.

Posted by: kat | February 24, 2009, 4:54 pm 4:54 pm

I love the racism of the media and many of the Washington insiders. Gee…a black family actually discusses their day with each other! Wow! Amazing! Breaking news! Let’s write an article about this amazing phenomena! Not only is Obama “articulate” or “well spoken” (or in Biden’s thinking “clean”) but a black family can act “just like us”! Amazing!

Posted by: Ed | February 24, 2009, 4:55 pm 4:55 pm

Kat…you should have “scream” louder in the past 8 years. Make that 8 months. Go drink your Mountain Dew, it keeps your thinking irrational. Buy a case!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted by: sngeorgia | February 24, 2009, 5:07 pm 5:07 pm

George this is really too much, even for you. Do you plan to have a daytime talk show similar to Oprah dedicated to the Obamas? You destroyed whatever credibility you had with the news that you “talk” to your friends in the White House EVERY FREAKIN day but this love note is beyond hilarious. You do still consider yourself a journalist?

Posted by: Michelle | February 24, 2009, 5:07 pm 5:07 pm

All of you “space cadets” need to go back to you capsule. No one think as you.

Posted by: sngeorgia | February 24, 2009, 5:09 pm 5:09 pm

Ed,
Actually, if more families did sit down at dinner together (not dinner is cooked and people sit around the tv or eat at different time) and talked it would make the First Family just like them. Unfortunately, that does not happen as often as it should.

Posted by: Mack | February 24, 2009, 5:10 pm 5:10 pm

Slurp! Slurp! You go, Georgie!

Posted by: Sabre460 | February 24, 2009, 5:13 pm 5:13 pm

come on we can’t pick on everything they do…………!!! It is a nice thing for families to chat at dinner. Lets face it he has one heck of a thorn to worry about…………so give them all a break on this one !!
God Bless America, and I am a Republican

Posted by: outseln | February 24, 2009, 5:19 pm 5:19 pm

I have to admit. I’ll give them that. They are; from this perspective a good role model for the American family. Too many households have kids that almost never see a parent except when there is trouble. I have to admit that even in my household, we might have to adapt something like that around our dinner table. Lord knows I’m trying to get more “meals at home” dinnertime where we are at the table together. This economy isn’t helping.

Posted by: J Kline | February 24, 2009, 5:19 pm 5:19 pm

They set a wonderful example!

Posted by: obamamama | February 24, 2009, 5:22 pm 5:22 pm

This is what we our country has needed for a LONG time…
With the Obama’s we got the ROSE.
It’s too bad the GOP is all thorns…
They make me hat politics, while the Pres makes me love it.
Obama – the Rose
The GOP – Thorns

Posted by: AmericanWoman | February 24, 2009, 5:36 pm 5:36 pm

To the poster who called this a “love note,” you couldn’t be more right. George S. should be embarrassed for having called this journalism. Not that this Obama tradition is a bad one, it’s just stomach churning to see the way GS fawned over Team Obama choosing to report on this.
Also, am I the only one who questions the number of times the Obamas have sat for photo shoots that end up on yet ANOTHER magazine cover?? Sheesh, you’d think they were Paris Hilton the way they’ve bought into their own hype on that one…

Posted by: Ken | February 24, 2009, 5:44 pm 5:44 pm

My family tradition was trying to stay hidden from my drunk dad.

Posted by: Anonymous | February 24, 2009, 5:53 pm 5:53 pm

For some people, life is a bed of roses. A rose bed takes real commitment – just like our government, rose canes need to be cut back and sometimes heavily fed to produce growth. There’s always the risk of thorns, bugs and disease, but the expense and time is worth the reward of fragrant blooms. Then again, for some people, life is a bed of thorns. They don’t believe in fertilizing the plants and let the vines and bugs grow without control. Then they whine and complain when flowers don’t appear and blame it on Democrats. This is a lovely story and a living example of our President’s family. Those of you complaining about it should go clean up your own yard.

Posted by: idahogirl | February 24, 2009, 6:01 pm 6:01 pm

Bobby Willston: They Bush family played “Where’s Mr. Cheney?”

Posted by: Paula | February 24, 2009, 6:04 pm 6:04 pm

One hell of an example for us all!

Posted by: ebm | February 24, 2009, 6:07 pm 6:07 pm

Can’t win for losing. This is all in the name of human interest. I like reading things about the Obama girls, and they’re young kids who are going to grow up in the White House so there are going to be stories written about them. The First Family is setting a good example and we should be glad.

Posted by: JDL | February 24, 2009, 6:24 pm 6:24 pm

George, George, George… really… you are not a journalist! Far from it. You’re still spinning and puffing. You haven’t stopped spinning since you left the Clinton administration. We KNOW you have lunch at the White House. We also know you regularly meet with insiders. We know you are one of the chosen ones. Why not leave the menu report to Martha Stewart? You’re having a hard enough time trying to be a credible moderator of your Sunday show. What’s the name of it? I forget. I used to watch it every Sunday.

Posted by: TexGEOas | February 24, 2009, 6:26 pm 6:26 pm

Thank you for this story! I never tire of hearing about postive leaders and good role models in our society!

Posted by: victoria | February 24, 2009, 6:28 pm 6:28 pm

Is this journalism or a “Slobbering Love Affair”?That’s great that the first family take time to talk over dinner like mnay of the rest of us,but how many stories did we hear about the baskets that the Bush girls left for sasha and malia,and the wonderful example that Laura Bush set?I would like to know why this emergency “Stimulus” bill was railroaded through Congress and signed by the president without being read and discussed,and one week after signed the LARGEST spending in American history,Obama has the audacity to call a summit on fiscal responsibility! What a joke! We all know that the whole purpose was to push his spending bill through,repay all his special interest groups that elected him,and stick all Americans with the bill by raising everyone’s taxes. Keep your ears open,America, because Obama is trying to push through measures that will turn us into a one-party country.Don’t let Rahlm Emmanuel take over the census!

Posted by: kim | February 24, 2009, 6:30 pm 6:30 pm

Bobby Willston: They Bush family played “Where’s Mr. Cheney?”
Posted by: Paula | Feb 24, 2009 6:04:57 PM
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LOL

Posted by: Democrat | February 24, 2009, 6:34 pm 6:34 pm

That is, indeed, Michelle Obama in the picture.
I like the Obama family, but I do think that too much attention is being paid to minor issues. We don’t need to know about their dinner-table conversation. When the media focus on these matters, they only encourage the critics to do so as well. I’m sick of seeing the petty, trivial remarks from small-minded people about the mother-in-law, or Mrs. Obama’s clothes, or what restaurant the Obamas chose to dine in. George S.: don’t bother with this “cute” trivia. Instead, tell us about policy; and if you must, tell us about what Mrs. Obama is doing with the Office of the First Lady, but leave the parent/children interactions out of it. They are not relevant. Stick to substantive issues, and we’ll all be happier.

Posted by: Eleonora27 | February 24, 2009, 6:51 pm 6:51 pm

George, with all the issues in our country and around the world, Roses and Thorns is insignificant and WHO CARES? I will add that I think it is inappropriate to burden a child with a parents problems. Children will grow up soon enough. Perhaps engaging in chats about school, the world, art, and if child has anything they want to talk about. Allowing a child to believe a parent has a “thorny job” may frighten a child…..

Posted by: Deborah | February 24, 2009, 9:01 pm 9:01 pm

Uh, Deborah: though I feel that we don’t need to know about the Obama’s parent-child dinnertable conversations. I also don’t think that Malia and Sasha Obama are going to be “traumatized” by knowing that their father has a “thorny” job. The Obama children are intelligent and sophisticated; they knew that their father’s jobs as state and U.S. senator were “thorny.”
Moreover, plenty of children know that their parents have difficult jobs, and they may well find this stimulating and fascinating, as I did. Indeed, Mom’s or Dad’s job, however difficult, may postively shape a child’s future. What Mom and Dad do should never be hidden. Hiding and pretending always cause trouble, in the White House and out of it.

Posted by: Eleonora27 | February 24, 2009, 10:03 pm 10:03 pm

Eleonora27, Forgive me for not wanting to filled with insignificant journalism. How do you know President Obama’s children are sophisticated, oh, that’s right they attend prestigious schools that only millionaires can afford. The President of the people won’t allow his children to attend Public School even with Secret Service escorts. I am concerned the President is complaining about his new job after a mere month to his children. HOPE? Please, blind devotion is not practical and suffocating us with non issues doesn’t help informed the citizens of this nation. We are a nation of the blind leading the blind and need to demand full disclosure and honest representation. FYI, I have been a single parent since my three children were all under 6 years and worked in the Emergency Room at a major city hospital in New York. Trust me I would never discuss the horrors and sadness I witnessed to my innocent children. I prefer for my children to only know the only fact that mattered, I love my job and helping people. I am the adult, my role is to protect and shelter for as long as I can, which wasn’t long. Glad to hear you believe in FULL DISCLOSURE, now demand it of your elected officials.

Posted by: Deborah | February 25, 2009, 1:27 am 1:27 am

Deborah: go to bed or somewhere, perhaps HE__ ___.

Posted by: EYESURGERY | February 25, 2009, 2:15 am 2:15 am

They leave out the “Buds”. It’s supposed to be “Thorns”, “Roses”, and “Buds” where the “Buds” are what you are looking forward to in the future. I guess he has no reasons to consider them.

Posted by: Danny Llewallyn | February 25, 2009, 10:58 am 10:58 am

The American people have a President that they can be inspired and motivated by… that’s what LEADERSHIP is about.
It’s not to talk about negativity incessantly or to see who can get the most negative news coverage!
We want to copy their lifestyle. As someone said in an earlier blog… a lot of the families do not sit down together at all… nor read to their children… nor show emotions of kindness as the Obamas show regularly to Malia and Sasha. No wonder the kids are so popular… they exude maturity, charm and an easygoing manner that is absolutely fabulous!!!
We Love Our President And The First Family! GOD BLESS AMERICA!

Posted by: change | February 27, 2009, 3:31 pm 3:31 pm

ummm, this is a blog right? so suddenly GS can’t have a normal thought during a luncheon…he’s expressing something that struck him as a great idea around the dinner table. chances are, if he heard his neighbour was doing it, he’d think it was a good idea as well. what’s up with all the hate? geez…lighten up already.

Posted by: SP | March 4, 2009, 9:33 am 9:33 am

Well…this post proves the point…opinions are like a–holes…everyone of us got one…some more stinky than others, but all are cracked…just depends on how ya view the world…LOL

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