By Lindsey Ellerson

Mar 19, 2009 3:22pm

First Lady Talks Academics, Careers With D.C. Students

ABC News’ Karen Travers and Yunji de Nies report:

First lady Michelle Obama had a candid conversation with a group of African-American students at Washington D.C.’s Anacostia High School this afternoon, telling them that when she was growing up, people told her, “You talk funny, you talk like a white girl.”

Speaking to the students about how she achieved success in school and in her career, Mrs. Obama said there was no magic to her story.

She described her working-class upbringing on the South Side of Chicago and told the students how it was important to her to get good grades, not because of her parents but because it was something she wanted for herself.

“I wanted an A, you know, I wanted to be smart, I wanted to be the person who had the right answer.  And I didn’t care whether it was cool, because I remember there were kids around my neighborhood who would say, "Ooh, you talk funny, you talk like a white girl,” the first lady said. “I heard that growing up my whole life. I was like, I don’t even know what that means, but you know what, I’m still getting my A.”

Michelle Obama went to Princeton University and earned her law degree at Harvard.

The first lady’s visit was part of a day of events for Women’s History Month that included outreach to local students and an evening event at the White House. 

She met with 13 Anacostia students who she said were selected because of their potential.

“I didn’t just want to the kids who had already arrived, but kids who were pushing to get to the next place,” she said.

Mrs. Obama said where she grew up, being smart “wasn’t necessarily the cool thing to be.” 

Speaking to a group that included at least one athlete, the first lady talked about her brother Craig’s experience playing basketball at Princeton and then professionally in Europe. She noted that he went to Princeton to get an education and later went on to get an MBA.

“He could have made choices about making basketball a bigger priority, but he always put education first,” she said.

The first lady offered the Anacostia students advice about how to get ahead and fielded some unusual questions like “Do you put your own makeup every day?” and “What do you do for fun?”

Mrs. Obama admitted that she has not seen a grown-up moving in a long time, that it’s all kids stuff these days. The first lady said she does her own makeup, except for special occasions.

Mrs. Obama kicked off the day with a White House gathering for the “women of excellence,” including musicians Alicia Keyes and Sheryl Crow, actress Phylicia Rashad and basketball star Lisa Leslie Lockwood.

This afternoon the group fanned out across the city and suburbs to visit area schools to talk with students about their career goals and ambitions. 

The first lady said this morning that an event like this, focusing on young girls, was one of her dreams during the campaign, when it became clear that her husband could be the next president.

“As I started thinking about the kinds of things that I wanted to see happen, this day was one of those things — gathering an amazing group of women together, and going out, and talking to young girls around this country,” she said in the White House’s Diplomatic Reception Room.

Mrs. Obama said the goal of this day of outreach was to share stories with young girls and show them how they “forged a path to some amazing things.”

“Our job is simple: Just be open, be honest, be real, be clear, and have fun,” she said.

Today’s events are part of the first lady’s continued efforts to reach out to the Washington D.C. community and open up the White House. Mrs. Obama said today that many of District’s students need to be reminded that the White House is not just some far off place, out of touch from the local community and its problems. 

“We’re close, this isn’t a distant relationship,” she said.

The first lady said that students need to be reminded “that they can imagine the people who live here and what goes on here, and that there’s a close connection between their lives and ours. And there’s nothing more powerful than going into their states and having that kind of conversation.”

Later this evening, Mrs. Obama will host these women and a group of DC area high school students for dinner and entertainment at the White House.

“Many young people will have never set foot in this place, never could have imagined that they’d be dining in the East Room with so many great people who will be joined by even more women.  But just imagine what they’re going to feel like at the end of this day. And then we can do this again and again and again,” she said this morning.

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First Lady Michelle Obama had a candid conversation with a group of African-American students at Washington D.C.’s Anacostia High School this afternoon, telling them that when she was growing up, people told her, “You talk funny, you talk like a white girl.”
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Talks funny, like a white girl, eh? Well, isn’t that lovely? Wow, can you just imagine if Laura Bush said anything remotely close to this? Don Imus was fired for it.
This is very very offensive.

Posted by: jennifert7 | March 19, 2009, 3:44 pm 3:44 pm

Jeez, relax Jennifert. What happened to tolerance?

Posted by: badfish2829 | March 19, 2009, 3:49 pm 3:49 pm

That’s really nice, and I like her message.
But why have so many entertainers be part of her entourage? There *is* a lot of magic to the stories of Alicia Keyes, Sheryl Crow, and Phylicia Rashad.

Posted by: MayBee | March 19, 2009, 3:50 pm 3:50 pm

jennifert7: Don’t fret, it’s ok, she is Michelle Obama and she is finally proud of her country. Hummmmmm….

Posted by: Mildred | March 19, 2009, 3:50 pm 3:50 pm

Talks funny, like a white girl, eh? Well, isn’t that lovely? Wow, can you just imagine if Laura Bush said anything remotely close to this? Don Imus was fired for it.
This is very very offensive.
Posted by: jennifert7 | Mar 19, 2009 3:44:14 PM
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Jennifert7: You are absolutely right!!!
You are taking lots of heat for your comment, but these oblabla’s have no class. The Bush family should have given them lessons before they left DC.

Posted by: Mildred | March 19, 2009, 3:55 pm 3:55 pm

Am I the only one getting tired of all of the racist comments coming from the Obama’s and the democrates? Tlak like a white girl, typical white person, etc. I have never been so offended in my life. I guess there is a double standard when it comes to racism.

Posted by: Scott | March 19, 2009, 3:56 pm 3:56 pm

If the right worlds are coming out of your mouth who cares? I have a southern accent. I work with northerns who have invaded the South. They have the nerve to tell me I talk wrong & they say they can’t understand me, but I have the same problem with them, but I never tell them they talk funny. Even though I scream inside with every word ending with a R sound.

Posted by: Southernlady | March 19, 2009, 3:56 pm 3:56 pm

If I was one of the girls meeting with Ms. Obama, I’d DEFINITELY ask her why she didn’t send her own daughters to a Washington DC public school.

Posted by: Keisha | March 19, 2009, 3:57 pm 3:57 pm

“Talks funny, like a white girl, eh? Well, isn’t that lovely? Wow, can you just imagine if Laura Bush said anything remotely close to this? Don Imus was fired for it.”
More outrage over nothing.
Michelle Obama was relating what people said to her as she was growing up with her point being to ignore labels and focus on your goal.
What kind of insane right winger would take issue with that?

Posted by: Ryan C | March 19, 2009, 3:57 pm 3:57 pm

Apparently you people didn’t read the article. She was told growing up, in the time of the civil rights movement, that she talked funny, like a white girl. Is that offensive? NO WAY, please tell me how it is?

Posted by: badfish2829 | March 19, 2009, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm

Why does her recollection of what someone else said about her offend you? And I will give you the benefit of the doubt that you are just not in touch with reality to compare that statement to what Don Imus said.

Posted by: KJ | March 19, 2009, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm

I’m white and not offened at all. In the African American communities to be educated is to “be white”. I’ve heard many african americans accusing the affluent, well spoken of their own race of “trying to be white”. It’s simply the wrong message they send to their own race. First lady Obama is just trying to get the message out the being smart has nothing to do with race.

Posted by: ks | March 19, 2009, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm

so now it’s okay to talk about the stereotypical differences between whites and blacks? It’s okay for Michele to do it – why? If I made a crack about blacks and fried chicken, I would be lit up on these boards – and rightfully so.
Posted by: phreddy111 | Mar 19, 2009 3:55:04 PM
Were you at the school where she said and why she said it. Duh! Look at her audience which is 100 AA school in a troubled area of DC. How I know I live in the region.
She was not being racist. She stated what is true amongst young black kids during her childhood and mine. AA kids who got good grades or talked intellectually were perceived as acting white. I dont see where the racism is, its more of a compliment that you should be happy to hear being racist. Again, most people like you dont comprehend anything anyway.
SMH!

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm

Talk like a white girl? No, it’s called SPEAKING ENGLISH. Let’s all try it. Maybe we can understand the words that are coming out of your mouth.

Posted by: Joe Public | March 19, 2009, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm

there was noting racist about Mrs. Obama statements. as a black man growing up in brooklyn my education was top priority to my parents, but not to my peers, and because my mom taught me how to speak proper grammar and not ebonics like alot of people do, i was made fun of by the ignorant members of my community for acting and talking white. Its a problem within the black community that gaining an education and not acting thuggish is black thing. thats what michelle was saying

Posted by: travis | March 19, 2009, 3:59 pm 3:59 pm

I’m white and not offened at all. In the African American communities to be educated is to “be white”. I’ve heard many african americans accusing the affluent, well spoken of their own race of “trying to be white”. It’s simply the wrong message they send to their own race. First lady Obama is just trying to get the message out the being smart has nothing to do with race.
Posted by: ks | Mar 19, 2009 3:58:18 PM
Thank you Ks. I am glad you posted your response. I am glad some people in here have good comprehension skills.

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 3:59 pm 3:59 pm

Did you even read the article? When she says “talk like a white girl” she then follows that with “I don’t even know what that means”…

Posted by: Jason | March 19, 2009, 4:00 pm 4:00 pm

It is about time we had a First Lady like Mrs. Obama. What grace, class, and intelect!

Posted by: stuart3368 | March 19, 2009, 4:02 pm 4:02 pm

Is she going to go sit down with a group of white students and tell *them* to succeed?

Posted by: RH | March 19, 2009, 4:03 pm 4:03 pm

Did you even read the article? When she says “talk like a white girl” she then follows that with “I don’t even know what that means”…
Posted by: Jason | Mar 19, 2009 4:00:40 PM
Bingo! Jason, thank you for pointing that out to our incoherent posters.

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 4:05 pm 4:05 pm

Oh, okay I get it now. She was also a victim in her own (black) community because she worked on her education and therefore accused of acting “white”? Please. Her message was loud and clear. Look at the audience she was speaking to. These two have the uncanny ability to offend someone every time they open their mouths, regarless of the subject they’re discussing.

Posted by: jennifert7 | March 19, 2009, 4:06 pm 4:06 pm

There is nothing racist about her comment. I am black and have been told this many, many times growing up and throughout my adult life. Even when I speak with people on the phone they are very surprised when they finally meet me. They have that “I thought she was white” look on their face, and some have even come out and directly told me what they thought. Mrs. Obama has experienced what most educated black Americans have experienced.

Posted by: oh please | March 19, 2009, 4:07 pm 4:07 pm

“Oh, okay I get it now. She was also a victim in her own (black) community because she worked on her education and therefore accused of acting “white”? Please. Her message was loud and clear. ”
Yes and her message was ignore the naysayers and focus on achieving your goals.
“These two have the uncanny ability to offend someone every time they open their mouths, regarless of the subject they’re discussing.”
Actually you perfectly demonstrated that YOU are offended regardless of what they say or the subject.
That is your problem, not the Obamas’.

Posted by: Ryan C | March 19, 2009, 4:09 pm 4:09 pm

This is a dumb argument.

Posted by: Cindy | March 19, 2009, 4:10 pm 4:10 pm

I could not agree with her more. I think slang and the hip hop community are detriments to the black community. There is nothing wrong with speaking properly. Proper language is not a racial issue but has become one because of the ignorant youth of the black community. This is one of the reasons the Obamas are great for this country.

Posted by: Iraq Vet | March 19, 2009, 4:10 pm 4:10 pm

Anyone who finds this “very very offensive” or “repugnant” is just looking for a fight. What’s wrong with our First Lady sharing her personal history to promote proper use of English and the value of an education?

Posted by: CenterOne | March 19, 2009, 4:11 pm 4:11 pm

Thank you Jake for this report because some people are in peril to understand that anti-Obama/Michelle which can’t just agree with their economic policies or moral issues is regarded with racialism nowadays. It’s not fair.
If any other former first ladies told,
“mammm you talk like black girl” what would be happened. I can’t believe American first lady’s conversation is emboiled in racial language.

Posted by: Sharon-NY | March 19, 2009, 4:13 pm 4:13 pm

Sigh. When I read that, I knew some people would jump on it with phony outrage. Some people really don’t use their brains do they? Relax guys, everyone can see through you.

Posted by: lisa | March 19, 2009, 4:13 pm 4:13 pm

Sigh. When I read that, I knew some people would jump on it with phony outrage. Some people really don’t use their brains do they? Relax guys, everyone can see through you.
Posted by: lisa | Mar 19, 2009 4:13:51 PM
GOP still crying about the election and need something to complain about. LOL

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 4:15 pm 4:15 pm

Oh please . . . who cares what she was told? We have real problems so cut the trivia.

Posted by: rplat | March 19, 2009, 4:16 pm 4:16 pm

I don’t really care if she was just repeating what was said to her. That’s not the point. She shouldn’t be bringing race in to this at all. And, if she decides she just can’t help herself from doing so, it’s just all the more reason for us to fight having our tax dollars go to these “community organizations” ( Rev. Wright type churches, ACORN) that promote the very kind of behavior she is talking about.

Posted by: jennifert7 | March 19, 2009, 4:16 pm 4:16 pm

Thank you Jake for this report because some people are in peril to understand that anti-Obama/Michelle which can’t just agree with their economic policies or moral issues is regarded with racialism nowadays. It’s not fair.
If any other former first ladies told,
“mammm you talk like black girl” what would be happened. I can’t believe American first lady’s conversation is emboiled in racial language.
Posted by: Sharon-NY | Mar 19, 2009 4:13:14 PM
You guys need something find on Michelle b/c nothing else is sticking.
Where is the offensive language? Where is the racism. She gave your people a compliment……. maybe you dont think they are smart…..well I wonder why. LOL!

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 4:17 pm 4:17 pm

nubiangento6
Your comment is laughable,reason being i
didn’t want to turn this into a black
and white issue. but since u have I
didn’t notice Pres. Bush inviting any students to the White House black, white,asian or native american.You seem to have a problem with black students receiving guidance from First Lady Michelle Obama. Black students have the right to realize they’re dreams are attainable as much as any one elses. Get over it.

Posted by: stephanie | March 19, 2009, 4:18 pm 4:18 pm

I know what “talking like a white girl means”. It means that in many black communities they cult together to try and force you to not become all you can be and ridicule you for trying to achieve things on your own instead of looking for a victim card to play. It really is sad to see so much potential being wasted to being “cool” or being “a rapper” or “gangbanger”. There are problems all over but I see a much bigger problem in the black community where values and families are becoming a thing of the past. 4.3 million new babies in this country and 40+% are out of wedlock. The number in the black community where I live is approaching almost 80% out of wedlock. This is not how you build strong communities and I wish our politicians, especially the Obama’s, would take on this problem full steam, but they won’t because its not politically correct to. They will cry all day over Iraq and forget the killings of our children here in our own country. Wake up people.

Posted by: Eric | March 19, 2009, 4:20 pm 4:20 pm

“I don’t really care if she was just repeating what was said to her. That’s not the point. She shouldn’t be bringing race in to this at all. And, if she decides she just can’t help herself from doing so, it’s just all the more reason for us to fight having our tax dollars go to these “community organizations” ( Rev. Wright type churches, ACORN) that promote the very kind of behavior she is talking about.”
Jennifer7 just drop it.
You got nailed for either not understanding what was said or being falsely outraged.
Now you just look even more foolish.

Posted by: Ryan C | March 19, 2009, 4:22 pm 4:22 pm

What’s to be offended by? I find it refreshing to hear an educated black woman tell black girls that it’s okay to speak proper English. This is what it’s all about. Sounding “white” simply means she enunciates well and doesn’t speak ebonics. In my opinion, the black community’s resistance to assimilate linguistically has contributed to their slow progress professionally and economically.

Posted by: Dave | March 19, 2009, 4:24 pm 4:24 pm

Did anyone even proofread this article?
What does this sentence mean? –“I didn’t just want to the kids who had already arrived, but kids who were pushing to get to the next place,” she said.
I think it is missing a few words.
And this one: Mrs. Obama admitted that she has not seen a grown-up moving in a long time, that it’s all kids stuff these days.
A grown up MOVING????

Posted by: Laura | March 19, 2009, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm

don’t really care if she was just repeating what was said to her. That’s not the point. She shouldn’t be bringing race in to this at all. And, if she decides she just can’t help herself from doing so, it’s just all the more reason for us to fight having our tax dollars go to these “community organizations” ( Rev. Wright type churches, ACORN) that promote the very kind of behavior she is talking about.
First, she’s in touch with those kids. You’re not. You and others would never understand that.
Second, what does Acorn and Wright have to do with Michelle. They dont mesh and you dont make sense.
Again, GOP, Ronald reagan is not comming back and you lost. Get over it. Recycling campaign fallacies dont work.
Posted by: jennifert7 | Mar 19, 2009 4:16:56 PM

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm

All of those who are screaming racism are revealing their own bigoted attitudes by continually refusing to understand the culture of African Americans. Her obvious attempt was to reverse the mindset that achieving is something to be frowned upon. This is a real phenomenon in the African American community that needs to be deconstructed, and I, for one, applaud Mrs. Obama for doing so. I for one agree with the idea formed during the Bush administration that spoke of the “soft bigotry of low expectations.” Inspire all American children to do more and do not put a color on achievement. The success of our nation is dependent on it.

Posted by: T.T.L. | March 19, 2009, 4:25 pm 4:25 pm

yes except their dreams are not attainable because A) seldom aoneones dreams are actually attained…it’s a rare thing and more importantly B) they’re black and they live in the DC ghetto GET A CLUE!

Posted by: dud? | March 19, 2009, 4:27 pm 4:27 pm

Michelle Obama went to a school to speak with a group of black students and encourage them to push forward with their successes. Are we all so divided that we can’t be supportive of kids when something good happens to them? So what if they were black students? They are innocent kids who had something great happen to them today. Why should it always be the rich kids and their parents that benefit? These kids are the future, wouldn’t you rather have them encouraged instead of condemned? Why is the fact they were black mean anything at all? Why is it such a big deal that she shared with them things that were said to her as a student? If one of those student walks away today feeling like they can conquer the world then I hope she does this on at least a monthly basis. Those of you who are offended are just looking for things to pick at. Get over it! He won!

Posted by: Lindy68 | March 19, 2009, 4:30 pm 4:30 pm

There seems to be a problem with speaking correctly. Mrs. Obama is an educated lady so she will speak properly no matter what and that is the way it is.
I don’t know why it is called a White way of speaking I didn’t think the way you speak had a color.
I was taught by my mother and my father becaue she was English and my father was Austrian and that is the way we all spoke around the house but I never looked at as though it was white or black or any other color and that is a fact.

Posted by: Carol | March 19, 2009, 4:30 pm 4:30 pm

The First Lady did a good job by showing the local school student how to be a success person like herself and others.
Many people are so critical of her for what? my god… Shut up! get your fat ass off the chair and doing something about it instead of complaining.

Posted by: keith | March 19, 2009, 4:33 pm 4:33 pm

I thought we all spoke english…when are we going to stop pointing out our differences to kids and concentrate on everything we have in common…I’m sure the first lady meant well with it… but if you have to tell a class of African Americans that talking like “white girls” is OK there is something wrong with the environment those students live in … do I need to remind my african american Freinds that color shouldn’t matter…thats what they have fought for…so why do they keep perpetuating those stereotypes…we all talk english!

Posted by: phillysmart | March 19, 2009, 4:34 pm 4:34 pm

Michelle Obama went to a school to speak with a group of black students and encourage them to push forward with their successes. Are we all so divided that we can’t be supportive of kids when something good happens to them? So what if they were black students? They are innocent kids who had something great happen to them today. Why should it always be the rich kids and their parents that benefit? These kids are the future, wouldn’t you rather have them encouraged instead of condemned? Why is the fact they were black mean anything at all? Why is it such a big deal that she shared with them things that were said to her as a student? If one of those student walks away today feeling like they can conquer the world then I hope she does this on at least a monthly basis. Those of you who are offended are just looking for things to pick at. Get over it! He won!
Posted by: Lindy68 | Mar 19, 2009 4:30:04 PM
Exactly, I am trying to find the racism, and offensive language. I cannt find it no where. If anybody should be offended is AA for her generalizing. I am AA, and I know why she said it, and I am Washingtonian. I knew why it was said. They dont b/c they need something negative to find on her. Besides she being the best looking first lady ever, and the most educated……they need to complain. H
Hey neos’ let it out…….. its okay….. passing tissues around.

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 4:34 pm 4:34 pm

If you stupid people would just read her comments instead of taking out bits and pieces you would understand that she was be insulted not insulting someone or white people. You limbaugh ditty heads are sooo funny!

Posted by: Nicole | March 19, 2009, 4:34 pm 4:34 pm

I really like and admire Michelle Obama. Style and smarts, and not hesitant to say *gasp* things that others may find uncomfortable but true. It says a lot about our First Lady; it says a lot about America’s hoity toity population. I love this person for her intelligence and bravery.

Posted by: Principia | March 19, 2009, 4:36 pm 4:36 pm

I GREW UP AND ATTENDED DC SCHOOLS AND YES, IF YOU WERE SMART AND SPOKE ENGLISH, KIDS WOULD TEASE YOU AND SAY YOU SOUND WHITE. IT’S THE TRUTH AND I REALLY APPLAUD HER FOR GOING TO VISIT ANACOSTIA IN SOUTHEAST BECAUSE EVERYONE FORGETS ABOUT THESE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN. INSTEAD OF CRITICIZING CUT OFF YOUR INTERNET, CABLE AND CELL PHONES AND GO READ A BOOK OR VOLUNTEER! I’M SICK OF SIMPLE MENTALITY OF OUR COUNTRY. OUR PARENTS WERE BETTER THAN THIS SO WHERE DID WE LEARNED SUCH GARBAGE.

Posted by: Lisa | March 19, 2009, 4:37 pm 4:37 pm

Nicole and principia…I’m not putting her down for what she is doing… she is trying to reach many African Americans in the language and perceptions they understand… I’m saying that is a problem because indirectly she is just reinforcing stereotypes based on race which is something we all have tried to work against… or is it only caucasions that need to make the effort

Posted by: phillysmart | March 19, 2009, 4:39 pm 4:39 pm

Finally, an African/American woman to look up to…I like her better than her husband.

Posted by: DontGet818OnMeNow | March 19, 2009, 4:42 pm 4:42 pm

Everytime I read article about her with all the AA kids .
When is she going to invite white kids?

Posted by: cilla | March 19, 2009, 4:42 pm 4:42 pm

How long have we white people ridiculed the blacks for ‘playing the race card?’ Is that what we are going to do now everytime we hear ‘white person’ come from the mouth of another race. The world is laughing at us, wake up, pull your heads out. We can’t stop diversity. The day will come when whites are the minority, so I suggest we grow up and stop digging our racial graves. Treat others as you want to be treated. Whites, blacks, browns, we all bleed red.

Posted by: I_bleed_red | March 19, 2009, 4:43 pm 4:43 pm

Go Obama, go! She is an excellent role model for the young men and women in the local DC area. Can you imagine getting invited to the White House? I am so glad she is opening its doors. It is about time. For so long it has been a castle for the elected rich. Good for her and good for our country.

Posted by: jeffrey1234 | March 19, 2009, 4:44 pm 4:44 pm

Paula how did that rant get into this conversation… but since you mentioned it she is first lady for white kids too

Posted by: phillysmart | March 19, 2009, 4:45 pm 4:45 pm

Michelle, Hillary, and Eleanor Roosevelt are the only First Ladies who actually worked while being First Lady, the others did absolutely nothing, including, Jackie Kennedy.

Posted by: Paula Wesley | March 19, 2009, 4:46 pm 4:46 pm

Oh you ditty Obama lovers are so funny too! Michelle Obama said the other day that she like most American families never gave much thought to the military families and their sacrifices. Speak for yourself.She is so wonderful and now finally proud of her country. Gag me!

Posted by: itsmee2 | March 19, 2009, 4:47 pm 4:47 pm

I bleed red…. when are we gonna stop categorizing people into groups like black -white -old -young -rich poor…thats the real problem here… and frankly nothing will get better until it stops

Posted by: phillysmart | March 19, 2009, 4:47 pm 4:47 pm

Imagine if Barbara Bush had a attended a similar school event and gave the sane story, then said, “Ooh, you talk funny, you talk like a BLACK girl,” the first lady said. “I heard that growing up my whole life.”
Imagine the outrage.

Posted by: Wilma H. | March 19, 2009, 4:47 pm 4:47 pm

D.C. is mostly AA, expect for “official DC” where the politicians are, if anyone goes and visits a D.C. school very, it will be majority AA. It is what it is.
Why the phony outrage people? She was telling students about her experiences growing up where getting a good education wasn’t cool and people told her she was “acting white” This happens all the time for smart black kids. If anything you should be offended by what the student told her not her recountig the story. We have to change the cultural outlook in AA communities. I find that people are looking to pick on her.

Posted by: Joane | March 19, 2009, 4:49 pm 4:49 pm

Of course there’s a double-standard. Put three blacks in an all white business and make racial slurs,… what happens? Huge lawsuits, pickets, protestors, national news coverage. Be one of three whites in an all black business, and take racial slurs,… what happens? You either get tough or die. So who’s right? Nobody. How about you all just drop it and move on. My great grandfather didn’t own your great granfather,… in fact, he didn’t even own the shanty he lived in working on the railroads, the company did, as they owned everything else in his life. We got over it. Why don’t you?

Posted by: Capt D | March 19, 2009, 4:50 pm 4:50 pm

I’m saying that is a problem because indirectly she is just reinforcing stereotypes based on race which is something we all have tried to work against… or is it only caucasions that need to make the effort
Posted by: phillysmart | Mar 19, 2009 4:39:46 PM
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Exactly phillysmart. That was the point I was trying to make but you articulated much better than I.

Posted by: jennifert7 | March 19, 2009, 4:50 pm 4:50 pm

Imagine if Barbara Bush had a attended a similar school event and gave the sane story, then said, “Ooh, you talk funny, you talk like a BLACK girl,” the first lady said. “I heard that growing up my whole life.”
Imagine the outrage.
Posted by: Wilma H. | Mar 19, 2009 4:47:58 PM
First, Ms. George Washington couldnt relate to those kids let alone anyone other races kids.
Secondly, Atleast Nancy reagan tried and it worked. SMH, GOP quit with the crying.

Posted by: nubiangent08 | March 19, 2009, 4:50 pm 4:50 pm

Well, I didn’t vote for Obama and I still don’t like his politics, but I have to give credit to Michelle, as she did good on this one.

Posted by: GaryA | March 19, 2009, 4:54 pm 4:54 pm

Plillysmart 4:39:26pm,
I agree with you.
Just like somebody puts more gaseline on small fire.

Posted by: catleya | March 19, 2009, 5:04 pm 5:04 pm

What is wrong with you people?! I’m a Republican that voted for McCain, but I think that the First Lady’s intentions were honorable. What is wrong with going into a poor, inner city neighborhood and encouraging young girls who may not have many role models, to embrace learning and education? And to stand up to peer pressure that may be holding them back. All this negativity is sickening.

Posted by: dc | March 19, 2009, 5:07 pm 5:07 pm

If Laura Bush had met with a group of only white students, she would have been called racist

Posted by: sue | March 19, 2009, 5:07 pm 5:07 pm

OMG..calm down,,will you..
It’s only blogging.
Don’t need to insult somebody!

Posted by: catleya | March 19, 2009, 5:07 pm 5:07 pm

I think this is a great story, and I think anyone wanting to help others be better citizens is a great thing. There is no “white talk”, or “black talk”. It’s simply a matter of being well educated, and well spoken, verses not. In order to be successful in life, everyone, black, white, yellow, green, has to have proper command of the English language, and should be proud of themselves to speak well.

Posted by: DK | March 19, 2009, 5:08 pm 5:08 pm

In this country poverty is everywhere.
It’s not only effect AA community but lots of white community also.
Many white kids live under standard level economy.

Posted by: cilla | March 19, 2009, 5:13 pm 5:13 pm

I thought it was Barry who talked like a white girl … now that’s funny.
As for Mrs. 0bama, I guess she is finding those little things that make her proud to be an American? Especially when she rides throught the WH gates in the big car ….

Posted by: beebop | March 19, 2009, 5:14 pm 5:14 pm

But…. is MO now proud on the US?

Posted by: BT | March 19, 2009, 5:17 pm 5:17 pm

First off, I am black and I grew up in a white neighborhood. I was teased and ridiculed regarding my speach my entire school career. And it was by the other black girls in my school. They told me I acted and spoke white. Like it was a bad thing. Every day my mother told me I was going to school for one reason. To get an education. To quote her: Go to school, get your education and get the hell out. Don’t think about these silly girls.
I think Michelle is an excellent role model and an amazing voice of reason. some of these girls may not have parents like I did or that Michelle or President Obama is. Some of these girls may have parents at home that do not understand the importance of an education. They may live in a home without hope. These girls are too immature to articulate what “talking or acting white” really is. It is speaking proper english. These are parents who may or may not sit with thier children and read them a bed time story every night. Work with them on Math, attend track meets etc. These girls may remember this visit for the rest of thier lives. They need to know that they can achieve anything and that they are not limited to thier surroundings.
Michelle was telling the story many of us little black girls heard growing up. Most of the racism I have experience growing up has not been from whites, its been from my own race. It’s high time that proper English, a good education doesn’t just belong to one race in the African American community.

Posted by: anna | March 19, 2009, 5:17 pm 5:17 pm

Racists are hilarious !! They take characteristics they possess then try to project them on to other people .
Mrs. Obama was making a valid point. Too many people in the Black and White community have gotten into the rut of thinking that being Black means speaking substandard English,academic failure, and low expectations.
She was making the point that we ALL need to drop the assumption that speaking proper English is for Whites only ! GROW UP !!

Posted by: TLJ | March 19, 2009, 5:18 pm 5:18 pm

As an Air Force Captain and a woman of color, I got the same thing from both black and white people. I also ignored them, and went on to get my A’s, and my career in medicine. I am proud of the USA, and the Obamas, too!

Posted by: carita | March 19, 2009, 5:19 pm 5:19 pm

Some of you either don’t get it or refuse to admit it. The common insult given to any ethnicity was what the First Lady was relating to. I am white and I had heard this a million times about some of my educated friends both hispanic and black. If they refused to talk street language in front of others in their race they were accused of trying to be white, talking white. They would call them coconuts; brown on the outside and white on the inside. These were meant to insult the level of ethnicity they had. You weren’t a proud hispanic “la raza” or you were embarassed to be considered black because you refused to “act street”. The intimidation some people feel comes out in this type of insult. What we should come away with is a better understanding of what other races went through by people of their own race as well as white society just because they wanted to be educated and speak properly. This continues today and I hear it not only from kids but adults too. Don’t even try to tell me you have never heard it before.

Posted by: afbrat59 | March 19, 2009, 5:21 pm 5:21 pm

I remember that during the election MO said all kind of mean things about Hillary.
MO looked and was talking then like a female fishmonger.
Hope things are now better with MO.

Posted by: Jorge | March 19, 2009, 5:21 pm 5:21 pm

Who cares about her? She’s a racist!!!!

Posted by: Evelyn Sealy | March 19, 2009, 5:30 pm 5:30 pm

I don’t understand why some blacks think that black people should “sound black” and not use good grammar! There is absolutely no reason why black people can’t use good grammar as well as everyone else! If you have an education you should use it no matter what color you are! Mrs. Obama’s parents didn’t work all those years putting her through school and giving her an education for her not to use it! She would be doing them a great disservice if she didn’t use the education that they worked so hard to give her!

Posted by: DM | March 19, 2009, 5:36 pm 5:36 pm

Well said Anna. I know where you are coming from. I am of Hispanic descent but I do not know Spainish. My parents stressed the importance of education and English was the language we spoke at home. Consequently I get teased by other individuals who speak Spainish but I also have a backbone so it really doesn’t bother me.

Posted by: Chuck | March 19, 2009, 5:44 pm 5:44 pm

Evelyn sealy, Michelle is NOT racist to say to the kids what people said to her to discourage her. They said the same things to me, too! They said I talked “white” because I was smart and spoke correct English! Crazy, but true!
YOU are out of touch with what happens in the poorest black communities. The self-esteem is so low for them – she is trying to lift those who need lifting up. I am sure that if she were speaking to little swhite children that subject wouldn’t have come up, but she would have spoken to them in ways that they understood, to lift them too.
Ffirst rule of communication – know you audience and identify with them! The problem is with people who can’t take the truth when they hear it – if it sounds odd.
Michelle O, you ROCK – because YOU are real!

Posted by: American Woman | March 19, 2009, 5:51 pm 5:51 pm

Michelle I am praying for you because the persecution is only going to GREATER. Michelle I pray that you find a Personal relationship with the Lord Jesus so that He may sustain you and your children during these rough times. ****Persecutors or shall I say HATER, keep talking it is only more publicity for Michelle****
Mr. Obama before this is over you and your family will not only need a revealation and a conviction about JESUS but you will need His delivering POWER, because the evil of mankind is abounding everywhere!
I already know I am hated for the name of JESUS…It really doesn’t bother me so keep hating…It’s all to the glory of God in the name of JESUS!!!!

Posted by: Jesusnow | March 19, 2009, 6:05 pm 6:05 pm

How does a white girl talk? What was the point of the comment? She could have made her point without using that comment. Missed opportunity. What a shame………

Posted by: Rita | March 19, 2009, 6:07 pm 6:07 pm

Article needs a correction: “She hasn’t seen an adult MOVING in a long time. It’s mostly kid stuff.” I think she said she hasn’t seen an adult MOVIE in a long time…. Otherwise she would be frozen in time or only associating with the dead. Didn’t anyone else notice this?

Posted by: Anne | March 19, 2009, 6:21 pm 6:21 pm

Ms Obama, “talks like a white girl?” Maybe its because she’s educated and using the proper English language instead of all that ridiculous, illiterate ‘gangsta’ street slang garbage!!!

Posted by: brannigonforall | March 19, 2009, 6:26 pm 6:26 pm

The point she was making is that speaking proper English, no matter your color, brings far more respect and listeners. When one speaks intelligently, it’s pretty safe to assume that they are intelligent.

Posted by: Yankee | March 19, 2009, 6:29 pm 6:29 pm

Michelle Obama is being very, very real. She is relating how it was when she grew up. I can TOTALLY relate because I’m about the same age as Mrs. Obama and grew up in a time when it was considered ‘cool’ to under achieve and speak ‘slang’. One had to have high self-esteem to overcome obstacles and peer pressure to fit-in. I remember the first time I said “hello” instead of “hey” to one of my friends…I also, was accused of trying to talk ‘white’. Growing up as a minority, I totally get it! And believe me, the kids she spoke to understood also. KUDOS to Mr. Obama. For those who don’t understand, I say you’re fortunate you did not have that experience.

Posted by: gae | March 19, 2009, 6:33 pm 6:33 pm

I didn’t vote for Obama, and I think Michelle is a little off the reservation for attending Rev Wright’s church for so long…not to mention her fears (in her term paper at Princeton) that she would turn into a white elite once she graduated (beacuse she had similar goals as her white peers).
But…she has a point here, and it is a good one to make. Too often (as you can read some posts here) black kids are told by other black kids that they are ‘acting white’ because their speech is so good, and not ‘slang’ enough.Or, that is is uncool to make good grades.
This is an important message she is delivering..I hope all of these kids are listening.

Posted by: J House | March 19, 2009, 6:42 pm 6:42 pm

What is wrong with you folks? The First Lady was relating her experiences growing up—the same experience a LOT of us who are folks of color heard growing up. That if you spoke so-called ‘proper’ English, you were trying to ‘sound white.’ That somehow you thought you were ‘better than’ others if you got good grades. Her story to these kids was valuable and inspiring: she was trying to tell them not to worry about what other people might say…to keep striving to learn and bring home those good grades in spite of whatever comments you might hear.
To characterize this as some sort of racist comment by Mrs. Obama is just plain simplistic, reactionary drivel. Try to engage your critical thinking skills before reacting…

Posted by: Deborah | March 19, 2009, 6:52 pm 6:52 pm

phillysmart
the 1st lady is telling kids who probably experience the same thing what she went through as a youth who only wanted to be smart. She was discriminated against because she spoke proper english by other black youth or maybe even adults. These are things we need to discuss, black youth need to know that you are not a sell out because she have good grammar. For people to insult her for doing that is just stupid and ignorant!

Posted by: Nicole | March 19, 2009, 6:57 pm 6:57 pm

how do white girls talk? like typical white old ladies? do they watch nascar and shop at walmart? abc has made a headline out of nothing

Posted by: catman | March 19, 2009, 6:57 pm 6:57 pm

Now, if she’d only move on to the frightening number of out of wedlock births and the ‘thug culture’ that seems to predominate in the inner city, we’re getting somewhere.
As a black first-lady, her words do resonate with real impact.
Please Michelle, speak out about personal responsibility, not reliance on govt handouts to ‘heal our wounds’.

Posted by: J House | March 19, 2009, 6:57 pm 6:57 pm

Imagine how wonderful it would have been to have elected the first black president who was a self-made businessman who created wealth from nothing, that knew the struggles of his employees, the layers of red tape the govt throws at him to keep his doors open,etc.
Imagine how inspiring that would have been to America’s youth.
Instead, he comes up from a background in social services, reliant on govt support. Yes, he is a successful author, and that has made him rich.But, he has also been a career politician.
Right now, we need an honest man that has run a successful business or created one from nothing.

Posted by: J House | March 19, 2009, 7:04 pm 7:04 pm

I think we have a very dynamic First Lady that is a real “hands on” worker for this Country. I am very impressed with her as a person and First Lady. We will never be able to measure the impact she has/had on this Country. Her words will reach out and touch so many and hopefully will inspire many to work as hard as she has to achieve their goals. She is the result of “Yes We Can”

Posted by: Sharonkatheen | March 19, 2009, 7:10 pm 7:10 pm

Michelle is one brilliant, beautiful FIRST LADY!! What a role model, and such sweet, lovable, respectful daughters they have! I love to read about them. Such an inspiration to all!! I’m going to start a scrap book for my grand kids and great-grand kids!

Posted by: liz | March 19, 2009, 7:11 pm 7:11 pm

E-Bonic’s Ever hear of it? Rapp songs?
It’s a regognized language, and encourged in many of our school systems.
Apparently it’s “Not Cool” to speak proper english, and should not be encourged. In many circles it’s racist
to speak proper english.
Go figure – The old double standards.

Posted by: ZJ | March 19, 2009, 7:12 pm 7:12 pm

J House apparently you didn’t watch MSNBC when they did the show about black children being raised with their fathers. Tiki Barber made reference to Barack Obama’s job as a community administrator and said how valuable they are to the community. He was dependent on the community advisor as a role model, a fatherly figure who could teach him how to be a man and give him attention he so desperately needed. Socialist background.. You are a little smug with that kind of comment.

Posted by: Sharonkathleen | March 19, 2009, 7:18 pm 7:18 pm

Good for Michelle. I’ve felt this mentality needed to be addressed for some time. What in the world is with you people trying to claim this is offensive or racist? You’re nuts. Geeez, she’s merely saying if you’re black you’re given a hard time if you talk too proper for some of them or something. Which we know goes on. You people have got to be sour republicans that still can’t deal with a loss here.

Posted by: FedUp | March 19, 2009, 7:26 pm 7:26 pm

She’s just telling it like it is. No politics, just real life. What’s wrong with that? Like I said, I didn’t vote for Obama and I don’t like his politics (or Michelle’s), but I have to go with Michelle on this one.

Posted by: GaryA | March 19, 2009, 7:35 pm 7:35 pm

I am new to this country.It is good to be here though. However, I don’t like when some people try to be racist.What make people racist, when they don’t know why the color of skin they have. Nobody picked his own color, except the mothernature. Do you there are some people around the world who does recognize just hurmane race not white race or black race? Racism is the enemy#1 enemy for America. Therefore, if one act like racist he/she must know that do harm to this great country and cosidered as the enemy of this good nation.

Posted by: Safer | March 19, 2009, 7:37 pm 7:37 pm

Go ahead. Call me racist. Most African Americans, per Dr. William Cosby, Don’t speak a language that is understandable by any educated people. If you want respect? Talk like it. Speak English with an educated tongue. If you want to live like you’re in the “Hood”, you’ll sound like it. If you want a better life, even the life that becomes people who live in the White House, you’ll sound like the people who live there.

Posted by: WhatChange? | March 19, 2009, 7:39 pm 7:39 pm

I’m white and not offened at all. In the African American communities to be educated is to “be white”. I’ve heard many african americans accusing the affluent, well spoken of their own race of “trying to be white”. It’s simply the wrong message they send to their own race. First lady Obama is just trying to get the message out the being smart has nothing to do with race.
Posted by: ks
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Your comment right on point. The point she was making was in the black race some blacks think talking proper is being white which is using coming from the real uneducated blacks.

Posted by: gl | March 19, 2009, 7:41 pm 7:41 pm

fedup…your statement only proves your just as unforgiving as the people who accused First Lady Obama as sounding funny because she sounded like a white girl by stating anyone who calls this racist must be a “sour Republican”….I lean toward Republicans and I thought she was spot on…Don’t put all of us in the same group..lighten up most Republicans are not red neck conservatives who listen to rush lamebuagh..Try to be a little more progressive and less offensive..

Posted by: Parallax View | March 19, 2009, 7:47 pm 7:47 pm

It is a great thing to go to the inner city and set a role example, but it should be a role example for all, not just one race over another. Diversity is the knife that keeps us apart. I realize Michelle Obama was using her childhood as an example to her audience, but unfortunately that knife cuts deeply. It cuts two ways. Talking white is not the term to use, it should be intelligent language or the common American English. To use talking white means she is suggesting whites are superior? I don’t think so, but it does cut a separation. It suggests that she intends for all blacks to be examples of intelligence. That is a cut of diversity, it perpetuates the adversity and racial hatreds. I don’t know about the other bloggers but I have met extremely intelligent people of all races, religions, and nationalities, I have also met some really stupid ones of all races, religions, and nationalities. It is the individual to focus on, not the race, religion or nationality. Strive to achieve is the message for all children. Forget the colors. Read and learn. Diversity keeps us dumb and pliable.

Posted by: clancy49 | March 19, 2009, 7:50 pm 7:50 pm

Paula wrote, “Michelle, Hillary, and Eleanor Roosevelt are the only First Ladies who actually worked while being First Lady, the others did absolutely nothing, including, Jackie Kennedy,” to which I can only say, What on earth are you talking about? No first lady has worked for pay, including these three, but all have worked at the role of First Lady. Some were largely decorative to be sure, such as Jackie Kennedy, but she did focus on culture, planning cultural events at the WH and refurbishing the WH.
But your list of those who “worked” as First Lady is way too short, and a (deliberate, I suspect) insult to Laura Bush, who championed Afghan women’s rights, education and literacy, and women’s health issues. Remember when she spoke out about the abuses in Mynamar? I read a Wall Street Journal column about how rude it is to slight Mrs. Bush’s wonderful work in the process of praising Michelle Obama. I think you are part of a trend, Paula.
And to be an equal opportunity praiser, I should point out the hard work done by not only Betty Ford, a Republican, but also the formidable Rosalyn Carter, Democrat, who was ‘and get one free’ long before Hillary came along, even sitting in on cabinet meetings. These women worked very hard at promoting important causes as First Lady, and you should not diminish their important contributions. Michelle is off to a good start, but she is part of a long line of praise-worthy First Ladies.

Posted by: moderatet | March 19, 2009, 7:54 pm 7:54 pm

This is a lovely thing that Michelle Obama is doing and I applaud it. I am white, but I have taught hundreds of college students of every race and nationality. I thought the First Lady’s comments about dealing with the accusation of “talking white” were honest and important, as I have talked to many young people of color who have had to deal with peer pressure that suggested they should not focus on academics.
I do hope that young men were included in the meetings, because it was not clear from the posting. Young men need the encouragement to excel just as much, if not more, than young girls. In the case of black students, I have found that the male students have more problems with peers trying to hold them back and harassing them for being academically ambitious than their female counterparts.
I can’t believe there is any suggestion that this work by the First Lady is anything but positive and useful. I am glad to see her getting involved in the local community and focusing on young people.

Posted by: moderate | March 19, 2009, 8:05 pm 8:05 pm

“And to be an equal opportunity praiser, I should point out the hard work done by not only Betty Ford, a Republican, but also the formidable Rosalyn Carter, Democrat, who was ‘and get one free’ long before Hillary came along, even sitting in on cabinet meetings. These women worked very hard at promoting important causes as First Lady, and you should not diminish their important contributions. Michelle is off to a good start, but she is part of a long line of praise-worthy First Ladies.”
Very well stated.

Posted by: Ryan C | March 19, 2009, 8:18 pm 8:18 pm

I don’t really care if she was just repeating what was said to her. That’s not the point. She shouldn’t be bringing race in to this at all. And, if she decides she just can’t help herself from doing so, it’s just all the more reason for us to fight having our tax dollars go to these “community organizations” ( Rev. Wright type churches, ACORN) that promote the very kind of behavior she is talking about.
Posted by: jennifert7 | Mar 19, 2009 4:16:56 PM
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jennifert7: Everything related to race should be abolished now that we have a president of color. A person of color should be held accountable for a racist remark just like a “white” person. No more descrimation.

Posted by: Mildred | March 19, 2009, 8:26 pm 8:26 pm

Michelle is the Divine, rightoush wind behind the Obama miracle in the White House. She is the brain, a real smart first lady, real down to Earth, almost like Sarah Palin in every way.

Posted by: George | March 19, 2009, 10:30 pm 10:30 pm

THIS WAS NOT RACIST. She was sharing a story in terms the kids would fully understand, as they have seen this go on. Get it? Frequently black people that excel are told they are acting white. There was nothing wrong with what she said. It is a good thing because she’s promoting that children should fight giving into this. The stupidity of some on here regarding this one just slays me. It’s a worthy message that you should be cheering her over. Regardless of your personal feelings for her.

Posted by: FedUp | March 19, 2009, 10:33 pm 10:33 pm

For so long it has been a castle for the elected rich. (the White House)
Posted by: jeffrey1234 | Mar 19, 2009 4:44:54 PM
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The Obamas are rich. In fact really really wealthy: they generate over 250,000$’s a year.
President Obama’s book generated over 2 million last year. And he was elected.

Posted by: katie2 | March 19, 2009, 11:19 pm 11:19 pm

I’m beginning to despise the adult, human population as a whole. We bitch and complain too much about the same stuff. I wish i was a rock.

Posted by: DAWN | March 20, 2009, 4:54 am 4:54 am

P.S. Obviously this was a “compliment” to white girls if the aspiration was to “fit in”, and you guys are the skin. Get over yourselves!
“Damned if you do, damned if you don’t!!!”

Posted by: DAWN | March 20, 2009, 4:57 am 4:57 am

Eric Holder was right. Many in the U.S. are too cowardly to allow facts like race to enter any conversation. Racism is ignorance. Talking about race is not. You go first lady, Michelle! It is great that the new first lady can relate to these children in a way that is real to them. Did anybody else notice the smiles on those kids’ faces?

Posted by: Common Sense | March 20, 2009, 6:13 am 6:13 am

I love, love, love President Obama and the First Lady,they just sound like Americans to me!
Respectfully, Diana

Posted by: Diana Wall | March 20, 2009, 8:09 am 8:09 am

I’d like to know how she got to go to Princeton and Harvard? Who paid her tuition? Being brought up in a middle class family, even if I got all As, my parents wouldn’t be able to afford an Ivy League education for me.

Posted by: Bob | March 20, 2009, 8:18 am 8:18 am

Another transparent view of the way the Obamas really think. Michelle should have NEVER made that comment. What is the point? She is nothing but a racist, “never been proud of my country”, affirmative action beneficiary. Why can’t the Obamas reveal their college transcripts? Is it because of their offensive papers or their poor grades or both? And who paid for these Ivy league colleges? She has never spent a day in her life doing volunteer work and at the rate she’s going, never will. Shame on the Obamas for taking all the good this country has to offer and giving NOTHING back in return.

Posted by: chotolal7 | March 20, 2009, 8:41 am 8:41 am

I think that Michelle Obama should have expressed herself better to these children. The goal should be FOR ALL children to speak proper English. I am white and I feel that Michelle Obama is slighting the intelligence of the black community in this statement. By stating she spoke like a “white girl” translates to me “that she was smart like a white girl”. Very condescending!

Posted by: dfesta | March 20, 2009, 8:41 am 8:41 am

great job first lady young peple need all the encourangement they can get most think it cant happen to them but talking an seeing you prsonnaly puts it real an it sets good example for your girls also to keep them inspired keep up the great work

Posted by: mM Richardson | March 20, 2009, 8:46 am 8:46 am

im a sr but grew up with my family always telling me proper prnouciation even my grown children make fun of my proper speaking sometimes bt its ok cause some people make fun of southern people talking or mid west so like you just take it in striden move on with more inportant things

Posted by: mM Richardson | March 20, 2009, 8:53 am 8:53 am

I was told the same thing as a teenager because I liked to read. I thought I was “acting white” or I sounded “white”. It is something that some in the black community need to deal with. Being smart and getting A’s is not “acting white”. That should be an aspiration for anyone. The first lady is not “racist” by pointing this out. I know exactly what she is talking about because I experienced it first had. When I went to college, only my mother supported me. I was told be my younger sister and cousins that I thought that I was “somebody” “Who do you think you are?”. The first lady does not have to censor herself she is dead on. The people that hate her and her husband always will. They should continue to encourage and support the people that support them. Leave the negative people to themselves. When was the last time we had a first lady in a D.C. school? Be honest about it.

Posted by: Clt | March 20, 2009, 9:03 am 9:03 am

I can’t help but reply to Michelle’s talk with these young people, I took a Sociology class in college that dealt with racial relations and found that many African americans seek something they can call their own.
Rap music, ebonics,(speaking like a African American),etc.
Is this pride or is this to separate themselves from the rest of society? I always felt we need to integrate ourselves with each other if we want to work with each other for the betterment of America.
coolou

Posted by: coolou | March 20, 2009, 9:06 am 9:06 am

13 students with potential? How big is the school? they didn’t want her mixing with the general populace; they couldn’t control the kids at a large general assembly.

Posted by: Beltway Greg | March 20, 2009, 10:28 am 10:28 am

was told the same thing as a teenager because I liked to read. I thought I was “acting white” or I sounded “white”. It is something that some in the black community need to deal with. Being smart and getting A’s is not “acting white”. That should be an aspiration for anyone. The first lady is not “racist” by pointing this out. I know exactly what she is talking about because I experienced it first had. When I went to college, only my mother supported me. I was told be my younger sister and cousins that I thought that I was “somebody” “Who do you think you are?”. The first lady does not have to censor herself she is dead on. The people that hate her and her husband always will. They should continue to encourage and support the people that support them. Leave the negative people to themselves. When was the last time we had a first lady in a D.C. school? Be honest about it.
Posted by: Clt | Mar 20, 2009 9:03:47 AM
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Uh huh…. and how would you describe your bowling capabilities?

Posted by: jennifert7 | March 20, 2009, 10:35 am 10:35 am

Let me start off by saying I didn’t vote for Obama. I don’t like his policies nor the way that he has, in my opinion, abandoned many of the elements of “change” he wanted us to believe in.
Regardless, Michelle did a great job talking to these students. It is a very real problem where many AfAms are in the business of keeping themselves separate and repressed (note I said “many”, not “all”). I watched this when I was in high school and saw that the majority of times AfAms were being made fun of was by other AfAms. I’m Asian, and I remember walking the halls seeing these kids dancing in the halls during classes, and calling other AfAms that were rushing to class things like “poser”, “cracker”, and some things I won’t say here. I remember one girl telling another on her way to class, “Hey..b####, remember who you are…you ain’t like them folks. Get your ### back over here”
So was what Michelle said racist? Absolutely, but it was a statement about how racism hit HER head on growing up by her OWN race. I for one am glad that someone other than Bill Cosby is here to really lead us into a world where racism, including inter-racism, can someday be a thing of the past…

Posted by: NotAnObamaSupporter | March 20, 2009, 11:24 am 11:24 am

I wonder if the She One filled them in on how to manipulate their way to a $300,000 a year position…that evaporates when you quit?
Interesting.

Posted by: RR GOP | March 20, 2009, 10:42 pm 10:42 pm

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