By Matt Loffman

May 18, 2010 11:04am

Mark Souder to Resign Amid Affair with Staffer

ABC News’ Teddy Davis reports: Indiana Republican Congressman Mark Souder, a staunch family values conservative who was elected as part of the Republican Revolution of 1994, has told colleagues that he is resigning his seat in the U.S. House of Representatives amid an affair with a part-time member of his staff. "It is with great regret I announce that I am resigning from the U.S. House of Representatives as well as resigning as the Republican nominee for Congress in this fall's election," said Souder. "I sinned against my God, my wife and my family by having a mutual relationship with a part time member of my staff," Souder added. "I am so shamed to have hurt those I love." Souder’s decision to step down comes two weeks after he survived a Republican primary challenge from car dealer Bob Thomas. In the GOP primary, Souder received 48 percent of the vote. Thomas received 34 percent of the vote. A third candidate, Phil Troyer, received 16 percent of the vote. A fourth candidate, Greg Dickman, received 3 percent of the vote. Souder’s resignation, which was first reported by Fox News, was trumpeted Tuesday morning in an “in case you missed it” e-mail from the Democratic Congressional Campaign Committee. Democratic officials acknowledge, however, that Souder’s resignation will not improve their chances of carrying this solidly Republican district. In the 2008 presidential race, at a time when Barack Obama was carrying the state of Indiana as a whole, John McCain won the district by 13 points  – 56 to 43 percent. “The filing deadline has passed and this is NOT a competitive seat,” according to a Democratic official who was granted anonymity in order to be more candid about the party’s prospects. The Democratic nominee is Dr. Tom Hayhurst. He was the Democratic nominee in 2006. The third congressional district of Indiana covers the Fort Wayne area in northeast Indiana. Souder’s resignation, which he is submitting to House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, D-Calif., will become effective this Friday. Souder's expected resignation follows the March resignation of New York Democratic Congressman Eric Massa who resigned amid allegations that he sexually harassed male staffers. Massa's case is now before the House Ethics Committee. ABC News’ Matt Loffman contributed to this report.

User Comments

Doesn’t it seem that if you’re going to run on issues such as family values you should walk the walk? Why are we always hearing about these conservatives that legislate one way and live another?

Posted by: Eric | May 18, 2010, 11:25 am 11:25 am

How do we know that his God did not want him to have this affair? Maybe God came to him in his sleep and said, “Hey, I want you to go after that 25 year old hottie on your staff. It is okay with me.” We can’t prove that God did not tell him this?

Posted by: Jim | May 18, 2010, 11:40 am 11:40 am

“I sinned against God, my wife and family..” LOl…LOL…So reminiscent of “good old boy Jimmy Swaggert”. When…oh when is the religious right going to start thinking about the real issues that confront our nation (i.e. oil dependency, lack of manufacturing base, all the uninsured, declining median incomes, the trade deficit etc.; etc.; etc.) and quit “vetting” their stupid candidates based on their “family values and religious beliefs”? How utterly shallow!

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 11:48 am 11:48 am

Yet another Republican sex scandal. Maybe if Republican men married Democratic wives, they wouldn’t have the urge to find a sexually willing woman to hook up with.
I’m just saying…

Posted by: KsDevil | May 18, 2010, 11:56 am 11:56 am

Such silly comments. Did this guy preach family values? Do all democrats preach sleaze and therefore can never be held accountable for good private behavour? That seems to be what the liberals think is great!

Posted by: jonny | May 18, 2010, 11:56 am 11:56 am

“Souder’s resignation will not improve Democratic chances of carrying this solidly Republican district.” ……………… some people never learn!

Posted by: GeorgieBushie | May 18, 2010, 11:59 am 11:59 am

his guy must think he’s john Edwards, Bill Clinton, JFK, OOps he’s not a democrat.

Posted by: ANITLAEN2 | May 18, 2010, 12:06 pm 12:06 pm

A quick lesson here: there exists a positive relationship between the decibel level of a conservative’s family-values polemics and the size of the skeleton in his or her closet.

Posted by: map2history | May 18, 2010, 12:12 pm 12:12 pm

“jonny” … I love it when people of your “philosophy” can’t discuss the “issue at hand”. i.e. why so many “conservatives/Republican voters get “fooled” by the family values/religious-osity propaganda. All you can do is name call someone a “liberal” and say they are for “sleaze”. Are you even beginning to figure out why so many educated moderates have left the Party? And to “GeorgieBushuie”…you are probably right with your 11:59 post. I am sure that these people in that district “gave up on actually using their brains” a long time ago.

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 12:12 pm 12:12 pm

He does not have the right to have Affair(s) – DNC

Posted by: freedom | May 18, 2010, 12:14 pm 12:14 pm

“Nearly all men can stand adversity,” Abraham Lincoln said, “but if you want to test a man’s character, give him power.”

Posted by: lagunatrimom | May 18, 2010, 12:15 pm 12:15 pm

It should be noted that Mark Souder is an opponent of marriage equality for Gay Americans. He actually signed an amicus brief earlier this year against Washington DC’s marriage equaliy law.
This right-wing repub (Souder) who labels himself as a “family values” polititian has a lot of gall preaching about the sanctity of marriage when he’s actually out there cheating on his wife.
Oh and it’s not surprising that ABC’s “The Note” failed to mention this given its right-wing bias. Ah the hypocrisy of it all!!!

Posted by: Glenn | May 18, 2010, 12:19 pm 12:19 pm

I do feel sorry for his family. It will be an interesting meeting when I return to visit family in this district who supported this fool because of his stance on “family values”–and they will have to admit I was right when I said those who trumpet the loudest usually have something to hide.

Posted by: Doc | May 18, 2010, 12:32 pm 12:32 pm

Just another politician who got caught. Don’t do as I do, do as I say. I’ve yet to meet a politician that I wanted to shake hands with. I don’t care what they say they’re all slimeballs. Thinking they can run my life better than I can myself. I have more respect for a streetwalker than a politician, you usually end up with the same problems but at least it didn’t cost as much.

Posted by: Ken | May 18, 2010, 12:43 pm 12:43 pm

Another conservative Republican hypocrite. YouTube has a video of him and his mistress extolling the virtues of abstinence. Amazing. It’s like we keep acting out the same story over and over with different actors.

Posted by: Archie | May 18, 2010, 1:00 pm 1:00 pm

His mistress is an incompetent interviewer. Clue One. What is interesting is what prompted this admission?
I would like to hear if Karl Hungus was in any way involved in the exposure of this hypocrite.

Posted by: Spunky | May 18, 2010, 1:08 pm 1:08 pm

My Oh! My, this soap opera is good…

Posted by: MyOhMy | May 18, 2010, 1:09 pm 1:09 pm

As society we still live in a puritan state of mind. I bet you can’t find that many on capitol hill w/o some skeleton. I think as society we have become hypocrites on these values. Action speak louder than words.

Posted by: neurona | May 18, 2010, 1:10 pm 1:10 pm

SURPRISE!!Whether they are Democrats or Republicans, they all are hatched under the same rock. All are corrupt bottom feeders!

Posted by: carol | May 18, 2010, 1:11 pm 1:11 pm

It is another way of avoiding the issues. Both Dems and Repubs keep thinking up new ways all the time.

Posted by: Jim | May 18, 2010, 1:11 pm 1:11 pm

Some of you are missing the real point here. Yes, Dems have also had affairs, which have been well-publicized. But the kicker here, as in so many of these Conservative stories, is the utter hypocrisy!! You don’t go out of your way preaching about “family values” and then behave in the opposite way. THIS is what’s so flagrantly different between the Dems and Repubs who have “sinned” – Repubs are the worst hypocrites, because of their lies about family values.

Posted by: Jake | May 18, 2010, 1:12 pm 1:12 pm

Vera Baker. Vera Baker. Vera Baker.

Posted by: Kelly | May 18, 2010, 1:12 pm 1:12 pm

If it’s o.k. to come out and say “I’ve sinned against my wife” after they’ve been caught, what’s the point? They knew they were sinning against the wife when they climbed into bed with another woman. THAT’S when they need to slam on the breaks. I don’t have any patience with these guys at all!

Posted by: Chuxworld | May 18, 2010, 1:16 pm 1:16 pm

Sex scandals among politicians are obviously common. However, this one is unique because it involves a republican who chose a sex partner…of the opposite sex! How refreshing and unusual for a member of the “family values” GOP.

Posted by: dano | May 18, 2010, 1:16 pm 1:16 pm

“I will say anything to hold power. And if the people are stupid enough to follow me, so be it.”

Posted by: K | May 18, 2010, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm

Hey, At least it was with a WOMAN this time. Most Republicans that cheat have done it with MEN!

Posted by: Atheist 1 | May 18, 2010, 1:17 pm 1:17 pm

The Democrat lies… the Republican cheats on his wife and resigns… lets kick out the Dem, at least the GOP’er decided to fire himself!!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:18 pm 1:18 pm

Sinned with his wife Boo Hoo, your biggest crime is being involved with this Government!

Posted by: CC | May 18, 2010, 1:18 pm 1:18 pm

TheLoyal – Only you would get on a link like this and try to twist it. Mark Souder has for years played the smug above it all Christian. These past few years he’s gotten quite gifted at demonizing liberals as he does it. I live here, I should know. How many will it take before you guys realize this is all lip service over there? We’re up to quite a few now.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:20 pm 1:20 pm

Vote out All incumbents. Clean the House! Your “vote” is your weapon against the incumbency and same old lairs who spend all of their time legislating how we should live our lives when they can’t follow their own rules but follow the same old fools!

Posted by: john copeland | May 18, 2010, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

HAHAHA!! Teach people not to use this kind of platform to get a job(elected). The biggest loud mouths are always the guilty ones. Thank god for people like Barney Frank, who lives as he is, nothing to hide and with no shame.

Posted by: gdguynbalt | May 18, 2010, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

dano and atheist —– I’ll bet you Barney Frank agrees with your comments!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

I want to go back to the days when politicians didn’t preach about family values. I think that is a minister’s job…and you have the right to choose to listen to your minister or not, depending on whether you want to go to church. These idiots get up there and you can’t help but hear them, it’s hard to find a channel that is politics free unless you watch Nick at Nite. I also want to go back to the days when politicians had affairs and they were left alone to deal with their private matters….oh, uhhmmm…privately! I don’t give a rat’s behind who these people sleep with. When we had a bunch of womanizing, hell-raising, alcoholics in Washington, the country really seemed to be run a whole lot better…seriously, ever look up the “private lives” of the signers of the Declaration? They may have been God-fearing men…they had reasons to fear God and enjoyed getting in that shape…and they left all that out of their running of the country!

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 1:24 pm 1:24 pm

secondlook —– Only YOU would just pick on the GOP when the Dem was just as bad!! — Get off your high horse for a minute — I picked on both… I just added that the Republican had the decency to resign…. Richard Blumenthal is caught in a lie but will probably continue to run regardless of his conduct!!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:25 pm 1:25 pm

He must have paid her well.

Posted by: aceshelman | May 18, 2010, 1:27 pm 1:27 pm

TheLoyal – You’ve lost that “decency to resign” since the bathroom foot tapping, as well as many others since. It’s no longer true.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:28 pm 1:28 pm

A simultaneous admission of infidelity and a resignation by another republican family values hypocrite smells like there may be some gayness to this story. The republicans who cheat with females usually stick around for a while.

Posted by: wbindy | May 18, 2010, 1:28 pm 1:28 pm

secondlook — OMG, I just realized you admitted to being a Hoosier!!! —- You must live in a different (liberal) part of the state…ha-ha… I’m in a red county!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:29 pm 1:29 pm

He is one ugly dude.

Posted by: jmiccey | May 18, 2010, 1:29 pm 1:29 pm

Just once I’d like one of these guys to stand up and say, “you know, it was wrong of me to try to impose a moral code upon other people that I myself couldn’t live up to.”

Posted by: Yukon Sam | May 18, 2010, 1:29 pm 1:29 pm

The headline reads, “I sinned against my wife”. He actually said, “I sinned against my God, my wife and my family…”. Apparently it’s more newsworthy to sin against one’s wife than against one’s God.

Posted by: Tom | May 18, 2010, 1:30 pm 1:30 pm

TheLoyal – I currently reside in Fort Wayne, IN. Though not by choice really. It’s his job. Here’s another one: “Sen. John Ensign (R-Nev.) says he won’t resign over his extramarital affair because doing so would make it harder for Republicans to defeat Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid (D-Nev.) in 2010.”

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:32 pm 1:32 pm

I want to know how politicians are supposed to be able to “impose a moral code” upon anybody? Separation of church and state…people do not need to get their moral code from the government…even if the politicians are “moral”.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 1:32 pm 1:32 pm

secondlook — For every crooked and cheating Republican you can find… I can find an equal number of Democrats… you know that… I just think the two parties have a very different way of handling it… Most GOPer’s just resign…. look at the Charlie Rangles of the world to see how Dems handle it..!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:34 pm 1:34 pm

The following was what Mark Souder said after winning his last election: “I don’t know what’s going on in the rest of the country, but here in Fort Wayne we still believe in morals and values.” Loser.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:34 pm 1:34 pm

What is the matter with these guys? They work their whole lives and get elected to the US Congress and they blow it because they can’t keep it in their pants? What sort of outstanding morality do these people have that we should vote them into Congress? Republicans are apparently poor judges of character….as 6 or more of them have fallen in sexual scandals and the last few years.

Posted by: Robert | May 18, 2010, 1:35 pm 1:35 pm

TheLoyal – Mark Sanford. Gee, he just went to see his lover last weekend.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:35 pm 1:35 pm

What a surprise another family values republican bites the dust.The guy is a big slob, he used his power as a congress person to sleep with a staff member. All these Republicans are making excuses instead of dealing with the problem. But if they mention God and that they are sorry all is forgiven.If we count all the adulators the Republicans far outnumber their counterparts besides they are hypocrites.If no one had found out Souder would have continued his relationship and not been sorry about it.What is even worse this guy like most Republicans get paid off to vote the interests of big business and the people that elected him get screwed as well.

Posted by: Cary Friedman | May 18, 2010, 1:36 pm 1:36 pm

secondlook —- Where’d you grow up…. Illinois, California, or New York….?? ha-ha!!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:38 pm 1:38 pm

No TheLoyal – Either you HAVE morals and values, or you do not. You do not get to shout you have them, display you do not, and then try to suggest again you’re still somehow better because “they choose to resign.” This changes nothing. It’s no longer even very true. There is no sliding scale on integrity. You’re either a one or a ten.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:41 pm 1:41 pm

“Justmyopinion…I have a different twist on the start of your 1:24 post. I would like to go back to the days where the “preachers, ministers and religious scammers” stayed the _ell out of politics”. Ever notice the “downturn and decline” in our country since they have “gotten involved”??? That is what happens to countries who become “faith based” versus “intellectual and science based thinkers”.

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm

His wife probably told him long time ago that she is not really interested in having sex with him. The affair proves that he is a healthy male – nothing more, nothing less.

Posted by: Sam | May 18, 2010, 1:42 pm 1:42 pm

TheLoyal – Try Lexington, KY. Try I’m a centrist only right now anything left of this freak Palin mentality appears extreme. Or I used to be a centrist. Right now I can say with great honesty it’s doubtful I could pull a republican lever. They stop the hate and stupidity and I’ll reconsider.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:43 pm 1:43 pm

Secondlook —- You know what…. maybe I’m not supposed to consider a blatent lie from a Dem the same as cheating from a GOP —- because isn’t “cheating” a “private part” of your life that isn’t supposed to effect your job??? — I think that’s what we were all told to believe in 1998!!! (“I did not have sexual relations with that woman”)

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:44 pm 1:44 pm

TheLoyal – Sleep thru Clinton?

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:45 pm 1:45 pm

I FEEL VERY SORRY FOR HIS FLY. How could a person do such a thing on such a high post. He needs to goooooooooooooo.

Posted by: keith | May 18, 2010, 1:46 pm 1:46 pm

Typical republican hypocrite womanizer. Probably gay too judging by all the other scandals. Usually when people rant and point fingers at a minority or other group, they too have the very “faults” that they hate in the other. They are engaging in projection and self hate…seeing what they hate about themselves in the other person. In such cases, The Universe usually sees to it that their hypocrisy is exposed. It is actually a Universal law. Since we are here on Earth to evolve and to grow spiritually, the Universe is in the business of mirroring our faults and shortcomings, and of exposing what lurks in our unconscious minds. These behaviors indicate where we are most wounded and are a sort of pay dirt in the evolutionary healing process…for the root cause is mostly always unconscious. It is all for healing purposes. This is why Haggard, Larry Craig, Mark Foley and others have been exposed as if almost by magic…and certainly not by their own choice.

Posted by: Robert | May 18, 2010, 1:46 pm 1:46 pm

Secondlook — I’m writing this date down right now… you actually said you could pull the “other” lever….. I’m speechless!!! (doesn’t mean I can’t type, though!)

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:47 pm 1:47 pm

CND Fox: I agree with your post except for one thing…I don’t have a problem with the country being faith-based. However, I believe that the elected officials need to keep their private lives and how they honor/dishonor that faith to themselves. It’s not anybody’s business but his wife’s!
And for all you people that are spouting about Reps v. Dems out there and how morally sacred the Dems are…get a life. They are all the same…and they all need to be voted out so we can start over with a whole new bunch of liars.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 1:48 pm 1:48 pm

What are you talking about a blatent lie from a dem anyway? They’re politicians. This article should prove to you how they all lie. You seriously believe your beloved republicans never lie? How many lies will it take to prove to you that’s bunk? If you’re trying to sit here on some yet again cheating article, and try to fuss about virtue, it’s kind of like beating a dead horse Loyal. This article is about yet more great hypocrisy on the right. Mark was the biggest thumper on the trail, and lookie what we have here.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:48 pm 1:48 pm

Good riddance to yet another sex-obsessed conservative hypocrite. Souder is particularly loathsome for his over-the-top crusade against marijuana which included sponsoring the law that denied public loans to young people who happened to get caught smoking a joint (while more serious crimes carried no such sanction). And to blame his resignation on “the poisonous environment of Washington D.C.” underscores just how vacant of virtue such small men are.

Posted by: Mike | May 18, 2010, 1:49 pm 1:49 pm

Re: How do we know that his God did not want him to have this affair? Maybe God came to him in his sleep and said, “Hey, I want you to go after that 25 year old hottie on your staff. It is okay with me.” We can’t prove that God did not tell him this?
Posted by: Jim|May 18, 2010 11:40:59 AM
Here is an example of what is not so good about freedom of speech and the WWW. People like Jim can spew blasphemous nonsense on this – and other – sites.
Of course, I fully support freedom of speech. It is just sad when the sociopathic among us get even a brief, limited audience.

Posted by: saftgek | May 18, 2010, 1:51 pm 1:51 pm

Do people need any more reasons to NOT VOTE REPUBLICAN? Why would Americans vote for the very party that got us into all these tragic catastrophes anyway? Are Americans that careless with their country? That is like throwing your son out of the house for repeated drug abuse and taking him back after just a verbal apology. The apology does nothing to heal the disease…the root cause. Republicans are sick and they practically ruined this country. A “throw the bums” out attitude will backfire on American voters. Americans will actually give up invaluable experience in the Congress.

Posted by: Robert | May 18, 2010, 1:51 pm 1:51 pm

CNDFox said “I would like to go back to the days where the “preachers, ministers and religious scammers” stayed the _ell out of politics” —— Did you know “preachers” were very instrumental in getting the public involved in the Revolutionalry War? — Lot’s preached the rebellion, and lots became officers in the militias!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm

okay..somebody explain this to me…why does it matter that he is “conservative”…do liberals not have sex?…or affairs….or sin…? Come on! This has absolutely nothing to do with what party the guy belongs to!

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm

Well said Mike.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:52 pm 1:52 pm

JustMyOpinion – It does when it’s the party that tries to demonize all liberals as though they’re without morals.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 1:53 pm 1:53 pm

SecondLook: If memory serves me correctly, Clinton is a liberal Democrat. I guess it was okay for him to smoke that cigar? Oh yea…and he didn’t inhale. See my point???

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 1:54 pm 1:54 pm

secondlook — So your saying that someone who “tries” to beat the straight and narrow path… but slips.. is worse than the trash that sows his wild oats every week??? — Is hypocrisy so bad?? Or is hypocrisy on the “right” so bad??

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:55 pm 1:55 pm

Hypocrisy is bad, regardless of which path you are on. I can’t stand a liar or a hypocrit…which has a lot to do with why I don’t much like any of the politicians, regardless of what party they affiliate with.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 1:57 pm 1:57 pm

OH MY!!! —- ABC actually switched the top story to the LYING DEMOCRAT instead of the CHEATING REPUBLICAN!!! —- maybe they ARE getting more balanced!!!

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 1:58 pm 1:58 pm

No TheLoyal – I’m saying they don’t try and by now you should be freaking getting that. It’s empty rhetoric designed to play the voter. IF I manage to get to go to the pearly gates for a discussion on my life? Do you think God will judge me on what I tried to do, or what I did? Empty talk is empty talk, and you guys seem to lack IQ in getting that.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:02 pm 2:02 pm

One more thing TheLoyal – Trying to paint all liberals as “trash that sows their wild oats every week” is BS too. By now it should be clear you don’t corner the market on ethics or values over there. Is it possible for any of you to operate on anything other than running down liberals anymore?

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:04 pm 2:04 pm

SecondLook: Seems you’ve been doing a dang good job of running down conservatives in general…now you are talking bad about someone else doing the same? My my my….hypocracy does run rampant doesn’t it?

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:06 pm 2:06 pm

JustMyOpinion – Payback for the Bush years of complete demonization. That continues. It’s all they have. I’m sick of it.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:09 pm 2:09 pm

secondlook —– I do understand what you’re saying, and I agree to a point… but when you make it to the pearly gates, won’t St. Peter look at your life and say… “you were good 98% of the time, but you slipped here and here” ….. whereas the real sinner might not even make it to the gates!! —- I’m not saying any cheating should be overlooked… I just don’t understand why it’s “worse” in this case!! —– If a preacher has an affair, is it worse than the used-car salesman having an affair??

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 2:12 pm 2:12 pm

To LoyalOpp and JustMyopinion… LoyalOpposition…your 1:52 post …so what has that got to do with today’s world? That was in the “past” and there it should remain. And to JustmyOpinion…please take the time and read Kevin Phillips book, “American Theocracy”. You might “change” your opinion of a “faith based” country and how it always contributes to the decline of a nation or civilization. He is a Republican…so NO “liberal or socialist” accusations please.

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 2:13 pm 2:13 pm

demonization?? Really?…wow.
And the Bush years are totally responsible for that? Gee. What hole did you crawl out of again?

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:15 pm 2:15 pm

secondlook — I NEVER implied it was “liberals” sowing wild oats…. It could have been ANYONE… it was a metaphore for the “good” and the “bad”!! —- read it again… please don’t assume I was speaking of left and right…. are our discussions going down that road….??

Posted by: TheLoyalOpposition | May 18, 2010, 2:16 pm 2:16 pm

Plain and simple case of “Loss of Zipper Control”. It’ll get ‘em every time! Get your lying carcass out of my state politics!

Posted by: Gunz2fun | May 18, 2010, 2:17 pm 2:17 pm

It’s worse in this case because for years this man has gotten on the news and put me down because I didn’t vote for him. He has judged me, demonized me, and pretty much suggested I’d go to hell. This smug judgmental religion is not the religion of Jesus. I personally hate it because in my heart I am just sure they use Jesus for votes and I have a huge problem with it. You do not sit and preach without walking the walk. And you sure as hell do not preach all this hate. On those bad liberals that sow sin all week long vs. you guys.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:18 pm 2:18 pm

It’s worse in this case because for years this man has gotten on the news and put me down because I didn’t vote for him. He has judged me, demonized me, and pretty much suggested I’d go to hell. This smug judgmental religion is not the religion of Jesus. I personally hate it because in my heart I am just sure they use Jesus for votes and I have a huge problem with it. You do not sit and preach without walking the walk. And you sure as hell do not preach all this hate. On those bad liberals that sow sin all week long vs. you guys.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:18 pm 2:18 pm

lol…CND Fox: If pressed to state an affiliation, I’m a Republican too, and I’m not liberal either. But, I typically do not generalize between either party…generalizations just typically don’t work out well. However, if you read one book by one author and place a great deal of stock in it, then I’d say you are short-sided. There is a history of the fall of non-faith-based countries also. Rome comes to mind. If you will read what I said, it is that I don’t have a problem with a faith-based country. I do however, have a problem with politicians trying to legislate morality. These are two entirely different concepts.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:19 pm 2:19 pm

JustMyOpinion – Whatever. You’re on here to pick a fight. This past election completes this story. One guy promoted change. The other side hated half of America and called themselves the real Americans. That pretty much sums it up as to I have some teeth to my argument.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:20 pm 2:20 pm

SecondLook: I’m debating, not trying to start a fight. I state my views, you comment, I comment back. That’s pretty much what I thought these comment boards were for. I don’t call names, and I don’t get beligerant. Pardon me for not agreeing with you.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:23 pm 2:23 pm

At least he has the integrity to resign. Ensign and Sanford, on the other hand, are still collecting their paychecks from the tax payers.

Posted by: 3reddogs | May 18, 2010, 2:24 pm 2:24 pm

JustMy – I have good ole allergies eating my head off so maybe it’s me. Though “what hole did you crawl out of again?” isn’t real soft.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:29 pm 2:29 pm

SecondLook: lol…yea…sorry, I got carried away. You are right, I shouldn’t have said that. I usually use my edit button and try to stay pleasant.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:30 pm 2:30 pm

Now you’re cracking me up.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:30 pm 2:30 pm

Well..that’s better than pissing you off. ANYWAY…I just really think that any politician, rep or dem, conservative or liberal, needs to just tend to legislation of the Constitution and stick to those confines. There is no room in government, in my opinion, to legislate morality. When you go there…it’s getting all to socialist for my likings and we’re too dang close for comfort on that already.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:34 pm 2:34 pm

I would agree that if the far right went around a corner they’d run into the far left. I think most of us are pretty moderate and in general want the same things. It’s more an argument of how really. How it’s come to this is beyond me. I thought after this last election we nipped “extreme.” I never dreamed we were in for them upping the ante. To be honest I find myself wondering if we’re just too far gone at this point. I pity our children. My generation has blown things.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 2:42 pm 2:42 pm

There they go again.
How does anybody continue to believe a thing a Family Values politician says?
It’s almost a surprise that this time it’s a heterosexual affair.
And how could anyone defend his actions, in any way, after all of his attacks?
This is why “conservative” politicians continue to lose. Losers lose.
And sore losers at that,
Souder is trying to lay blame on Washington, too!
The American People hate sore losers.
Defending Souder is a losing proposition. Sorry, no way you can win this one.

Posted by: AnotherRepubLie | May 18, 2010, 2:48 pm 2:48 pm

What is wrong with these people – do they think they will get away with it? This sniveling in front of the cameras after the fact sickens me – more than the act – particularly from so-called moral crusaders. That republican family values schtick just keeps on back-firing. Give it up!

Posted by: Ross | May 18, 2010, 2:48 pm 2:48 pm

Well…I sorta figured the “change” we were in for wasn’t going to be real good…which is why I didn’t vote for him. He walked into a mess, and made it bigger. Our generation has mucked things up pretty dang good, and I do pity our children because that generation seems to be a bit too complacent in my opinion. The 20-somethings and younger now do not vote, have no interest in voting, they don’t see that it does any good. They are “Waiting for the World to Change”…ever listen to that song by John Mayer…it sums up the younger generation attitude really well. Our generation has been to hyped on “what will this do for me and mine?” The next generation is “what are you going to do for me?”

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:49 pm 2:49 pm

” in my opinion, to legislate morality. When you go there…it’s getting all to socialist for my likings ” — Wow, you’re pretty good. It takes real nerve to spin this story about the downfall of another GOP hypocrite into a critique of socialism!

Posted by: Mark from atlanta | May 18, 2010, 2:49 pm 2:49 pm

Republican or Democrat, I’d just like to know what’s wrong with people. You in the public eye, held in high standards, which you present to people, get them to like you and then turn around and burst everyone’s bubble.

Posted by: DocLowery | May 18, 2010, 2:52 pm 2:52 pm

Well Mark…if you had read the thread of the conversation and put all my comments together, you would figure out that critiquing socialism is not how that whole thing started. You jumped into the middle of a conversation there and made a judgment,then smacked my hand over it. Not cool.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 2:53 pm 2:53 pm

Justmyopinion…just so you know I read a lot, even right wing publications. This book is the best book I have seen. I just ordered my own copy and a copy of his new book “Bad Money”. “American Theocracy” was published in 2006 and “bad Money in 2008…so they are very relevant. And by the way … when Rome fell they were far from a “non-faith” based country. But just so you know the main examples are Spain, the Dutch and Great Britain: examples that have occurred over the past 400 years or so. It is very well worth your time to read and like I said before…he is not a “liberal” with an “axe to grind”. Besides the “faith based” part is only one of the “bell weathers” but an important one in the “latter stages” of decline. Unfortunately, we just have too many people inour nation that would rather “listen to their preacher” than take the time to research issues and then “think for themselves”. And believe me “Faux News” doesn’t help one bit either.

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 3:09 pm 3:09 pm

Mark – Just My was applying that to both parties. He/she is rational like that.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 3:13 pm 3:13 pm

This babe is waaay too hot for him. No wonder he couldn’t resist!

Posted by: Vince | May 18, 2010, 3:13 pm 3:13 pm

If he was Italian this would not be a big deal. But when you act holier then thou and spew that “family values” BS you know they’re screwing someone other then their wife! Typical Rightwing behavior!

Posted by: JOEY FALCONE | May 18, 2010, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm

CND – Faith or infighting to the point they were out to left field by the time the Huns got to them? Sound familiar?

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm

And another republican hypocrite goes down in flames…

Posted by: RickFromTexas | May 18, 2010, 3:18 pm 3:18 pm

Fear not! His career in not over! I have two words for you: Newt Gingrich. He divorced his ill wife to marry his girlfriend. Divorced that wife to marry another girlfriend. And he’s still riding high with Conservatives. The right is so busy telling the rest of us how to live, that, “DO AS I SAY, NOT AS I DO,” should be the Republican motto.

Posted by: Cassandra | May 18, 2010, 3:28 pm 3:28 pm

Why does anyone even listen to the “Family Values” types anymore? Isn’t it painfully evident that their lifestyle choice is a sham?

Posted by: Jenn | May 18, 2010, 3:33 pm 3:33 pm

I can almost forgive the affair, if he didn’t try so hard to tout himself as a “family values” man.
I’m still not able, to this day, to figure out exactly what is meant by “family values”…

Posted by: Christine | May 18, 2010, 3:44 pm 3:44 pm

secondlook…actually “both”…and unfortuanetly, yes, it is very familiar/similar indeed. But the main point that Mr. Phillips points out is the “anti-intellectual and anti-science” mentality that existed in all these civilizations that contributed so greatly to their decline and eventual fall. And “yes, unfortunately” that sounds very “familiar” too. Just take one look as to what is going on in the South and other “fundamentalist/reconstructionist/evangelical” areas of the country.

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 3:45 pm 3:45 pm

TYPICAL REPUBLICAN
repulsive

Posted by: Marks Mom | May 18, 2010, 3:53 pm 3:53 pm

CND Fox: Let me just say it this way…there is a huge difference between there being a “faith based country,” and a country that pretends to be faith based. At the moment, I think we are a country that pretends. You reference the south…grew up there myself, couldn’t wait to get out…huge number of bible thumpers that don’t practice what they preach. But, they aren’t all that way, and it isn’t just because it’s the south. There are a large majority of this type personality right now in the entire country. People have gotten way far into preaching the good life and not living it. This is where the politicians come in…they have gotten really good at telling everyone who is to blame for their lot in life…it is always somebody else’s fault, (case in point, this guy is blaming the atmosphere in DC) nobody has to take the blame for their own lives going to hell in a handbasket any longer because the politicians are happy to point the finger at who sent you there. When this country was founded, it was faith-based in reality…not just on paper. And please do not confuse my “faith” as “religion”…those are two different things. People with true faith will act in a certain way and everyone benefits. If a country is “faith-based”, then you come closer to a group of people working towards the common good, as opposed to seeing what they can get out of it for themselves and whoever gives them the most money. BUT…still…I don’t think morality within the faith-based country can, nor should be, legislated.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 3:56 pm 3:56 pm

Mark Souder and his family values hype… what a hypocrite.

Posted by: FedUp | May 18, 2010, 3:58 pm 3:58 pm

justmyopinion…you and I are really almost sayiny the same thing. The problem is unfortunately there is a good 30-40% of our nation who have “turned their brains off” and tried tio replace that with “blind faith” (however you want tio define that) Too many believers in the inerrancy of the Bible, too many believers in the “left behind series” by leHaye, too many “thumpers” who believe in an Armageddon. So instead of trying to make our nation and world better they just shrug their shoulders and say it is the “Supreme Being’s will”. The funny part is that is how many past civilizations (who have declined and lost their status as a leading economic power) have gone through the same “philosophical thought process” and a resultant decline ? Read the book by Mr. Phillips…you won’t regret it. That is IF you like to learn.

Posted by: CND FOX | May 18, 2010, 4:13 pm 4:13 pm

CND Fox: love that little slur there on the end. Sure, I like to learn, but reading one man’s opinion on how the country is where it is…that’s not my take on “learning”…that is gaining another person’s opinion. However, I am not closed-minded, and I do entertain other people’s opinions and thoughts on things. Having an open mind is conducive to growth. And I understand what you are saying about people just dumping our woes into the hands of God…that is what I refer to as a “religious” person. People of faith (in a faith-based country) understand that God gave us the power of thought and decision making and that our woes and how to correct them are in our hands, not his.

Posted by: JustMyOpinion | May 18, 2010, 4:32 pm 4:32 pm

Politicians and morality are mutual exclusive. There is no such thing as a “moral” or “family values” politician. Politics and morality are polar opposites.

Posted by: raggmopp | May 18, 2010, 4:37 pm 4:37 pm

FUNNY how they never admit to their sins until AFTER they’re CAUGHT! GOD must have created humans for his amusement because their escapades sure are a hoot!

Posted by: AlChemist | May 18, 2010, 4:45 pm 4:45 pm

He should have learned from his Republican philandering, judgmental value preaching friends like David Vitter, Mark Sandford, John Ensign and be proud of his adulterous ways and stay on. Look values is just to impose on others. Republicans like John Macain, Newt Gingrich only use it when they want to rile the “useful idiots.” while some others are just sleazy like John Edwards these republicans double on the Hypocrisy too! No wander Jesus was harder on the religious hypocrites than the tax collectors and prostitutes!

Posted by: zazu | May 18, 2010, 5:03 pm 5:03 pm

I still can’t figure out who would do this guy. He’s that gross.

Posted by: secondlook | May 18, 2010, 5:07 pm 5:07 pm

I am abolutely loving this! Ok, Dems have their share of cheaters, but at least they’re not pretending to have a halo. Republicans/Conservatives/Family values are most often used interchangeably… afterall, Republicans worked hard to promote this.
I wanted to believe that “marriage is between a man and woman”; that there is not greater love, no stronger committment between two people that’s more perfect, sanctified and pleases God more than this heterosexual version… yet, men of the cloth, men with power, and the standard bearers of our times just keep proving that marriage is afterall a union between two people who is committed to each other in lifelong partnership — which, by the way, you have to love for it to last — that’s “marriage”. Souder, you naughty boy!

Posted by: BeEnergyIndependent | May 18, 2010, 5:35 pm 5:35 pm

“People who talk the most about morality are the people who possess the least amount of it.”
–James Carville

Posted by: Veronica | May 18, 2010, 5:57 pm 5:57 pm

Just another plain as day example that a marriage is rarely ever between one man and one woman.

Posted by: Jeffrey1234 | May 18, 2010, 6:45 pm 6:45 pm

Don’t you just love these Family Values hypocrites violating all the rules they say the rest of us have to endure. They are against gay marrige but can’t even be faithful to their own.
Why people in his district would vote for another Republican is beyond me but then being from Indiana I am not surprised/

Posted by: nick ames | May 18, 2010, 7:04 pm 7:04 pm

I just have to wonder how stupid conservatives are. They keep supporting these hypocrites who preach family values and yet violate their own rules.
Of course these dittoheads will continue to vote for the GOP because well, they are dittoheads.
And why their wives stick with them is also amusing. THey must be desperate

Posted by: Cass Blaine | May 18, 2010, 7:06 pm 7:06 pm

This is the perfect reason to vote for real family values and make divorce and adultrey illegal. If that was the case, this guy would spend the rest of his useless life in jail while his wife collects his pension.

Posted by: BigLib | May 18, 2010, 7:16 pm 7:16 pm

If a democrat has an affair, he generally gets away with it easier because he hasn’t been running around blabbing about God, family values, how much he despises gays, and making abstenence videos. On the other hand a republican generally doesn’t get…….

Posted by: eclecticman1 | May 18, 2010, 8:28 pm 8:28 pm

The only surprise here is that his affair was with a woman. Most ‘family values’ warriors seem to have a penchant for men. Another hypocrite goes down in flames. When will these clowns learn that it’s not the behavior, it’s the hypocrisy.

Posted by: E | May 18, 2010, 8:59 pm 8:59 pm

justmyopinion…in reply to your 4:43 post. And I believe that anyone who “dumps his woes in the hands of God” (as you put it) is very stupid not religious at all. Or maybe you could say “man-made” religious. It is very, very funny to me how so many people give those who attend “man made (and interpreted) religious institutions” on a regular basuis a “pass” when they do not strive to be the best they can be from an educated, intellectual standpoint. After all…it is my understanding that is why we were given a brain. To question and think with; not adhere to blind obedience and someone else’s “interpretation” of how religion should be. And that is exactly what “turns me off with the right wing religious fanatics”. No wonder they are “constantly fleeced” by their ministers and preachers. When you “give up your mind”…you have given up the greatest gift you were given. LOL…LOL…And these same “wing nuts” worry about a “government takeover”. How utterly pathetic!

Posted by: CND FOXc | May 18, 2010, 10:27 pm 10:27 pm

ABC, “WHY!!” is this news?…….. it’s just another hypocrite Republican… I’m used to that already.

Posted by: GeorgieBushie | May 18, 2010, 10:43 pm 10:43 pm

It doesn’t matter that these so-called “family values” conservatives turn out to to cheat on their wives and disgrace their families, the right-wingers will vote for the Republican in this district anyway.
Republican politicians just have to utter that time tested phrase “cut your taxes” or “tax and spend liberals”, or the latest — Obama is a Socialist, and the base will vote over and over for the Republican.

Posted by: findlayway | May 18, 2010, 11:02 pm 11:02 pm

Republicans are a trash party. How vehemently they went after Clinton for his affair, all the while cheating on their own spouses. Its clear how stupid Republcians really are. Hopefully they all get thrown out this November, they don’t deserve to be in ANY postion of leadership.

Posted by: Mmmoke | May 19, 2010, 3:43 am 3:43 am

Just gotta love those Republican “Family Values”!

Posted by: JaylahPriest | May 19, 2010, 3:46 am 3:46 am

I briefly read through the comments made by individuals of this blog. It saddens me that so many people are willing to judge and point fingers all the while knowing that all of us make mistakes and have events, decisions and actions in our past that we are not proud of. No one is perfect. We all will make decisions that are not good choices. My hope is that after the consequences of the decision have been revealed that we take responsibility of our actions; we come clean; and we learn from those mistakes. Our beliefs are not always reflected in our actions. That is human nature. I believe that I should not lie, but I know that I have. I believe that I should not yell at my kids, but I know that I have. I believe that I should help the poor and marginalized, but I know that I do not do enough. Rather than judge, I believe that it is more important to ask what can I do to make this situation better? How can I influence positive change? How can I teach my kids and others around me how to learn from the mistakes of others so that we do not go out and make the same mistakes.

Posted by: Stacy | May 19, 2010, 7:48 am 7:48 am

Hypocrisy will do more to destroy the American way of life than attacks of Islamic extremists.

Posted by: roy | May 19, 2010, 8:43 am 8:43 am

sTACY…NO OFFENSE HERE, JUST A WORD OF ADDVICE. bASED ON YOUR POST’S “SUBSTANCE” I would suggest you either read up on politics and the issues that confront us or just “keep to your church inspired environment” and stay away from the political world. Your entire post was about “emotion” not intellectual substance.Politics doesn’t need any more “emtion” out there. (sorry didn’t know the Caps were on to start with).

Posted by: CND FOXc | May 19, 2010, 8:45 am 8:45 am

I don’t feel a person’s sex life, religious life or family life has anything to do with how he/her do their jobs. This is personal, private business and the entire “Family Values” movement or platform is merely a way to divert the nation’s attention from more pressing issues.

Posted by: saintgayle | May 19, 2010, 12:06 pm 12:06 pm

Yet another Republican sex scandal. Maybe if Republican men married Democratic wives, they wouldn’t have the urge to find a sexually willing woman to hook up with.
I’m just saying…
Posted by: KsDevil
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In other words, Republican woman are less sexually willing than Democratic women. Brilliant! Just one question.
The woman Sauder had an affair with was a Republican. How do you explain that?
Also, John Edward’s wife was a Democrat. That didn’t stop John Edwards from finding some action elsewhere did it?

Posted by: ivan | May 19, 2010, 3:56 pm 3:56 pm

Another conservative Republican hypocrite. YouTube has a video of him and his mistress extolling the virtues of abstinence. Amazing. It’s like we keep acting out the same story over and over with different actors.
Posted by: Archie
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I guess we can paint all the liberals with the same brush too. With Edwards on the scene acting like the ideal husband standing by his wife who has cancer, then having the affair with Rielle Hunter, you can say all liberals are hypocrites.
And with Clinton on the scene sonme years before we can say its the same story over and over with different actors.

Posted by: ivan | May 19, 2010, 4:03 pm 4:03 pm

Funny, Republicans know exactly how moral and religious the rest of us should be…. Maybe we should all feel free to do as they do, and not as they say.

Posted by: Cassandra | May 19, 2010, 10:12 pm 10:12 pm

Just about all of our politicans are haveing an affair with sombody. We even had a President get a job by a staffer. Can these guys think with their real heads or not. What a bunch of loosers.

Posted by: Magnum1 | May 20, 2010, 2:04 am 2:04 am

neurona–very true— I won’t defend this guy… I can’t he was talking the talk but not walking the walk apparently, But I will give him this much… He got caught, and he sacrificed his political career.. did not drag his wife on stage to “stand by her man” and did not make any excuses for his shortfall… In the age of “I didn’t have sex with that woman”, – and “Thats not my baby, its a staffer’s” – at least this person had the morality to accept his own shortcomings and step down… when you think about it, did we really win? a man who failed and placed the blame on himself (admirable action for an unadmirable activity) Is no longer a part of our governance while societies members and politicians who commit equal acts of poor judgement fight to hold their position… Are we better off when someone WITH at least enough scruples to know when to walk away does, while those with no scruples.. slide into their position happily..

Posted by: arkie vet | May 20, 2010, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm

It used to be that when a Republican was elected…you had best sit on your wallet. Now, you have to lock up the kids, too!

Posted by: Matthew | May 21, 2010, 6:56 am 6:56 am

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