Apr 14, 2011 7:00am

ABC News Exclusive: Pat Tillman’s Mom Wants General Stanley McChrystal Removed From Chairing White House Initiative*

ABC News’ Jake Tapper reports:

President Obama named retired General Stanley McChrystal to co-chair a White House commission on military families this week, but according to perhaps the most prominent military family of the last decade, McChrystal is unfit for that duty. 

Mary Tillman, mother of Pat Tillman, the former professional football player turned Army Ranger who was tragically killed by friendly fire 7 years ago, is angered by McChrystal’s appointment, telling ABC News that he was part of the propaganda effort pushing the false tale that Tillman had been killed by the enemy, and keeping the truth from the world — and their family. 

“I was actually pretty shocked to hear it; I don't think it’s the appropriate choice,” Tillman told ABC News. “Considering that we have plenty of evidence indicating that McChrystal was involved in the cover-up of Pat’s death…he's not the right person for that kind of a job.”

Tillman says the president's appointment of McChrystal "makes him look foolish, frankly."

She tells ABC News that "someone who has a heartfelt desire to help families would not have been involved in the cover-up of a soldier’s death, especially one that they used to promote a war.”

See the interview and our full GMA report here and read more further below:

McChrystal — who declined comment to ABC News — was the commander of special operations in Afghanistan when Tillman was killed in April 2004. Soon after McChrystal wrote his commanders an urgent memo that, "It is highly possible that Corporal Tillman was killed by friendly fire.”

Having heard President George W. Bush might speak publicly about Tillman, McChrystal wrote to his higher ups to make sure they knew the truth so as to “preclude any…public embarrassment if the circumstances of Corporal Tillman's death become public."

Tillman notes that McChrystal wrote "if this becomes public this could be an embarrasment to the administration. He didnt say 'when' this becomes public, 'when' we tell the family. So there was going to be an effort to cover this up."

At the same time McChrystal was sending that confidential memo, he was part of the propaganda effort pushing a false narrative about Tillman's death, the family charges.

He signed off on a Silver Star citation that is worded quite misleadingly, noting how “Corporal Tillman put himself in the line of devastating enemy fire” and in the next sentence referencing how Tillman, “(w)hile mortally wounded”” demonstrated “audacious leadership and courageous example under fire…” 

At no point does the Silver Star citation that McChrystal signed even hint that the mortal wounds came from American guns.

“I would do this differently if I had the chance again–in retrospect they look contradictory, because we sent a silver star that was not well-written,” McChrystal testified before the Senate in 2009. “And although I went through the process, I will tell you now I didn't review the citation well enough to capture — or I didn't catch that if you read it you could imply that it was not friendly fire.”

The Pentagon Inspector General recommended disciplinary action against McChrystal, but the army ultimately cleared him of any wrongdoing in 2007. 

The White House formally announced its "Joining Forces" initiative on Tuesday. It be coordinated by the Center for New American Security in concert with the First Lady’s office. 

Mary Tillman says McChrystal let her family agonize on a national stage for years for never helping them find out the truth about their son's death.

"He deliberately helped cover up Pat's death and he has never adequately apologized to us for doing that," she says. "General McChrystal knew we were actively looking for answers.  No one contacted us to try to square with us what had happened."

“I’ve come to learn through this journey that there are many other families that have been lied to by the military about their sons and daughters,'" she says, "and so we feel that what happen to Pat is pertains to other people, not just us. I think it’s a slap in the face to all soldiers to appoint this man, to be on this committee.”

Others agree with the Tillmans, including Amir Bar-Lev, the director of the critically-acclaimed documentary "The Tillman Story."

“Putting Stanley McChrystal in charge of a commission on military families is a little like putting Bernie Madoff in charge of a commission on pensions,” said Bar-Lev.

Jon Krakauer, author of "Where Men Win Glory: The Odyssey of Pat Tillman," told ABC News, "I think this appointment is an outrage. McChrystal continues to dissemble about the leading role he played in the cover-up.  It's shameful."

President Obama relieved McChrystal of his command last Summer after publication of a Rolling Stone story that featured McChrystal and aides trash-talking members of the administration. But the White House now argues that "the president feels strongly that General McChrystal is the right person to help lead this advisory committee on this vital issue."

- Jake Tapper

UPDATE: White House press secretary Jay Carney issued this statement this evening:

"We have enormous respect for the service and sacrifice of Pat Tillman and his family. What they endured is a tragedy that should never be repeated. The circumstances surrounding Pat Tillman's death have been thoroughly investigated, and General McChrystal was found to have acted honorably despite the fact that this tragedy was mishandled. Still, General McChrystal has said that he deeply regrets the course of events that led to this incident and has apologized for his role, including during testimony before the Senate Armed Services Committee. General McChrystal has rendered extraordinary service to this country during his decades in the military, and we honor not only that service but also his willingness to be part of an advisory board at the Center for a New American Security. He has a unique understanding of the challenges military families face every day, and is especially well positioned to help mobilize the private sector to help.”

Note how Carney refers to McChrystal's position — formally announced by Carney himself from the podium this week — as merely "part of an advisory board at the Center for a New American Security," as if the White House has little to do with it. 

It's true that CNAS, which has close ties to the Obama administration, is coordinating the "Joining Forces" initiative but CNAS is doing so in concert with the White House, which held the conference call about the Joining Forces initiative and has taken the lead in all matters pertaining to it.

Here's how Carney announced the news this week: "The First Lady, Michelle Obama, and Dr. Jill Biden are launching a national initiative to support and honor America’s service members and their families tomorrow, April 12th, at the White House.   The initiative aims to educate, challenge and spark action from all sectors of our society — citizens, communities, businesses, nonprofits, faith-based institutions, philanthropic organizations, and government — to ensure military families have the support they have earned. Many of you saw this press release.  I just wanted to remind you of it.  It’s an important event tomorrow that will begin several days of focus on this by the First Lady and Dr. Biden.  You also are aware, of course, that General McChrystal has been asked to — and accepted — the job of leading the advisory panel that will oversee this effort.”

User Comments

These politicians just love anyone that is willing to cover up the truth about any kind of military misconduct.
Stand up for mothers like Pat Tillman’s Mom. I voted for Obombya once. Not again. This is the last straw.

Posted by: Rob Adamson | April 14, 2011, 7:38 am 7:38 am

I agree with Mrs.Tillman, McChrystal is not the man for this position. I like others voted for Obama but not sure what my vote will be next time around.

Posted by: loraine | April 14, 2011, 7:48 am 7:48 am

I have to agree with Tillman’s mother. This is the wrong post for McCrystal.

Posted by: Bob Ramos | April 14, 2011, 7:50 am 7:50 am

I was a fan of Pat Tillman. McCrystal has proven he does not have enough smarts to be put in a command position. This article reinforces that opinion.

Posted by: larry Mason CWO (ret) USAR | April 14, 2011, 8:05 am 8:05 am

Put Mrs. Tillman in charge.

Posted by: chris | April 14, 2011, 8:11 am 8:11 am

Just another example of the failure of Obama to lead this country. He just doesn’t get anything right. Obama needs to understand that we are not going to make the same mistake twice concerning the 2012 vote. America needs Nobama!

Posted by: Don Ellis | April 14, 2011, 8:15 am 8:15 am

President Obama’s presidency has been filled with flip-flop decisions that make many voter uneasy with his leadership. I don’t know that he is re-electable given his penchant for doing 180′s on a great many of his stances. It’s almost like he tailors his message for whatever the audience is at the moment regardless of how much of a flip-flop it is vs. being firm and resolute, regardless of the outcomes.

Posted by: Will | April 14, 2011, 8:16 am 8:16 am

Any general who has been relieved for cause should NOT be put in charge of a commission on military families. This is just another example of Obama’s poor political judgement. I see no way he should be re-elected unless the Republicans select a likewise unfit candidate.

Posted by: Gary | April 14, 2011, 8:18 am 8:18 am

He is the problem with McChrystal-any general stupid enough to shoot his mouth off about his superiors to a Rolling Stone reporter has no business in any position of authority.The Tillman story stinks to high heaven,but after the RS fiasco this man should just fade away.It does seem a really tone-deaf appointment,even for Obama.On the other hand,after yesterday’s speech Mr. Obama seems to be losing his grip on reality.

Posted by: Nephron | April 14, 2011, 8:20 am 8:20 am

Thanks Georgie W. Dumbo!
You led this country into it’s most monumental blunder! And we’ve lost thousands of lives for nothing!

Posted by: BEEBEE | April 14, 2011, 8:21 am 8:21 am

Combatants get hit by friendly fire. Deal with it, we did.
Generals can be relieved for things that they should not be, were they not bound to act on non-military (read: political) pretexts.
Mr. McCrystal was and remains one of this country’s best commanders. The C in C never was and never will be fit to hold any public office, much less direct a squad of privates first class.

Posted by: Jake | April 14, 2011, 8:25 am 8:25 am

All you Obama haters need to get use to have him for the next four years because the people that what to run against him is a joke. I love when people say that they vote for him but will not anymore if you are a Dem which I don’t believe anyway who are you going to vote for.

Posted by: Mdunson | April 14, 2011, 8:28 am 8:28 am

Fascinating — look how many posters say that they’re not going to vote for Obama again. How much were you guys paid, and who’s footing the bill for this propaganda?

Posted by: Barney | April 14, 2011, 8:29 am 8:29 am

This is “good old boy” government as usual.
Where’s the change Mr. President ??

Posted by: Danny | April 14, 2011, 8:30 am 8:30 am

Lets see….fire a man for insubordination and then appoint him to a feel good commission? Oh the circus in the White House just keeps marching around in circles. If the administration cares so much about the military and their families why is it that “security” (translated DEFENSE) is the biggest recipient of proposed cuts to fund the rediculous spending already occurring on idealsitic feel good personal quests (translated – HEALTHCARE/WELFARE). Ask a Soldier how he feels about the cuts already seen but not mentioned in the press – its only going to get worse.

Posted by: Len | April 14, 2011, 8:31 am 8:31 am

Mdunson,Beebee-if he doesn’t address the birth certificate issue the Republicans could win with Elmer Fudd.

Posted by: Nephron | April 14, 2011, 8:36 am 8:36 am

General McChrystal is a knight in shinning armor. Although the war is questionable but he was doing the best to follow orders and be a reasonable man. He had strict rules in engagements so not to harm innocent civilians and was trying to win the hearts and minds of the people. He is the kind of commander that Pat Tillman would have respected if he is living today.

Posted by: Sir Percy (Pen Name) | April 14, 2011, 8:38 am 8:38 am

It is always so clear when someone who makes decisions concerning the military never served in it.
If the President had served he would know that you do the job for the person next you. The people you serve with, rather in peacetime or war, forge an allegiance with you stronger than friends you make at Harvard Law School.
If the President had served he would recognize that McCrystal violated this allegiance and, to military vets, this makes him unfit to hold this post or call himself “honorably” discharged.
Shame on McCrhystal for selling out his comrades for another star. All those years in the military wasted on one act that poisoned his whole career and voided his right to call himself a vet.

Posted by: Joaquin | April 14, 2011, 8:43 am 8:43 am

To BeeBee; “when has Obama ever had a grip on reality”?

Posted by: James Long | April 14, 2011, 8:47 am 8:47 am

We should outlaw democrats and republicans. Both parties are too full of hubris to accomplish anything of value to anybody except themselves. Consiliance by E.O. Wilson delves into the evolutionary neurological basis of our culture…we need to fully understand and appreciate this before we can move forward socially in a positive manner. We simply don’t fully understand the nature of ourselves and culture or refuse to understand it. Tillman did understand the nature of ourselves as he understood the evolutionary perspective of life. Unfortunately for Pat, he didn’t know this:
dolce et decourm est
pro patri mori
I’m deeply sorry we lost a great man in Pat.

Posted by: skier_rick | April 14, 2011, 8:47 am 8:47 am

I have completly lost faith in our presidents judgement. I am tired of trying to stick up for him. Enough.

Posted by: billy bob | April 14, 2011, 8:53 am 8:53 am

Just keep telling yourselves that in less than two years we can have a real leader in the white house and rid ourselves of that fool we elected.

Posted by: kate | April 14, 2011, 8:54 am 8:54 am

Amazing, Senior Leadership removed from his duties for his lack of following what we all swear or affirm to “To follow and obey the oders of those appointed over me and the President of the United States”. Also involved in the cover up of the death(s) who so freely serve out country. Now he is rewarded with this appointment? Just blows my mind, after serving myself for 24 1/2 years and proud of all that I accomplished, seems the military aand Government need to look closer in to those who lead our forces, stop automatic promotions due to the need of meeting ones annual FITREP and base it solely on merit, honor and commitment of their service.

Posted by: Sailor | April 14, 2011, 8:56 am 8:56 am

agreed. where’s the integrity?

Posted by: Vann | April 14, 2011, 8:58 am 8:58 am

I agree with Mrs. Tillman.

Posted by: Dee | April 14, 2011, 9:00 am 9:00 am

I agree with Mrs. Tillman. Unfortunately, this will fall on deaf ears.

Posted by: Kathy | April 14, 2011, 9:01 am 9:01 am

The simple truth is that the vast majority of American loses in battle since Vietnam are due to friendly fire. The sad truth is that the closing of the Joint Forces Command will only add to these losses. That does not mean it was intentional or that the corporal was any less heroic. His military leaders would rather have honored him and let his family mourn his loss than force them to learn the harshness of combat. The point is while my heart goes out to Mary Tillman, she is not a prominent military family. I’ve served under McChrystal he is an amazing leader who got on the ground with his troops. Who never asked anyone to go where he wouldnt go or do what he wouldn’t do. If you’ve never served in combat you are not a peer to these people and have no place to judge, sorry but you don’t. Join up, serve, then join the conversation as an informed individual.

Posted by: Kevin | April 14, 2011, 9:01 am 9:01 am

Tillman was killed by a group of army snipers who had no business being in that area except to kill Tillman. Tillman was targeted for his associations with Noam Chomsky and others, and it was clear he would eventually go public with his knowledge of the war’s hipocrisy. Snipers said they couldn’t tell he was a US soldier, yet hit him 3 times in the forehead with 5.56s. How do you see clearly enough to shoot him that accurately, yet be unable to tell he’s a US soldier?

Posted by: Rambo | April 14, 2011, 9:10 am 9:10 am

When are the polititians going to learn
I voted for Obama and I am sorry.

Posted by: Rich | April 14, 2011, 9:10 am 9:10 am

Three rounds in the forehead within the circumference of a fifty-cent piece isn’t a “friendly fire tragedy,” it’s an assassination for which Stanley McChrystal got his second star nine days later from a 9/11-committing, draft-dodging closet-queen (James Guckert/Jeff Gannon) who’d been cheated into the White House by only the Roman Catholic bloc on the SCOTUS…the same Fifth Column bloc which opened fascism’s American endgame in ‘Citizens United.’
This is the Holocaust-financing sectarian faction, identified by Our Founder, Th. Jefferson, as “the real Anti-Christ,” which is promoting and protecting illegal immigration as an organized invasion for conquest of Our New Secular Order, which displaced caesaropapism’s king and pope – The Ancien Regime, openly published as “The National Pastoral Plan for Hispanic Ministry.”
Democrats better stop letting America be “gaslighted.”
Are Egyptians better Americans than we are?
Death for Treason
Annuit Coeptis

Posted by: Will Jones | April 14, 2011, 9:11 am 9:11 am

The problem isn’t friendly fire deaths-they have happened since the beginning of warfare-tragic but unavoidable.The problem is that senior commanders lied about the Tillman death and gravely damaged the reputation of the service, McChrystal was one of the senior commanders responsible for the lies-there was no excuse, Compounding that was his galactically stupid comments to a reporter insulting his superiors in the chain of command.Why didn’t anybody in the White House see this coming? Is it because McChrystal is a Democrat?

Posted by: Nephron | April 14, 2011, 9:12 am 9:12 am

If Mary Tillman doesn’t want McChrystal in that White House post, then in this instance, that’s enough of a reason to remove him.
Try listening to the people you work for President Obama.

Posted by: Noz | April 14, 2011, 9:12 am 9:12 am

Why can’ we reconcile the two issues here that a hero was lost and the response was inadequate, political appearing in scope. Perhaps it’s because the broader issue of the people living on with these issues, Pat Tilliman’s mom and Laura Bush and the rest of us so far are left without a real choice that represents acknowledgement of my persuasion. National politics requires a stamina and drive that is sorely lacking from current components. And, I raise my hand.
Mary Lou Brandes
Savannah

Posted by: Beckham | April 14, 2011, 9:14 am 9:14 am

This happened under Obama! Oh wait a minute it was 2004…who was the president then?

Posted by: Barb | April 14, 2011, 9:18 am 9:18 am

No Seriously…if you’re not going to vote for Obama, who WILL you vote for? Trump? Palin (if she runs)? Bachmann? LOL

Posted by: Che Forever | April 14, 2011, 9:20 am 9:20 am

Just in case anyone was wondering, Rambo is an idiot!

Posted by: PauletteB | April 14, 2011, 9:24 am 9:24 am

Hey
This Tillman dude stood up in front of a 50 cal machine gun. What do you think would happen? This may be a Darwin moment. Because he was rich should this change anything??
I guess the mother may think it will make her feel better. Trying to punish someone else for Tillman’s stupidity doesn’t make sense.

Posted by: TeXan | April 14, 2011, 9:25 am 9:25 am

You really have to question Obama’s judgement. Wasnt McCrystal the same guy who bashed Obama and Biden in the Rolling Stones interview??? Why would you appoint him to this??? What was Obama thinking???

Posted by: billy bob | April 14, 2011, 9:27 am 9:27 am

Rambo has it right! If you haven’t been there, don’t criticize something you know nothing about.

Posted by: John M | April 14, 2011, 9:28 am 9:28 am

All of this is because most people going into the military have no integrity. Tillman did and they didn’t like it. The rest of his squad learned the drill Tillman would not… that it is more important to play ball than it is to have integrity.
God Bless you Tillman, and may you rest in peace.

Posted by: Mark | April 14, 2011, 9:38 am 9:38 am

Well, firs Obama had no choice but to fire him.
Second, in war there is enemy fire and friendly fire – both are able to kill, sometimes accidents happen and soldiers get killed. Avoid hysterics: In a war, you pretend to think there are heroes (and like) to encourage people to continue the mission but actually war is a loser’s business. You have to give the enemy a chance to withdraw and accept bad decisions to get peace, otherwise you will spend your rest of life fighting a war that is not possible to win. There is no such thing called ultimate victory.
People are so primitive they get blind. They don’ think they just want revenge and that is a bad attitude even in a war.

Posted by: Oaktree | April 14, 2011, 9:40 am 9:40 am

Tillman wasn’t killed by “friendly fire”, he was assassinated to preempt him from returning to the US during a highly-contested election cycle and campaignging against George Bush. He was killed because he was an outspoken opponent of the illegal Iraq invasion and the political hacks in the GWB administration could not have trashed his image in the media, nor could they have prevented him from receiving tons of media coverage.
They propagandized him when he joined the Army and Rumsfeld specifically said they should “keep an eye” on him. This wasn’t any sort of paternal concern on Rumsfelds part; he knew Tillman had become a household name and that he truly represented everything American’s claim to be about: truth, honor, integrity, self-sacrifice, and independence.
Three .223 rounds to the forehead within a 2″ diameter from less than 30 feet is not “friendly fire”; it’s murder.
MyChrystal and all the right-wing bible thumping whack jobs he oversaw ran an operation to kill Tillman. From start to finish everything was planned; from the splitting of the convoy to luring him into their field of fire. Zero enemy shell casings or bullet holes found in any US equipment or anywhere near the scene, and you know any Taliban wouldn’t be policing their brass.
They burned his uniform, stole his journal, hid the truth from his brother and any non-loyalists in the unit, and moved forward with their pre-planned coverup.
In short, the media’s biggest failure in the Tillman case was assuming the coverup began AFTER his death, when in reality it began as soon as they decided it would be easier to deal with a dead Pat Tillman than a live one.
McChrystal is a murderer and a traitor.

Posted by: Jamie Kelley | April 14, 2011, 9:41 am 9:41 am

We want a people person in this position, a man who looks out for th troops not a pr man

Posted by: Carlos | April 14, 2011, 9:50 am 9:50 am

Friendly fire deaths happen in every war. That is the nature of war. While the truth should not have been concealed, the desire to punish someone for a family loss, is not a good reason to be opposed to the appointment.
He was punished enough, by Obama, albeit for his public honesty about some things, other than friendly fire deaths.

Posted by: Rick McDaniel | April 14, 2011, 9:53 am 9:53 am

I understand this woman’s frustration but she doesn’t have the right to call our Prez foolish because he didn’t do what *she* wanted him to do! Every day of the week someone has a different personal agenda that they want Obama to cater to. He is the President of THESE United States; not any 1 individual. I’m sorry for what she went through by losing her son tragically but how about blaming the idiots who mistakenly shot and killed him?/ And while I definitely am not a fan of Gen McCrystal, he obviously has great knowledge of the military because he was in it and of it for so long. Obama 2012!!

Posted by: Vee | April 14, 2011, 9:54 am 9:54 am

I resent your comment, Oaktree. I can’t think of anyone who could have more integrity than my Army husband who served his country for twenty one years and our Army son who is now serving. Also my father in law, (Air Force), brother-in-law and uncle (Navy) and too many Army friends to mention. Oh and I almost forgot the six young men from Prince William County in Virginia alone who have given their lives in service to their country. Perhaps you should take a moment and look up the word integrity.

Posted by: Sharon Willis | April 14, 2011, 9:59 am 9:59 am

-Three .223 rounds to the forehead within a 2″ diameter from less than 30 feet is not “friendly fire”; it’s murder.-
That can happen at 30 yards. You’d be surprised how close of a cluster 3 round bursts can be. And if you’ve ever been in combat, you should see the number of mistakes that can (and do) get people killed.

Posted by: Stoner | April 14, 2011, 10:02 am 10:02 am

WELL, I BELEIVE THERE IS “STILL” PLENTY OF “ALL OF THIS HAS/STILL “GOES ON” NO MATTER “WHO’S “IN “CHARGE”

Posted by: GARY WAYNE TILSON | April 14, 2011, 10:03 am 10:03 am

It’s just pay off time. That’s how they do things. He’s been kicking around for a while, give him this. Nothing is for real in this world. Steal, lie, pay off. Good people don’t have a chance. There’s no one to save us.

Posted by: frik4frak | April 14, 2011, 10:03 am 10:03 am

This Woman has EVERY RIGHT to slam Obama.
Especially while his wife is having baby showers for Military wives.
To appoint a man that tried to cover up a Soldiers death is nothing short of Treason.
To cover up a man’s death that sacraficed himself to defend his country is nothing more than Corruption and blatant disrepect for every service member.
The man should have been courtmarsheld and put in Prison. It is a disgrace.
It shows a clear picture of what this President ( Barry Sortoro ) considers important.
He will appoint anyone who has done corrupt things.
Much like hiring the CEO of GE to create Jobs while Outsourcing tens of Thousands.
These people are complet corrupt liying Scumbags.
Viva La Revolution 2011

Posted by: Jmes | April 14, 2011, 10:06 am 10:06 am

What kind of oath did you swear to Vann? Members of the Armed forces are only to take an oath to defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic. You’re not supposed to swear to obey the President. You may get court martialed for refusing an order, but you have every right at any time to tell the President to take a hike. Since when did they change the oath? “what we all swear or affirm to “To follow and obey the oders of those appointed over me and the President of the United States”.

Posted by: Jim French | April 14, 2011, 10:07 am 10:07 am

“I understand this woman’s frustration but she doesn’t have the right to call our Prez foolish because he didn’t do what *she* wanted him to do!” – Vee
Of course she does.
President Obama works for her and all of us, we are his boss.
Besides that, the President is acting foolishly in this matter so Mary Tillman speaks the truth. That trumps your petty concern about what someone calls our President.

Posted by: Noz | April 14, 2011, 10:07 am 10:07 am

-Three .223 rounds to the forehead within a 2″ diameter from less than 30 feet is not “friendly fire”; it’s murder.-
That can happen at 30 yards. You’d be surprised how close of a cluster 3 round bursts can be. And if you’ve ever been in combat, you should see the number of mistakes that can (and do) get people killed.
Posted by: Stoner | Apr 14, 2011 10:02:15 AM
I agree with this post. How McCrystal and others handeled it’s aftermath is a different story.

Posted by: billy bob | April 14, 2011, 10:08 am 10:08 am

“I voted for Obama and I am sorry.” – Rich
You are forgiven.
Now go forward and make sure you don’t make the same mistake twice.

Posted by: Noz | April 14, 2011, 10:09 am 10:09 am

I love how people who have no knowledge of the facts blame the family and the victim Pat Tillman. He was a well trained ranger. He sent out a smoke bomb signal and the shooting stopped. It was fairly close range and he rose when he thought it was safe and the trigger happy. itching for action crew in one vehicle were the problem. By the way the nearly shot up up of the adjacent vehicles too. It is not credible that McChrystal did not closely read the SS citation. Pat was a most famous soldier at a critical time of war scandals. I am the mother of an active duty Marine in A-stan. I want the truth from the government and military. It is a blow to me that McChrystal is named for this post in some kind of effort to rehab his reputation to represent us!?!

Posted by: Jan Moyewe | April 14, 2011, 10:10 am 10:10 am

Obama never had much of a job much less military experience. He needs to go big time !

Posted by: john J Foote | April 14, 2011, 10:11 am 10:11 am

I understand this woman’s frustration but she doesn’t have the right to call our Prez foolish because he didn’t do what *she* wanted him to do! Let me do it then–Obama is foolish, Obama is foolish.

Posted by: billy bob | April 14, 2011, 10:12 am 10:12 am

We sure lack in proper leadership in America you can’t believe anything that comes out of Washington anymore. To show how dumb our politicians think we are our President appoints the least deserving General to a post he has already proved not worthy of hoping no one will notice.

Posted by: Bill | April 14, 2011, 10:14 am 10:14 am

Seriously, I am tired of hearing from the Tillman’s on this. Guess what? They arent the only family to lose a member from combat or friendly fire. And Pat Tillman is NO MORE IMPORTANT than all the other guys over there defending our country and dying every day doing it!! I wish they would quit their whining, cause it’s starting to sound like someone who has always had their way in life all of a sudden had something go wrong.
Does it really make a difference if it was the enemy or friendly fire. Friendly fire happens in war. Yes it is tragic, but its not murder. And Pat Tillman is not the only guy it has happened to. I think we get the idea by now that the army should not lie about it, and should tell families even when it is friendly fire. Can we move on now?? Or is there another monument the Tillmans want built in his memory , or money, or??

Posted by: Dude | April 14, 2011, 10:16 am 10:16 am

My Son is Fallen Hero Aaron M Kenefick, USMC, KIA Sept 8th, 2009, Kunar Province Afghanistan…aka “THE GANJGAL AMBUSH”.
General Stanley McChrystal was the leader in charge in Afghanistan when my Marine son and his Embedded Training Team along with some Afghan Army were left on the front lines fighting 100-150 Taliban and enemy forces, calling for 2 hours for Air & Artillery support that never came until it was to late. This like the Tillman case is another high profile case that is needing to be resolved as the officers that were put in charge of communications this day were absent from their post. Yes 3 officers were negligent and in deriliction of their duties claiming a call came from higher up the command not to answer the calls for help…General McChrystal, we the families of the fallen will “NOT ALLOW” you to “De Americanize” us any longer, especially on our own soil. Mr President, please rethink the tragedy you are futher incurring the families by trying to put a bandaid on the cancer that was spread.

Posted by: Susan L Price | April 14, 2011, 10:16 am 10:16 am

This appointment like many others the President has made has been poorly thought out. Obviously his advisors are not on his side. This country is in serious trouble because of the amount of authority the government has acquired. The voice of the people has been drowned out by money and power. Even though it is time consuming everyone who is voicing unrest over this matter needs to let their senators and congressmen know. Remember there is wickedness in high places. If there was ever a time that this was painfully evident, it is now. My prayers are with you Mrs. Tillman. This is a shame and not one head rolled as a result except for your son’s.

Posted by: Peggy | April 14, 2011, 10:16 am 10:16 am

For Oaktree. Your comments are extremely outrageous and totally uncalled for. Obviously you have never served in the military. To say that most people going into the military have no integrity is downright insulting, especially to a vet. Your idiocy is the same idiocy that says “most blacks are criminals.” Most blacks are decent honorable men and women trying to make a living like everyone else. How about “most muslims are terrorists?” It is only the small minority that make the headlines that garner national attention that you are basing your ignorant comments on. They are stupid generalities just like your slap in the face to every man and woman serving in the military protecting your right to publish your stupidity.

Posted by: Marshall | April 14, 2011, 10:19 am 10:19 am

I THINK THE PRES. IS WRONG TO APPOINT MCCRYSTAL TO ANYTHING, NOT ONLY BECAUSE OF THE TILLMAN COVER-UP, BUT ALSO BECAUSE OF THE DISRESPECT MCCRYSTAL HAS SHOWN TOWARD THE PRES.

Posted by: CAROLE | April 14, 2011, 10:26 am 10:26 am

I agree with Mrs. Tillman. McChrystal should not have been appointed to this Commission. This was a very serious cover up and totally disrespectful of all people who serve. Plus, does anyone believe that this is the only lie that McChrystal has made?

Posted by: dlaurels | April 14, 2011, 10:28 am 10:28 am

I’m not from the most prominent military family in the United States, but I explicitly wrote that for the Commander-In-Chief to offend our active duty soldiers by bringing General McCrystal into his administration in a formidable duty after he demonstrated direct insubordination to that president, is wrong.
The Commander-In-Chief AND General McCrystal send an unlawful and mixed message to our active duty service members that it is appropriate to deny orders and still gain with that CO.
The United States is run by incompetent persons so far as the military is concerned.
Do what you will – but I called it.
Our youth deserve a higher standard than what is currently being offered to them, including our young military members.
How offensive to each of them.
And if I were ANY of them, I would lay down my weapon and walk away. This is truly insulting on top of threatening to deny pay.
Unbelievably shocking. I am so very sorry to our troops that your nation is treating you this way. How terribly rude and inappropriate.

Posted by: American Citizen | April 14, 2011, 10:29 am 10:29 am

I also have to agree with Mrs Tillman . This is the wrong post for McCrystal.

Posted by: isobel | April 14, 2011, 10:29 am 10:29 am

This story is NOT about a mother’s anguish over the murder of her son. It is about the cover-ups and lies that were told to prevent the public from the truth. Bush wanted to herald Tillman publicly as a hero so that he could justify the wars he created and assure that others would follow the example of Tillman by joining the military. The fact that Tillman was a pro football player that chose to give up his career to serve his country was a great charmer for Bush and the media to innundate us all with. The truth is…Tillman was deceived, (as many people were), into believing that this country needed to go to war. The reality is…we should’ve NEVER invaded Iraq or involved ourselves in the politics of another country without justifiable cause. There was none. The War in Iraq was based on lies. Going into Afghanistan was just another ploy for the US to gain control of the border of an oil rich country. The purposeful cover-up of the truth is something politicians do daily to gain support for things that would NOT be in public favor. The whole basis for the War in Iraq, the War in Afghanistan, the turmoils in Egypt, and the issues in Libya are ALL lies that this government created to allow the oil companies to gain more control over oil rich lands.

Posted by: Inkling | April 14, 2011, 10:31 am 10:31 am

As a 22 year Army Spouse who endured the countless deployments of my late husband SFC Kenneth Westbrook to many lands across this world, I know first hand the hardship and courage it takes to be a first rate patriotic military family. I also know the sacrifice and honorable commitment that goes along with being a military family in waiting… waiting for a loved one to return from yet another combat tour. This was not meant to be for our family… on October 7, 2009 my husband a 22 year Army Infantry NCO with many years of combat experience did not survive the wounds he received while involved in an ambush on September 8, 2009 in the Ganjgal Valley of Afghanistan that killed 4 US Service Members; Marine Gunnery SGT’s Edwin Johnson and Aaron Kenefick, 1st Lieutenant Michael Johnson and Navy Corpsman 3rd Class James Layton. Many patriotic families were affected that very sad day. These brave men along with my husband who gave the ultimate sacrifice died under the watch and rules of General McChrystal who issued the ROE restrictions on the use of military force to reduce the risk of further alienating the population. “Tying our Warfighter’s hands behind their backs is past unsatisfactory…it’s criminal!” [Colonel Wayne Morris, USMC (Ret)]. McChrystal had countless brave men and women sacrifice their very safety under HIS VERY watch. My husband and the brave men who unnecessarily died that day died due to McChrystal’s ROE. They helplessly called for help and were denied by top echelons as they bravely fought for their lives against 120-150 insurgents. Ken and the brave men were left and abandoned to die under McChrystal’s command while three US Army officers were held accountable for their deaths. Now appointing him to an advisory board to “help” military families has and will only add salt to an unbearable wound that HE has caused! I am appalled that the Obama’s have the gall to appoint this cowardly man to spit into the faces of our Fallen Service Members who gave the ultimate sacrifice all while claiming to “help” military families. Where is the shame and outcry of this atrocity! Does he think this will help him sleep at night? Shame on the Obama’s! REMOVE McChrystal from this newly appointed position, he has CLEARLY caused many military families across this Great Nation much unbearable pain to include myself and our three sons.

Posted by: char west | April 14, 2011, 10:31 am 10:31 am

So what we have here folks is a cover up intentional or not. The facts are to heavy to say it is not. Do your research and you will see how our beautiful intellegent goverment continues to hide the truth and cover up thier mistakes. Then they try to put blame on the people thier cover up hurt. This is something that has taken many years to perfect and they still suck at it. Personally speaking I don’t think the president is doing a good job. But I also don’t think he is totally to blame here. The goverment owns everyone even the president. The president just plays the roll of leader, but behind the scenes I am sure that story changes. I think that much like many other nations at some point we will all be fighting for our rights. Not that fighting is the ultimate answer, but when you see no change you wonder if it will ever come. The Tillmans like many other amazing soilder families want nothing more then what we all want and that is the truth and they surely deserve it!

Posted by: Truth | April 14, 2011, 10:33 am 10:33 am

This is Obama. This decision was handled like every other decision made so far in his presidency: without any forethought whatsoever.
He was trying to force through a fast track process for off-shore drilling permits just before the Gulf disaster. Remember that? Around the same time, he was also making an effort to fast track nuclear power plants. Yeah, one thing we certainly need in America is rapidly built, substandard quality nuclear power plants all over the place.
He is poor quality leader. The novelty of having a black president will only carry someone so far. But if you idiots vote him in again, you truly deserve each other.

Posted by: Hosfac | April 14, 2011, 10:38 am 10:38 am

Just one more example of the arrogance our our “Commander in Chief.” He knows things that the “average” Joe doesn’t and he’s always right. OMG!

Posted by: Bob | April 14, 2011, 10:38 am 10:38 am

Wake up America West Point Academy Ring Knockers always protect and cover up for each other. They are taught to be the Elitist and above the GRUNTS that do the dirty work. Don’t believe me, then you must not have been around for the Vietnam Wart!

Posted by: Hank | April 14, 2011, 10:41 am 10:41 am

To Susan B….. Obviously your live up to your name. While I was angry at Mc. Crystal and I understand the family’s unhappiness with this….we need to step back and understand that Michelle recognized that he made a big mistake…he served well for many years and she is a forgiving person. I think bringing him into this position shows her kindness and understanding and he did not cover this up alone….there were other military involved but he took the hit. He was wrong but Ithink he deserves another chance to redeem himself. Sometimes we tend to forget the word “forgiveness” in our lives. Bitterness never solves anything but only leads to more bitterness and un-happiness, Everyone deserves a chance to redeem himself even Mc Crystal.

Posted by: talmag | April 14, 2011, 10:43 am 10:43 am

To those Americans who blindly post comments about following your Commander in Chief no matter what, do your research on the entire Pat Tillman situation from both Military reports as well as family and civilian sources and you will see that this appointment by Obama is nothing but a true lack of judgement without ever reviewing all facts on the matter. This man could never be sensitive to military families since he failed to tell the truth and hid the evidence about Pat Tillman’s death to glorify the Military’s PR in the fight in Afganistan. How many other service people under his watch will be thrown under the proverbial bus for the good of the Military movement. Obviously our current President is acting just like the previous residents of the White House in that its business as usual with the Military even though he ran under the theme of change. Well Barack, you are not being part of the change, you are still part of the government/military machine that drones on and on without any repercussions in your actions or decisions. Shame on you and if Pat Tillman were alive today, he sure wouldn’t be visiting the White House soon.

Posted by: Jeffrey B | April 14, 2011, 10:45 am 10:45 am

Since when do our snipers use the 5.56? I was under the impression that they don’t.
I thought snipers use the .308 and the .50

Posted by: kate | April 14, 2011, 10:47 am 10:47 am

Jamie Kelly, with the evidence available, I think it’s plausible that information related to Tillman’s death may have been withheld or manipulated somewhat, so as not to create a media circus out of it and hurt the overall war effort there and war on terror. Although, when dealing with such an unreasonable, anti-war, anti-defense, anti-Republican left-wing, that’s nearly impossible, as is evident to this day. In any case, I don’t think evidence supports a conspiracy to kill Pat Tillman.
If there was any intentional manipulation of information not related to national security, that would be unacceptable. While there have been suspicious and inconsistent information related to this situation, no one, including McChrystal has been found guilty of wrong-doing. Having said all of that, given McChrystal’s past with the Tillman case as well as Obama’s own displeasure with him, he does seem a bit of an odd choice for this post.

Posted by: Anonymous | April 14, 2011, 10:47 am 10:47 am

Inkling, this story was NOT about whether we should be in Iraq or not either. You are obviously opinionated about it, as many people are. This article is about whether or not this man should be trusted with military familial relations, which, based on the story and comments of how other families have been affected by his actions, he should not. I hope Obama makes this right. It is a slap in the face. Thank you to alll the military members and their families for the sacrifices they make every day.

Posted by: Susan | April 14, 2011, 10:49 am 10:49 am

OBAMA IS NOT MY PRESIDENT. MAYBE THE GOVERNMENT CAN GET AWAY WITH ROE WITH USA LE AGENCIES BUT THEY SURE THE HELL SHOULD NOT EMPLOY THAT PC BS IN A WAR ZONE. THE END RESULT IS PEOPLE DIE NEEDLESSLY FOR THE SAKE OF DIRTBAGS. WAKE UP AMERICA AND LEFTISTS

Posted by: APACHE | April 14, 2011, 10:50 am 10:50 am

DUDE, where’s your brain? Your post obviously shows that it has been MIA for quite some time, (IF you have ever had one at all).

Posted by: Inkling | April 14, 2011, 10:50 am 10:50 am

With all due respect, even with what happened to her son, she does not have any special input or power within her. She is able to express her opinion like anyone else but that is it.

Posted by: Thomas | April 14, 2011, 10:50 am 10:50 am

Fact is that Pat Tillman was oppossed to the American involvement in Iraq and he said he was going to speak out against it when his tour ws over as was he right as an American. He had to be silenced at all costs. You can not mistake a 6 foot 3 American for an Afgan at 50 meters,

Posted by: Joe | April 14, 2011, 10:52 am 10:52 am

They must teach the same ethics classes at the Academy that they teach in Law School!

Posted by: James | April 14, 2011, 10:56 am 10:56 am

I want to know WHO killed Tillman. There should’ve been a thorough investigation done years ago, and the person that murdered him should’ve been court-martialed. Tillman’s family deserves justice as well as all families that have lost someone due to “friendly fire”.

Posted by: Inkling | April 14, 2011, 10:56 am 10:56 am

I am not a sore looser but, I do know historically of what might have been. Vice President and presidential candidate Albert Gore ran on A BALANCED BUDGET, GREEN JOBS AND MAINTAINING OUR INFRASTRUCTURE. All spiteful neo con, ultra con, newly tea party hosteses and all republicans which created, supported and allowed the 2000 PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION STOLEN IN JEB BUSH COUNTRY. Honorable Tilman as well as thousands of soldiers, families and monies could have been saved. And it is not no where near over.

Posted by: HorseMan | April 14, 2011, 10:57 am 10:57 am

First off when will people recognize that although he is president and former presidents do not make decisions on their own . They have people around them to help them make decisions . In my opinion where is President Obama to blame for this . I we blame him for everything will let me take that back racist, delusional americans will blame for a green light turning red .. its crazy it takes more than 4 years to get things going

Posted by: ashleywatson | April 14, 2011, 10:58 am 10:58 am

“If you’ve never served in combat you are not a peer to these people and have no place to judge, sorry but you don’t. Join up, serve, then join the conversation as an informed individual.”
Uh Kevin….many of us join the conversation as families of military members who DO have a concern with this issue since he is going to be involved in FAMILY relations. If a family wants to know what happend to their son, they have a right to know. Why should McChrystal be the one to decide whether or not the family can handle the truth or not? Yes, sometimes the truth can be hard, but friendly fire or not, let the family be the ones to decide if they want to hear the facts, not the facts as you want them to hear them.

Posted by: Susan | April 14, 2011, 10:59 am 10:59 am

Yet another attempt to blame Obama for a Bush issue, snore, what’s new with that? The General passed it up to the Prez and the Bush administration squashed it.
I have a bridge to sell you if you think this wasn’t done by every single upper level general in the service. Some of it gets out, like My Lai in Viet Nam, but most of it we never hear about.

Posted by: threefromil9500 | April 14, 2011, 10:59 am 10:59 am

My heart goes out to the Tillman family. They lost their son. That is the ultimate price to pay. My god bring them some peace. Not many like this Pres But even when a new one is elected they won’t like him either. You can’t win them all.

Posted by: KC | April 14, 2011, 11:00 am 11:00 am

im sorry but you are not patriotic if you fight in wars for money for rich people.And that’s what the wars in afghanistan, and iraq, and pakistan, and now libya are about..you would be patriotic if you spoke out against these wars that would have our founders rolling in their graves..apparently Pat Tillman was going to do this and got killed for it..

Posted by: joel weiss | April 14, 2011, 11:01 am 11:01 am

This whole mess in Afghanistan will bring down the American way of life if we let it. This is not a country as we know countries. The borders do not exist to the Clans who inhabit this region. The ties between the Clans in this area in in our heads not theirs. There is tribal patriotism but not national patriotism. It is unconquerable as it does not exist as a whole unit. It can be only occupied at great cost and little benefit.
Our enemies that are there are only there because we are there, this is where we want to fight them I guess. They started out in Saudi Arabia and organized the 9/11 attacks from there. We have fought them in 4 or five other middle east countries since then. We will not win in Afghanistan as our enemies are not Afghan.

Posted by: Richard | April 14, 2011, 11:02 am 11:02 am

Is he being paid? I feel this is an important question. My guess would be that he is going to be paid a ridiculous sum of money for his efforts. I might be wrong but it would be interesting to know.

Posted by: Mike | April 14, 2011, 11:02 am 11:02 am

From the Yahoo article:
““I was actually pretty shocked to hear it; I don’t think it’s the appropriate choice,” Tillman told ABC News. “Considering that we have plenty of evidence indicating that McChrystal was involved in the cover-up of Pat’s death…he’s not the right person for that kind of a job.”
I have seen no evidence — documents or insider testimony — that McChrystal covered up the circumstances of Tillman’s death. Neither could the Army.
In fact, he reported the “friendly fire” information accurately to his superiors.

Posted by: johnb | April 14, 2011, 11:03 am 11:03 am

Thank you for the info Rich, I have been trying to put your thoughts together and understand truth of the matter.

Posted by: HorseMan | April 14, 2011, 11:03 am 11:03 am

Just another George (cover it up) Bush in office. Thanks Obama for your transparency and dedication to end the wars!

Posted by: JAM | April 14, 2011, 11:03 am 11:03 am

What do you expect from the Community Organizer in Chief? The man has been a disaster as president. Hopefully, enough of the fools who voted for him in 2008 will regain their senses by 2012.

Posted by: george | April 14, 2011, 11:03 am 11:03 am

Some of the people responding tot his, Dude, Bill, have missed the point ~entrirely~.
This isn’t about Tillman. This is about Mcchrystal covering it up because it would make him look bad. He made huge mistakes, according to several veteran moms/wives, especially those who lost family members who were under his shoddy command due to his incompetence.
He covered itup to try and make Tillman a war hero and give himself a boost, as well as the military overall, and used the Tillman incident as an excuse to go to war. That’s what this is about.
Lies and deceit.
If you can’t see that, then I dunno what to tell you except, “hushup yo moouuuth”

Posted by: William | April 14, 2011, 11:04 am 11:04 am

General McChrystal is a product of the mendacity of the first decade of this century. We are only surprised because
of the sand we cough up when our hindside invaded.

Posted by: Paul Flaherty | April 14, 2011, 11:05 am 11:05 am

Do any of you doubt this ladys committment to her son and the cause of his death? Do you think for even a second that she isn’t aware of the circumstances involved and the history of the attempted distortion, cover-up and out right lies associated with Pats death? I have 100 times more confidence in her than I will ever have in MacChrystal regarding this matter. You can rant and rave all you want about you think the military code is…. It’s MEANINGLESS… when you lie about one of your own and cover up incompetency and malfeasance you dishonor our troops and our nation.

Posted by: Bob | April 14, 2011, 11:08 am 11:08 am

I do not feel good about this man having been assigned this position in lieu of what happended.

Posted by: Annette | April 14, 2011, 11:11 am 11:11 am

As usual, another obama suck up, mcchrystal will say anything to make himself look like an angel. He needs to be replaced or FIRED.

Posted by: Donald Anderson | April 14, 2011, 11:14 am 11:14 am

TO ANONYMOUS–OF COURSE they didn’t find MCChrystal guilty of any wrong-doing. that’s how it works here. Whether Tilman’s assassination was a conspiracy (I use that word because THAT is what is was), really isn’t the issue-THE ISSUE IS THE COVER-UP. They covered it up from the beginning that it was friendly fire, when they KNEW from the beginning that it WAS Friendly fire. I don’t know if you’re a mother, or if you have a son.But if that was MY SON I’d be pounding the pavement with MCChrystals’s (anda few others)…HEADS. Tilman’s “comrades” didn’t like him,at best they were extrememly jealous of him and the nototriety he got for his willingness to SERVE his country giving up his athletic career. SHAME On his platoon, and SHAME on our MILITARY BRASS for this whole piece of crap! I’m sure this isn’t the first time this has happened, but hopefully it will be the last.AND NO~~~ OBAMA doesn’t have my vote for 2012.SHAME On ME for giving him a chance in 2008!

Posted by: mominmaui | April 14, 2011, 11:16 am 11:16 am

I agree with the Tillman’s in every respect. It’s disgusting to think this man would be put into such a sensitive position after his actions and inaction relating to Pat Tillman’s death.
People here to criticize the Tillman family have either not researched the situation and circumstances of the massive cover up or are just plain dense.

Posted by: Dalton | April 14, 2011, 11:16 am 11:16 am

I don’t understand why everyone is so shocked by the choices the President has made. He hasn’t made a good choice since he was elected as President of The United States of America. I didn’t vote for him then and feel that some who did are now asking themselves just why they did.
Hurry up 2012 so we can get a real President in The Whitehouse. We need someone who is capable of bringing the glory back to this country once and for all!!

Posted by: Brooke | April 14, 2011, 11:19 am 11:19 am

The appointment of McChrystal to be a part of an advisory committee for military families is beyond belief.As a leader he failed to do the right thing about the cover up of Pat Tillman’s death. Our nations leaders continue to show a disregard to military families.Half of one percent of Americans have served in the Iraq and Afghanistan wars.There is no shared national sacrifice, and “truth” was a casualty of these wars a long time ago.

Posted by: Joan Najbar | April 14, 2011, 11:20 am 11:20 am

-Fact is that Pat Tillman was oppossed to the American involvement in Iraq and he said he was going to speak out against it when his tour ws over as was he right as an American. He had to be silenced at all costs. You can not mistake a 6 foot 3 American for an Afgan at 50 meters-
Yes you can. You can also mistake an American soldier for a SS officer, an Imperial Japanese soldier, a North Korean, a VC guerilla and an Iraqi soldier. These mistakes were made more than once (and the other guys mistook their own people for a GI, a Tommy or ARVN, etc…) You can shoot at someone 30 feet away at miss by a mile. Conversly, you can take a shot at someone 300 yards distant and hit them. Then of course there’s your vehicles that get blown to pieces by your aircraft…

Posted by: Stoner | April 14, 2011, 11:21 am 11:21 am

In response to Jamie Kelley: People like you, ones that generalize and put everyone with certain beliefs into one pot, Ones that are absolutely certain of facts even if they have to make them up; that know, beyond a shadow of a doubt that they are right and everyone else is wrong, are more dangerous that all the other crackpots put together. I am a “Bible thumper” but I don’t agree with a lot that has happened in our country, with our military as well as with bills and laws that have been passed. I don’t, however, lump everyone that believes other than I do into one convenient group that I can hate and blame for everything. My advise to you is to grow up and realize that being a Christian does not make one an idiot nor a war-monger. I really do feel sorry for you.

Posted by: Allan Blizzard | April 14, 2011, 11:22 am 11:22 am

The choice that was made to cover up it has been made many times before, it is done for the reason that it is believed that reviling the death of a well know person by friendly fire would both hurt mural of the others troops and even do harm to the family. Look at the example of Stonewall Jackson during the civil war HE ordered that the evidence that HE was shot by friendly fire be withheld for those very reasons. I see no reason why the General would not be appointed to the commission.

Posted by: colin | April 14, 2011, 11:23 am 11:23 am

I have a more general comment about this …. did anyone think that there was something wrong grammatically with: “I’ve come to learn through this journey that there are many other families that have been lied to by the military about their sons and daughters,’” she says, “and so we feel that what happen to Pat is pertains to other people, not just us. I think it’s a slap in the face to all soldiers to appoint this man, to be on this committee.” ????
I bring this up because I see more and more errors of this sort in online content. I know that in the whole scheme of things especially in regards to the subject, but it just irks me.

Posted by: BOB F | April 14, 2011, 11:25 am 11:25 am

FOr those of you who say he was “honest” about what happened to this soldier, ask yourself, who was he honest TO? His superiors! Placing myself in the family’s predicament: the sacrifice both they and their son made. This is a slap in the face to their name and service! I can only imagine, however, they are not the only family this has been done to. I honestly think, if the investigation was carried out honestly and with respect, the family, being a family with dignity and a love of their country, would have accepted it eventually, although, would still feel the unimaginable pain of losing a child. Lies and cover-up are a breach of trust and dignity and show no respect to the person.Please make this general step down! I am sure there are other qualified generals who have carried out their positions more honestly.

Posted by: MM | April 14, 2011, 11:26 am 11:26 am

No matter how you look at it, President Obama does appear to be foolish in appointing General McChrystal to be the co-chairman for such a committee. Clearly, General McChrystal has demonstrated the lack of compassion and professional integrity for such official responsibility. When he and his Aide mocked the Obama administration, it was a clear sign of disrespect that was indirectly aimed at Obama. Having said this, if Obama still feels that this man can adequately represent the interests of military personnel and their families on the committee, then I must agree that Obama is not only a fool, but a two-timed fool!

Posted by: Lonewolf | April 14, 2011, 11:30 am 11:30 am

On a side note, someone here commented that President Obama had no real job prior to running for any type of office. He was a college professor, helping to shape young minds. If you call that no real job experience, again, you have no knowledge.

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 11:31 am 11:31 am

Keep talking about the Constitution and the Founding Fathers. When the Document was written in very different time with many different concerns. Again, if something doesn’t suit the Government’s purposes we can ‘highlight, delete’ or make a new amendment. Keep voting for the rich and individuals who blindly side with a particular party for finance and support. Side with the individual who are openly lobbied too by corporations. Until we abolish the electoral system, ban lobbying, and stop the establishment of political parties all you will see is the rich and greedy in office. Vote for someone because of their principles not because they are a Republican or Democrat.

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 11:31 am 11:31 am

You all say President Obama is the cause and he is not doing enough for the American people, you all want Regan back. Well do a quick study of economics and see the long term result of Reganomics. Oh wait, look around you we are seeing the full impacts of it now. We all need to look at ALL the Representatives WE choose to be the voice of the people. Individuals who refuse to work together or compromise for a greater good. No, lets just shut the Government down, and deal with the results of that later.

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 11:32 am 11:32 am

So many opinions, so much lack of knowledge or drive to learn. 90 percent of you should be ashamed of yourselves. You want to know why we cannot win a war or win in an expedient manner? Media! And, the feeling of having to over appease the American public with all their opinions. Rules of engagement to protect the people shooting at you. Everyone is so proud of WWI and WWII, as it applies to our accomplishment, well you know what. Civilians were killed then, friendly fire incidents happen then and more frequently.

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 11:32 am 11:32 am

Do you all want to blame someone for the loss of life in war? Blame Mothers of America who continually enforce their will on the military to modify training so their sons/daughters are as “comfortable” as possible and their “feelings” will be protected.

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 11:32 am 11:32 am

After reading this and reading MANY of the comments, it is clear that none of you have real military experience or an idea of what being in war is like. Yes, I am a former active duty Marine. Yes, I am a moderate liberal. The only issue where General McChrystal went wrong was speaking openly to a reporter. If any of you looked into the actual transcription of the dialog between the General and the reporter, you would see that his primary concern was for the troops under his command and did not agree with the allocation of his military-men. It is not his fault Tillman was killed or the loss of any life under his care. A General has to make choices that put lives at risk on a daily basis, who are any of you to judge something or someone when you have absolutely NO relation or understanding of the responsibility.

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 11:32 am 11:32 am

The bigger story is that Tillman was eliminated because he was vocal about his opposition to the Iraq war and expressed his intent to make his views known. It is all about messaging. Pat was becoming a problem

Posted by: GerryOregon | April 14, 2011, 11:33 am 11:33 am

Please…just give Stan McChrystal a Pentagon desk. Problem solved. After all, some say he was just a ticket puncher just like Westmoreland. He’s dead…so what was it all about?
Stan…go play golf…it’s over for you.

Posted by: 220VOLTS | April 14, 2011, 11:34 am 11:34 am

This was another disturbing lapse in judgment by the President. McChrystal was unfit for service, McChrystal should have been court-martialed and was not, McChrystal never earned the fourth star and yet was retired thanks to some mysterious Presidential largesse at a four-star rank, and now this burnt-out has-been zealot has been foisted on the very military families he betrayed in the first place. Someone needs to put a lid on this “career” officer, and I hope Pat Tillman’s Mom can do it.

Posted by: Douglas W Reynolds Jr | April 14, 2011, 11:36 am 11:36 am

MOMINMAUI: “OF COURSE they didn’t find MCChrystal guilty of any wrong-doing. that’s how it works here.”
Actually, how it works is innocent until proven guilty and no one has been proven guilty. I’m not saying corruption at the highest levels is impossible, but one can only judge things based on the evidence available. In this case, it should make those with suspicion feel better that a Democrat congress investigated a Republican administration only to find no wrong-doing.

Posted by: Anonymous | April 14, 2011, 11:39 am 11:39 am

What was President Obama thinking when he appointed McChrystal who mocked his adminstration and hide the true facts behind the death of a soldier. Mr. President, you are making a big mistake and it will cost you when we, the people, go to the poll this coming election.

Posted by: OrdinaryCitizen | April 14, 2011, 11:42 am 11:42 am

Another Autrocity to Tragedy!!!! As a Gold Star Family member, McChrystal and his Restricted Rules of Engagement was the main contributing factor in my sons death!!! War is war and loss is loss, yet stripping our men and woman of their dignity on the battlefield is another matter and thats just what happand in most cases involving General McChrystal and his ROE!!!
I am out ragged as a parent of a fallen hero for the thought of our government even thinking of putting a bandaid on the cancer that has spread….

Posted by: Susan L Price | April 14, 2011, 11:43 am 11:43 am

Mc Crystal was not the only military who covered this story up. He was wrong but he was the only one who took the hit for it. He was not responsible f0r the death but the coverup. I think Michelle is a kind hearted person who belives in forgiveness. This is a word that we often forget. I am sure over his long tour of duty…he was a good soldier and regrets his decision to cover this up. He, again, was not the only one covering it up but he is the one who should have known better and been honest but maybe he was afraid of his career. He deserves to be heard and I think given a chance to make it up by helping the military families. Everyone deserves a second chance even Mc Crystal.

Posted by: talmag | April 14, 2011, 11:54 am 11:54 am

It certainly is sad losing a son. It’s tragic to lose a child. But if Mrs Tillman is so upset with McChrystal why not sue to get to the truth. I’m not a fan of McChrystal who resigned under much scrutiny. But let’s be adults, these appointments are very political. The President accepted his resignation a year ago, you think he was his first choice to co-chair this committee? Come on, man!!

Posted by: Juaison | April 14, 2011, 12:01 pm 12:01 pm

Obama making another mistake.
The Pat Tillman affair is still an open wound to many Americans, military families or non-military….me included. I side with Pat’s family…now and always. To put a family through that ordeal was a national disgrace and the Obamas want to put McCrystal in charge of dealing with grieving families simply blows my mind.
McCrystal hasn’t a clue. He has been taught to cover his own ass and let the rest of the chips fall where they may.
Don’t let Obama do this. Fight onward, I say, fight onward.

Posted by: Gino | April 14, 2011, 12:06 pm 12:06 pm

McChrystal should be removed from his post and court-martialed for perjury, murder and war crimes.

Posted by: bobdevo | April 14, 2011, 12:40 pm 12:40 pm

The more I hear from and about the Tillman family, the more I like them. What I don’t understand is how Obama could appoint someone who publicly ridiculed him. Obama’s turn the other cheek policy is way too woosy.

Posted by: lolarites | April 14, 2011, 12:49 pm 12:49 pm

Where has our president gone. could he not handle the pressure so much that his actions always seem to be to do anything that will get republican approval…which of course he will NEVER get. Ever. Mr President, act like a President…Act like a man

Posted by: alan weiss | April 14, 2011, 12:56 pm 12:56 pm

McChrystal was essentially cashiered out of the military. (Retired by invitation.) In no way should he now have a Presidential appointment to a job in the White House.

Posted by: Tom in San Jose | April 14, 2011, 1:11 pm 1:11 pm

I am no fan of Stanley McChrystal, have criticized his so-called-leadership in the past, and I feel the Tillman family’s outrage over the cover-up. My knee-jerk response to the appointment was extremely negative.
There are, however, many ways of seeing and experiencing the world.
Consider one possible alternate interpretation of the appointment: What if Obama did it as a way of asking McChrystal to atone for what he had a hand in doing to the Tillman family (and probably a lot of other families, too)?
It’s just as likely that this is the case as any of the good/bad, win/lose, smart/stupid personal judgments the rest of us make about the situation.

Posted by: Bonifer | April 14, 2011, 1:13 pm 1:13 pm

Bonifer: I admire your point of view. It’s definitely worth noting.

Posted by: justcurious | April 14, 2011, 1:18 pm 1:18 pm

Why didn’t Bush fire McChrystal? Was W too gutless? W approved the cover-up!

Posted by: The Truth | April 14, 2011, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

He tried to be a hero and got around behind the enemy and into the line of fire of his compatriots. they didn’t know he was doing this and he got shot by mistake. his mother should accept this and stop trying to get him the medal of honor

Posted by: pieterdprall | April 14, 2011, 1:21 pm 1:21 pm

…to everyone who disagreed with my prior comments, remember that we are all entitled to our opinions. And where mine is concerned, all I can say is…Obama 2012!! I can’t wait to vote again!

Posted by: Vee | April 14, 2011, 1:35 pm 1:35 pm

And I voted for Obama, he must have been blackmailed by McCrystal, or he is crazy

Posted by: Vincent Frey | April 14, 2011, 2:06 pm 2:06 pm

Mary Tillman is 100% correct on this issue. It is that simple and further discussion is unnecessary

Posted by: Navy Vet | April 14, 2011, 2:09 pm 2:09 pm

I don’t think Obama appointed McCrystal realizing that sorted past item or at least thought the issue has gone away.
I think Obama appointed him based on the majority of his military career.
By reminding Obama of this situation, I am sure he will see how inappropriate McChrystal is for this position. After all, it is the military families who have to be respected in this instance.

Posted by: KsDevil | April 14, 2011, 2:22 pm 2:22 pm

Military officers, like all of us, are innocent until proven guilty in a court of law. That beings said, we each are entitled to beliefs.
I believe Pat was intentionally killed based on the following three events: 1)the nonsensical decision to tow the humvee and subdivide Tillman’s platoon in dangerous terrain (See Krakauer, Where Men Win Glory); 2) the very believable statment by Tillman’s fellow soldier that the fighting had come to a stop prior to Tillman standing up (See documentary “The Tillman Story”) and 3) the fact that he was killed by three bullets in the forehead after announcing himself.
I would gladly conclude otherwise. How am I mistaken?

Posted by: Madiba | April 14, 2011, 2:37 pm 2:37 pm

If the General does have any class, he will realize that his actions made him unfit for this position. He should resign. The President needs to move forward with a lot more thought than is evidenced by this appointment. AND he should not have his people out defending a bad call. Mrs.Tillman, I’m with you.

Posted by: 1/26 Bravo | April 14, 2011, 2:45 pm 2:45 pm

This appointment is an insult to the Tillman family and to all those veterans who have served honorably and faithfully. Mc Chrystal showed disrespect for his military service, the chain of command, Pat Tillman and the rest of us. The President is not showing good judgment by this appointment!

Posted by: Tom | April 14, 2011, 2:50 pm 2:50 pm

FYI Parents of Fallen Heroes,
When we enlisted or commissioned in the in the military we never asked for you to fight for our rights. We understood the risks upon taking up arms. We held the knowledge inside that we could die by bullet, bomb, or infection. This was our choice to make not yours. This is what we believed in.
I strongly believe that Pat Tillman would not approve of his mother.
Cover ups happen all the time, and are required because of the current state of media presence. Leave well enough alone!

Posted by: Frustrated | April 14, 2011, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm

BONIFER: “Consider one possible alternate interpretation of the appointment: What if Obama did it as a way of asking McChrystal to atone for what he had a hand in doing to the Tillman family (and probably a lot of other families, too)?”
I considered that and then rejected it, since atonement can only happen if Obama admits there was wrong-doing, which he has not. For this reason, the appointment has a much greater potential to inflame than it does to repair the situation in any way. That’s one conspiracy theory too far for most reasonable people. Nice try, though.
I was wondering how long it would take for some desperate liberal to excuse yet another Obama decision no one, not even his supporters, can understand.

Posted by: Anonymous | April 14, 2011, 3:02 pm 3:02 pm

Excerpts from A Midnight Clear( see the film):
After the war, I heard Avakian married Janice. MILLER JUST DISAPPEARED. Then for ten years, starting in 1946 I got Christmas cards from Mother, with new ten dollar bill each time. No return address. Not a word inside. Then I never heard from him again.

Posted by: Henri Charriere | April 14, 2011, 3:07 pm 3:07 pm

This is not the first war with ‘friendly fire’ deaths. She is not the only mother, wife, father, children to loose some one in combat. And she definitely does not know the McChrystal, or his qualifications that caused him to be selected. I definitely don’t want a single person or small group of people directing the White House and it selections of individuals for positions of responsibility.

Posted by: Michael Bakkie | April 14, 2011, 4:07 pm 4:07 pm

Given how much Obama’s lies, does anyone really think it holds it against McChrystal for lying and covering up? Seriously?

Posted by: Punter | April 14, 2011, 4:16 pm 4:16 pm

I am a strong supporter of President Obama, but I can not agree with this appointment. For me this is another Watergate, where those in charge go free or hand slipped! And those under them get !~@#$%^! (FIRED)! Sorry for that outbreak. Oh, that’s right Gen McChrystal never did say that to the Tillman family. That to me is a Federal Crime, in-which the good General should have lost his RETIREMENT. Please PRESIDENT OBAMA, MAKE THIS RIGHT!!!! Put him out to write his BOOK, “HOW I LIED TO A WAR HERO’S FAMILY, and got a great job…ONLY IN AMERICA”

Posted by: MSgt Sanders, Retired | April 14, 2011, 5:45 pm 5:45 pm

Note to Bobdevo: He resigned in shame….

Posted by: talmag | April 14, 2011, 7:38 pm 7:38 pm

When I was in the Army, we had a MSG who was always making sexual comments to all the female Soldiers in our company. It was so annoying to be around him, especially because he not only outranked me, he was often in charge. After 2 years of serving with him I noticed he had changed drastically. He had ceased to make any more sexual inuendos, remarks, etc. I was so relieved and had wondered what had gotten into him. About a year later I talked to my old company commander, who was now my boss in another department. She said when she was company commander, she had made that MSG become the EO NCOIC for our company. I thought, “How brilliant!” The best way to make him learn what he was doing, was by making him not only get EO training, but also to be in charge of taking all the EO complaints, have to initiate investigations, and then act on what he found. I’m sure he saw many mirror reflections of his past self in this new position. Maybe this is what President Obama is really doing with McChrystal. Pure genius!

Posted by: KMG | April 14, 2011, 9:55 pm 9:55 pm

Appointing McChrystal to this post is as bad an idea as Bush nominating Harriet Miers to be on the Supreme Court. Who put his name forward to the White House? What staff member recommended this? Military voters won’t think this is a positive step.At West Point, McChrystal had to obey the Honor Code: “A cadet will not lie, cheat, steal or tolerate those who do”. Cadets lie “if they deliberately deceive another by stating an untruth or by any direct form of communication to include the telling of a partial truth and the vague or ambiguous use of information or language with the intent to deceive or mislead.” I wonder how McChrystal’s classmates regard him now.

Posted by: Bill | April 15, 2011, 12:53 am 12:53 am

Imagine that the Army cleared McCrystal of any wrong doing. That sounds familiar!

Posted by: BBG | April 15, 2011, 2:21 am 2:21 am

Was this general in charge when the Lavena Johnson cover up occurred?

Posted by: cooper | April 15, 2011, 12:32 pm 12:32 pm

O=W

Posted by: PATHETIC | April 17, 2011, 2:52 am 2:52 am

Those of us who have served and have lost comrades in senseless accidents can certainly feel Mrs. Tillman’s pain and frustration. However, there is no evidence that Gen. McChristal was in any way responsible for Corp. Tillman’s death. Calling in all the media to lobby against his appointment to a post for which he is clearly qualified indicates both a lack of good judgement and a descent into petty vindictiveness. Why are any of the media reporting what she thinks about this? It is pure sensationalism which takes advantage of mother’s grief and reflects the media’s unprincipled thirst for conflict.

Posted by: Tex | April 18, 2011, 12:09 am 12:09 am

President Obama owes the Tillman family a response, and he owes military families more respect and care. He knew he would be cleaning up the Bush administration’s messes when he took the job. This is one of those messes–a horrible one that must not be compounded by turning a blind eye to McChrystal’s misdeeds.

Posted by: Ellen Margolis | April 19, 2011, 6:21 pm 6:21 pm

usa doesnt get it at all. The govt does what they want and it wasnt a cover up at all. it happened the way they wanted it to happen… so many levels to pass the blame. the govt owes nothing to anyone…. we all know the risk for what we get into, what we say etc… the govt deals accordingly with each. lots of great points made… just sit back and enjoy the show… oh yeah why is the prest selected and not elected…? lol

Posted by: jackson | April 23, 2011, 5:05 pm 5:05 pm

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