Nov 9, 2011 3:22pm

Couple’s Break-Up at Burger King Becomes Twitter Spectacle

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Breaking up is hard to do.  It’s even harder when you discover that, unbeknownst to you, your emotional moment was broadcast live across Twitter, for all the world to see.

That’s the lesson learned by two now-former lovers who had the unfortunate luck  of sitting next to prolific Twitter user Andy Boyle at a Burger King in their hometown of Boston.

As the young couple’s argument last Monday over ending their marriage became heated enough to catch the attention of their fellow restaurant patrons, Boyle, a Web developer for the Boston Globe, took to Twitter.

“I am listening to a marriage disintegrate at a table next to me in this restaurant. Aaron Sorkin couldn’t write this any better,” he tweeted.

Boyle broadcast photos, videos and even a description of the background music playing in the fast food chain where the relationship’s demise played out on the micro-blogging site.  His live-tweets documented the couple’s tearful exchange about cleaning responsibilities, lying and cheating.

“These kids must be 21, tops. His main complaint? She doesn’t clean the dishes when his mom asks her to,” Boyle tweeted.

His account of the drama was limited to 140 characters or less, but still, like any good Shakespearean story of love, took viewers on an emotional roller coaster.

Boyle’s retelling included a beginning: “She is sobbing quite loud. He gets up and walks out. She stays. We all feel quite awkward. Do we console her? No one does anything.”

A dramatic peak: “I don’t want to hear it!” she shouts. The tables are turned:  She is now accusing him of lying, of what we do not know.”

And a passionate end:  “Why did you even marry me?” he asks. “Because I loved you,” she responds.

Lest Boston-area restaurant goers be concerned that they too could fall victim to Boyle’s affinity to tweet, this instance, he vowed via Twitter, of course, was a one-time affair.

“I want my 75 new followers to understand that I don’t regularly live tweet failing marriages at Burger King,” he wrote.

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Perhaps this will FINALLY be a wake up call to people who take their squabbling into public places. I get tired of hearing their crap, which is normally loud and seemingly indifferent to anyone nearby who might be listening. Maybe Burger King isn’t the best place to discuss a breakup… Just sayin!

Posted by: Michael Haase | November 9, 2011, 4:02 pm 4:02 pm

Well, I agree with the poster who said he was tired of hearing people argue in public. But, how about some manners from the dude who posted it online? Kinda rude, no? Maybe they chose a public place to hash things out in, thinking it would help keep the peace between them. Either way, I feel bad for the couple. It’s a shame that they couldn’t work out their differences, and even more so that those differences were relatively minor reasons to divorce.

Posted by: Mobalajee | November 9, 2011, 4:12 pm 4:12 pm

Just because you can twitter, doesn’t mean you should. The person that took this should be ashamed of themselves. It will happen to you one day and you will be mad. Think before you twitter something.

Posted by: Alice | November 9, 2011, 4:15 pm 4:15 pm

I get not wanting to listen to others argue in public but what about some respect by not posting someone elses breakup on Twitter, jerk!

Posted by: Rachie | November 9, 2011, 4:17 pm 4:17 pm

they should sue you for invasion of privacy, I hope they do..

Posted by: dave | November 9, 2011, 4:21 pm 4:21 pm

This story may have a happy ending. They sue you for invasion of privacy and then have to money to have a place of their own(without his mother living with them), have the money to hire a housekeeper and a marriage counselor and live happily ever after. Then they tweet a thank you to Boyle….o sweet revenge…

Posted by: Dennie | November 9, 2011, 4:36 pm 4:36 pm

If they sued me for invasion of privacy I would counter-sue them for disturbing the peace!

Posted by: Just Me | November 9, 2011, 4:41 pm 4:41 pm

Sounds like Brockton to me!

Posted by: rwk | November 9, 2011, 4:43 pm 4:43 pm

How cruel, to make fun of this couple’s personal sorrow. Sure, they should have kept their voices down or gone somewhere more private to talk, but it is truly wrong to take advantage of their emotional upheaval to have fun. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Posted by: MsNimitz25 | November 9, 2011, 4:46 pm 4:46 pm

They couldn’t sue for invasion of privacy. There is no reasonable expectation of privacy in a public restaurant.

Posted by: webs | November 9, 2011, 5:18 pm 5:18 pm

While in public, one does not have expectation of privacy. There could never be any legal action. Had this man recorded this through an open kitchen window of their home and then posted the material, yes, invasion of privacy. I’ve been through two divorces. They are very painful. I would not wish this stress or emotion on anyone. There are some clues here if you are paying attention. The simple fact he asked “why did you even marry me?” tells us that she is the one ending the marriage. It’s never good to assume but it could be over money, or another lover. It could also be character related, i.e. a bad habit such as drug use, gambling, lack of employment, those types of issues. The good thing is, time heals all wounds and they are both young. Real pain is being 55 years old, a stay at home housewife, heath issues and suddenly finding your husband no longer wants you with no place to go. The years and the youth, long gone. Those are the people I really feel for. Divorce is never a joking matter, especially from a 3rd pov.

Posted by: Allthesetears | November 9, 2011, 5:56 pm 5:56 pm

If this is real I think its reprehensible to post it on Twitter. This is somebody’s life not a gag for hipsters to chuckle over. However something about this seems too perfect. Could this be some kind of sick viral marketing campaign for BK? Seriously, I would not put that past anyone.

Posted by: markaes3 | November 9, 2011, 6:09 pm 6:09 pm

Why did ABC post this, further violating these people?! This is NOT news!

Posted by: Marie | November 9, 2011, 7:00 pm 7:00 pm

The person who posted this on Twitter is a classless jerk. His momma must be so proud.

Posted by: Donna | November 9, 2011, 7:27 pm 7:27 pm

” I get tired of hearing their crap, which is normally loud and seemingly indifferent”…. Yea.. I get tired of sitting next to people running their mouth on their Cell phones talking loud enough that the person, where ever they are, can hear them without the phone, but I don’t post their conversation about mom and her hemroids all over twitter either.

Posted by: anotherday | November 9, 2011, 7:57 pm 7:57 pm

We wonder why in this country our politicians are such low-lifes.. pretty simple.. look at who they work for. Twitter/Youtube/social media is much more important than hurting someone else over something, yes, they should of kept at home. My neice was attacked and robbed in the parking lot of the local mall about 6 months ago. The police talked to people in the crowd to see if anyone could ID any of the attackers.. OH NO.. no one saw anything. That night, the attack was ALL OVER youtube showing a lot of the people just watching who claimed not to see anything. Luckily, in that case.. the police found the person who posted the attack.. got the video.. arrested the attackers and THEN ARRESTED the little IDOT that recorded it for hindering the investigation. Bad enough to stand and watch something like that and not help.. but then record it and not help. Our values are screwed up.. very screwed up in this country. And no.. I don’t believe in GOD, so I do not go to church.

Posted by: anotherday | November 9, 2011, 8:09 pm 8:09 pm

It does not matter if they had their arguement and break up in public or not it still violates Mass. law chapter 272 section 99. It has been reported who he is and the fact he works for the Boston Globe and they would have the right to sue him.

Posted by: steven shrauger | November 9, 2011, 9:03 pm 9:03 pm

Katie Kindelan do you think this is news worthy? REALLY? Printing this crap is low and tasteless reporting, time to find a new line of work!

Posted by: koenigtigerone | November 10, 2011, 12:56 am 12:56 am

It is so brilliant. Asian like us like to catch up with you in th etechnology.

Posted by: Chang | November 10, 2011, 8:38 am 8:38 am

To those who say he is guilty of invasion of privacy – there is nothing private about the dining area at Burger King. I don’t need the details of their breakup but if wants to tweet it – legally its ok. They are the ones who put it out there.

Posted by: cope | November 10, 2011, 11:45 am 11:45 am

Andy, who did the Twittering, is an idiot. You don’t broadcast that. He’s a moron AND an idiot all rolled into one and I’ll just bet he isn’t married. Who would marry such a loser? Andy == Loser!!

Posted by: RalphF | November 10, 2011, 1:04 pm 1:04 pm

A trio of idiots. The couple, for choosing a public location to have their break-up and Boyle for being tasteless enough to tweet about it. The former couple deserves the embarassment and I hope Boyle drops his smart phone in the toilet.

Posted by: Arf40 | November 10, 2011, 3:17 pm 3:17 pm

No one has a sense of humor anymore.

Posted by: Sharkweek | November 10, 2011, 5:54 pm 5:54 pm

I don’t understand how any of you can claim this as an “invasion of privacy”. They were in a public restaurant, loudly arguing, loudly enough where everyone, including this guy who tweeted it all could hear. Now if they were in their apartment, and this guy was listening through the peep hole, or their balcony, YES, that would be an “invasion of privacy”. They lost that right when they took up their personal matters in the middle of a PUBLIC restaurant. They made it public! People need to understand that the whole world is watching, with Twitter, Facebook, public forums…what you do is being watched. Between breaking up, and having the whole world shake their head at them, maybe they will grow up! Don’t get married unless your ready to be an adult, and certainly don’t argue in a public place if you don’t want the world to know your business!!

Posted by: CDJ527 | November 11, 2011, 3:06 pm 3:06 pm

Slow news day????

Posted by: Sebastian | November 11, 2011, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm

of course it’s expected that the twitter guy would get ostracized for posting this drama on a social networking site. but think about it: though today’s world is run by technology, people’s nature hardly change. WE just love to gossip, about anything and everything. this, being posted on Twitter is no different from a bystander (who either knows or not know the couple), eating while hearing their arguments, goes out of BK, then will relay “hey, i just heard john & jane breaking up in BK last night” to anyone who would listen. Really, spreading gossip just got easier by carrying a videophone w/ you & making use of WiFi instead of your mouth to tell the tale. why do these kinds of tweets, posts, videos, etc get viral anyway? would you still shout “invasion of privacy” if the stars of video were Posh Spice & David Beckham instead of 2 unknowns? why did people read the article in the first place? because the title’s captivating. because it’s of human interest. so don’t cover your perversions by blaming the tweeter-er (or whatever it is they call them), just take the lesson here: if you don’t want to be the subject of gossip, avoid doing something in public that you don’t want people to see.

Posted by: mimiyami | November 12, 2011, 6:21 am 6:21 am

While fighting in public–and loudly so–is generally poor form, there may have been valid reasons. One or the other might have had safety concerns, or their living situation might have been such that Burger King was the only place where they could have any time to themselves to talk. Sounds like home might have been a little crowded if his mom is telling her to do the dishes.

No laws were broken, and I get that we’re living in more and more of a fishbowl every day. And just about everyone (I’ll include myself in this group) likes a nice little dose of schadenfreude now and then. Still, if you’re listening to a couple fighting and your first instinct is to delightedly tweet it to everyone as if it were a scene from a TV show (“Aaron Sorkin couldn’t write this any better”), that speaks to a tremendous disconnect from that thing we call reality, not to mention a complete and total lack of empathy on the part of the tweeter. Unsurprising, but sad nonetheless.

Posted by: Sara | November 12, 2011, 2:22 pm 2:22 pm

I think his most egregious mistake was to classify Burger King as a restaurant.

Posted by: Atomkinder | November 12, 2011, 3:03 pm 3:03 pm

what i find funny is all these idiots on here saying they should sue you for this and that…. LISTEN PEOPLE…

IF YOU WANT YOUR PRIVATE MATTERS TO REMAIN PRIVATE… THEN KEEP THEM OUT OF THE PUBLIC!

Kind of like people who tell others to mind their own business when they write something to that person’s PUBLIC POST ON FACEBOOK!

wake up people… this country has enough STUPIDITY without anymore help!

Posted by: JJ | November 12, 2011, 3:11 pm 3:11 pm

Not ok – not his business to be tweeting this – I can maybe see talking about it on twitter but taking pictures and video without consent is wrong and he should be charged for doing so. It is a public location so you do not have the right to have NO ONE hear you fighting and listen in but saying where it is happening and broadcasting it to the world in inexcusable. HE SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF HIMSELF FOR DOING THIS TO OTHER PEOPLE – Hey – why not follow them into the public bathroom and quote on how much they peed – do you want anyone doing that to you? NO – back off and let the couple settle their issues with as much privacy as you can give them! Jerk!

Posted by: amiee | November 12, 2011, 3:25 pm 3:25 pm

Andy Boyle is without conscience. Or else he chooses not to use it. This is sick. Far sicker on his side.

Posted by: Kelldicott | November 12, 2011, 3:33 pm 3:33 pm

“they should sue you for invasion of privacy, I hope they do..” — there was no invasion of privacy when you’re in a public place and speaking so loud that you can be heard from several feet away. The couple on the other hand could have been charged with disorderly conduct and disturbing the peace had anyone at Burger King, at the time of the argument, would have contacted the police.

Posted by: Melu | November 12, 2011, 3:56 pm 3:56 pm

SUE EVERYONE! American ways of thinking are always the best. I honestly don’t see the big deal with this whole story. Who cares if people know they fought? They clearly didn’t since they did it in a Burger King with people around them. I thought his tweets were pretty hilarious anyway.

Posted by: Michael | November 12, 2011, 7:02 pm 7:02 pm

so this is what passes muster for tech news in america these days, huh

Posted by: ding | November 12, 2011, 9:15 pm 9:15 pm

The couple knew what was going on, and, seemingly, wanted an audience. They got one. And a new reality “show” is born – Twitter Breakups.
The real “reality” of this is played out in Andy Boyle’s excellent use of 140 character tweets. His is a Swiftian commentary on society today, which is “You are in public – ACT accordingly.”
I feel empathy for the other customers who had to witness this. I’ve seen it many times, at Burger King, at McDonald’s (seems to happen at breakfast there) in a supermarket check out line … Two people argue – loudly, sometimes violently. Nobody says anything. They just let them go at it.
People, by nature, are voyeuristic. That’s why we have a “News” profession.
We have, mostly over the past decade and certainly over the past half century, raised a nation of voyeurs. Living room peeping toms who think reality television is real. The insatiable desire for that rather low form of entertainment will continue not abate, sadly.
Boyle didn’t cause the accident you saw. Don’t blame him when you rubber neck is sore. .

Posted by: Shelby G. Spires | November 13, 2011, 1:48 am 1:48 am

she should have married a man instead of a little mama’s boy

as for the tweeting, they fought publicly. what do they expect these days? at least it was tweeted with the possibility of dramatic license instead of the ugly truth of video.

Posted by: hrm | November 13, 2011, 3:52 pm 3:52 pm

Great, another one of those d-bags who takes strangers’ pictures and posts them online.

Posted by: Jon | November 13, 2011, 5:48 pm 5:48 pm

What a punk – Mind your own business, boyoyoyoyoy

Posted by: Rich | November 13, 2011, 5:49 pm 5:49 pm

Only an immature loser would tweet the event, complete with pictures. What an insensitive moron. karma will return the favor.

Posted by: Tom | November 13, 2011, 6:09 pm 6:09 pm

Tweeting about the breakup through 140 characters, fine…but posting pictures of the couple? And videos? That’s taking it way too far..

Posted by: J | November 13, 2011, 7:11 pm 7:11 pm

Ok, so I agree with the comments about not squabbling over personal matters in public, but I think this Andy Boyle character has no class whatsoever. Yes, the couple is embarrassing themselves in public, that’s bad enough, but he has to broadcast live updates shaded with his personal interpretations? What an inconsiderate ass. Have some mercy on these two poor kids and leave them the hell alone.

Posted by: Bill | November 13, 2011, 7:27 pm 7:27 pm

Yeah, Andy Boyle is a complete jerk. No one wants to listen to others argue, etc., but if they are this young, and presumably live with Mom, who’s to say they even have a car where they could have hashed this out? Maybe arguing at home (with the mother/-in-law) wasn’t an option. The arguing in public is unfortunate. Boyle, however has much less class than these two do. Report about it on Twitter, fine, whoopee, how exciting for your loser followers. Once Boyle started taking pictures and video, he crossed the line.

Posted by: Ted | November 13, 2011, 7:49 pm 7:49 pm

All I know is that once I found out about this I would be waiting at his job to whoop him!

Posted by: Big Rick | November 13, 2011, 10:55 pm 10:55 pm

I stopped at BK to place a special order for the kids as it has to be just so. As I was leaving a couple got at at the exit and proceeded to throw their food at each other. I just tried to stay clear as the security guard broke the rampage up as she was pulling his hair and he was trying to control her anger. Amazing the idiocy of youth today!

Posted by: raster1944 | November 14, 2011, 1:02 am 1:02 am

Andy is slime and if not able to sue him I’d follow him and take every opportunity to expose any public behavior he would not wish made public, then I’d do the same to all his family until he learns there should be boundaries

Posted by: Derick | November 14, 2011, 8:37 am 8:37 am

What a jerk for publishing their photos and video. I hope he suffers the same humiliation. And shame on ABC for doing the same.

Posted by: John Tate | November 14, 2011, 9:18 am 9:18 am

Andy is slime and if not able to sue him I’d follow him and take every opportunity to expose any public behavior he would not wish made public, then I’d do the same to all his family until he learns there should be boundaries

Posted by: Derick | November 14, 2011, 8:37 am 8:37 am

Bingo. This is a good one.

Posted by: Sharon | November 14, 2011, 9:41 am 9:41 am

You can make light of it all that you want and say ” hey ! I was just doing it because ___________ ) but honestly, does that make it right ?

Were those new 75 followers of you so important as to where you couldn’t say, ” No…this is a very personal thing between two people and I should just leave well enough alone?”

So you twitter and take video and, in the end, add a lot more pain to two young people and their domestic problems than they already had.

Here’s hoping your marriage fails if you have one and that the same thing happens to you.
Your actions were callous and thoughtless.

Posted by: Scott | November 14, 2011, 9:47 am 9:47 am

I have to agree. I don’t understand why ABC reported this. I clicked the link because I thought there would be something unusual about the story but it’s just… a breakup.

Posted by: Lorelei MIssion | November 14, 2011, 11:01 am 11:01 am

The key is publishing and broadcast. The minute the Tweeter, an employee of Boston Globe, a publishing company broadcast someone else WITHOUT THEIR CONSENT via the internet there were a number of violations. It’s one things to write and publish an account of what you might see or hear in public but broadcasting images, sounds, etc. of people crosses the line. They are not public figures. Unless this couple signed release forms this jerk violated a lot of things. It’s probably much worse that he works for a publication. You have the right to authorize or not authorize the use of your likeness and image period. He didn’t get authorization. He’s opened himself, the Globe, Twitter, and Burger King up to major liability.

Posted by: Patty | November 14, 2011, 11:29 am 11:29 am

And once again we see why bloggers are not journalists. Wow. What a trashy, slimy thing to do.

Posted by: Janey | November 14, 2011, 12:08 pm 12:08 pm

Sorry Andy, why not just eat your cholesterol-rich Whopper and not worry about other people….because clearly you have nothing better to do. Should we instantly make assumptions about you Andy? Are you a lonely, overweight guy who eats fast food frequently? Nothing better to do than be on Twitter while you’re stuffing your face w/ a burger? Really? Sounds pretty pathetic. This couple, sure, they aired their fight in public, in a Burger King of all places, but that doesn’t mean you need to broadcast it. Now what happens when one of these two commits suicide because you broadcast them online Andy? Are you not somehow at fault? Huh Andy?

Posted by: Michael Simons | November 14, 2011, 3:14 pm 3:14 pm

The guy who tweeted this is worse than scum, and he should be sued. These kids were minding their own business in their own booth and sometimes emotional conversations get unintentionally louder. That doesn’t give some loser with a cell phone looking for fame the right to invade their space and actually take video and pictures and plaster it all over the internet and ridicule them. He should be sued for intentional infliction of emotional distress, invasion of privacy. Hearing people’s conversations in public is not the end of the world and if someone is disturbing you then simply courteously ask them to go elsewhere. They were probably so distraught they didn’t realize they could be heard. This guy was deliberately eavesdropping to make a name for himself. I’ve been in public and said something to my companion in a very low voice and nosybody people around me are deliberately trying to eavesdrop. Mind your own business, losers of the world, and get a life. People who say it’s their fault for speaking in a restaurant are psychotic. Types like you always think they’re so clever and original being contrarian, although the same dumb comments is posted by countless other idiots just like you so your’re not so clever or original.

Posted by: Lee | November 14, 2011, 3:15 pm 3:15 pm

@Derick, that’s exactly what I was going to say. Trail this tool and post everything he says and does. Twitter is a showcase for sociopaths. Get rid of it. And ABC, you’re despicable using your corporate might and pretense of being a legitimate news org to pick on a couple of heartbroken kids.

Posted by: Alex | November 14, 2011, 3:28 pm 3:28 pm

“No one has a sense of humor anymore.”

Ding ding ding! Seriously.

I think a lot of the mad people maybe are realizing that public places aren’t necessarily their own personal stages. To the person who said people have annoying cell conversations near him, but he doesn’t tweet them — why not? I do.

Posted by: FrogFear | November 14, 2011, 9:58 pm 9:58 pm

I know that fighting in public can be “disturbing the peace” but this Dennie persaon NEEDS TO GET A LIFE of their own and concentrate on morals and dignity instead of tweeting somoene else’s life like some moron. I’m so ashamed for this person, and I do hope the couple sues him for invasion of privacy because technicfally if no one else complained about the couples fight , or if no one called the police to file a police report for disrturbing the peace, this Dennie will lose his wanna be justification for voyering into somoeone else’s life, what a loser, and if the person who posted this was in front of me I would certainly tell them in person to their face what a loser they were for invading that couple’s privacy. Get some education, or “EDUCATE IDIOTA!”

Posted by: magz | December 25, 2011, 11:23 pm 11:23 pm

oh, and this ‘DING’ person that defended the person who tweeted this couldn’t have a better name for themselves, a “ding” ….my chihuahua has more brains than”ding” ….my dog whould have more sense…lol

Posted by: magz | December 25, 2011, 11:27 pm 11:27 pm

A new low. What next – people sneaking into hospitals to record people dying. Do make sure you get some great shots of family member’s expressions of grief. Journalism is dead along with any class this country may have once had.

Posted by: Beth | January 30, 2012, 7:55 am 7:55 am

seroiusly why thats not right just cuz they were fighting in public still doesnt give him the right he should have ignored it or ask the couple to leave but dont be low and humilate someone cuz they could do that right back to you dont be an idiot and stay bout of peoples business

Posted by: rachel | February 2, 2012, 12:45 pm 12:45 pm

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