Psychologist testifies about abusive relationships: behaviors 'make a victim feel trapped'
Psychologist Dawn Hughes is now on the stand as an expert witness for the prosecution. She testified that it is “very common” for victims to remain in abusive relationships -- not because they are unconcerned about the abuse but because they feel trapped.
“No victim wants to be abused,” Hughes told the court. “They stay in the relationship because it’s not just about hitting. It’s about a lot of abusive behaviors that make a victim feel trapped.”
Combs' ex-girlfriend Cassie Ventura testified at length last week about what she said was physical abuse that Combs allegedly inflicted on her.
Hughes also testified that abuse is often not the only defining characteristic of such a relationship. “There’s almost always love,” Hughes testified. “It creates an intense psychological bond that creates an attachment with their abuser.”
Hughes also testified generally about why victims of repeated violence and sexual assault remain in a relationship.
“It’s hard for us to break up with someone under the best of circumstances,” Hughes told the court. “When you have all this violence and abuse, you’re just trying to live day-to-day in this very micro way,” explaining that emotional resources become devoted to avoiding getting hit instead of focused on how to escape an abusive relationship.
Hughes told the court that trauma victims experience a “tremendous amount” of shame, humiliation and degradation.
“If you can’t talk about what’s happening in the relationship then you can’t get help. And who’s going to talk about all these humiliating, degrading things that are happening to you?” Hughes testified.
Hughes told the jury that even if victims are able to escape an abusive relationship, they often return to that relationship.
“They return for the love, they return for the companionship. They return for the good version of the partner that they love,” Hughes testified.
She also described the coping mechanisms of abuse victims.
“These are trying to talk to your partner, try to stop the violence," Hughes told the court. "Trying to placate and give compliance to make your partner ok. Sometimes it’s physically fighting back,” Hughes said.
“These are trying to talk to your partner, try to stop the violence. Trying to placate and give compliance to make your partner ok. Sometimes it’s physically fighting back,” Hughes said.