Cruel Irony: Alleged Drunken Driver Slams Head On Into Caregiver of Her Kids

March 10, 2009— -- It was a horrific scene -- an alleged alcohol-related, head-on car crash that killed one driver and led to charges of DWI and vehicular homicide for the other.

It's a story filled with irony and tragedy. The two Albuquerque, N.M., women knew each other well because the victim had cared for the alleged DWI driver's children. The victim had even volunteered for the New Mexico chapter of Mothers Against Drunk Driving.

Beverly Chacon, the driver charged in the accident, now sits in a jail cell, unable to make a $500,000 bail bond after previous DWI cases. Brenda Melton, the victim, had helped raise Chacon's children during times when Chacon was in and out of jail, according to Carmen Salas, Melton's domestic partner.

Now Melton's family is mired in grief and anger, wanting justice for the woman who they say had so much left to do in life. Her funeral is scheduled for Wednesday.

"Her life was cut too short," Salas told ABCNews.com. "She had so much left to give."

Salas,48, and Melton, 37, partners for the last 15 years, had helped Chacon, initially a friend of Salas', raise her three now-grown children at various times over the years. The couple took care of one of Chacon's sons, now 21, for 12 years, Salas said.

"I couldn't believe it," Salas said of the moment she learned the Chacon, 40, was the person behind the wheel of the other car that night. "We gave life to this boy. We raised him for her. This is how she repaid us."

"I was angry, very angry," she said.

Messages left at a number listed for Chacon's home address were not returned. She has not yet been assigned a public defender.

Salas said she and Melton met through friends and had planned to spend the rest of their lives together. The two loved to travel and enjoyed fishing and golf trips. Melton, Salas said, loved animals and doted on the couple's two dogs, Kitty and Scrappy.

"She was fun," Salas said. "She was full of life."

Salas and Melton were on their way to the grocery store last week when they were hit head-on by Chacon's car, which police said was traveling the wrong way down the street. Chacon fled the scene, according to police, but was followed by a witness and later taken into custody.

A police report said Chacon told police that she remembered being in a crash but didn't know what had happened. She refused field sobriety tests, but police reported she reeked of alcohol and had bloodshot, watery eyes and slurred speech.