Reality TV Actually Applies to Reality

PHOTO Reality television isnt just killing your brain cells. Its inspiring, teaching and changing the way people live life.

Watching reality television isn't killing everyone's brain cells. For some, it can actually be inspiring, informative and can even help them change the way they live their life.

At its best, it's "teaching TV," a new way to tell human stories and a new way for those that watch them to learn life's lessons.

Reality TV makes dreams come true, makes love blossom and breaks people down in the public eye. But within all the contrived drama, you can learn something along the way, according to several reality show watchers who talked to ABC News.

"Jon and Kate Plus 8"

Jon and Kate Gosselin, the starts of the reality show "Jon and Kate Plus 8" are more than just tabloid headlines makers.

VIDEO: How Jon and Kate told the kids

For Damien Cave, the Miami bureau chief for The New York Times, the Gosselin's, dysfunctional attempt to stay together while raising eight children has helped him and his wife cope with the raising of their own 4-month- old son.

"One thing the show has done is made me realize how important it is to be organized," Damien Cave, 35, told ABC News. Cave says he and his wife, Diana Oliva Cave, 34, have recently embraced the show as "a bit of a guilty pleasure."

The couple recently wrote about the reality show on the New York Times parenting blog, "Motherlode," with a joint commentary about the conversation the show is sparking, both in their house and everyone else's.

"The show has stirred up conversation that might have happened anyway, more passionately and quickly than would have come up otherwise," Damien said.

But the situation on "Jon and Kate Plus 8" is extreme; most people don't have eight children or get paid just to let people watch them grow up. "The show gave [the children] financial stability, and the chance to spend more time with their parents. It will also probably help them go to college," Damien wrote.

But Damien says the show does deal with problems facing many real-life couples, like money and divorce."That's why the show has drawn so much attention," he said. "So many people are trying to figure out the rules of the road with parenting and marriage."

Miami Ink

Yaa Boakye got her first tattoo just before her 18th birthday as a "rite of passage."

"People tend to get them at 18, so I was just doing what everyone else was doing," Boakye, now a college junior, said. "But then I got them because it's the best form of self-expression and a permanent accessory that says more than clothes and jewelry."

The Chicago, Ill. native said she has become "addicted" to tattoos since seeing what she says was a negative stigma of them broken down by TV reality shows such as "Miami Ink" and "A Shot at Love with Tila Tequila." She has been inked seven times.

"It's crazy what TV, magazines and Web sites have done to highlight tattoos," Boakye said. "I rarely encounter people, even old people, who are afraid to talk to me about my tattoos or address me in an unprofessional manner."

Man vs. Wild

Then there are more practical lessons that can be learned watching reality TV.

Bear Grylls of the "Man vs. Wild," show on the Discovery Channel has been accused of faking some of his wildlife adventures, but some his advice is for real. It even helped save the life of 9-year-old Grayson Wynne.

Grayson was reportedly separated from his family earlier this month while hiking in a northern Utah forest. But just when many would have begun to panic, young Grayson turned to television.

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