Revenge Website ShesAHomewrecker.com Shames Accused Mistresses But Not Cheating Husbands

Nov. 7, 2013— -- If hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, the social media age has invented a whole new way to fan the flames.

A website called ShesAHomewrecker.com provides an open forum for women to anonymously shame their husband's or boyfriend's alleged mistresses. Consider it 2013's answer to "The Scarlet Letter." Without revealing their own identities, vengeful wives and girlfriends can post rants, with photos, to publicly flog "the other woman" for sleeping with their significant others.

But many of those "other women" who do, and then find themselves humiliated online afterwards, say the damage can be long-lasting.

Dana Scott, 29, said she found her name and location plastered on ShesAHomewrecker.com after she had ended an affair with a married man three years ago. Since the post about the affair appeared on the site a few months ago, Scott said she has been bombarded with insulting comments, derogatory names, even death wishes, online.

"I looked at it last night for the first time in months and started bawling my eyes out," Scott said.

Ariella Alexander -- that's her online alias -- is the woman who started ShesAHomewrecker.com and said she created it as a way to teach adulteresses a lesson.

"I hate to say it, but it's going to -- it can follow you for the rest of your life," she said. "You appear on Google, I mean, everyone now knows what you've done."

The website, which has more than 250,000 likes on Facebook, claims to expose the names, pictures and often torrid details about accused homewreckers and their adulterous ways. ShesAHomewrecker.com is a new twist on the booming trend of "revenge" websites, which allow jilted lovers or angry exes to humiliate their former flings.

Noemi Sanchez, 29, said she found solace in posted on ShesAHomewrecker.com after she said she discovered her husband of nearly eight years was cheating, while she was seven months pregnant with their third child.

"It was really just a way for me to vent," Sanchez said.

She said she discovered his cheating when she noticed pages upon pages of the couple's cell phone bill contained the same number.

"I called it and that's when she answered," Sanchez said.

While still pregnant, Sanchez said her husband asked her for a divorce. She was so upset that she decided to take revenge and posted personal details on ShesAHomewrecker.com, with photos, of the woman she said stole her husband.

When asked if she was worried the other woman might sue her for slander, Sanchez said, "No, because I have proof of it all. I kept everything and I have everything."

The alleged homewrecker is now married to Sanchez's ex-husband and has a 3-month-old baby with him -- a child that is one year younger than Sanchez's youngest son, the one she was pregnant with when she said she discovered their cheating.

Sanchez said she would be willing to forgive her cheating husband, but not the other woman.

"I just feel like she knew," she said. "I just feel that you shouldn't mess with a married man. ... Why would you do that? You are taking somebody's father away, somebody's husband, why would you do that?"

When contacted by ABC News, Sanchez's ex-husband and his now wife, the former mistress, said "the website is based off opinion." They also claim Sanchez and her husband were separated at the time they got together and they are "tired of the harassment."