Chrissy Chambers of YouTube Sensation 'BriaAndChrissy' Opens Up About Her Revenge Porn Legal Battle
Chrissy Chambers said learning of the sex tape online was "horrific."
— -- Chrissy Chambers is one half of the YouTube sensation “BriaAndChrissy,” a singing duo whose message of LGBT empowerment has earned them hundreds of thousands of followers.
But it was a different kind of attention that suddenly spun Chambers’ world out of control. One day, she started getting disturbing comments like these from followers calling her a “slut,” a “hypocrite” and “disgusting.”
Chambers said she had no idea what was happening, but eventually she discovered that a sex tape of her with her ex-boyfriend had been posted online.
“It was single handedly probably one of the hardest moments of my life,” Chambers said. “I found out after Googling myself it was just -- it was such a horrific pain like to be hit with a baseball bat. ... I literally just collapsed on the floor.”
It wasn’t just the shock that a sex tape had been made public. It was also that it existed at all because Chambers said she has no memory of making the video.
Chambers said her ex-boyfriend secretly taped himself having sex with her while she was passed out drunk then allegedly released the video online three years ago. She calls it an online attack.
“I had been assaulted because I was unconscious when the videos were filmed,” she said. “Someone was posting on our channel links to the videos to our fans and we couldn’t even keep up ... that this person you cared about so much could betray you in such an intense way. It was horrific.”
Chambers said the trauma surrounding her alleged cyber assault impacts every aspect of her life.
“The biggest thing I feel I lose in my life was the feeling of control ... control over my own body, my image, it was just so damaging in so many ways but that invasion of privacy is such a sharp sword,” she said.
And with a public career built around sharing her life with fans though posting videos online, it was those viewer comments she said that cut deep.
“It was really hard because after the videos came out we heard from some of our subscribers, you know, ‘I’ve been watching for a while but I can’t respect somebody who would do this, or is a slut and a whore, I can’t look up to you,’ and it broke our hearts every time we read something like that,” Chambers said.
Chambers said she is one of many victims of revenge porn, which is a form of non-consensual porn or the distribution of sexually graphic images without consent.
Carrie Goldberg, a New York-based attorney who handles Internet privacy and sexual consent cases, said revenge porn “could be a rape video that’s gone viral or pictures that were originally created and distributed with the context of an intimate relationship.”
There are an estimated 2,000 websites dedicated to revenge pornography worldwide -- websites where often jilted exes post intimate photos or video at a former lover’s expense. It’s a cyber-threat that’s difficult to track and even harder to prosecute.
“The biggest frustration that I hear from clients is, I mean, everyone wants their images taken down, and they want to sue the website,” Goldberg said. “There are actually federal laws that immunize online service providers for content that other people post.
“It’s still oftentimes really, really hard to get law enforcers to take complaints seriously and to get investigators and detectives to use their limited resources to investigate these cases, and to get prosecutors and judges to also see these cases through the end,” she added.