Honor the Troops, Question the War

— -- In the fall of 2004, as I was in the intensity of the re-election campaign of President Bush as chief strategist, I had to take a drive that was one of the hardest drives I have ever taken. About a week before Election Day, my oldest son jumped in the passenger seat of my Dodge pickup truck with a green duffle bag.

I drove him to the Army post in Arlington, Virginia, a few miles from Bush-Cheney headquarters, where he was going to get transportation to go to boot camp in South Carolina.

I hugged him tight, told him I loved him and was very proud of him, and wished him Godspeed. I stayed as strong as I could and put my sunglasses on so he couldn't see the tears in my eyes, jumped back in my truck and drove to the headquarters shaking my head.

I had just put my son in the hands of the Army and was about to help re-elect the person who would ultimately send him into harm’s way. Wow.

In Daniel's five years of service, he was in Iraq for about 14 months, and served his country well. He was as proud of his time as I was, but both of us over time began to question the decision to go to war. And so has nearly every single service member I have talked to in the time since.

I have come to the place where I believe the decision to go into Iraq was a huge mistake. Should have I asked more questions in the midst of all that? Yes. Should I have not have placed trust in the administration that they knew what they were doing? Yes. Can we honor our troops and still be opposed to this war decision and seek answers? Absolutely.

It is astonishing to me watching former Governor of Florida Jeb Bush lay out a confusing and convoluted answer to the questions surrounding the Iraq war. Of any question that you should be prepared to handle as the brother of the president who led us into this folly, this is one you should have thought about, soul-searched and come up with a clear and concise answer.

First, Jeb "misheard" the question and answered that he would have gone to war even knowing what we know today. Second, understanding this position is just not tenable with the loss of life and trillions of dollars while leaving the Middle East more unstable, Jeb said, yes, mistakes were made but he didn't know what he would do at this time and this is a hypothetical question. Now, he is saying even asking the question is doing a "disservice" to those who served.

The best way to honor our servicemen and women is to have a leader who clearly understands history, is willing to account for mistakes even if they are by a relative, and then annunciate how he would do things differently. People who fight for our flag and make this sacrifice want to believe that the truth matters, that government can be trusted and that leaders know what they are doing.

President John Kennedy re-examined his decision regarding the Bay of Pigs fiasco and learned. He was able to implement this learning in the handling of the Cuban Missile Crisis. That is what leadership does.