Tug-of-Love Over Five-Year-Old Missouri Boy Will Be Decided Wednesday

PHOTO: Encarnacion Bail Romero claims that her son, Carlos Bail Romero, was taken from her while she was being held in custody for an immigration-related crime, saying she was helpless to stop the adoption process.

A tug-of-war over a five-year-old boy that is at the center of a national debate over parental rights and immigration will be decided tomorrow, and little Carlos Jamison Moser of Carthage, Missouri will learn whether he will be reunited with a birth mother he doesn't know or continue to live with the local couple that adopted him after his mother was arrested on immigration charges.

The Missouri couple who adopted the child, Seth and Melinda Moser, have said that returning the boy they call Jamison to his birth mother after five years would cause him untold harm.

"I could not love him more, had he come out of me physically," Melinda Moser said in an interview with a Missouri television station in 2011. "I can only imagine the trauma that he would go through in feeling like people that did love him have betrayed him, you know?"

But the boy's Guatemalan birth mother is hopeful that she'll finally win custody of a child she says was taken from her against her will. Encarnacion Bail Romero has not been allowed to see the boy she named Carlos since he was taken away from her at seven months old following her 2007 arrest by federal officials during a raid on a local poultry plant.

"She's hopeful but she knows it's in the judge's hands and in her mind it's in God's hands as well," said Curtis Woods, an attorney for Bail Romero.

''I'm his mother, I'm the mother of Carlitos," Bail Romero told ABC News. "I know he needs me. … He needs me a lot because I'm the mother of Carlitos."

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According to a report from the Applied Research Center (ARC) called "Shattered Families," as of 2011 an estimated 5,100 children in 22 states were in foster care after their parents were either detained or deported. Immigration attorneys and children's welfare advocates say a small but troubling number, like Carlos, have been put up for adoption by U.S. families after their birth parents were stripped of their parental rights. The report concluded that at least 15,000 more children will face "threats to reunification with their detained and deported mothers and fathers" over the next five years.

"Cases like this force us as Americans to grapple with the fact that the immigration policies we choose to support or ignore have real impact on real people," said Rinku Sen, Director of the Applied Research Center (ARC).

"It's a massive problem," said John De Leon, an attorney for the Guatemalan Consulate who worked to help Encarnacion Bail Romero secure a visa to stay in the country while she fights for custody of her son.

"If you were to go to any dependency court, any child welfare court in the country today, any community where there are immigrants, this is a problem," stressed De Leon.

The Mosers' attorney, Joseph Hensley, did not return calls requesting comment about the upcoming decision. But in court documents filed in 2008 Hensley said, "In terms of best interest, I mean, that almost goes without saying, this child is an American citizen. The mother is a Guatemalan citizen, and she will be returning to Guatemala…I think the best interest standards always weighs very, very heavily in favor or my clients."

A few months after Romero went to jail in May 2007, Carlos was transferred to the custody of Melinda and Seth Moser of Carthage, Mo, who later adopted the boy and raised him as their own.

Bail Romero was charged by the federal government with aggravated identity theft for using a false social security number to get a job, to which she pleaded guilty in October 2007. She was sentenced to two years in prison and ordered to be deported back to Guatemala when released.

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"I started to ask for help and asked what I could do to find out where my son Carlitos was," Bail Romero told ABC News. "Nobody could help me because I don't speak English."

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