Georgia Mother Wins Breakfast by Emeril
Dee Wissing said she takes it "one day at a time."
May 9, 2008 — -- Dee Wissing has nursed decades of bruised knees, runny noses and broken hearts. She has attended hundreds of parent-teacher conferences and dozens of first days of school and has logged hours upon hours in heart-to-heart talks.
With 17 children, the milestones were bound to add up.
Early this morning, Emeril Lagasse surprised Wissing by showing up at her Marietta, Ga., doorstep, ready to cook a delicious breakfast for this year's "Mother's Day Breakfast in Bed" winner.
This is the ninth year of Lagasse's breakfast-in-bed contest and "Good Morning America" received thousands and thousands of e-mails and letters, filled with stories of truly inspirational moms.
But Wissing's story stuck out as remarkable.
"She's the mother I want to be," daughter Jenny Murphy said.
Dee and Bill Wissing knew from the moment they married in 1954 that they wanted a large family. Through the 1960s and '70s, their family grew until it reached 17 -- without any multiple births, not even twins.
"I thought, 'Well, how can you remember all their names?'" said Wissing's friend Ann Tillery. "To every child, she was just so close to all of them."
Neighbor Connie Smith said, "We found out they were moving in down the street. I thought, 'Seventeen children … it's gonna be chaos around here.'"
But Wissing's organization made her household run smoothly.
"Every Saturday, she would make a list and write each person's name down and what your chore was," son James Wissing said.
There was more to Wissing's mothering than quantity. She taught her children the value of work and education, even though she dropped out of college to raise them.
With little money, Wissing took part-time jobs to make ends meet. She also retired from Macy's department store after working there for 10 years. Her husband, Bill, is a former district manager with Holiday Inn and they now jointly run their own food service design company.
"We never got new clothes. We wore hand-me-downs," daughter Becky Wissing said. "Whatever someone outgrew, went to the next person."
She had even greater challenges when the family's home burned to the ground in 1970. They lost everything and had to start over; insurance gave them nothing.