Dear 'GMA' Advice Guru Top 20 Finalists: Amy Kean

Nov. 26, 2010 — -- Amy Kean from New York, NY, is a finalist in the Dear GMA Advice Guru Contest. Read her application below!

Essay

I hate to brag, but how else can I answer? If you're searching for a unique combination of fresh talent and legitimate professional experience, I'm your GMA Advice Guru. The job requires someone who can do it all: write entertaining, smart advice columns with a strong point-of-view; host engaging, energetic advice videos for the web; and be professional, lively and most of all, comfortable on live national television. That's a tall order. But believe it or not, I've already done all three! ...In addition to my TV work, for the past four years, I've been writing a funny (husband vs. wife) relationship advice column/ blog with videos with my real-life husband John. ... I became a first-time mother last year, which has honestly been the most thrilling experience of my life. But now that my son's turned one, I'm ready to jump back into the trenches full-time. Giving great advice has always been my passion, my calling. I'd be honored to do it for GMA.

What's the best advice you have ever given? What was the result?

When I was only eight, I actually suggested that my parents separate. Weird? Probably. But it was the painful truth. One night, I was coloring at our kitchen table, eavesdropping as my frustrated mother complained over the phone about her marital problems. As usual, she was venting to my grandmother, "What do you think I should do? We're arguing non-stop and it's awful for the kids." When she hung up, I turned to her and blurted out, "I really think you and Daddy would be a lot happier if you lived in separate houses." She stopped, sat down for a minute, and responded, "You know, I think you're 100% right." I loved them both, but they were much better partners -- and parents -- living apart. By listening to me, and taking my advice, my mother made me feel that my opinion was truly respected, and valued.