Sex: What Women Need to Know

Some questions make many women blush with embarrassment -- questions about sexual health. But "Good Morning America" medical contributor Dr. Marie Savard isn't afraid to tackle some of women's most sensitive sexual queries, including the truth about the G spot, sex after menopause and how to know if you're having an orgasm.

Check out her answers to provocative questions you wanted to ask but may have been too bashful to do so.

And find out below what Savard advises when it comes to sex,

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low libido and other sexual health issues below.

It just may change the way you view sex.

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How do I start a sexual relationship with a new partner?
I have tips on smart sex for mature women — what you need to know before you get between the sheets.

First, unfortunately, we all have to worry about HIV. You should know your status and your partner's. You should have a copy of your test results and ask to see theirs.

Second, it's harder to test for some things, so you need to ask up-front. The main things to ask about are herpes, genital warts or any other active infections. For some of these, a condom doesn't protect you.

And if your partner has any of them, that doesn't mean sex is out of the question. But the more you know, the better you can protect yourself from contracting it.

Third, ask about your partner's past partners. Just because your new boyfriend or girlfriend is asymptomatic doesn't mean that he or she didn't spot something questionable on a past partner.

And, when in doubt, use a condom.

Low Libido and Orgasms

What causes low libido and how should it be treated?

There are a lot of different things that can cause a low libido, and if you know what the possible causes are, you can make some changes.

Women will be surprised to learn that birth control pills can be a big libido killer. The pill is digested through the liver, and it raises a protein in the blood that traps testosterone.

One solution is to switch to nonpill options, such as the NuvaRing, because it isn't metabolized through the liver.

Some other medications that can affect libido as well are high-blood pressure medications, diuretics and some antidepressants.

Too much alcohol is a big cause of lowered libido.

And, as women approach menopause, their ovaries not only stop producing estrogen but also testosterone. There's no good way your doctor can give you testosterone. But some women are getting something called bioidenticals, which come in a cream or a shot.

If low libido is a problem, you need to ask around to find a doctor who will help you try these out. This works for natural menopause, and for surgical menopause, as when women have their ovaries removed because of cancer.

How do I know if I'm having an orgasm?

There's a spectrum of what we experience — from low to high intensity. What you're comfortable with is right for you. There's no such thing as normal.

If you have always had an enjoyable sex life, and there's a sudden change, that's when you need to look at your recent life changes such as medication or hormone changes. And, as much as women hate to do Kegel exercises for muscle toning, they really can help you enjoy sex more.

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