Possible Octuplet Dad Gave Sperm Because He Was in Love With Suleman
Man who donated sperm said Suleman seemed like a different person now.
Feb. 23, 2009— -- Denis Beaudoin, the man who says he could be the biological father of Nadya Suleman's octuplets, said he donated his sperm to her three times without asking questions because he was young and in love.
Beaudoin said he thought it was "out of the ordinary" when she asked him to donate. "But I cared about her so much. And I mean, we were, we were in love. I mean, I loved Nadya very much," he told Chris Cuomo in an exclusive interview with "Good Morning America."
Beaudoin said he and Suleman had a "serious" relationship from 1997 to 1999 when he was in his early 20s.
Though he and Suleman never talked about marriage, Beaudoin said when he donated the sperm he thought it would be part of "starting a family" together at some point.
He called Suleman "a really great girl" and thought she would make a good mother. His friends nicknamed her "Giggles" for her laugh.
"She really had a really infectious laugh. You know, just her laugh would, it would make you crack up. It's kind of like she had a real high-pitch, squeaky cartoon voice. And, you know, she was a lot of fun to be around. Just her whole bubbly outward personality was really, really cool," Beaudoin said.
But now Beaudoin said he sees a very different woman, both in appearance and demeanor, than the one he knew.
"She looks different, sounds different. You know, it's just not the Nadya I remember," he said.
Nor did Suleman express a desire to have a lot of children, he said.
"You know, I could say this is something that's all new. The Nadya that I knew, it never, it never came up to have such a huge family. It was just an urge to have a child because she was not able to," Beaudoin said.
Beaudoin said that at the time she first approached him about donating sperm, Suleman told him that she had ovarian cancer and was unable to conceive without the help of a doctor.
Beaudoin said the two had an amicable parting, but he said he never heard anything more about Suleman undergoing in vitro fertilization or trying to become pregnant.
Beaudoin said he was "shocked [and] surprised" when he first learned that Suleman had delivered octuplets Jan. 23.
Suleman has denied that Beaudoin is the father, but he said his multiple sperm donations are reason for a paternity test.
Beaudoin said Suleman's word isn't good enough.
"It just seems like a lot of her statements that she's made have been really inaccurate," he said.
"I can't take everything she says for granted. I mean when she initially told me the whole reason why, for donating sperm in the first place, you know was to get pregnant because she was not going to be able to have kids. And it, you know, has turned into this."
Beaudoin said he wants a DNA test just to know the truth. Regardless of the children's paternity, Beaudoin said he is willing to help the single mother of 14 raise the children because he does not believe she can handle it on her own.
"Either which way … know that if she needs it I'll lend a helping hand," he said. "She needs help. I mean it's hard. It's hard nowadays to raise two kids, let alone 14."
Beaudoin said he is coming forward now because he knew his name would eventually surface as the potential father and, considering the negative publicity surrounding Suleman, he wanted to tell his story first.
Beaudoin said he tried to reach out to Suleman, but she never returned his calls.
Now a business owner with a wife and two sons, Beaudoin said the entire ordeal has been very hard on his family.
"You know, my wife, she's not real happy about, you know, the whole situation. I mean, you can't really blame her. I mean I kind of threw this in her lap after, you know, it kind of hit the news," he said.
Though Beaudoin said he and Suleman dated for three years, Beaudoin now believes Suleman was married at the time.