Do you ever hate to throw something away, just in case you might need it?
Take a peek at a hoarder's dining room: boxes, used fast food containers, soda cans, and an old Christmas wreath litter the floor. If you went into the basement you would find hundreds of empty boxes that Chris, a hoarder, can't bear to part with.
"There is a lot of shame, and it has been like the big secret — the kids have been afraid to let other kids in the house," Chris tells Good Morning America. She and her family asked that their last name not be used.
"I keep it from most of my friends, and they don't come over to my house at all, and it's really difficult because I know they wonder, why don't we go to Katie's house," Katie, her daughter, says.
A Secret Shame
It's because of an obsessive-compulsive disorder doctors call "hoarding," a secret shame that happens behind doors firmly closed. Those who suffer from this little-known syndrome find it emotionally and physically impossible to throw anything away.
Doctors aren't sure what causes hoarding, though some 50 studies have been done on the disorder, ABCNEWS' Dr. Nancy Snyderman says. It has been linked to a variety of mental illnesses including schizophrenia, but many experts believe it is a type of obsessive-compulsive disorder. Obsessive-compulsive disorders affect some 2 million Americans. Hoarding seems to affect equal amounts of men and women.
One study found that 80 percent of hoarders had grown up in a house with someone who hoarded, Snyderman said. A study at UCLA used Pet scans to get a closer look at hoarders' brains, and they have found some brain differences, she said.
Experts who study hoarding say the problem goes largely unreported, and is often only revealed because the hoarder faces eviction, a competency hearing, or action by a local health department.
‘It’s Pure Agony’
Chris' family has never known a life without it.
"I really hate this, that I have such a hard time throwing things away," says Chris, "it's pure agony is what it is ... it's pure agony."
Her husband gradually realized that there was a problem.
"I kind of noticed that there was something going on where for me putting out garbage was very simple and no big deal and where Chris had some reservations," says her husband, Wayne.
"A lot of times ... well it would just stay in the house until I really felt comfortable about letting it go," Chris says.
People who hoard wall themselves into a maze of meaningless possessions. Chris tried to throw away a cereal box a year and a half ago, and couldn't. Such objects take on an abnormal degree of sentimentality so that hoarders can't make decisions about what to keep and what to throw away.
And tossing things out, even if they are obviously trash, make them anxious and desperate.
A Classic Hoarding Case
But Chris is getting help from Dr. Randy Frost, a psychiatrist from Smith College who agreed to come to her home to help her.
"There are a couple of general manifestations we normally see in hoarding and she has all of them," he says. They include:
Compulsive acquisition — hoarders acquire extras of things, just in case, more than they'll ever use.
Disorganization — hoarders find organization difficult, so things end up in haphazard piles.
Difficulty discarding — they really can't throw anything away without severe anxiety.
Frost carefully walks Chris through an exercise in which she chooses to throw just one item away, such as an empty snack container.