Jon and Kate Gosselin's Marriage Stressed by Lack of Privacy, Fellow Sextuplet Parents Say

Jon and Kate Gosselin's marriage troubles may be compounded by a lack of privacy and the struggle to balance their personal needs with those of their children, according to fellow sextuplet parents Chris and Diamond Harris.

The Birmingham, Ala., couple, who have appeared on reality shows like "Extreme Makeover: Home Edition," said they understand the plight of the popular stars of the hit cable show, "Jon and Kate Plus 8."

"No privacy, I think, is the most stressful part of raising multiples," Diamond Harris said on "Good Morning America" today.

"I think the most stressful part of it is making sure they have what they need as well as making sure everybody else in the family has what they need," Chris Harris said.

Jon and Kate Plus Controversy

Ahead of their show's season premiere Monday, Jon and Kate Gosselin have experienced an increasing amount of media coverage and tabloid scrutiny about the state of their union.

Allegations of extramarital affairs have plagued both Jon and Kate, amid rumors that Kate Gosselin had her husband sign a contract saying he could date other women as long as he showed up for the show.

Additionally, Kate's brother and sister-in-law, Kevin and Jodi Kreider, told Radar Online that the Gosselin's marriage was effectively over.

"I think that any parent will tell you that if you don't make what I call deposits in our own emotional bank account, you have nothing to draw down on," said "Good Morning America" parenting contributor Anne Pleshette Murphy. "And they have nine people each drawing down on those reserves."

Jon and Kate: Raising Multiples in the Public Eye

It remains unclear how TLC, which airs "Jon and Kate Plus 8," will handle their marital woes on the show.

"We are in production for season five and moving forward as planned, while fully supporting the family and respecting their needs as they work through this challenging time," TLC said in a statement. "This show has always been about a real family dealing with real-life situations, and that will continue to be the case for the new season."

With all the interest in their 10-year marriage, it seems that Jon and Kate Gosselin have different takes on their fame.

"I think Kate has been clear; she likes giving speaking engagements and likes writing books and likes this experience of the show," Pleshette Murphy said. "[Jon] doesn't really, I think, have quite the same experience with this. I think that he doesn't feel that good about it and so, whatever he's doing to make himself feel better, I think is part of what's getting played out here."

Chris Harris said the daily effort of balancing their two sets of multiples, combined with the intense scrutiny that has come with the spotlight, may have altered the Gosselin's relationship.

"Being in the public eye brings another whole stress altogether, I think," he said. "I think being in the public eye you seem to want to make sure you don't do the wrong thing or say the wrong thing, and that probably brings about another contrast because it tends to make you not be who you really are."

For the Harrises, sustaining their marriage includes scheduling date nights and plans to do things like exercise together.

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