Sex and the City: Can Apology Save Detroit's Mayor?

Jan. 30, 2008— -- When Kwame Kilpatrick was elected mayor of Detroit in 2001 at the age of 31, he was the youngest leader of a major U.S. city, and considered by many to be a talented politician with a bright future.

That future is now threatened by a sex scandal that unfolded last week when a local newspaper discovered explicit text messages sent between the married mayor and Christine Beatty, his then chief of staff.

The messages may set off a perjury investigation, given that they seem to contradict testimony the mayor and Beatty gave last summer during a whistleblower suit into whether Kilpatrick used his security detail to cover up the affair. That suit cost the city $9 million.

Last week the Detroit Free Press found text messages received and sent by the mayor and Beatty's pager from 2002 and 2003. Beatty, who is also married, resigned her post Monday.

"I'm madly in love with you," read one message from Kilpatrick, according to the newspaper. "I need you soo bad," read another printed in the Press.

Messages from Beatty to the mayor read: "In case you haven't noticed, I am madly in love with you, too" and "Did you miss me sexually?"

Kilpatrick is the latest in a recent series of American mayors caught in sexual dalliances that become all too public affairs.

In January 2007, San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom came clean about an affair he had with his campaign manager and former chief of staff. In June, Los Angeles Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa divorced his wife and admitted to having an extramarital affair with a Spanish-language television reporter.

So are civic leaders having more affairs, or are they just getting caught more, thanks to the electronic trail of e-mail and IMs?

"Sex scandals are as old as politics," said Hank Sheinkopf, a political consultant who has worked on campaigns in 46 states. "What's new is technology: cell phones, e-mail, the Internet, gossip magazines and cable news. We live now in a culture of gossip where things can spread at the drop of a dime, and there is no way to keep a secret," he said.

"There are no more secrets. For the first time, being in public life means your life is completely public," he said.

Since former President Bill Clinton's affair with Monica Lewinsky, the public is less scandalized by such affairs and politicians are more likely fess up, said David Fott, a political science professor at the University of Nevada at Las Vegas who heads a program in ethics and politics.