Carlina White's Father Says He Communicates With Daughter Every Day

Feb. 8, 2011 — -- The father of the woman known as Carlina White who was kidnapped as a baby 23 years ago said that his relationship with his daughter is slowly growing since their miraculous reunion.

"I know it's going to take time, so I'm willing to put in that time," Carl Tyson said. "In this relationship, you can't push nothing. There's 23 years I can't get back. Everything has to start from here and work its way."

Tyson said that he and his daughter, who was kidnapped from a New York hospital, text each other every day and talk by phone every few days.

"We text in the morning, say good morning," Tyson said. "Every couple of days, [I say] I want to hear your voice."

Tyson said that his daughter, who currently lives in Atlanta, recently received her birth certificate. He said that his daughter's actual birth name was Carlina Renee Tyson, not Carlina White.

Tyson's description of his relationship with his daughter differed from the relationship Joy White, Carlina's mother, said she had with her daughter on NBC's "Today" show this morning.

Joy White said that she and her daughter rarely talk and are like strangers. Joy White and Carl Tyson are no longer together.

Tyson said like all families, a child has a different relationship with different family members.

"Each family member has a different relationship," Tyson said. "[Carlina] is grown. She's a 23-year-old lady, not a baby. I have to treat her like a young lady ... like a respectful lady."

Tyson said he still talks regularly with Joy White, and that they often checked in with each other to see if either had recently heard from Carlina, who did not respond to requests for an interview.

Ann Pettway, the woman who Carlina White has called mom for most of her life, confessed to kidnapping the child when she surrendered to authorities in January. Pettway remains in custody, and the announcement of whether a grand jury would return a federal kidnapping indictment against her has been deferred for another two weeks.

"I hope she gets 23 years. She took 23 from me," Tyson said.