Bristol Palin Sticks by Abstinence Pledge

Oprah Winfrey asks teen mom if absitence is a realistic goal.

ByABC News
January 22, 2010, 2:58 PM

Jan. 22, 2010— -- As Bristol Palin prepares to battle her ex-lover for custody of their child, the 19-year-old did not take up Oprah Winfrey's offer to "retract" a recent pledge to not have sex again until she gets married.

Palin, the daughter of former Republican vice-presidential candidate Sarah Palin, became pregnant while still a high school student and has become a vocal advocate for teaching teenagers that they should practice abstinence rather than safe sex to avoid becoming pregnant.

Winfrey told Bristol she "kind of bristled" when she learned the teen recently told In Touch magazine, "I'm not going to have sex until I'm married. I can guarantee it" and wondered if such a promise was "realistic."

The talk show host told the teen mom, who appeared on Winfrey's show alongside her mother, the former Alaska governor, that she was likely setting herself up to fail and asked if she regretted making such an absolute pronouncement.

"Why set yourself up that way? It may be 10 years before you get married. Why set yourself up so that everybody you go out with, you date -- the media is going to be looking at that person, trying to get that person to sell you out, to say, 'Did you have sex or not,'" said Winfrey. "It's nobody's business when you chose to have sex."

Bristol gave short answers to Winfrey's queries, saying, "No, I don't," to a question about whether she felt she was setting herself up to fail at keeping her abstinence pledge.

"I'm just wondering if that's a realistic goal," said Winfrey.

"It's a realistic goal for myself," replied Bristol.

Winfrey told Bristol she was "going to give you a chance to retract or ease that statement if you wanted to and not say categorically, 'I'll never have sex until I'm married.' But if you want to hold to that, may the powers be with you. So you're going to hold to that?"

But before Bristol could answer, Sarah Palin asked a surprising follow-up question.

"Does that mean you're going to marry pretty young?"

Bristol mumbled a response: "I don't know, Mom."