Parents of slain Idaho student Ethan Chapin speak out for 1st time

Ethan Chapin was spending the night with his girlfriend when they were killed.

April 3, 2023, 8:01 AM

The parents of 20-year-old Ethan Chapin, one of four University of Idaho students slain in a gruesome attack in November, are speaking out for the first time, opening up to ABC News about their family's healing and their son's legacy.

Ethan Chapin was a triplet, born right before his sister, Maizie, and brother, Hunter, who also attend the University of Idaho.

PHOTO: An undated photo of the Chapin family.
An undated photo of the Chapin family.
Courtesy Chapin family

Ethan and Hunter were especially close, the Chapins said, and Hunter has found himself facing the world without his "wingman" for the first time. Stacy Chapin recalled how Hunter recently called her from school, saying, "Mom, I just went through the drive-thru by myself for the first time."

"When you're a triplet," she said, "you have spent your whole life together with other people."

PHOTO: In this Nov. 30, 2022, file photo, Stacy Chapin talks about her son, Ethan Chapin, who was one of four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13 as she speaks during a vigil for the four students in Moscow, Idaho.
In this Nov. 30, 2022, file photo, Stacy Chapin talks about her son, Ethan Chapin, who was one of four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13 as she speaks during a vigil for the four students in Moscow, Idaho.
Ted S. Warren/AP, FILE

On Nov. 12, 2022, Ethan Chapin spent his last night alive taking his sister to her sorority formal. He then hung out at his Sigma Chi fraternity house before retiring for the night with his girlfriend, Xana Kernodle, at her off-campus home.

In the early hours of Nov. 13, 2022, Ethan Chapin, Kernodle and two of Kernodle's roommates, Kaylee Goncalves and Madison Mogen, were stabbed to death inside the girls' house. Two other roommates survived the shocking crime that garnered national intrigue.

PHOTO: A photo posted by Kaylee Goncalves only a few days ago shows University of Idaho students Ethan Chapin, Xana Kernodle, Madison Mogen and Goncalves. The four were found dead at an off-campus house on Nov. 13, 2022.
A photo posted by Kaylee Goncalves only a few days ago shows University of Idaho students Ethan Chapin, Xana Kernodle, Madison Mogen and Goncalves. The four were found dead at an off-campus house on Nov. 13, 2022.
Kaylee Goncalves/Instagram

After a six-week search for a suspect, 28-year-old Bryan Kohberger was arrested on Dec. 30. Kohberger, who was a Ph.D. graduate student at nearby Washington State University at the time of the murders, has not entered a plea.

PHOTO: Four University of Idaho students were found dead at an off-campus rental home, Nov. 13, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho.
Four University of Idaho students were found dead at an off-campus rental home, Nov. 13, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho.
Idaho Statesman/TNS via Getty Images, FILE

To honor their son, Jim and Stacy Chapin, who are from Conway, Washington, have started a foundation, Ethan's Smile, offering scholarships for Conway-area graduates and for students attending the University of Idaho.

The couple spoke with ABC News this weekend from Washington's Tulip Valley Farms, where Ethan and his siblings had worked, and where a new yellow-and-white tulip bulb mix named Ethan's Smile is now for sale to benefit the foundation.

PHOTO: An undated photo of the Chapin family.
An undated photo of the Chapin family.
Courtesy Chapin family

Nearly 80,000 bulb mixes have been sold so far, and those that were planted are already starting to bloom, they said.

"For everybody, it's a tangible thing that represents him, and people can grow them in their yards and gardens," said Stacy Chapin, who loves getting pictures of people's tulips.

She added, "We have done something good that we know Ethan would love."

PHOTO: In this Nov. 17, 2022, file photo, Boise State University students and people who knew the University of Idaho students who were killed in Moscow, Idaho, pay tribute at a vigil at BSU.
In this Nov. 17, 2022, file photo, Boise State University students and people who knew the University of Idaho students who were killed in Moscow, Idaho, pay tribute at a vigil at BSU.
Idaho Statesman/TNS via Getty Images, FILE

Since their son's murder, the Chapins have mostly grieved privately and focused on helping their other two children.

There's still a long road ahead, including symbolic days they know will be especially hard without their eldest triplet. The next big milestone is the triplets' 21st birthday in October.

"We just talked about the kids' 21st birthday forever," she said.

PHOTO: In this Nov. 30, 2022, file photo, a small frame remembering Ethan Chapin, Madison Mogen, Xana Kernodle and Kaylee Goncalves sits in the snow outside of the residence where the four students were killed on November 13, in Moscow, Idaho.
In this Nov. 30, 2022, file photo, a small frame remembering Ethan Chapin, Madison Mogen, Xana Kernodle and Kaylee Goncalves sits in the snow outside of the residence where the four students were killed on November 13, in Moscow, Idaho.
Lindsey Wasson/Reuters, FILE

"I just miss him," said Ethan's father, Jim Chapin. "I think about him every day."

"I loved to hug him," Stacy Chapin said of her son, who stood at 6 feet, 4 inches. "I'd give anything just to be able to hug him again."

ABC News' Annie Pong and John Capell contributed to this report.

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