Exclusive: Aaron Vargas Regrets Killing Alleged Abuser

PHOTO Aaron Vargas, a young father who fatally shot his former neighbor and claimed he had been sexually abused by him, said he regrets killing Darrell McNeill.

Aaron Vargas, a young father who fatally shot his former neighbor and claimed he had been sexually abused by him, said he regrets killing Darrell McNeill.

"I'm still trying to make sense of the situation," Vargas told "20/20's" Chris Cuomo in an exclusive interview. "It's not up to me to decide someone's fate."

On a February 2009 night in Fort Bragg, California, Vargas visited McNeill's trailer and killed him with a single shot to the stomach. But Vargas told Cuomo that killing the 63-year-old man was the last thing he ever wanted to happen.

"I didn't go to there to shoot the guy. I went there to warn him off," Vargas, 32, said. "He [McNeill] needed to stop. That's for sure. He didn't need to be shot and killed. But he needed to be stopped."

Within hours of the shooting, Mendocino County sheriff's investigators arrested Vargas and indicted him for first-degree murder. Vargas pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter in March and is expected to be sentenced next month. He is facing up to 10 years in jail.

Vargas said he doesn't belong behind bars.

"If the law doesn't work, ... it doesn't work," Vargas told Cuomo, adding that police had "plenty of chances" to arrest McNeill.

After the incident, Vargas' family said several men in their 30s and 40s came forward saying that they, too, had been abused by McNeill. One said they had warned the Fort Bragg Police but no action was taken.

"He [McNeill ] was actually damaging people and it wasn't a game anymore. You know? He played his whole life like it was a game," Vargas said. "He'd see that, finally, this wasn't going to keep going. And we weren't going to be little puppets anymore."

Vargas Says Abuse Made Him Feel 'Shameful'

Vargas grew up next door to the McNeills and was close friends with McNeill's son, Michael. "Up until around middle school, I was a happy kid," Vargas said.

But at age 11, Vargas said, McNeill first took advantage of him on a fishing trip. In his teens, McNeill continued to single out Vargas, using drugs and alcohol, Vargas said, to lure him to his home.

"It happened many times when I wasn't even conscious ... just be totally gone," Vargas told Cuomo, adding that he knew it was wrong and felt "shameful" afterwards.

To escape the embarrassment, Vargas said, he turned to alcohol and would binge drink. He was arrested on several DUI charges and couldn't hold down a job. His family saw him struggling, too, but never understood why.

"Everything would seem fine. He'd have a job ... he had a girlfriend, he seemed happy, had it together," said Vargas' sister, Mindy Galliani. "Then, all of a sudden, it's like his whole life would fall apart. ... My family and I would discuss it at times. You know, we would wonder, 'What's going on with Aaron?'"

Now, Galliani said, it's clear what was behind her brother's meltdowns. "It was Darrell ... coming into his life," she said. "Aaron moved out of town and that's when he would do fine for a while. It was a pattern of Aaron getting away from Darrell and Darrell finding him and that's what would cause Aaron's world to just fall apart."

Baby Girl Makes Vargas Want to Be a Better Man

But Vargas' world changed for the better in 2008, when he proposed to his girlfriend of eight years, Selena Barnett. While they were planning their wedding, they learned Barnett was pregnant and soon welcomed a little girl, Josie, into their lives.

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