For Older Single Mom, Dating World Brings Worry

Jan. 7, 2010 — -- It would seem that Susan Fennelly has it all: a beautiful home in a Connecticut suburb, two loving daughters, a loyal dog and a great job. But she wants more.

Seven years after her 20-year marriage ended, the 50-something divorcee has joined the world of online daters in her quest to find Mr. Right.

For Fennelly -- who last dated when she was in her teens -- the decision to seek romance in cyberspace wasn't easy.

"When you're a woman in her 50s, as I am … it's awkward. It's very awkward," she said.

What makes it even more difficult is that Fennelly lives in a suburban neighborhood where most residents are couples.

"Living in a community like this, a lot of the people are married," she said. "So, you know, where do you go? Where do you go to meet people?"

Fennelly isn't alone in her search for companionship.

As more and more people turn to online dating, U.S. Census Bureau figures released in September show that 53 percent of unmarried American adults are women. For each 100 unmarried women in America, there are 87 unmarried men.

Convinced by her daughters that online dating was "the way you meet people today," Fennelly said the process has been fraught with fear.