On your "Honey Do" list put "Do Me" at the top. Couples tend to wait for nighttime and frankly, it's hard to get turned on when you can't stay awake. Agree upon a time that works for both of you and make it a protected time. No matter what chore that you are doing, stop and head to the bedroom. I often recommend lubricants to enhance sexual activity but sometimes the only lubricant you need is on the door handle to the bedroom! Even better, since women take longer to become aroused than men, head up first and have a 5 -15 minutes transition time to turn your head to sexy thoughts while he finishes up the chore. Frankly, knowing that your man is pushing a vacuum or doing some dishes is the best form of foreplay for most women I know.
Finally, after working together, have fun. Life is too short and it doesn't cost a dime to play and enjoy each other.
Blessings, Dr. Deb