Dominique Strauss-Kahn: Ladies' Man or Sexual Predator?

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Amid charges of sexual abuse and rape, Dominique Strauss-Kahn's ladies' man reputation may be working against him.

Nicknamed "the Great Seducer," the International Monetary Fund chief has spoken publicly about his affinity for women and his infidelity. And while flirting and cheating are a far cry from the current allegations, some experts say they fall onto the same spectrum of sexual inappropriateness.

"A lot of people flirt inappropriately, but flirtation is on a continuum with these more extreme problems," said Dr. Gail Wyatt, psychologist, sex therapist and director of the University of California, Los Angeles Sexual Health Program. "People say, 'he's a player,' or 'he's a ladies' man.' But I think these are red flags, not societal markers of being a macho man."

Strauss-Kahn stands accused of forcing a housekeeper at Manhattan's Sofitel Hotel to perform oral sex and submit to anal sex after emerging naked from his suite's bathroom. The married father of four is being held without bail on two counts of criminal sexual act in the first degree, one count of attempted rape, sexual abuse in the first degree, unlawful imprisonment, sexual abuse in the third degree and forcible touching.

Strauss-Kahn has denied the charges and plans to plead not guilty, according to his lawyer, Ben Brafman.

The charges follow earlier allegations by French journalist Tristane Banon that Strauss-Kahn sexually assaulted her like a "rutting chimpanzee" during an interview nine years ago. Banon said Strauss-Kahn insisted she hold his hand during the interview and made sexual advances that grew violent.

"I kicked him several times, he unbuttoned my bra ... and tried to unzip my jeans," Banon said in an interview broadcast on the French cable TV channel Paris Première in February 2007.

Banon, now 31, decided not to press charges at the time because her mother, a Socialist Party official, advised against it. But Banon's lawyer David Koubbi told RTL radio Monday that she's likely to file an official complaint now.

As IMF head and a possible contender for the French presidency, Strauss-Kahn joins a long list of high-profile politicians, actors and athletes accused of sexual indiscretions that shattered their careers and marriages. And while one might ask, "What were they thinking?" experts say they might not have been thinking at all.

"Intellect and emotions run on different tracks," said Dr. Rob Weiss, founder and director of Sexual Recovery Institute in Los Angeles. "These people aren't thinking of the consequences at the time. They're so aroused by what they're going to do that, for a few minutes, they're lost in that experience."

For some, Weiss said, sex is like a high. And like a drug addict looking for a fix, sex addicts are oblivious to the consequences of their behavior.

"The whole point is to lose yourself," Weiss said. "The goal is to be in a state of adrenaline high, which sort of screens out everything else."

Weiss, who said he has treated more than 1,000 sex addicts, said the behavior often stems from a feeling of entitlement. Men who work long hours in stressful positions, for example, might feel as if they deserve a sexual encounter they know to be inappropriate.

"They'll work to convince themselves that a situation is OK when it's not," he said.

And while sex addiction and violence need not go hand in hand, the "high" that addicts feel during the pursuit of sex can skew their perception of reality, making them think something is consensual when it isn't.

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