Something else the couples on "7 Days of Sex" learned about each other: While the men wanted foreplay, the women fantasize about "chore-play" -- husbands picking up after themselves and the children.
"Don't treat me like a maid," Chantal James said.
But she did give her husband the spice he was looking for too, and hired a lap dancing coach.
It seemed as if these couples were really trying, and love might have been there all along. It was just about finding it again.
"There's something about a real awakening ... their sense of being lovers together," Real said. "[It] reminds people of what they're doing here. And that can help."