The Rutgers women had their say today. They took the podium in their red sweat suits to address the news media. They should have been in class. Easter was ruined, one of them said. The ten players on the basketball team that almost won the national championship and then became the targets of Don Imus wanted the radio host to know they were angry. The women said Imus's comments were deplorable and insulting.
Imus had called them "nappy-headed hos." What woman wants to be called a ho, asked their coach, Vivian Stringer. You could hear the pride in Coach Stringer's voice, how dare anyone speak to her players like that.
The team said they have agreed to meet with Imus, who has offered to apologize to the players in person.
"We were insulted and yes we were angry. We did nothing to deserve Mr. Imus' deplorable comments," said Heather Zurich, a sophomore and forward.
"This has scarred me for life," Rutgers junior guard Matee Ajavon said, adding it would be something she would be talking about the rest of her life.
The Scarlett Knights won this year's Big East conference and made it to the championship game of the NCAA's tournament, losing to Tennessee.
The players appear to be witholding judgement on whether Imus should be fired, as some critics have demanded.
On the meeting with Imus, Ajavon said, "I could say that we honestly don't know what to expect from Don Imus." Ajavon added the team wants to know "...his reasons and how you could just say things that you have not put any thought to."
Calling Imus' comments "despicable words that were deeply hurtful," Rutgers President Richard McCormick said of the players today that his school and his state "had their backs."
In contrast to Imus' characterization of the team as "nappy-headed hos," coach Stringer called her players "the best the nation has to offer," and described them as "valedictorians, future doctors [and] musical prodigies."
"The story is not the despicable comments made by Imus and his producer, the real story is about these young women. The comments were reprehensible and offensive ... These young women are the very best and we are proud of the way they represent us," said Bob Mulkevey, the school's athletic director.
Imus, who has been suspended for two weeks by CBS Radio and MSNBC, which simulcasts his show on cable television, called the punishment appropriate today but stressed, "I am not a racist."
"What I did was make a stupid, idiotic mistake in a comedy context," Imus said on his show yesterday, the final week before his suspension starts.
Asked by NBC's "Today" host Matt Lauer if he could clean up his act as he promised Monday, he said, "Well, perhaps I can't." But he added, "I have a history of keeping my word."
The radio host tried to shift some of the focus from himself. "That phrase originated in the black community ... I may be a white man, but I know that these young women and young black women all through that society are demeaned and degraded by their own black men and that they are called that name."
Imus said his staff had been trying to set up a meeting with the Rutgers players to apologize, but he said he didn't expect forgiveness. Of the two-week suspension, he said: "I think it's appropriate, and I am going to try to serve it with some dignity."