Your Voice Your Vote 2024

Live results
Last Updated: May 21, 11:58:13PM ET

Elections Today

Kentucky
Oregon

Recent Projections

StateCandidate
Delegates
Joe Biden
Donald Trump

Girl's Refusal to Be Child Bride Inspires Nation

13-year-old Rekha Kalindi becomes hero by refusing to be married.

ByABC News
June 19, 2009, 5:46 PM

JHALDA II, India, July 17, 2009— -- She's been called a leader and an icon, and her actions are considered revolutionary – all because 13-year-old Rekha Kalindi refused to be married off and wanted to attend school instead.

That act of defiance has rippled through Rekha's village and throughout India. Because of her stubborn refusal to give in to her parents' demands, other girls in the village have also balked at early marriages.

Rekha's story gained national attention with India's newspapers hailing her for accomplishing change that the India government was incapable of making. She has become so popular that the president of India requested to meet her this past spring.

Rarely has parental disobedience been so richly praised.

Raised in one of India's poorest village, Rekha has worked for most of her short life. Like her father, she helped to support her family by rolling a type of cigarette called beedi. Then two years ago, a government non-profit program plucked her from a life of child labor to enroll her in special school.

Along with learning the standard classes, Rekha and dozens of other former child laborers were also taught leadership skills. The school, part of a UNICEF program, was free of charge so that families would not remove children from the program due to cost.

It was from these leadership classes that Rekha gained the strength to defy her family, her village and change her future. And with this decision, she inspired a chain reaction among her friends and throughout her village.

Rekha is a slight girl - maybe 4 feet tall – with long dark hair loosely pulled back in a ponytail. A huge smile appears when talks about school. She fell in love with learning and excelled in her classes which is why she was devastated when her parents told her last year at the age of 12 that it was time for her to get married.

India's Child Marriage Prohibition Act makes it illegal for girls below the age of 18 and boys below 21 to marry, but the law is rarely enforced. Child marriage is a tradition in many parts of India, partly because poor families no longer must provide for their married daughters.

Rekha's village, Jhalda II, is a seven-hour drive from Kolkata and has one of India's highest female illiteracy rates. As is the fate of many girls here, Rekha's parents pulled her from school after they began arrangements for the wedding. No point in learning since she would soon be a bride.

"I felt very sad because my best friends were going to school," said Rekha, speaking in Bengali through an interpreter. "I was feeling very sad because I was captive in my home."

So Rekha did the unthinkable. She said "no."

Her parents, shocked by her behavior, withheld her food for nearly two weeks.

Her mother, Manaka Kalindi, said she was angry that her daughter had defied her.

"Parents have rights to (control) their children," she said.