Bernie Mac's Book Excerpt

— -- It might be hard for his many fans to imagine — but Bernie Mac wasn't always the funny one. When he was growing up in a tough section of Chicago, he was a shy boy who "didn't have much in the way of social skills."

In his new memoir Maybe You Never Cry Again, the comedian tells the story of his childhood and the woman who made him who he is today — his mother.

Read the following excerpt from Maybe You Never Cry Again:

My name is Bernard Jeffrey McCullough, but people know me as Bernie Mac.My mama, God rest her soul — she used to call me Beanie.Used to say, Don't you worry about Beanie. Beanie gonna be just fine. Beanie gonna surprise everyone.

Woman believed in me. She believed in me long before I believed.I loved my mama with all my heart.

I was born October 5, 1957, on the South Side of Chicago, in the Woodlawn area, a neighborhood that hasn't changed much in forty-five years. Our house was on 66th and Blackstone, but the city tore it down when the rats took over. We moved to a new place on 69th and Morgan, in Englewood, right above the Burning Bush Baptist Church, a two-story, redbrick building. My grandfather was a deacon at the church, and I think he got a deal on the place. So we packed up: my mother, Mary McCullough; her sister, Evelyn; my older brother, Darryl; my grandparents, Lorraine and Thurman; and little me. Somewhere along the line, maybe during the move to our new digs, we lost Daddy.

We were poor. You know how to tell if a person's poor? You look in the fridge. If there's nothing in there but bologna, you're talkin' serious poor. Mmmm, but that bologna was good! We used to fry it up till a black circle formed at the edges, then roll it like a hot dog and eat it slow, make it last. You'd be chewing with your eyes closed, telling yourself, Never had nothin' taste so good!

Lot of beans in our house, too. Pinto beans. Lima beans. Red beans.

And cereal. Only you'd be eating it with a fork, leave the milk at the bottom for the next guy. I ain't lyin'. You think I'm lyin', you don't know what poor is.

Sundays was different, though. Sundays we had a real dinner. Roast and mashed potatoes and butter rolls and macaroni and cheese and gravy, boatloads of gravy. That was some serious eating. I couldn't wait for Sundays. I lived for Sundays. 'Course, next day we were back to potted meat and beans, with sometimes a neck bone floating around in there if you was lucky.

Here's the thing, though: I didn't think nothin' about it. I thought we were just like everybody else. I thought life was good. I thought, This is how life is.

I was a big-eyed kid. My eyes were about the size they are now, in that little head of mine-and my eyes are way big, so imagine it: like a pair of flashlights comin' at you through the darkness. Kids called me "tar baby," "spooky juice." I was scary.

"What you looking at?" they'd say.

"I'm looking at you, motherf-----."

Three, four years old, and that was one of the first words I knew: motherf-----.

Grandpa Thurman would slap me up the side of the head and tell me to talk classy. "I won't have none of that intrepidation here, boy! Understand?" He was about five-six, stocky, light-skinned, his hair thin in back and starting to go gray at the temples. "None at all. None. Gonna expedential your ass right the hell up! Hear me? Your ass gettin' expedentialed. "

Motherf----- thought those were real words. And he was always repeating everything three, four times.

"Huh?" I'd say, and I'd look at him like he was an old fool.

He'd slap me up the side of the head again. "Don't talk back to me, boy! I'll abstract you. Man's gotta rederfrine himself to succeed in this here life."

I would go outside in the afternoon, see if anyone my size was around. Maybe kick an old can up and down the sidewalk till the neighbors told us to shut the hell up. That was the neighborhood. Nobody calling out, "Hey, Bern, get your cleats, time for football!" Or, "Wash your hands, boy-piano teacher on her way over!" We didn't have play dates in our neighborhood. We didn't worry about being overscheduled. We learned to entertain ourselves. I used to have long conversations with the living room wall.

"Who you talkin' to, boy?" my grandma asked, shuffling along on those swollen-ass ankles, eyes squintin' and flashin' in that pitch-black face.

"Nothin'."

"You always underfoot, Bern. Go outside and sit on the stoop."

"I already done that."

"You sassin' me, boy?"

"No, ma'am."

"Wait till your grandpa come home. I'm gonna ten him how sassy you're gettin'. He gonna whup your ass."

In my family,- you learned respect. In my day, the adults were in control. There were rules, and by God, we had to follow them. Every time my mama set down the law, she'd say, "I know you don't like it, Bean, and I know you're mad at me. But life isn't a popularity contest." Good thing, too. Lots of days she would have finished last for damn sure.

Most times, though, she didn't say much; she could stop me with a look. She figured you didn't want to be talkin' to little kids. They're not hearing you. Little kids aren't much smarter than dogs.

When I was about five years old, though, she began to change her ways. She started trying to communicate with me. She'd still give me the look, of course, only she'd add a little philosophy to go with it.

"Talk is cheap, Bern. When you tell me you're going to do something, I expect it to get done. Ain't nobody going to do it for you."

If I got angry, she'd tell me to get over it. "Only person you're hurting is yourself." And if I did something she considered too stupid for words, she'd shake her head and look seriously disappointed. "Act like you got some sense, boy," she'd say. "Maybe one day it'll come true."

It did come true, of course. But it was a long time coming.

I remember the day I started school. Me and the kids in the neighborhood, walking along with our little lunch pails, looking like we was going off to tiny jobs. 'Course, we had our mothers with us. Two blocks was a long way to go.

I was a shy kid. Other kids, they settled right in and made themselves at home. But me, it took a while. I was the kid in the comer, wide-eyed, sayin' nothin', takin' it in. Didn't have much in the way of social skills, I guess.

I'd go home after school and eat potted meat and-weather permittin' — go out front and park my little ass on the stoop. I'd watch the neighbors on their stoops. Watch the cars cruise by. Watch the people in the cars watching me back. Do this till I'm yawnin', then I'd go back inside and pick up where me and the living room wall had left off.

One night, though, I come in and find my mama in front of the TV, cryin'. And you know how it is when you're a little kid: your mama cryin', you gonna be cryin' in a minute.

"What's wrong, Mama?" I ask her.

"It's nothin', Bean. Sometimes I think sad thoughts."

"What thoughts?"

She didn't answer. She was lookin' at the TV. Black guy's talkin' to Ed Sullivan. I look at him, but I don't hear but a few words. And I can't make them out anyway, see, because suddenly my mama's laughin' to bust a gut. Her whole lap's shakin'. I got to hold on tight or get thrown clear across the room.

I turn to look at her -- this is the same woman that was cryin' a second ago? — then turn back to the TV. "Who that man, Mama?"

She's still laughin'. Takes her a while to catch her breath. "Bill Cosby, son. He's a comedian."

A comedian?

"What's that?"

I look over at this Bill Cosby. I don't know what he's talkin' about — but I know that, whatever it is, it's got power.

"That's what I want to be, Mama. A comedian. Make you laugh like that, maybe you never cry again."

The foregoing is excerpted from Maybe You Never Cry Again by Bernie Mac, copyright © 2003. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be used or reproduced without written permission from HarperCollins Publishers, 10 East 53rd Street, New York, NY 10022